Whatever method you use to attract women will
have its own matrix. In other words, by its own design,
it will attract some women (those who match what you
are and what you project) and repel others (those who
don’t match what you are and what you project).
Now, if you are looking for a woman of massively
high quality, for something of substance, long term,
what do you think is one of the most important factors
to her, and should be to you as well?
It’s trust.
Let’s face it, if someone is looking for a one night
stand, does a deep sense of trust really matter all that
much? Why would it? Aside from STD concerns, it
really is not an important factor at all.
A lot of advice out there typically pressures men to
push the envelope as far as they can when it comes to
being cocky, and using sexual humor, often in a vulgar
sense.
While I agree it’s important to feel good about sex
and your body and that a sense of humor is crucial, there
is a very fine line between being flirty and being crass,
vulgar, and lacking class.
This is where it all boils down to what kind of woman
you are trying to attract and what type of relationship you
are trying to create.
If you are in a nightclub or some other environment that
amounts to the same basic atmosphere, and if you truly are the
kind of guy that is looking for a one night stand, it
makes sense to be ultra physical in your approach.
It makes sense to be touchy feely tasty, to make dirty
jokes that float between vulgar and rancid, etc., because
you are then establishing what you are looking for, and
there is a decent chance in such a place that she might
be a woman looking for the same thing.
However, this is an insane strategy if you are trying
to attract a woman who is looking for something more
meaningful.
Whether you want to say that love is something you
value or not, the fact is, that nothing can compete with
the emotion of love, once you feel it for someone.
It’s liberating from all the negative emotions. It
inspires you both to treat other in an amazing way.
It may have physical aspects to it like sex, but it also
transcends the physical.
When a woman loves you, she will go to the ENDS
OF THE EARTH for you, not just today, not just
tomorrow, but for her whole life.
The thing about love is that it’s different from
pure lust in the sense that it is a combination
of sex, love, romance, and wisdom as well.
That is why so few people get to experience it.
It takes using your full powers as a human being
instead of being lazy and just being a primate.
There are great rewards for those who are willing
to put in the intelligence, the wisdom, and of
course, the heart.
I wish that it was as obvious as it needs to be,
but it’s not, so I need to say here explicitly
and clearly that love is not based on vulgarity
or anything like that, and in fact such moves
are destructive to creating the foundation for
love.
Love is about many things, but one of the biggest
foundations for love is one’s feeling that another person
can be trusted with one’s heart, fully.
Now, how willing would you be to share the deepest
recesses of your soul with a woman whose primary
mode of expression seemed to be crude, in your face,
and vulgar, even if it was somewhat funny?
Not much, right?
Well, it’s the same with a woman when it comes to
these things. How much trust can she feel she can put
in you if you push too hard too fast for the physical?
What’s even worse is when men fake genuine interest.
This kind of thing is damaging to the women who are
innocent and who are looking for something meaningful.
The reality that most wannabe experts don’t want
you to know is that if you truly want to avoid
being cheated on, you better be damn careful about
what woman you allow into your life, (contrary to
what the "experts" say, the truth is that the
best women usually DON'T hang out at bars, dance
clubs, or lounges, so don't go looking there)
and you better make sure to become the kind of
fantastic man who is trustworthy as well.
Please, heed the following words, as these words
would have saved me years of agony:
Immersing yourself in the wrong teachings will only
make you paranoid, insecure, and suspicious
without good reason, and will cause a great woman
to leave you.
If you genuinely want to learn how to attract a
quality woman who will treat you right, then you
must become the kind of man who has mastered
the FULL SPECTRUM- it’s not just about attraction,
but rather also includes the ability to create a
truly deep CONNECTION as well.
Sign up for a bootcamp with me TODAY,
and you will learn how to REALLY succeed
with approaching and attracting quality women.
And of course, if you haven’t already got my DVD
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part of success with women, which is transforming
your INNER SELF to become the strongest it can
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Women who are looking for a man they can truly
give themselves to need to feel that this man is
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his conviction in his good values, his ability to
resist temptation, his ability to stay calm, and much
more.
This program, called WARRIOR WITHIN, is
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Till next time,
Michael Marks
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