Belief is the most important element
of success in attracting women. And
yet, it is the one thing that eludes most
men.
If you do not believe that you have
what it takes to attract a woman,
you will not attract her.
It reminds me a bit of a scene from
The Empire Strikes Back where Luke
is trying to use "The Force" to lift
his "X-Wing" fighter craft out of the mud
on the swamp planet of Dagobah.
He tries, the spacecraft begins to
rumble a bit in the mud, but he
fails to lift it.
Then, little old frail-looking Yoda,
raises his hand and channels "The Force",
and calmly levitates the entire ship
smoothly out of the mud, landing it
softly where it belongs.
Luke weakly utters, "I can't believe it,"
and Yoda knowingly responds, slowly,
one word at a time, with, "That is why
you fail."
This is true in real life.
Self-perception is everything.
In his book, Psycho-Cybernetics, Dr. Maxwell
Maltz, a plastic surgeon, reveals how deeply the
self-concept affects one's perception of reality.
He told a female patient of his that
the cosmetic surgery she requested
alone won't change her self-image.
Yet, she was obsessed with the surgery,
sure to herself that this was the solution
to her self-concept.
She insisted on the surgery, and
after she healed, she looked at
her face.
The surgery went perfectly.
She even acknowledged that it was perfect.
But she didn't feel one drop better about herself.
She looked in the mirror and perceived that
somehow, she was undesirable even though
on a logical level she knew that was not true,
but yet she was convinced she did not look
desirable somehow.
We don't always believe what we see.
Instead, we see what we believe.
And this applies to just about everything,
including how we see our ability to win,
to attract, to do just about anything.
We don't believe what we see nearly as
much as we see what we believe.
So, if a guy does not believe he has
"what it takes" to attract a gorgeous
woman, then even if that woman falls
into his proverbial lap, he will do
the things to chase her away as a
result of his lack of self-belief.
When it comes to attracting women,
it's not about a man's looks, but it
is definitely about his self-concept.
Women aren't attracted to pretty boys
in the same way that men are attracted
to gorgeous women. It doesn't work the
same way.
But women CAN'T HELP but feel animal
attraction for men with the insane
confidence, confidence that is almost
too-confident.
This is where I come in. I don't only
show you "what to do" to meet women.
And I don't only show you by live example
and by demonstration.
Rather, I also go in DEEP into your core beliefs
to cause the kind of fundamental and lasting
changes required for long-term success
with women, so that you not only get
the woman you want, but you get to
keep her as well.
To find the perfect program to skyrocket
your success with women, whether that
is a bootcamp, a private consultation, or
one of my home study programs, go here
now:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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