One of the big things in attracting a woman
who is a total stranger is not just the initial
chat, but getting her to STAY attracted and
still be thinking of you in a positive way
long after the initial chat.
So let me get straight to TWO massive
concepts that are RIDICULOUSLY
important for success with women.
The first has to do with FAKE versus
REAL confidence.
While on one hand, you can try to FAKE
confidence, and “faking it till you make it”
is better than doing nothing, the problem
is if you are not prepared to LIVE the
lifestyle of confidence, you will end up
a NERVOUS WRECK if you DO get
the woman and you start to worry that
she will detect that it was all an act.
So what I mean is, you must start to take
the behaviors that the confident version
of yourself would take in ALL ASPECTS
OF YOUR LIFE, day in and day out, on
a regular basis.
This way, you will actually LIVE the
actions of confident decisions and you
will OOZE with the VIBES of confidence
when interacting with women as well.
Women really DO MASSIVELY RESPOND
to confidence, because CONFIDENCE always
breeds SUCCESS. And by “confidence” I
don’t mean that you are always FEELING
confident, but that you are at least never
giving into INSECURITY.
So now, let me give one of the all-time classic
examples of a CONFIDENT response. It comes
from The Empire Strikes Back, when Han Solo
replies to Princess Leia when they are captured,
she tells him that she loves him, just moments
before the enemy is going to freeze him in
carbonite for God knows how long, maybe forever.
Han’s response is not “Yes, I love you too.”
His response to her loving words, in the
middle of this horrible situation, is:
“I know.”
He KNOWS.
Rather than get all teared up, rather than panic,
and rather than get all emotional and awe-struck
that she has told him she loves him, he instead
shows INSANE CONFIDENCE and also shows
a SENSE OF HUMOR as well, he shows that
he KNOWS she loves him and that she has
loved him all along.
Now let me share something about this, there
is A REASON this quote from this movie has
been loved and cherished and quoted by so many
fans and even non-fans over the years.
And it’s because this CHARACTER is actually
teaching a GREAT LESSON about how to
attract women.
It’s not ONLY THE CONFIDENCE.
It’s ALSO the HUMOR.
I have studied some of the actual research on how
humor affects the brain, and one of the things it
does is actually help store things into the LONG
TERM MEMORY.
So, when you meet a woman for the FIRST TIME,
and you demonstrate CONFIDENCE in a way that
ALSO gets her LAUGHING, you are ATTRACTING
her in a way that she will REMEMBER YOU long
after the initial “pick up” is over.
Can you think of how important this is when approaching
a woman who is a total STRANGER somewhere?
If you can get her laughing AND seeing that you
are confident, you not only attract her but you help
her remember the conversation and think about you
in a good way long after the initial conversation is
OVER.
This is a HUGE thing, because so often, even a
GOOD initial conversation is often FORGOTTEN
later in the day, and it loses steam by the time that
woman has come home and reflects on it, if she
even reflects on it at all.
But if you got her laughing, and seeing you were
confident, she will likely think about the conversation
she had with you, and EVEN IF SHE DOESN’T
REMEMBER THE DETAILS SHE WILL REMEMBER
HOW SHE FELT, THAT SHE FELT GOOOOOOOD.
People don’t remember details so well, but they
ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE
THEM FEEL.
So show masculinity, show confidence, and get her
LAUGHING, and you are going to become a
POWERHOUSE of attraction with women.
Regarding CONFIDENCE with women, I have
a FANTASTIC program called WARRIOR
WITHIN, and it’s at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
Regarding HUMOR, I have a very special interview
I did with a man who used to suck with women, then
became so good that he was one of the subjects of
a New York Times best-selling book regarding
attracting women. His entire approach to women
consists of comedy, but in a way where he does
NOT memorize jokes or anything like that.
This is not some gimmick about some kind of
joke to tell women, it’s about UNLEASHING
humor.
I seriously suggest you check it out at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/confident-humor.html
Also, I have an insanely powerful free video that
is crammed with GOLDEN tips for skyrocketing
your attraction with women, and if you haven’t
checked it out yet, then definitely do that now.
It’s at:
http://youtu.be/x1qMxC2r0Pc
I have poured my absolute blood, sweat, and
tears into ALL of my programs, and they are
all designed to help you with every aspect
of being successful with women.
You can check out ALL my programs by going
here:
http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php
Till next time,
Michael Marks
