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Michael Marks

Turning Any “Obstacles” Into MAGNETS For Attracting Women

Have you ever wanted to approach a woman, or take positive action with women but then didn’t because you felt there was a reason you were going to fail?

Do you ever feel there's some kind of obstacle you have standing in your way of success with women? 

Most men DEFINITELY feel this, and I know I went through this for YEARS. 

If you've ever felt this, I suggest you IMMEDIATELY check out the new video I made below that delves into the TRUTH about how obstacles can be used to actually SKYROCKET your success with women. 

In this video, I also solve another very common problem, which is getting caught up on ONE woman when she isn’t even doing anything to warrant your interest. 

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Michael Marks

The No-Bullshit Book On How To Succeed With Women Today

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When it comes to meeting and attracting women, things have CHANGED over the last few years. Not only in terms of attracting women, but also in terms of finding a quality woman for a fantastic relationship.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Most Important Quality To Find In A Woman These Days

I want to address a really important question today regarding whether or not you can trust a woman with other men who she claims are "PLATONIC" friends. 

First of all, if the woman is attractive, then let's just call a spade a spade and not engage in this insane politically-correct culture that pretends there is no such thing as instinctive male sexual drive. 

If she is attractive, then most men WILL feel sexually attracted to her, and it WILL cloud the minds of most men.  So there is no such thing as a purely platonic friendship, certainly, when the woman is attractive- the guy DOES feel chemistry for her, but this does not mean he can't be in control of himself, of course.  But it's not PLATONIC. 

The real question here, though, is, can you trust your girlfriend or wife?

The answer to this question really boils down to ONE thing- how RESPONSIBLE of a person is she in general? And in particular, how responsible of a person is she regarding the RELATIONSHIP?

And today, more than ever, unfortunately, many, many women have SHIRKED off responsibility for their behaviors, especially in terms of how to treat other men, due to the influence of third-wave feminism.

I first started to notice this about 15 years ago in nightclubs and college campus pub-nights. Even though I never drank myself, I would notice almost IMMEDIATELY as soon as a conversation was going well with a woman I was chatting up, she would start DRINKING more. 

 














I didn’t realize why this was, as I was still pretty clueless about some things back then, but eventually I learned that what was happening was that many women are extremely promiscuous, but at the same time they don’t want to PERCEIVE THEMSELVES as promiscuous.  

So, by getting THEMSELVES drunk, they are in effect getting RID of their ABILITY to make decisions, and also offering themselves a RATIONALIZATION for whatever happens later, so the next morning they can always feel like it wasn’t really them who did whatever it was they did.

This is just one reason why I am not a fan of picking up women in clubs or pubs or anywhere else where they may be drunk. But my main point here is how this is an example of SHIRKING responsibility.

Similarly, over the years, being in this field, I have heard all kinds of INSANE things, such as women saying things like if they cheated while on vacation, “It doesn’t count”, or that sleeping with ten guys while on vacation “doesn’t count”.

Also, the ENDLESS TIDAL WAVE of blaming MEN for everything - for example, when a woman says that she dated TEN ABUSIVE MEN in a row, you have to wonder why she couldn’t find anyone ELSE.  Was there perhaps something about those guys- were those guys cool, wealthy, powerful, or some other attractive trait, that these women have to take some responsibility for fully KNOWING what they were getting into but thinking it was worth it?

GROSSLY exaggerated claims of abuse, such as that one in four women on college campuses in the US are victims of rape, which went UNCONTESTED FOR YEARS, have recently been PROVEN as TOTALLY FALSE to the MIND-BOGGLING degree of CLARITY that NO ONE, not even THE MOST EXTREME FEMINISTS, can ARGUE with the recent REFUTATIONS to those claims.

It’s also interesting that some of the most famous feminists who claimed they just wanted equality between men and women, who claimed that the PERFECT relationship between men and women were ones where the men and women were EQUAL in status and power, ended up marrying men who were INFINITELY MORE FINANCIALLY POWERFUL than them, such as Jane Fonda who married Ted Turner.

 









So with their MOUTHS they SAY things, but they aren’t being RESPONSIBLE about those things.

So, it is in THIS light, in THIS context, that I tend to be very SKEPTICAL about some women who say they are hanging out with some guy who is "just a friend".

It’s NOT because it is IMPOSSIBLE for men and women to be friends.

It is because we are living in a time when women are told they don’t have to be RESPONSIBLE for their behaviors- they can just blame anything that happens on the guy.

So if the woman was in a relationship, and hanging out with some guy for coffee or a dinner or whatever, and that guy started making moves on her, what kind of CULTURE do we live in? 

We live in one where it is EASY for the woman to start SHIRKING responsibility, to start BLAMING her boyfriend for not being good enough, for being too good or too nice, for being WHATEVER excuse she wants in order to cheat and not have to take RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT.

It is WRONG for any man to abuse a woman, and we live in a society in the western world that KNOWS this, and AGREES with it, and it is ILLEGAL.

However, if a woman hits a man, if a woman is verbally abusive to a man, if a woman cheats on a man, what we tend to hear are ENDLESS excuses, endless rationalizations, endless SYMPATHY and EMPATHY for the woman.

For example, when Arnold Schwarzenegger was found to have cheated on his wife with the maid, which was wrong to do to his wife, the INSTINCT of most people was to hate on him, but what is so BIZARRE is that NO ONE mentioned the MAID HERSELF!!!!   

Somehow, she got off as PERFECTLY INNOCENT, as if she was FORCED to do all this.  

It is as if the culture was saying, "There IS NOOOOOOOOO WAYYYYYYYYY that she was anything other than TOTALLY INNOCENT, and there is NOOOOOOOOO WAYYY that she was trying to BENEFIT from being with one of the most successful men in Hollywood and American politics, EVER. Nooooooooooooo, it’s only ARNIE who is the absolute villain here."

Do you see what I am getting at?

A society where WOMEN are simply NOT held to the same degree of RESPONSIBILITY for their BEHAVIORS as men are, all thanks to third-wave feminism.

Also, it is interesting how many women end up with BAD BOYS, women who have all the choices in the world. For example, Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee. And just about EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THE KARDASHIANS.  And if you have enough experience dating, you’ve probably seen plenty of this as well in your own environment.

So, men are supposed to behave NICE to women, when being overly nice does not work, but when women are mistreated by bad boys, it’s not the WOMEN who are told by feminism to learn a lesson, nope- it’s the EVIL MEN who must change, when in reality most of the guys who are super-sensitive and nice to women end up getting taken advantage of.

So, in a society like THIS, yes I believe you have to be damn careful in your screening process with women, and in not being naïve. We are living in a culture where women simply aren’t put to the same level of MORAL RESPONSIBILITY towards the SAFEGUARDING of a relationship as MEN are. 

I have been saying FOR MANY YEARS that OF COURSE I believe in fairness, and women being treated right, and women being astronauts, doctors, or whatever they want is awesome.  

What I have a problem with is a MORAL DECAY that results from third-wave feminism preaching a DOUBLE STANDARD, and most of all, preaching LIES.


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And what this means is that if you want a long-term relationship with a woman, you must screen for a woman who is AWARE of this VERY issue, and who is RUTHLESS in her vigor to SAFEGUARD the integrity of the relationship by actually being RESPONSIBLE in her actions and decision-making.

Once you are with a woman like that, then not only CAN you let her do what she wants, but you in fact SHOULD trust her, as when trust is earned, and trust is then given as a result, she will feel no desire or need to RUIN it, and in fact will cherish what she has with you.

Now, there ARE some great women today, who have great senses of responsibility, and honestly, to me, a woman like this is a TRUE "Wonder Woman"- because it takes incredible STRENGTH to STAND UP to the SOCIAL PRESSURE of a society gone MAD. 

There is an old quote: "A woman of valor, who can find?" What is interesting here is that the word VALOR denotes noble character, but it especially notes COURAGE as well.  It takes COURAGE for a woman to STAND UP up for good values when society's values are corroding into chaos all around her. 


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If you would like to learn more about success with women and relationships, or if you have a specific issue that you need solved, you can now arrange a personal consultation with me.

Consultations are at:

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And to find out about all my programs, go here:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Most IMPORTANT Skill For Attracting Women And How To Master It

I want to make a few VITAL things clear today regarding how to attract women.

The first is that ATTRACTING a woman is all about unleashing the positive PRIMAL emotions in yourself, which helps brings those SAME emotions out in her.

The more YOU are feeling sexual, confident, dominant, upbeat, and playful, as OPPOSED to feeling like a robot, or feeling worried about the outcome of the interaction, or feeling serious, the better your results will be.

Now the thing is, some guys will read that and take it out of CONTEXT.

They will go too far, or they won’t be intense enough.

It is important to OBSERVE the situation accurately, not only so you can GENERATE attraction, but also so that you can REALIZE an opportunity when you SEE it!



What is required for success is the proper CALIBRATION of those states of minds and actions, which means the proper amount and intensity of those things, depending on the situation and the woman, and depending on where you are at in the conversation.

So, for example, let’s say you are at a major mall and you see a woman carrying a bunch of shopping bags and she looks tired as she is plodding her feet along. You approach her and make a playful comment teasing her on how it seems she has done some real “work” today. Perhaps she smiles at you and chuckles and she says she’s done a lot of “damage” (i.e. to her finances from all the purchases).

Well, now that she is clearly OPENING UP TO YOU, you have to CALIBRATE properly. Do you decide to tease her FURTHER? And if so, how intense should the tease be, so that it doesn’t come across as mean-spirited?

A comment like, "You’re going to really regret it" is just MEAN and NOT FUNNY- unless you reallllly deliver it with the right tonality and expression.

A better comment from you in response to her mentioning how she has damaged her finances might be: "Hey, is the stuff you bought for you?"

This might be better, because let’s say she says that it is, you might then reply with, “Well that’s cool, you know that charity begins at home!”

And now she may smile AGAIN.

So now you have a woman that was a total stranger just moments ago, who has opened up to you, and revealed that she has possibly done something she lightly regrets, (and as such has now engaged in a subtle form of disclosure with you, which is an element you can use to build greater connection as you do the same as well to follow up), and you have gotten her to smile or laugh- all IN SECONDS from meeting her.

By saying something positive like that, you are keeping the conversation upbeat and rewarding her for talking to you, a total stranger.  She might smile in response to the “charity begins at home” comment, or she might laugh, but no matter what she says, chances are it will be a positive reaction because you CALIBRATED properly.

But now at THIS POINT, now that you have got her a little more INVESTED in the interaction by mere fact that she is actually speaking with you, you might want to add a bit of SPICE to the conversation  by introducing a touch of “positive/playful tension” i.e. not making it too easy for her to get you, otherwise she will likely feel the whole interaction went TOO FAST, and is thus somehow “not right”—this is because women are conditioned to expect there to be a certain amount of “the dance” (figuratively speaking) before she will actually escalate to the next stage with you.

It can happen pretty darn fast, but not TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO fast, or it actually LOSES the very feeling of chemistry, of fun, of romance.

This is why, the IRONY of learning to attract women, once you get some experience at it, is actually about learning to SLOW THINGS DOWN, and NOT speed things UP.

I know that probably sounds strange, right? After all, most guys want to know how to SUCCEED, not how to SLOW THINGS DOWN EVEN FURTHER, right?

But yet success requires just a LITTLE BIT OF SLOWING DOWN for what actually is going to be a FAR MORE EFFECTIVE AND EFFICIENT result. 

Think about it- what do most guys do?

They basically SKIP all the FUN, the vibing, the playful, the connection, and just want to get to “So, do you wanna go out sometime?” or they say something like, “Hey, you’re beautiful, what’s your number?” if they say anything at all.

This SKIPS the entire possibility for creating CHEMISTRY, for creating that VIBE where it’s all about building up the sexual tension, the playful ‘ping-pong’ of energy going back and forth between the two of you as you both engage in repartee, also known as “banter”.

Women UNDERSTAND THIS, WANT THIS, AND CRAVE THIS.

THIS is why a woman, if she LIKES you, will actually try even HARDER to slow it down, so that you actually DO have a chance, ironically.

She needs you to make it feel RIGHT to her- and it's really not hard to do, plus if you think about it, it's more fun for you as well, since it gives you a chance to feel out her personality  before going further.  Good things in life are never rushed.

All YOU have to do is UNDERSTAND this “mating dance before the mating dance” if you will.
Slow it DOWN, have some FUN, and yet also be AUTHENTIC.

Okay, but you probably are wondering how the heck can you do this when you are feeling NERVOUS about making the approach, right? How can you be PLAYFUL and all the other good stuff when you feel your heart is going to explode?

Well guess what? If your heart feels like it’s going to EXPLODE, that can actually be a GOOD thing as well, because it means you have PASSION, it means that you really LOVE women, it means that you have a lot of ENERGY in you that just needs to be TAPPED properly- and let me tell you something- PASSION is attractive to women.

Passion for love, for music, for art, for your hobbies, for learning, for sports, PASSION itself is attractive.

You can use that passion to MOTIVATE you.

Also, your passion for HER is something she may very well DETECT, and that is NOT a bad thing, it can be a very good thing.  

And guess what? It’s OKAY to not be PERFECT in your approach, especially as a beginner, as every single guy HAS to start off LESS THAN PERFECT!!!  Your first approaches might very well SOUND nervous, stammered, and you might not be able to keep the conversation going for more than a few seconds- THAT’S OKAY!
You will get BETTER with PRACTICE, you will get better at CALIBRATION.

And also, as I said before, if you are being AUTHENTIC at all times, and not telling her lies, and genuinely trying to connect, she will SENSE that, and it will HELP you.

In fact, this is something I realized that came out of something painful. Personally, I see no point to being with a woman unless there is an intense personal connection that is mutual, but I understand that not everyone is like this.

However, because connection really IS everything to me, it resulted in many relationships where I just felt the connection wasn’t strong enough, and so it wasn’t meaningful enough to me.

I used to think everyone else was crazy, but then I realized that actually I have this innate burning obsession for connection that goes far beyond what most people require or are even capable of- so although it made me feel super alone with almost every woman I ever met because the connection wasn’t strong enough, my burning obsession for intense connection DID result in me creating a connection that the WOMEN felt was super strong, and it wasn’t their fault that THEY couldn’t create the SAME feeling of connection- not most of them. 

But my point to you is that connection and authenticity are VERY powerful, so powerful in fact that you will find it is the most important part of the interaction in terms of what you are doing actively. The rest- i.e. you being in the positive state of mind, takes care of most of the other aspects of the attraction.   

If you have the connection part down, the rest is simply more about NOT RUINING a woman's natural attraction to you by doing something to WRECK the moment, than it is some major thing you have to actively do aside from the connection.  Again, this is because a woman picks up on your state of mind subconsciously from your body language, tonality, facial expressions, all which flow from your state of mind.

The more you genuinely care about these things the better you will do with women.

Of course, learning under my coaching from my books and programs, and learning even FASTER by learning from me in PERSON, will get you to a HIGHER LEVEL OF MASTERY MUCH SOONER, but you can start right NOW with whatever level you are currently at this moment.

One of the KEYS is to realize that the conversation has to KEEP GOING for a certain amount of time, before enough minutes have gone by that you actually pass the “stranger zone” and are now someone she feels she actually HAS a real INTEREST in, whether that is because you managed to attract her so powerfully, or even if you just made a really damn good impression in general through your wit, your connection skills, and your general sense of control over yourself where you give off an air of masculinity and positivity and you make her feel safe and secure.

But TIME IS IMPORTANT, the conversation does have to continue for at least a few minutes, and I have found statistically from experience myself and the experience of the clients I’ve coached, that this is usually about 7 minutes to about 20 minutes.

Past 20 minutes, and you are usually reaching a point of diminishing returns, meaning that it’s not BAD to continue it, but you are not really attracting her much MORE beyond what you already did, nor are you enhancing the connection further, it tends to PEAK at about 20 minutes when everything is done right.

So, that means typically that she has been smiling, laughing, perhaps also moments of looking really seriously into your eyes, and just moment of chilling out being COMFORTABLE IN YOUR PRESENCE, as well as moments where you two are connecting over something shared that is meaningful, whether it is a shared experience, a shared value, a shared element of childhood, etc.

Also, during the interaction, it is important that indeed there IS a time when you are actually doing nothing but just having a nice quiet moment together, where she just feels good being with you, she as a woman with a man, and you just feeling that awesome feeling of being with a woman you like-no words need to be spoken.

So, ALL these things are important elements of a successful interaction, and yet they have one COMMON THREAD- and that is that they all HAPPEN VERY EASILY from you WHEN YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT STATES OF MIND.

And this is why when you put too much pressure on yourself to GO ATTRACT WOMEN, you actually end up often coming across as awkward and not natural at all. And it’s harder to be playful, and to truly be indifferent to the outcome.

And during these situations,  it’s easy to end up OVERCOMPENSATING for feelings of anxiety or insecurity by going TOO far with the teasing so that it ends up coming across as hurtful and not playful, or you end up going TOO FAR with the connection stuff and it seems like you are desperately trying to grab at straws for something to share in common.

So here are some things to help you chill out and improve your success when you approach women:

1. Don’t make it the only focus of your activity.

This is why I suggest you include meeting women as part of your OTHER activities, like shopping, playing sports, going to the bookstore, getting a coffee, etc. 

Just make sure these other activities are RELAXED or POSITIVE, so that you are ALREADY in state when the moment of opportunity rises.

This way, your mind was already occupied with something else positive, and now that you are seeing a woman you find attractive, you are ALREADY in state, and you haven’t had time to freak yourself out. You are psychologically ready to take IMMEDIATE action.

2. Regarding finding a connection, let’s start with the basics- MAN AND WOMAN.

So if you have started the conversation with an observational comment about something, (keep it positive), or you have playfully teased her, or even if you just went right up and gave her a meaningful compliment that was authentic, the fact is there IS ALREADY one connection you both have.

She is a woman, you are a man.

That’s enough of a reason to already BUILD something together, because as long as you are exuding positive energy and good vibes and you are in a good state, there is the PULL of sexual attraction, and the shared desire to be with each other on a very primal level, even though of course as a modern society we don’t have to ACT upon these feelings at all- but the fact of the matter is they are THERE.

If they weren’t there, there wouldn’t be a society at all!

So in the back of your mind, know this, to help you relax.

And when your mind is FREE to feel RELAXED, your CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS are now UNLEASHED.

THIS IS A SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN FACT. It is BIOLOGY.

When you are feeling PANICKED, your brain shuts down all the NON-ESSENTIAL skills for survival, and puts your body and mind into “FIGHT OR FLIGHT” mode.

This is where you get your heart beating fast, adrenaline pumping, and you are ready to fight, flee, or freeze.

Unfortunately, that is very BAD state to be in when you actually need your MIND to be FULLY AWAKE so that you can PROCESS all the data that flows from her in a conversation.

You want your mind in the most RESOURCEFUL state, where it can LISTEN well, PERCEIVE well, be able to be playful, witty, observe patterns in things she is saying or simply understanding her words, her body language, her tonality so that you can give her meaningful feedback, etc.

So chill out by knowing that it you already have something going for you—the fact that she is a woman who has been HARDWIRED and that you are a man who has been HARDWIRED to feel a certain way about the opposite gender.

THAT is a connection, whether it is SAID or not.

Also, realize that most people could use an ENERGY LIFT in their day, and the GREATEST BOOST in our emotions tends to come from our INTERACTIONS with others, and here YOU ARE, actually putting some POSITIVE ENERGY into HER DAY, making it more fun, sexual, and interesting.

That means there is a very GOOD CHANCE she will be RECEPTIVE to you.

The most AMAZING thing to me is that we are living in a society where you really CAN meet almost INFINITE women, all you need is to have the KNOW-HOW, and it can actually be EASY.

Now, there is a whole OTHER side, which is about how to work on yourself and how to SCREEN the women you meet so that you both are able to enjoy having an AWESOME relationship together long term, but that is a whole other discussion, one that I also teach and that is super-important as well.

But for now, let’s get the FIRST PART handled, shall we? How to GET the girl in the first place.

The BEST thing you can do is take a BOOTCAMP with me, in PERSON.

I will teach you EVERYTHING you need to know, by providing you with PRIVATE and PERSONALIZED coaching as you learn to approach and attract women in DOZENS of different venues from bookstores to coffee shops to public transit to supermarkets and just about everywhere else!

Learning from my books and audio and DVD programs is a FANTASTIC start, and taking my PERSONAL COACHING and BOOTCAMPS allow you to MAXIMIZE your success in these skills.

Every man is different, so the first thing I do is observe your interactions with women, so that I can find out exactly what it is YOU need to SKYROCKET your success. 

You will notice a MASSIVE DIFFERENCE IMMEDIATELY upon using what I show you. I’m not just talking about AFTER bootcamp, you will even notice how things change IMMEDIATELY for the better with women for you, upon you putting into effect the things I teach you.

The results and the proof are simple. You take the program. You decide the women you want to attract, ANYWHERE. You see BEFORE YOUR EYES the results, and you be the judge yourself.

To learn more about my BOOTCAMP, go here:

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Remember, in bootcamp, you get PERSONALIZED and PRIVATE coaching. That means the bootcamp is EXCLUSIVE. All my time is spent on YOU and you only. This allows for you to have an ACCELERATED learning rate compared to bootcamps where your time with the instructor is divided amongst another couple of students, or another three students, etc. 

And even more importantly, I am the guy who basically CHANGED THE ENTIRE PLAYBOOK for the field of how to approach and attract women. From getting rid of pick-up lines, to generating attraction in a more natural way, to learning how to screen for the kind of women who will treat you right, to raising the entire standard on “inner game”, and much more. 

That means when you ask me a question, you are not getting a robotic answer, you are getting the answer from a man who has devoted his LIFE to helping men deal with the CRISIS inflicted upon them from a world where women have been brainwashed, men have been brainwashed, and where men are often made to feel BAD about even feeling DESIRE for a woman!

I understand just how much TORTURE it can be to feel HELPLESS in this area, to feel ALONE, to feel OVERWHELMED.

I truly GET IT.

And when you learn from me, you will learn not only how to attract women, but how to go about the entire endeavor in a way that is consistent with a holistic approach to life in general- you will learn to do it all in a way that is SUM-SUM. You win, the woman wins, and it LASTS.

Again, BOOTCAMP is at:

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And to find out about all my books, audio, and DVD programs, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html

Each one of these programs was made with painstaking effort and care, and I know you will benefit from all of them.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

What Almost EVERY Guy Gets Wrong With Women, And What YOU Should Do

I want to give you a MASSIVE and IMMEDIATE BOOST with women. So fasten your seat-belts.

Ever see the film The Matrix? The story is about a world where almost everyone on EARTH is PERMANENTLY asleep, but their minds are controlled by a computer to make them think they are awake and living a perfectly normal reality.

Only a precious few are actually AWAKE to this reality, and only they can change that reality- by confronting the computer program. 

The challenge is that the threats created by the program are only as powerful as the recipient BELIEVES them to be, but the "Matrix" is damn good at making those threats feel REAL.

To overcome the program, one must constantly have a stronger frame of INTERNAL reality versus the fake reality projected by the Matrix.

A lot of dating coaches like to give the analogy of The Matrix to let guys know that their possibilities with women are greater than they realize- in fact, I was probably the FIRST guy to use this analogy.

But the IRONY is that most of the pick up artists and dating coaches have actually CONTRIBUTED to the "MATRIX", so to speak, by making guys truly BELIEVE in things that aren't REAL, things that actually hinder their success when it comes to getting a great girlfriend.

What I am talking about is the obsession with the SPEED of getting physical with women. 

The fact of the matter is that women who are going to be faithful girlfriends who don't treat sleeping with a guy as a joke, are simply going to be a lot SLOWER on jumping into the physical aspect of a relationship.

Now, there are MANY, MANY, MANY other things of course as well that make a great girlfriend a great girlfriend- honesty, kindness, positivity, understanding, etc.

But the reason I bring up the physical aspect is because it is the current MATRIX STRATEGY to throw men off the real picture of reality.

A lot of pick up artist types like to take advantage of the ignorance of men on this issue, and since most men think all women are the same, most men think they are witnessing a miracle when they see a guy for example make out with a random woman very quickly, or get physical with her in even more ways.

Most men don't realize that this is truly no big deal, because of the great many women out there for whom making out with a stranger means nothing at all, and for some women out there, sleeping with a total stranger also means nothing at all.

There is no more strategy to this than it is a strategy to learn how to ride the bus. You go to the bus stop, wait for the bus, the doors open, and you get on.

So, men are asleep to the REALITY that to find the kind of woman who would make for a great girlfriend, you actually have to combine a particular set of social skills with also being the kind of man that shows he can handle life and handle a real relationship.

But, that is too complicated for a MARKETING VIDEO. And the vast majority of everything you see around you is SATURATED in marketing as opposed to TRUTH.

The real "Matrix" we live in today is MARKETING. Almost everything you see around you has had its truth TAINTED by MARKETING.

A TON of the marketing out there wants to EXPLOIT your emotions, your desire for SIMPLICITY, and it wants to exploit your EMOTIONAL WEAKNESSES.

It doesn't give a rat's ass about what is good for you- it's like a drug dealer that just wants to get you HOOKED, and of course once you are hooked, you are a slave to the dealer.

And the irony is that people go on and on about drug dealers, but the truth is the DESTRUCTION to society from all the other people who EXPLOIT people's weaknesses is actually just as harmful and possibly even more destructive to society.

If you want a great girlfriend, who will treat you right, who won't run off into another guy's bed when the smallest thing goes wrong, you need to get a woman who is STRONGER than the type of person who is so easily EXPLOITED emotionally.

And to get THAT kind of woman, you better be THAT kind of man as well.

And by the way, there is a very good REASON why a lot of men and women choose not to be promiscuous- and it has nothing to do with religion.

The real truth is, that, like anything else, over-exposure to something actually DESENSITIZES you to that thing.

When the physical becomes a complete joke, it loses the same IMPACT it once had.

But when it is used WISELY, the slightest TOUCH can deliver A UNIVERSE of EROTICISM, and it can do this FOREVER with the same partner.

Not a bad thing to have between two people who love each other, huh?

So, you won't find the "how to make out in 30 seconds" in my programs, because I figure you already know how to get the bus.

But if you're looking for how to get A GREAT GIRLFRIEND, I suggest you START with my book, called Get A Great Girl, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Samples.html

This book is NOTHING like what you read in typical dating advice and pick up artist material.

The NEXT step is to take my BOOTCAMP program, which will show you IN REAL TIME, how to find, screen, attract, and connect to quality women.

It's at: 

getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks