When it comes to attracting women, a lot of
people think that attraction is ONE emotion,
however this is simply untrue.
Attraction CAN be just one emotion, however it's
much more powerful when it is the COMBINATION
of MANY emotions.
I call this COMPOUND attraction, because
you are activating many different PARTS
of attraction TOGETHER.
What you want is a woman to be experiencing
SEVERAL states of mind at ONCE, including
feelings of LOVE, of ROMANCE, and yes,
definitely of SEXUALLY being turned ON
as well.
You can also MIX in vibes of ADVENTURE,
of PLAYFULNESS, of INTRIGUE, etc, etc.
All these emotions FLOW into each other,
and AMPLIFY the feelings of attraction she
will experience for you.
Notice, by the way, how a lot of the music that
women love is about the sexual, but is also about
MANY things COMBINED.
So for example, in the song "Rhythm Divine"
the VIBES of that song are not just SEXUAL,
they are also being ELEVATED so much BEYOND
just the mundane sexual, they are going into the
DIVINE!!!!!
It doesn't even matter if you believe in "divine" or not,
what counts if the EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCE
of that state of mind! In the same way people
enjoy feeling the emotions from movies even
if they KNOW the movie is a creation, women
ENJOY the EXPERIENCE of these emotions
and it makes life more JUICY and fulfilling
instead of dry and mundane.
So, for example, let's say you strike up a
conversation with a woman at a bookstore
with an INTRIGUING comment about the
TOPIC of the book she is reading.
Let's say the book is about history, you can
make a comment about how every human being
since the dawn of the Earth has looked up at
the same sky, the same moon, the same sun,
and has walked along the same planet as us,
whether it was an ancient king, whether it
was Leonardo da Vinci, etc, etc.
This is an example I'm just making up right
here on the spot, and you can make it even
BETTER by adjusting it to the SPECIFICS
of the exact situation and environment where
you see a woman.
Then, you can bring in HUMOR by teasing her
that she is just trying to look smart for other
people watching, or that she just reads this
for school but never for her own pleasure,
(the key is to ONLY make a joke that is
OBVIOUSLY not true, so the MORE
intelligent she is, the MORE it's clear she
will laugh at such a joke. Do NOT make
a joke if she might interpret your joke
as your REAL thoughts about her!)
Then, you can also help VALIDATE her sense
of self by giving her a GENUINE compliment
that she EARNED, let's say for example about
the fact that she is reading this kind of material
and not watching some show like Jersey Shore!
Then, you can mix in a touch of ROMANCE
in a playful way, if the conversation is going well,
and you suggest that you continue it over a
coffee in the coffee shop nearby, and then
you hold out your ELBOW for her to hold
or for her to put her arm through, as a classy
style reminiscent of an earlier era when there
were LADIES and GENTLEMEN.
Doing this PLAYFULLY allows you to get away
with all this, and also allows her to enjoy it because
it is not some kind of HIGH PRESSURE tactic,
it is FUN, yet it is also CLASSY and romantic.
Similarly, when you get to the coffee shop, you
can PLAYFULLY pull out her chair for her,
and say "madam".
A lot of guys reading this won't understand this, but
the key is that if you are clearly SUPER CONFIDENT
then doing this makes you come across as the
ULTIMATE man, who is confident yet who is
also a kind of "renaissance man" who gets the
TOTAL PICTURE of how it all works.
Then, as you are both sitting down chatting, and
you really LISTEN to her as well, and you are
able to make her feel UNDERSTOOD, she
then feels massive levels of CONNECTION
and TRUST.
And THEN.................when you PHYSICALLY
ESCALATE for the kiss, which you will EASILY
be able to do at this point, you can REALLY
make it passionate.
And later, when you are in bed with her,
you can REALLY go totally wild and nuts
in that great PRIMAL way, and she will
LOVE it, because you have FIRED OFF all
her ATTRACTION SWITCHES and she will be
NUTS ABOUT YOU, addicted to you like
nothing you could have ever previously
IMAGINED.
And if you are reading this right now, and would
like to know the FULL picture on how to get
a girlfriend of the HIGHEST quality, I suggest
you get my program that is FOCUSED on
exactly this goal.
It's at:
How To Get A Quality Woman Who Will Be A GREAT Girlfriend
And if you haven't yet downloaded my book, 'Get A Great Girl',
then definitely do that as well, at:
Get A Great Girlfriend: How To Be The Man A Quality Woman Wants
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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