If You Want To Attract A Truly Good Woman, Then You Must Absolutely Know This

When you know what you want in life,

it makes all the difference for actually 

GETTING what you want- not because

of hocus-pocus reasons, but because you

FOCUS all your EFFORTS on THAT

THING.

And this is the KEY to getting yourself a

GREAT GIRL – the kind of woman that

you are massively attracted to, and who is

going to treat you RIGHT.

And this is where, more than EVER, I have

a very DIFFERENT message to tell you than

the typical pick up artist or “attract women”

advice.

You see, for whatever reason, be it that

they themselves GAVE UP ON FINDING

QUALITY WOMEN, or that they simply

were not INTERESTED in quality women

and were instead just interested in promiscuity,

or possibly they feel that the men who are their

customers are only interested in the superficial

themselves, the bottom line is this:

Most of the popular pick up artist advice

draws its strength from one MAIN source,

and that source is the typical “modern young

woman” who is, for various reasons (including

devious efforts by certain feminists) extremely

LIGHT-HEADED when it comes to thinking

about relationships, family, fidelity, and honor,

and is, instead, quite SERIOUS only about things

such as being promiscuous, and emphasizing

“independence” to the degree that ALL ELSE,

even family, husband, children, are all DISTANT

SECOND thoughts.

In the story of Superman, the main source of his

powers is Earth’s YELLOW SUN. He would not have

his powers under a RED SUN.

Similarly, the power source behind most pick

up artist advice is the fact that so many women

today ARE promiscuous and DON’T want to

think deeply about important things.

Thoughts of ethics, family, virtue, these thoughts

are not on their mind - these thoughts are a whole

GALAXY away from their over-riding thoughts

of  money and sex, and selfishness, traveling, fancy

purses, etc.

If more women DID care about fidelity, family, and the

sacred bond between man and woman, the pick up artist

advice would FAIL. It would turn the “yellow sun” RED.

So pick up artist advice basically DOES AWAY

WITH ALL CONCERN in the conversation regarding

morals, ethics, fidelity, long-term thinking- these things

are actually worse than a red sun, they are like
KRYPTONITE to your attraction power for these
kinds of women.

The red sun just neutralizes Superman's power, but this 

kind of talk will DESTROY your chances with most of 

today's women.

Rather than focus on the big picture, and rather than

focus on fidelity and commitment and the meaning

of a vow, and the meaning of honor,  the focus is all

on the MOMENT, with a thin layering of connection-

more of a VENEER of connection sprinkled into the

conversation- and this is because even the “modern

woman” still wants to feel SOME level of connection

with the boatloads of men she is sleeping with –

in order not to feel “cheap” and so she can sort of

face herself in the mirror in the morning (with one

eye closed and not really thinking too much).

Let me also make it clear that promiscuity is not

the only problem, as it all falls under the general

category of “ME ME ME”- of course this changes

when the women start to get much older and start

to realize that actually the good men won’t have

anything to do with them, and the purely superficial
men aren’t interested in them anymore.

But back to the POWER SOURCE for all the

pick up artist methods – it WORKS because

it DESTROYS all sense of morals and the

meaningful with regards to commitment and

vows. Talking about these kinds of morals is

“kryptonite” for any man trying to attract these

women, because it brings up something very

SCARY for them- the thought that they might

have a rude awakening when they want to settle

down and want to find a good man.

  

I know this, because there was a time in my life,

before all this pick up artist stuff exploded, where

I was so disillusioned with women, that I TRULY

BELIEVED THAT WOMEN WANTED A JERK.

So I would approach women and STRIP my conversation

of all NICETIES, I was super-direct, I never did favors,

never gave compliments, teased them like crazy, and

they would all seem to think this was TOTALLY NORMAL.

And when I would suggest that they give me their number,

MOST of them DID. And I would BREAK THINGS off

with them for the most INSANELY SMALL reason,

and it only made them CHASE HARDER, it was actually

the WORST way to try to end a relationship.  The best

way to end relationships with women, I thought, because

it worked so well, was to actually start acting NICE to them.

That was a great way to get them bored with me.

Now, there are some good things about this, which

is the basic idea that NO woman is doing you a

FAVOR for going out with you, it’s a MUTUAL

benefit, and women know this, and they are more

attracted to a man who doesn’t feel BENEATH

a woman, they want a man who feels he is totally

WORTH that woman, if not MORE THAN HER.

So the basic attitude of I HAVE VALUE, and not

kissing up, and acting far more MANLY than the lying

feminists would suggest women want, all that is GOOD

STUFF. It’s attractive.  

But the problem is that attitude taken TOO FAR-

A.K.A. TYPICAL PICK UP ARTIST ADVICE-

ALSO KILLS THE OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU

TO ACTUALLY ATTRACT THE KIND OF WOMEN

WHO TRULY DO STILL BELIEVE IN THINGS

like fidelity, not sleeping around, and who believe

there is something special about a man and a woman

making a commitment to each other- a commitment

that goes beyond just the physical, of course, but that

also includes the physical, and that this part reflects

a much deeper sense of honoring each other, and

that this extends to a commitment to their raising

a family together as well.

Fidelity, honor, love, commitment. These things

are not a joke.  They resonate in men and women

on a PRIMAL level, and when people say they

are old fashioned, they indeed are as OLD as

humanity itself and as ETERNAL and as important.

Far more important to the well-being of humanity

than what feminists would have us believe- feminists

would have us believe that men don’t really CARE

about these things, and that women should try to

act like the most promiscuous men, and that women

should push off commitment as long as possible, and

that men are somehow always the bad guys no matter

what.

BUT.

There ARE some women out there who for some

reason are just DIFFERENT.  They RESISTED

and CONTINUE TO RESIST these forces.

They still want a man to act like a MAN.

They just also want a man who has HONOR.

A man who will treat his bond with a woman

as sacred.

In other words, they want the kind of man that

women have wanted for MILLENNIA.

Perhaps these rare women who still have good

values, who still cherish their femininity, who still

cherish the concept of a man and woman committing

to each other by choice, well perhaps these women

were TAUGHT differently by their parents compared

to most others.

Perhaps these women are CRITICAL THINKERS who

think outside the box and will not do stupid things no

mater HOW MANY other people say it’s cool.

Regardless of HOW it is that these fantastic women

still exist, the fact remains that they DO exist.

And yet, many men would like to believe that no such

women exist, because then it provides a great excuse

for NOT taking action. It’s so much easier to just

complain. It’s so much easier for a person to just

give excuses for why they are doing something

negative or why they are not doing something positive.

Again, the fact is: GOOD WOMEN STILL EXIST.

And, these women are BOMBARDED by the WRONG

MEN ALL THE TIME.

Including, you guessed it- the guys brainwashed by

typical “how to get women” advice, that relies on

some tactic that is EXTERNAL to a man’s TRUE

personality or values or beliefs. Basically, men are

told to GIVE IN TO THE WAYS OF MOST WOMEN

TODAY, and to CATER TO THAT DISTORTION.

But it’s not just THESE men these women are

bombarded by- they are also bombarded by the

men who WORSHIP them just because they are

beautiful. These are men who have never been

taught that just because you FEEL attraction to

a woman DOES NOT MAKE HER the right

woman,  your soul-mate, or anything else.

Seriously, this might sound obvious to you

if you’ve known it for years, or if you learned

it from me years ago, but the bottom line is there

are still tons of men out there who DO in fact

see a beautiful woman, and their first instinct

is to kiss up, open doors for them, offer favors,

give compliments, etc.

And a woman who is looking for a man who is

about more than JUST the superficial finds it

disturbing that the only men she meets are men

who worship beauty and not character at all,

or the men she meets are men who ONLY care

about the physical.

In both cases, it’s not what she is looking for,

and the worst part of all this is that there are

some good men out there who are being led

astray by the wrong advice.

So if you ARE looking for a great woman, a

woman who is just as beautiful in her character

as she is physically, a woman who doesn’t sleep

around, a woman who is wise, you absolutely

SHOULD RESONATE that message to her-

you MUST make it clear that you are a man on

the SAME wavelength, EVEN IF IT MEANS

LOSING EVERY OTHER WOMAN because

those other women are BRAINWASHED to

NOT APPRECIATE the right values in men.

This should really be NO SACRIFICE

in your mind at all. The reason is because

WHY ON EARTH would you be bothered

by “losing” the WRONG WOMEN??????

If you feel it IS a sacrifice, then clearly you are

not serious about finding the right woman.

Some men are so desperate, or so brainwashed, or

so weak, that they just can’t say no to any possibility

to any attractive woman.

Now, how MEANINGFUL is it to a QUALITY

woman when such a man promises to love her?

It’s MEANINGLESS.
HE WOULD LOVE ANY ATTRACTIVE WOMAN.

He would do anything for any attractive woman.

It also suggests that since he is so weak, that if

he DID have her, he might very well be tempted

and CHEAT on her if ANOTHER woman gave

him the opportunity.

There is ONE constant when it comes to attracting

ANY woman- and that is believing in yourself with

ZERO APOLOGY for being who you are.

But what makes it REALLY TRAGIC is when

a guy who is a good guy is so DESPERATE that

he has LOST BELIEF IN GOOD WOMEN that he

ends up sending out the message through his words

and his mannerisms, that he is playing “how to get

women game” even though he REALLY just wants

to get ONE GREAT WOMAN.

You need to learn the power of saying NO

to the wrong women.

It’s very EMPOWERING.

Get out there and meet women.

Start saying NO to the wrong ones.

This will help develop your conviction in

your beliefs regarding quality women.

Don’t try to get “all” the women- or you are

going to be sending off the wrong signals to

the BEST women that would be true CONTENDERS

for being THE woman in your life.

Most pick up artist advice incorporates a degree

of cheapening the sacred element of sexuality
(and this does not mean that sex between a man
and woman can't be wild, it means that it's special
when it isn't something handed out like advertising
flyers to everyone) in order to try to appeal to the
sexual, which is a BASE LEVEL impulse of most
human beings.

Unfortunately, a lot of women in our society actually

RESPOND to this, which is the same reason we have

SKYROCKETING levels of broken relationships,

affairs, infidelity, disappointment and anxiety,

maladjusted children, and a basis sense of men and

women at war with each other when it should be men

and women in harmony with each other and honoring

each other. 

The worst war of all is the war that takes place in your

own most intimate and precious relationships.   

It’s time to STOP THE INSANITY.

Don’t allow crapola into your life.

First of all, this is the way to be for your own dignity.

Second of all, it is THIS kind of man that a great

woman with great values SEEKS.   

If anything, you should have MORE conviction

in YOUR morals, your values, than MOST MEN

out there approaching women, if you are a man who

REJECTS the majority of pick up artist style advice-

in other words if you want a QUALITY WOMAN

with the right values, that is something to be PROUD

of, not apologetic about.

By the way, on the topic of quality women,

try to observe a woman’s behaviors even before

you approach her. Is she reading a book? Or is

she texting  obsessively? Can you tell what she

is reading? Is it meaningful, or is it vapid?

In general, be WEARY of any traits that suggest she

is a woman who is INVITING ATTENTION,

especially from men.

Just BEING an attractive woman, or any woman, is pretty

much enough to GUARANTEE attention anyway, so a

woman who is actually putting in EXTRA EFFORT to

DRAW MORE ATTENTION, especially if she is attractive,

is giving you a CUE to her level of DANGER as a girlfriend,

wife, etc.

On the other hand, this does not mean to show

DISRESPECT when you approach a woman.

Unless you have strong EVIDENCE to believe otherwise,

you have to leave room for the POSSIBILITY that this

woman in front of you MIGHT be a great woman.

And that means, if you are genuinely looking for

a woman with the right values, that you DO bring

up the topic of morals, fidelity, etc, at some point

in the conversation. You shouldn’t DWELL on

it unless she ALSO decides to go into it deeper,

but YES you SHOULD bring it up.

When it comes to finding women with morals,

go after what you want without apology- if

you don’t SHOW that you AUTHENTICALLY

believe in these morals, then how on earth can

you expect to get the woman that AUTHENTICALLY

believes in them?

If you try to go with the typical pick up artist advice,

and then you ALSO try to throw in some talk of morals,

she’ll think you are either full of it, or that you are weak,

or that you are confused, since you are acting in a

NAMBY PAMBY way regarding these morals.

Remember, a quality woman is investing her SOUL

in the right man, so the LAST THING SHE WANTS

is some screwball in her life who thinks that morals

are not important.

BE CONSISTENT WITH IT- and what I mean is

that if you really understand the reality of a quality woman
with morals, you should NOT expect such a woman to do

CARTWHEELS immediately just because you approached
her in person, or online, or anywhere else.

In fact, it is so RARE for a woman of modesty (and I

mean in her behaviors, not just her clothing, because I

have seen women who dressed modestly who had more

partners than math has numbers) that when she meets

a man on her wavelength, she might not BELIEVE it

or she might start to TREMBLE or get scared because

for the FIRST TIME IN HER LIFE, it’s actually

HAPPENING FOR REAL that she is meeting a

man that is actually her counterpart.

So you have to be cool and realize she might need some

time to soak it all in.  Don’t rush her. Persist, but don’t

apply too much pressure.

There IS a way to be persistent without acting desperate.

For example, let’s say a woman says she is not comfortable

giving you her number, this does NOT mean she is trying

to play some hard-to-get-game.  She may very well be

WEARY of a lot of men out there, ranging from desperate

men who will call her 99 times a day even though she never

said she was interested, to men who are only interested in

the physical.

So you don’t want to DROP such a woman.

And the way you don’t drop her, but at the same time

still don’t show desperation, is to tell her in a masculine

tonality, calm tonality, that you are cool no matter what

happens, even if things don’t work, that you like her, but

that you are man of maturity and experience and you can

move on from her if it doesn’t work out. 

And MEAN it.

Developing yourself internally to be able to

walk away from a woman, without feeling

BITTER, is one of the most powerful things

you can do for yourself.

By the way, the ability to do this comes from

BELIEVING IN YOURSELF, and from

ACCEPTING YOURSELF, which are easy

things to say but so few people really do.

You must realize that no woman is the sum total

of your IDENTITY. You can’t have this attitude

just a tactic to attract women, but it IS attractive

to a woman when she knows you are so strong

as a man that you don’t lose your strength just

because you didn’t get some woman. 

A woman wants to know she is with a man who

is so strong and so confident emotionally, that

he would have STILL been at peace, strong,

and confident, and never be needy for a woman,

even had he NOT met her. And she wants to

know that your moral convictions would not

be sacrificed out of desperation just to get the

approval of some woman. 

So, back to the part above where you are letting

her know you are cool no matter what happens,  

by doing that you are showing that you are persistent,

that you don’t up when something seems right, and

you are encouraging her to give you her phone number,

yet you are also showing that you are not needy for her.

This is also where social intelligence comes in:

If a woman tells you she has had a stalker, it

makes sense that you don’t push too hard too fast.

Assess the evidence- how much effort is she putting

into the conversation? Is she showing you signs of

genuine interest? Yes? Then it’s probably worth it

to have some more patience. 

Also, here’s another important tip- treat EACH

approach, each woman, as an INDIVIDUAL.

Do NOT try to sort all women into COOKIE

CUTTER categories, because this is not some

kind of MASS MARKETING PRODUCT you

are trying to sell, it is YOU connecting to HER,

and it is all about the MOST INTIMATE CONNECTION.

You MUST listen to hear for all the nuances of her

personality, her values, her passions, her SOUL.

THIS is the kind of COMMITMENT that will

PAY OFF when you meet the RIGHT woman.

Sure, you can take the COOKIE CUTTER approach

to women, and you will get SOME results, but you

will not get the kind of woman that truly ignites

your soul, and I assure you that cookie cutter

shortcut attitude will not ignite HER soul, either.

I believe that when done right, the connection

between a man and a woman is by FAR the

most POWERFUL driving force in human nature.

So, if you are reading this right now, and would like

to learn how to go about the process of approaching

women so that you don’t BLOW IT with the kind of

woman who is worth more than all the others combined,

you may want to learn from me, because I actually care

about this as much as you do.

In fact, it’s all I’ve been focused on for over twelve YEARS.

There are all kinds of SEMINARS out there on relationships.

Some of them are even made by guys who simultaneously
promote the most superficial connections.

 

And guess what? When things are WRONG,

they are usually wrong from the BEGINNING.       

The whole FOUNDATION is screwed up.

So the answer to screwed up relationships is not some

SEMINAR BAND-AID for couples.   

When there is a REAL problem, the answer is 

a total RE-HAUL from the ground up.

Meet the RIGHT woman in the FIRST place,

and BE the right kind of MAN IN THE FIRST PLACE.

The right man and the right woman understand what men
and women used to know for thousands of years until
 modern so-called "experts" ranging from feminists to
others belonging to various warped ways of thinking took
over the discussion.

Meet the RIGHT woman in the FIRST place.
Be the RIGHT man.
That way, you have a solid foundation where you

GROW TOGETHER instead of grow APART.

The right foundation with a woman begins with

the very first MOMENT you approach her.

Perhaps you would like to learn through BOOTCAMP.

This is where I show you how to do everything in real

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This all takes place in real places, on real women.

This isn’t actors or acting, this is the real thing.

This program is VERY different from typical

BOOTCAMP programs. It’s not about lowering

yourself to common standards, it’s about finding

and attracting the women that would make for

a truly great girlfriend or even “the one”.

Bootcamp is at:

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You will find programs on every aspect of attraction

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Till next time,

Michael Marks