Attracting Women: Hitting "The Sweet Spot"

The only thing I CARE about when it comes
to this thing called “how to attract women” is
getting guys RESULTS.  No mumbo-jumbo,
no hocus-pocus, no superstition.

It all must actually WORK.

So today, I’m going to share with you some
of the GREATEST points of all time regarding
how to attract women. Obviously, these are
going to be the BROAD strokes here, as it
would be impossible to put every detail in
one newsletter and that is the reason I have
my actual programs.

So let’s begin:

ONE: HIT “THE SWEET SPOT”

By the “sweet spot” I mean the right BLEND
of confidence mixed with kindness.

I often call this mixture the right "balance",
but a client referred to this mixture, or this right
balance I was describing, as "the sweet spot",
and I like the words "the sweet spot" as a term.  

And yes, KINDNESS is absolutely attractive to
women, WHEN it is blended with POWER.

If you just show kindness, you are kissing up.
If you just show power/dominance/confidence,
you are coming across as an insecure JERK.

When you BLEND kindness with power, you
become attractive and charismatic.

So, for example, telling a woman she has impeccable
taste in men is a playful way of giving her a compliment
and saying something cool about yourself.

Helping a woman who is looking for directions and then
playfully telling her you will bill her for the help, is
kind and confident.

If a woman gives YOU a compliment, i.e. she says
“You are pretty cool”, and you say, “I know” that
shows confidence.  If you then pull her into you
and kiss her, that shows affection on top of the
confidence.

It’s this MIXING of confidence and kindness that
is VERY cool.

Most guys MISS the target.  They come in too
arrogant in their effort to show confidence, or
they come in too “nice” in their effort to show
kindness, caring, or affection.

Miss the mark, and get NOTHING.
Hit the mark, and you start a CHAIN REACTION
inside her mind that  results in a BURSTING FIRE
OF HEATED ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s an analogy that came up from the same client
during a bootcamp when it “clicked” in his mind,
he said the following, and I paraphrase:

“It’s like that scene at the end of the original
Star Wars, when they blow up the death star.
Luke had to fire into a super NARROW area
and ONLY a direct hit in that super tight
area would work.”

Miss the target, and the Death Star is left
TOTALLY UNAFFECTED.

HIT the target, and the entire thing IGNITES
into a fireball of a billion glowing splinters.

It’s the same with women but in a positive
way:

MISS the mark, and it’s pretty much NOTHING.   
      
But if you hit the “sweet spot” in their mind
with that combo of CONFIDENCE/POWER
mixed with KINDNESS, and it is quite
literally INSTANT attraction heat they
feel in the most primal sense for you.

TWO:  THE THRILL OF THE GAME

What I mean by this is that APPROACHING
WOMEN for the goal of romance, sex, etc,
is ABSOLUTELY THRILLING and so
there is not even a QUESTION of whether it
is “worth it” or not to approach women!

Seriously, aside from having your HEALTH
and FOOD/SHELTER, I can’t think of anything
MORE rewarding than WOMEN.

And I don’t just mean the end product, I mean
that even the PROCESS itself is awesome.

Approaching women is a BLAST.
Let’s say you love football.
Would you ONLY play football if you knew
you were going to WIN every single game????

Or does a guy who LOVES football love ALL
his games, even if he doesn’t WIN them all?

That’s because to him football is EXCITING.

When you approach women, especially women
who are TOTAL STRANGERS, it is the most
exciting thing in the world, at least to the guys
I know and for myself as well.

I’ll tell you why:
Each time you approach a woman who is a total
stranger, you are INTERFERING with the
entire fabric of your UNIVERSE.

That woman may very well be the woman who
turns out to be your LOVER, and/or the mother 
of your children, or the woman who inspires you
to be all you can be.

But if you are not BOLD, you will just sit back
and let it all be, and NOTHING will happen,
an entire DIFFERENT future (possibly boring)
instead of the possibly AMAZING one you could
have had, IF you had taken action to approach her.

And it’s YOU who is changing your own destiny.
YOU are the one TAKING ACTION.

Part of being a MAN in just about every culture
on EARTH is being the one who takes the lead
when it comes to the human “mating”. 

Women ARE DEEPLY AFFECTED by a man’s
DARING, his BOLDNESS, his BRAVERY,
his INITIATIVE.  And they know full well
how INTIMIDATING it is for most men
to approach women who are total strangers.

So DOING THE APPROACH not only is
the only way to MEET her as a stranger,  
but it ALSO sends the right message
because of the very fact it DOES take
guts to do it!

If you want to be successful at approaching
women, it is important to realize that the
approaches themselves are PART of the
excitement.

Also, I’ve personally noticed that when I do
a lot of approaches, women can SENSE that
I have options.  And my clients report this
as well.  Women can often TELL that you
have options by sizing up your confidence
which shows up in all kinds of subtle
subconscious ways when you interact
with women.

And  when a woman knows you have
OPTIONS, she gets even MORE attracted.

And all this is because you DO the approaches.
So it’s NEVER a “waste” of time to approach
women, because the SKILL SET in itself
becomes something women RESPECT
and are ATTRACTED to in you.

Instead of being a man who HOPES that
he will get women, you are the man who
TAKES ACTION.

THREE: ALWAYS BEHAVE AS IF YOU
ALREADY KNEW YOU HAD HER, AND
AS IF A BILLION OTHER SUPER-HOT WOMEN
WERE AT YOUR FINGERTIPS.

What is such a tragedy is that there is so little
TIME to make the right impression on a woman
who is a total stranger.

The GOOD PART of this however, is that if you
do it RIGHT, and you make the right impression,
that impression will STICK LIKE CRAZY GLUE!

In her mind, she knows NOTHING about you.
So you have a PERFECTLY CLEAN SLATE
to create the PERFECT image.
 
She has NOTHING to contradict any positive
message you create about yourself. 

Soooooooooooo, what this means is if you
BEHAVE as if you already HAD her in your
palm, if you behave as if you have a billion
other options but you still are interested in her,
then SHE WILL FEEL THIS IS THE TRUTH
ABOUT YOU.

It’s also a great way to PREVENT coming across
as insecure or a jerk.

Plenty of guys THINK they are acting “confident”
by telling a woman OFF the first second the woman
does something they don’t like.

But if a guy is REALLY confident and secure, he
feels NO NEED to have to PROVE himself or
to insult her.  Instead, when a guy is super-secure
he often can see the REAL reasons a woman is
behaving a certain way.

What I mean by this is that it’s NORMAL for
a woman to be a bit CAUTIOUS when meeting
a man who is a total stranger.

A guy who is INSECURE will feel THREATENED
and possibly INSULTED by anything she does that
isn’t a clear sign of her INTEREST.

But a guy who is secure will NOT feel threatened
and is far more likely to respond to anything she
does in the most ATTRACTIVE way.

So for example, if a woman is asking a guy a lot
of questions about “does he pick up lots of women
in stores” or something like that, a SECURE guy
knows she is actually INTERESTED and she just
is trying to find out if HE is serious at all about
her or is she just “woman number one thousand”
to him.

So a secure guy will give a warm smile and possibly
joke to her that indeed she is number one thousand,
(just to get that out of the way since he knows she
is thinking it) and then in a CALM voice tone, say
“Actually, meeting the RIGHT person is what it’s
all about, right? We all meet people, but it’s about
meeting the right one.”

TRUST ME, the way you BEHAVE is worth a
TRILLION TIMES more than how much MONEY
you have, what you LOOK like, or how FAMOUS
you are, or whether you are a rockstar or not.

In fact, a client recently emailed me about a guy
who was a real rock star who really WAS great
with attracting chicks, he traded lives with
a dude who was a “regular guy” who was NOT
good at all at attracting chicks.

Somehow they managed to fool most strangers.
In other words, people thought the regular dude
WAS the rock star guy and they thought the rock star
guy was the regular dude.

Well, guess what happened? The guy who really
WAS the authentic rock star dude STILL did
awesome with chicks, even though he had NONE
of the “rock star” status.

And the guy who could NOT pull chicks beforehand
STILL couldn’t do well even WITH the “rock star”
status.

That’s because the CHARISMA is what REALLY COUNTS.
You can’t just BUY the right behaviors, attitudes, feelings, etc.
You can’t just “adopt” them from someone else.

And if you DO convey the right behaviors, actions,
attitudes, feelings, etc, then NO ONE can somehow
make you UNDESIRABLE, no matter what they do.

You can see this all the time in real life. Take a look
at any ten random women who are hot, and you will
find out that MOST of these women are with guys
that SEEM ordinary until you actually INTERACT
with them.  
  
As you can tell, EVERYTHING you read here
comes from REAL WORLD experience.

And I can ACCELERATE your learning curve in
the real world of approaching women.  You can save
YEARS from learning it all the hard way, because
I can show you the DIRECT path instead of you
taking the trial-and-error path.

The trial-and-error path of trying to succeed with
women not only is INEFFICIENT, but it also can
DRAIN your motivation from going through
infinite FRUSTRATION.   

I seriously suggest you take my Real World Bootcamp
because I will PERSONALLY show you EVERYTHING
you need to know, and it will all be done for REAL.

That means the women you are approaching and
attracting have NO CLUE you are about to
approach them.  These are all real women who
are going about their day in their actual lives,
who are about to have their day ROCK because
of YOU.

The Real World Bootcamp is non-stop IMMERSION
in the world of approaching women who are total
strangers, with a very special twist:
You're getting expert coaching, the result of
over ten years experience from someone who has
been getting men RESULTS with women for all that
time, every step of the way. 

In the Real World Bootcamp, you learn how to
master the skills for successfully approaching
women right out of the blue, anywhere, who are
total strangers- and then ATTRACTING them.

The Bootcamp makes you self-sufficient because
it teaches you exactly what you need to do to
optimize your approaches to women who are complete
strangers, anywhere, so that you can maximize
the chances of getting them attracted, connected,
and wanting to know you more.

Think of a personal trainer at the gym: He shows 
you proper form, strategy, and technique.

WithOUT the expert  instruction, one will never
optimize their results, and will also likely get injured
and then not be able to work out at all, possibly for years.

Just going out to the gym with no clue what
you are doing can result in not only very little
to no progress, but it can actually result in
making a guy WORSE OFF than had he never gone
to the gym at all.

Similarly, going out to approach women without
expert training can result in a lot of negative
habits that actually push women AWAY, plus it
can create negative emotional associations in
your OWN mind with approaching, to the point
that a guy never does it again, and misses out
on the entire world of possibilities with all
the women that are out there, all the women
that he does not get to meet through rare
"luck" situations.

This bootcamp teaches you how to USE all those
opportunities that are available everyday when you
see women ANYWHERE, including the mall, the bus,
the cafe, the train, the park, the sidewalk, the library,
the post office, the grocery store, and absolutely
ANYWHERE else.

It's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html

For my most powerful HOME study program
on how to approach and attract women who
are total strangers, ANYWHERE, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

Now, there are MANY important elements to being successful
with women. The program above covers all of them.

However, of all the elements for success with women,
mastering your INNER GAME is the SINGLE MOST
important element.

To FOCUS on this single greatest element to success
with women, on the most ADVANCED level, I created
a program specializing on INNER GAME, and it is called
"WARRIOR WITHIN".

INNER GAME is also absolutely vital for attracting
quality women for a LONG TERM relationship
as well, and for DETECTING a woman's character
IMMEDIATELY.

WARRIOR WITHIN is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

To find out about ALL my programs for skyrocketing
your success with women, including my "specialization"
series, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Biggest Secret To Understanding And Succeeding With Women Today

If you are a man who has ever wondered
WHY things are the way they are when
it comes to dating and attracting women
today, then I believe this newsletter may
be the most important thing you have
ever read on the topic.

Knowing this “WHY” element is a HUGE
part of being able to do the “WHAT” element
in order to GET the kind of woman you want.

So here we go:

One of the BIGGEST shocks I had when I
started out approaching women for the purpose
of dating them is that almost EVERY SINGLE
WOMAN I would meet, would do at least
SOMETHING very early on that I found
downright DISRESPECTFUL.

I didn’t even know at the time that this is
something that just about EVERY MAN
goes through with women.

So let me give you some examples of things
I am talking about, because I want it to be
really clear. Also, all these women that
I am mentioning were not some kinds of
EXTREME CASES, these were typical
attractive women, with normal jobs
ranging from teachers to lawyers to
secretaries to entrepreneurs to computer
programmers to waitresses etc, etc, etc.

And  in GENERAL, these women were
NOT malicious, not mean-spirited, and
in fact in GENERAL were very warm,
sensitive, and giving people.

On one first date, a particular woman would
start talking about some male celebrity from
TV and ESPECIALLY TRY TO KEEP HINTING
TO ME that she found him very attractive.

This might sound like nothing, but this was
coming from a woman who was EXTREMELY
insecure and actually thought I was possibly
more interested (I wasn’t at all) in other women
crossing the street when we were in the car
stopped at a light at the intersection.

So I say this to make it clear that anyone who
was so insecure about those things would clearly
understand NOT to “press someone’s buttons”
by trying to stir a little jealousy.

Again, I want to make it CLEAR that OTHERWISE,
this woman actually was a VERY SENSITIVE
woman who was thoughtful and caring and
nurturing.

Another woman, early on the very first conversation,
tried to imply she was only interested in men with
certain Titanic-sized anatomical proportions. 

As crazy as this sounds, this woman also turned
out to be a very NON-SUPERFICIAL person
who was extremely WARM and GIVING.

Another two women, who kept on telling me how
IMPOSSIBLE it was to find a loyal guy, shared
a particular thing in common: Right after being
physically intimate (I try to speak with class here)
they started talking about how HOT certain
celebrities were, both MALE and FEMALE.

And both of these women would have been
SEVERELY HURT had I started speaking
about how hot I thought Megan Fox was
or something like that, especially RIGHT
AFTER DOING THE DEED WITH THEM!

I could go on and on with the REAL REPORTS
from OTHER guys who have told me their own
stories. One guy told me how a woman he was
out with, on a first date, everything was going
GREAT, and then she suddenly called him a
NEANDERTHAL, and not in a “cute” or “nice”
way, because he was TALL.

To me, that is really insane, because if
anything, being TALL is supposed to give
a guy an ADVANTAGE, not a DISADVANTAGE,
with women, right?

And no matter HOW PERFECT a guy was,
in terms of his job, his income, his looks,
his age, his background, NO MATTER
WHAT, I would hear from guys how women
would FIND SOMETHING TO TRY TO GET
UNDER THESE GUYS’ SKINS.

So what the F is going on, right?

We all know that as MEN, we do NOT
act this way toward WOMEN we WANT!

This is the kind of stuff that really makes
a lot of men REALLLLLY ANGRY.

So let me explain to you what is going on,
because it is ONE FREAKY, MASSIVE,
SOUL-SEARING REVELATION.

It’s because women want to PRESERVE
their sense of DIGNITY AND POWER
when they FEEL they are going to actually
be getting VERY VULNERABLE and
VERY NAKED and VERY PHYSICAL
with you VERY SOON.

You see, because we are living in an age
of INSANITY (more on this later below)
where LOVE, DEDICATION, FIDELITY,
LOYALTY, COMMITMENT, TEMPERANCE
IN SEXUALITY, and FAMILY VALUES are
often considered UNCOOL (for men and for women)
and a form of IMPRISONMENT, most women
FEEL they can’t be COOL and immediately also
show a high value for LOVE, LOYALTY, AND
OLD-SCHOOL TRADITIONAL VALUES.

They are afraid if they do that, then that is
the same as saying all they want is to be
barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen and
to never have the vote again.

So, because women feel like they are going
to be SURRENDERING everything they have
physically to you, this is their way to RECLAIM
some balance, some power, some dignity.

If a woman REALLY is not interested in you,
she would just GO AWAY, or ignore you,
she would not put in the EFFORT to
ENGAGE you on any level whatsoever.

When you really want to make someone go
away, you IGNORE them, right?

But it's precisely because a woman feels
she is going to get VERY INVOLVED with you
that she DOES this stuff!!!!!

Of course, there should be NO NEED to have to
do this between two people who GENUINELY
love and respect each other, right?

BUT THAT IS THE WHOLE PROBLEM.
LOVE AND RESPECT and BALANCE
AND TEMPERENCE are NOT COOL
ANYMORE.

Everything is on HIGH GEAR, ULTRA
MODE, ALL THE TIME.

It’s part of our culture.
FAST food.
FAST SERVICE.

LOTS OF SUGAR IN EVERYTHING.
LOTS OF FAT.
LOTS OF SALT.
LOTS OF NUDITY.

LOTS OF PROMISES FOR HOW TO
GET RICH QUICK.

LOTS OF NIGHTCLUBS AND ONLINE
DATING SITES WHERE WOMEN AND
MEN CAN FIND AN INSTANT ONE-NIGHT
STAND.

LOTS OF ADS IN YOUR FACE,
AND IN YOUR EARS, EVERYWHERE.

People have become lazy since they are
bombarded in our culture with messages
GLORIFYING PERSONAL INDULGENCE
WITHOUT ANY LIMITS WHATSOEVER.

Of course, in the same way that too much salt,
sugar, and fat are DESTROYERS, so too is
having an imbalance when it comes to sex,
love, and romance. It has to be a BALANCE
between them, it can’t be too much of one.

So, there are two things to TAKE from all this.

One thing is that, if a woman you’ve just met
or approached or recently started dating suddenly
starts to try to get on your nerves and under your SKIN,
to “push your buttons” so to speak, you should realize
that VERY OFTEN this means she actually is VERY
INTERESTED IN GETTING PHYSICAL WITH YOU.

Therefore, you should not be pissed off, or
angry, or upset in any way.  In fact, you
might even want to calmly look at her
lovingly and tell her the truth with
these words:

"You love me."  

At that point, when you say those words
in a calm, loving, confident way, she is
extremely likely to MELT before you.

The second thing to take from all this is that
JUST BECAUSE SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU,
DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT!!!

And THIS is where I take a VERY DIFFERENT
APPROACH than the pick up artist community.

You see, I am not interested in teaching guys
just how to get physical with women, as
that is like teaching people how to find
food in a BUFFET.  Our current society is
a BUFFET when it comes to that stuff.

There is no PROBLEM finding the physical.

The real goal is how to find a QUALITY
woman that is the TOTAL PACKAGE,
a woman that you are attracted to, a woman
that is kind, intelligent, and that will
ENRICH YOUR LIFE, and that will be a
great partner and possibly a great mother
as well.

And even though all these women who
DEEP DOWN don’t really mean to be
nasty when they try to get under your
skin before they get naked with you,
the fact is these kinds of women STILL
DON’T GET IT. 

The fact is, a woman should be STRONG
ENOUGH to RESIST the crazy culture
that we live in, and to VOICE her REAL
THOUGHTS and TO LIVE THE WAY
SHE REALLY BELIEVES.

So if a woman feels she WANTS genuine
love, if a woman WANTS deep respect,
if a woman wants a man who REALLY
cares for her, she should not be afraid to
VOICE THAT, to CHAT ABOUT THAT,
and to put in the work to SEE what you are
like, and BE CAREFUL about who she
dates.

If a woman is TOO WEAK to do the right
things, that the ONLY WAY she can live her
life is by jumping into bed with you before
she really knows you well, but also making
sure to INSULT you first, she is going to be
a woman who has a very big ISSUE in her life
with you whenever it comes to this particular
issue of TREATING YOU AS A MAN WITH
RESPECT.

She may treat you very WELL in just about
EVERY SINGLE AREA, but when it comes
to a very subtle but important area of you
being her MAN, in the greatest sense of
that word, she will falter.

This is why you must TRULY be "THE MAN"
and INSIST on 100% total and absolute RESPECT.
(I'm not saying to be a tyrant or ask for perfection,
but in the general sense of TOTAL RESPECT
for you as HER MAN, yes, you must NOT
compromise on this issue.)    

Because deep down, she has ISSUES
regarding being PROUD to LOVE and
RESPECT AND BE TOTALLY LOYAL
to her man, and what will then happen is
a NEVER-ENDING SERIES OF PROBLEMS
whenever this issue rears its head.

So, for example, because she is not
COMFORTABLE with TRADITIONAL VALUES,
she may very well feel it’s “okay” to flirt with
some other guy at work. She may feel it’s “okay”
to go for “drinks” with some guy who claims
he is just a friend, since, after all, as a “modern
INDEPENDENT WOMAN who is not barefoot
and pregnant” she can “DO WHATEVER SHE
LIKES, she can INDULGE TO NO LIMITS
on whatever she wants to do, since she is
the one in control”, right?

For the pick up artist community that just
wants to get physical, they don’t care about
these things.

But for the men who actually want women
as life-long partners, for the men who have
real love for women, for the men who want
to raise families, such women are going to be
DISASTERS.

The fact that these women may still be
sensitive, caring people in all the OTHER
respects does not help you when she is
off CHEATING with another guy.

But again, to the pick up artist community,
there is no such thing as cheating, there 
is only sex or no sex, that’s it.

This is why I created get a GREAT girl.
It’s about getting the RIGHT woman.

This is why, for example, in my program
WARRIOR WITHIN, I discuss, amongst
MANY, MANY, MANY VITAL THINGS,
I discuss how to DETECT a woman’s values
and her character IMMEDIATELY, so that
you can SCREEN OUT the wrong women
right away and so that you can detect the
RIGHT WOMEN as well.

By the way, it’s an interesting irony that
even the most DIE-HARD pick up artists
seem to “see the light” and eventually end
up not only giving up the whole pick up
artist thing but actually going in the opposite
direction to an EXTREME and talking about
TRUE LOVE and then having children, etc.

I don’t do that.
I don’t believe in TRUE LOVE in the
stereotypical sense.

I believe in a shared PROMISE and a shared
PASSION.

A man and woman who have PASSION
physically for each other, and who SHARE
DEEP CORE VALUES, including of course
the FAMILY VALUES, as nature really
brought men and women together to mate,
and to feel strongly enough about each other
to stick around together to raise the kids,
at least for a little while, and after that,
as human beings we can use our creativity
to maintain the passion. (I get into that
as well as many other important topics in
my book “Get A Great Girl” on my site.)

Now here is the thing:
Life is not perfect.
Human beings are not perfect.
There is no ABSOLUTE perfection.

So you have to use a bit of DISCRETION
in how much of a PURIST you want to be
when applying these principles.

This is also something I incorporate into
my programs and materials, which is
the reason I have so many different
materials, to cover ALL the possibilities
and ALL the strategies.  

So, for example, a woman might be
scoring a 90 percent with you and
just be engaging in a TOUCH of the
problems discussed, and she might
be a woman who can be REDEEMED
with a bit of an education from you.

But I can tell you that if you are finding
yourself having to TEACH A WOMAN all the
time how to behave, she is the WRONG WOMAN,
and also to be honest with you, if you ARE
going to try to show a woman how to behave,
that TOO is an art, because you can’t just
criticize someone, as it comes across as
mean and it also comes across as insecure,
which are both very counter-productive, so
you have to be very gentle, very humble,
very loving, and yet at the same time
you have to be CLEAR.

Now, get ready for THIS:

There ARE a FEW women around who DO
understand alllllllllllllllllllllllll
this stuff that I have written here.

They are RARE, damnnnnnnnnn rare, but
they are not so rare that you will not still
find them no matter where you are, IF
you look hard enough.

And the good news is this: Since there are
so FEW men who UNDERSTAND all this,
you will have NO COMPETITION AT ALL.

In fact, the MORE that the pick up artist
and sex-obsessed culture GROWS, the
MORE PRECIOUS you become to those
super-quality women that are around.

The REAL “underground society” today
is not that society comprised of the
sex-obsessed zombies, but rather is
comprised of those wise men and women
who see our culture for the insanity that
it has morphed into over the past few decades.

(The reasons for this are something I would
gladly discuss another time, but it has
a lot to do with the human tendency
to need more and more stimulation to
get the same emotional effect, so the
solution is to actually get LESS
of the “over-saturation” style stimulation,
which ultimately forces the emotions to
get more sensitive, stronger, and 
require LESS of a “hit” to get stimulated.)  

And if you are reading this right now and
you are serious about getting a QUALITY
woman, then I suggest you get my most
advanced program geared ESPECIALLY
for this goal. 

It’s called WARRIOR WITHIN, because
it’s all about what is INSIDE of you as
opposed to you putting on some ACT.

It contains 8 DVDs and is the LIVE FOOTAGE
of my SEMINAR on this topic where men came
from several different COUNTRIES to attend.
      
It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

If you would like a private consultation
with me, it would be my pleasure to serve
you and give you the very best of all my
experience in this field.

For a consultation, please email me directly at
michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com

Similarly, if you would like me to
speak with your organization, just
let me know. 

If you are new here, welcome aboard, and
you can find out about ALL my programs
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Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To IMMEDIATELY Attract Women

Lately, I've been speaking about some
really in-depth, advanced concepts for
attracting women.

I think it's important to also balance
things out by never forgetting some
of the more immediate "how to"
strategies.  

So I just want to bring up some
tips that you can use IMMEDIATELY
when you see women anywhere.

Tip Number One:
TAKE THINGS UP, NEVER DOWN

What I mean by this, is simply look
for ways to always take things to
a POSITIVE EMOTIONAL FEEL, both
regarding the topic you decide
to speak about, and ultimately
the things you say about her
as well.

The key is to be GENUINE, look
for something you AUTHENTICALLY
feel positive about regarding the
situation or regarding her herself.

So, for example, if she is grocery
shopping, and you notice she has
a pretty healthy grocery basket
or shopping cart, you can say to
her that you respect her discipline,
which is a positive thing, but you
can ALSO be PLAYFUL about it after
saying that, you can get her LAUGHING
by saying something like, "Hmmm,
let me see what you got there,
celery, vegetables, and organic
peanut butter without sugar or
salt...Remind me never to come
to your house for a PARTY!"

Clearly, this is not a malicious joke,
she knows you are not serious, but it
IS funny, and getting a woman laughing
is a GREAT way to get her to relax around
you and also a great way to improve her
state of mind.

Life is just a bunch of moments, and the
more FUN you infuse into those moments,
the better that life is, so YOU have
now made HER life BETTER.

And this is NOT kissing up, because the
TRUTH is, that BEING IN THIS STATE OF
GREATER FUN actually FEEEEEEEELS GOOD
FOR YOU, and is a positive healthy thing
for yourself as well. 

AND it shows confidence and survival
skills, because a sense of humor is
a great coping mechanism for the
stresses of life.

So always look for things that you can
AUTHENTICALLY say that are positive
about her, or that you genuinely find
funny, as this is GREAT way to start
off a conversation with a woman who
is a total stranger, and of course
this works even on women who are
not strangers as well.

Tip Number Two:
DON'T WAIT FOR THE PERFECT APPROACH

A lot of times, a guy will see a woman
he thinks is gorgeous somewhere, and
he won't want the woman to know
that he is looking at her, or that
he wants to approach her.

So he will WASTE PRECIOUS TIME trying
to figure out how to make it seem like
he is not really looking at her or interested
in her.

During those moments of thinking so much,
he has then PSYCHED HIMSELF OUT OF
APPROACHING.  

He has given himself too much time to
THINK about it, and of course, in that 
nervous state of mind, the subconscious 
then FILLS THE MIND WITH REASONS 
TO MATCH THE NERVOUS EMOTION, 
i.e. ALL THE REASONS IN THE WORLD 
FOR NOT APPROACHING.

So if you wait, you will just end
up allowing the same emotion that
made you WAIT to also come up with
what seems like convincing reasons
for NOT APPROACHING.

You will actually start to see
NEGATIVE REASONS that aren't even
REAL, or you will distort the situation
to make it seem impossible to meet
or attract her.

So, DON'T WAIT.

TAKE ACTION IMMEDIATELY.

The fact is, if she does see you, it
will only show her MORE reasons for
her to be impressed by you, because
she will see you ACTED upon your
attraction, you had the confidence
to take the action, instead of
waiting for too long.

Plus, the less you wait, the less time
SHE has to start thinking about it,
in case she saw you looking at her.

If you give her too long to think about it,
then the social conditioning that SHE has
been exposed to might kick in, i.e. the
stuff she has heard about "not talking
to strangers" etc.

But if you act IMMEDIATELY, then she
can instead just FEEL your confidence,
she can ENJOY your sense of humor,
she can ENJOY the fact that a cool
guy like yourself has approached her,
because you haven't given her TIME
to go into ROBOT mode and start thinking
all clinically about the whole thing.

You want her to FEEL GOOD and ENJOY  
the interaction, you don't want her
to be in ROBOT ANALYSIS MODE.

Tip Number Three:
BE SEXUAL BUT STAY CLASSY,
AND DON'T GO VULGAR

Sexuality can be a very subtle thing.
It is in your voice, in the form of
speaking with a more breathy, sensual
tonality, and through speaking more
slowly and calmly. 

It is in your expression, your body
language. 

And yes, it can be in your words to
an extent as well, but be careful
if you do this, to do it properly.

You can playfully accuse her of trying
to pick you up if she shows interest in
you or if she gives you a compliment;
you can playfully purposefully misinterpret
something she says as a sign she just
wants you in bed. i.e. if she says she
is looking for a new bed, you can
tell her that you hardly know her yet,
if she is looking at you, you can
playfully tell her to stop undressing
you with her eyes, etc, etc.

But use less rather than more of this.
Crude humor has reached insane proportions
over the last three decades because of
desensitization in comedy and humor,
which creates the need for more and
more SHOCK to get attention.

So whereas the word for the male
organ may have appeared once or
twice in a joke or comedy movie
in 1985, it now comprises a HUGE
percentage of most comedians'
material and most comedy movies.  

This is why so FEW comedians today
are really CHERISHED. Yeah, they
grab your attention for a moment
or two, but they are forgettable.

But take guys like Bill Cosby,
Jerry Seinfeld, and other classics,
and you can see how they aren't
just SHOCKING, but actually PLEASANT
to listen to, and their material is
TIMELESS, it's just as funny now
as it was then.

Similarly, when chatting up women,
your goal is not to SHOCK them
to get their attention, but to
DRAW THEM INTO YOUR REALITY THAT
IS CONFIDENT, WARM, SEXUAL, AND
FUN.

The bottom line is, subconsciously,
most human beings realize there is
something SPECIAL about real intimacy
between a man and a woman that gets
LOST when everything sexual is
'up for grabs' so easily in conversation.

This is something that a quality woman
who values a real relationship will
appreciate. So even though you might
think the world has zero quality women
left, there actually are a few of these
women around, and it's this kind of thing
that will separate you from so many
others.  

These are some REALLY important tips
for meeting and attracting women,
and I'd like to help you out with
the WHOLE PICTURE, from approaching
women to attracting them, to keeping
things thriving in a relationship.

The first thing is taking some
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It's win-win, the way things should be.   

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The "Dirty Little Secret" To Attracting Women

Do you want to know the best kept dirty
little secret to attracting women?

Attraction is nothing but an INVOLUNTARY
emotional reaction to someone we PERCEIVE
has great POWER.

That's it.

POWER, unfortunately, defines everything.
Not in a philosophical sense, (at least not in
my philosophy) but in the sense of most
people's feelings and perceptions.

It defines who is right, who is wrong,
who is desirable, and even WHAT is "right"
and WHAT is "wrong".

This concept NEVER made COMPLETE
sense to me till I finally saw the truth about
women.  This ultimately led to also
understanding the truth about all human
BEINGS, period, although the things that
represent power for men are not the exact
same things that represent power for women.

POWER is sexy.

It attracts. Everyone.

All the "sexy" things are just forms
of power. For example:

1. Physical looks- sign of vitality,
health, survival, ability to bear
children, etc.

2.Money- obvious form of power.

However, trying to cover up an insecurity
by throwing money at women, or trying too
hard to impress women by displaying signs
of wealth, tends to convey LACK of power,
and implies deep-rooted insecurity.

3. Status- positions in society-
again obvious form of power
through level of control or
influence over others.

4. Attitude/Self-Esteem- indicates
power and ability to succeed in life;
a guy who seems positive and confident
may also reflect a powerful position
or that he has a lot going for him now
or potentially in the future, etc.

5. Intelligence---human ingenuity has
been one of the keys to our survival
as a species.

By the way, HUMOR, if done right, can
show a VERY HIGH LEVEL of intelligence,
and it can do so in a very EFFECTIVE manner
where a woman remembers you long after
your first interaction with her is over. 

6. Having large circles of connections, etc.

And on and on ad infinitum...

But the bottom line is that TODAY, so
many men in our society have been
STRIPPED of power, PRIMARILY BECAUSE
PERCEPTION is power, and men have
been brainwashed to PERCEIVE that
they are LESS valuable than they
REALLY are to women.

Also, things like testosterone,
aggression, and muscle are NOT needed
from a practical standpoint by women
thanks to technology, and in fact
those things can get us men in a lot
of trouble today, because there are
few healthy and positive outlets for
those male instincts today. (Although
machismo as an attitude can be sexy
if applied in the right way and not
in the caveman way.)

Also, men are stripped of their power
through brainwashing that women are
all Disney-style innocents, hence
the FLOOD of guys who are kissing up
to attractive women EVERYWHERE, and
also many guys who are willing to so quickly
be financial and emotional "providers" to
women who haven't earned so much giving.

Also, a lot of guys today, they look at
how their MOMS AND GRANDMOMS behaved,
because some of those women grew up
BEFORE men became morons and spineless,
I.E. before so many women would walk
over men.

By the way, I'm not blaming women for
all this, as a lot of this is simply
the result of changing times, and men
have not adjusted themselves to the
changes that women have made for themselves.
Men can't help but still think of women
in the "Disney" innocent sense, and in
the sense of what women keep on saying,
i.e. that they just want a nice guy
who will never take them for granted.

Yes,women ABSOLUTELY DO want NICE GUYS
who will not take these women for granted,
but ONLY IF THESE MEN GIVE OFF THE VIBES OF
POWER, CHARISMA, CONFIDENCE, AND SECURITY.

So many men are unsuspecting of the TRUTH that
is going on TODAY.

Sooooooo, when women get all this POWER, they
cannot HELP but USE it.

This is why, for example, so many women
have no problem going to a club, for the
express purpose of having men buy drinks
for them, for the express purpose of being
complimented and validated, or why so many
women have no problem using a guy who makes
himself open to use and abuse because he
thinks a woman is so special even though
she has done nothing to earn his affection.

Are there abusive men around as well?
Absolutely, there are, and it's not like
men have a monopoly on good morals.

It's just that when it comes to dating,
we live in a society where women expect
men to take the initiative, the first move,
and the first move always gives away a bit
of power, since it is immediately indicating
that the person being approached has value,
and it can lead to a percieved imbalance in
power in the man's mind and in the woman
mind, where the woman clearly has more power.

This is not a problem, however, if you
approach women in the RIGHT WAY, where
you are radiating a positive healthy
sense of power.

Remember, for every attractive woman out there,
there are usually TONS of guys doing favours for
her, trying to be her "friend", so of course the
value of emotional support (read: boyFRIEND)
goes down to almost zero, and they are instead
just looking to be with the most POWERFUL guy
they believe they can meet- whatever that
combination is- attitude, behavior, looks,
money, dress, connections, status, etc.

Even things like a fun upbeat personality-
like being a confident guy who teases women,
it's still nothing more than a sign of
confidence and power and vitality.

Because most men grow up seeing how difficult
it is to meet a woman who is not spoiled by all
this, it is men who cherish relationships more
these days, since it is so RARE.

I think a great example of this is Brad Pitt.

This guy is the ICON of female desire- status,
insanely recognizable all over the world,
good looks, wealthy, and who did he go out
with and marry first?

Jennifer Aniston, who is good looking, sure,
but not some supermodel or uber-babe.

Everybody knows if all he wanted was the
uberbabe he could have had just about any
friggen woman on the planet, this dude
doesn't need any tactics.

And there is no way in hell that he did
not know his power, I'm sure his fan mail
included women's intimate garments and
photos etc.

He KNEW how INSANE things were, and he was
TOO SMART to marry the typical "woman"
these days.

And even when he broke up with her, he married
Angelina Jolie, who is absolutely not typical
at ALL.  This is a woman who does not bank only
on her looks, who spends a great deal of time
helping children in impoverished parts of the
world.

Also, before Angelina Jolie dated Brad, she
dated Billy Bob Thornton, a guy who completely
danced to the beat of his own drum, who had
enough confidence in his own self to not even
try to imitate anyone else. And Thornton has
revealed in interviews that he ultimately lost
confidence and did not believe that he was
worthy of her, and this is why he lost her.

SELF-PERCEPTION IS EVERYTHING.
What you BELIEVE about your own power is
ABSOLUTELY CRITICAL for your success
with women.

So, even though MOST MEN are getting demolished
when it comes to dating women, it is ABSOLUTELY
VITAL that you BELIEVE IN YOUR OWN POWER.

Most men have been stripped of their power,
and yet the WHOLE THING has been PURELY
PSYCHOLOGICAL, done through BRAINWASHING.

All from IGNORANCE and guys who kiss up
to women.

Hence the floodgates to corruption have flowed in.
Women these days equal or outnumber men when it
comes to cheating, infidelity, etc.

Lest anyone read this post and think that I
have negative feelings towards women, they are
absolutely wrong.

I simply believe power corrupts, no matter
who has it, a man or a woman.

Be it a three-year-old child who is spoiled
by parents who over indulge the child, or
be it an adult who comes into almost
superhuman power.

This is why democracies tend to have checks
and balances to prevent those in power from
abusing that power.

Power is sexy.
Might is right.
Just as Thrasymachus said long ago in The Republic.

The way I look at it, it's just a question
of WHO has the might.

So if we as men believe what is going on
right now in society is "wrong", then we
need to increase our power, both as a
gender, and as individuals within our
relationships with women.

This whole power dynamic is even MORE
important in attracting women than it
is in any other sphere of human endeavor,
because even the most STAUNCH feminists
THEMSELVES are only attracted to men
who give off vibes of POWER.

Guess who JANE FONDA, a staunch, world
famous feminist married? She married
TED TURNER, one of the most outspoken,
confident, powerful men on the planet.

Guess who GLORIA STEINEM, the world-famous,
and I will now quote Wiki here, "American
feminist, journalist, and social and political
activist who became nationally recognized as a
leader of, and media spokeswoman for, the
women's liberation movement in the late 1960s
and 1970s" married? 

She married a powerful and outspoken man,
named David Bale (father of Christian
Bale the actor, but of course before
Christian Bale was famous), who was an
entrepreneur, environmentalist, and animal
rights activist.

And of course, her life-long opinion that
marriage was a form of "slavery" to men,
something that women should never do,
coincidentally CHANGED changed when she met
the man she was ATTRACTED to, and she suddenly
felt that marriage had progressed and she
felt marrying a man was now a fine thing to do.

So if even the most die-hard FEMINISTS don't
feel attraction for men who don't radiate POWER,
then how can anyone expect MAINSTREAM women
to feel? They FOR SURE want to feel FEMININE
in the arms of a man who is MASCULINE AND
POWERFUL.

So, you see, all relationships are power
based, which does not mean that KINDNESS
and sensitivity are not STILL ABSOLUTELY
VITAL, because if you don't show sensitivity
and kindness and appreciation, then on a
hard-wired instinctive level, her brain
sends the message that this guy will NOT
help her survival, as he may use all
that power to HARM her.

This is where a lot of jerks get it all wrong
when it comes to attracting women.

The key is to be caring, decent, sensitive, etc,
while SIMULTANEOUSLY giving off vibes of INFINITE
POWER.

If you don't want to end up as nothing more
than a FRIEND of a woman, a male girlfriend
so to speak, you MUST change the way you
behave and the way you think.

POWER IS ATTRACTIVE.

Women try their BEST to do what gives them
power, such as looking their best, wearing
make-up, doing their hair, smiling, acting
SWEET and INNOCENT, and feminine, yet acting
HARD TO GET, while ALSO making sure to get
the best education they can as well, and
to get as high in the workplace as well,
MEN must also do what works for them.

But most men have no clue what that means
or what to do.

Don't be a sitting duck.

The same way YOU would take advantage
of a guy giving out million dollar bills
in exchange for a smile from you, so too
it's hard for a lot of women to resist taking
advantage of guy who is making himself
soooooooooooo easy to take advantage of.

Could YOU resist?
And hey, it's not even illegal!!!!!!
And most men aren't protesting it,
they are HAPPY to be kissing up for
nothing, in exchange for a smile,
or whatever else. This falls under
what a friend of mine calls
PEDDLING DECENCY.

Just as women are attracted to powerful men,
one of thing that most MEN are attracted to
is a beautiful woman who is also SWEET AND
WHO SEEMS NICE.

Most men consider that feminine.

Now, do you REALLY think for a SECOND
that women don't KNOW that????????????

Do you really think that women are stupid?
That they would not ACT sweet if acting
sweet will make them far more attractive?

There are also guys who DON'T find
sweet women attractive, and if he
radiates power, a woman will quickly
do her part to be whatever works,
as long as he is what SHE is looking for.

But PEDDLING DECENCY is a HUGE strategy
for women that gives women POWER.

It's hardwired into men's brains
by evolution, because men need
to have women who will be good
mothers for the children.

This is part of why men are attracted
to women who seem sweet.  It may also
be related to trust, i.e. that she is
actually giving birth to your child
and not some other dude's.  This is
something men have to deal with
that women don't since women obviously
know they are the mothers, and evolution
has kicked in to make men more sensitive
to matters dealing with fidelity in
women.

Men need to smell the roses and get a
whiff of the truth.

And since POWER defines everything that
is right and wrong, (I don't agree with
this ETHICALLY, OR philosophically, I am
just saying this is the way the world WORKS
IN REALITY) if you are a man and you believe
in something, it's up to you to fight for
your beliefs because that is the only way
to make them "right" in society.

That is what women did in the last couple
of generations, and it should be an inspiration
for men to DO WHAT WORKS TO ATTRACT THE
WOMEN THEY WANT.

Ultimately, every element/tactic that
works for attraction is a tool that helps
us convey POWER to a woman, whether it is
REAL or PERCEIVED. Every tiny action,
tonality, movement, act of humor, article
of clothing, the image of the people you
hang out with, is either INCREASING YOUR
POWER, or DIMINISHING it.

As human beings, we can easily get
addicted to this thing called power
unless we are hyper aware of what is
going on and that our brain is playing
with us. In reality, the more power you
get, the more you hunger to INCREASE
your power.

This boils down to SURVIVAL mechanisms
inside our brain. Consider human progress,
and how we constantly strive to go further,
do more, (even as we often create more
problems in this process).

We all want to benefit from those with
power, and so we are naturally attracted
to them. With men and women, it becomes
a sexual thing. Within our gender, it
becomes a "charismatic" thing.

When we GET the approval of someone we
consider powerful, it makes us feel
more SECURE. It makes us feel good.

Unless you ALREADY FEEL TOTALLY HAPPY,
then NOTHING influences you. But how
many people, whether men or women,
are like that?

And since women tend to get FAR MORE
approval from men than vice versa,
women are only hungrier for MORE.

Ever wonder what this does to relationships?
Or what it does to a guy who is EASY?

He gets eaten up for breakfast and is
forgotten by LUNCH. Ultimately, all
this really has very little to do with
sex. I really believe this. If it was
all about the physical need for sexual
release, people would just be happy
with one person, or marriage etc.

But since most people are not secure,
they have low esteem, and feel the
HUNGER for more security, for more
validation, for more POWER. This
causes an INFINITE array of issues
that DISGUISE themselves as sexual
issues.

So, for example, in a relationship
or marriage, as soon as sex becomes
easily available and reliable, and
there is no need to worry about it
anymore, the focus becomes on getting
MORE power and getting the approval
of OTHERS. They seek NOT new SEXUAL
stimulus so much as FURTHER BONDS
WITH POWERFUL PEOPLE to increase
their own power.

That is why people look for "spice"
which is so often linked to psychological
issues- i.e. any form of wanting to violate
a "TABOO" is nothing more than enjoying
the feeling of POWER over breaking a
prohibition. Without a prohibition,
there is no joy to break it.

BREAKING it is an assertion of POWER.

The desire to assert control over
whatever the hell is being forbidden.

Take away the taboo or the prohibition
and goodbye spice!

For example, turn ON the lights in a
"naughty" dance club and GOODBYE the
to "kick" or the enjoyment of it all.

Ever wonder why clubs are "dark" atmosphere?
Why they have names that evoke things
that are "naughty" and taboo and forbidden?

Because it's a rush of POWER to feel
like you are so powerful that you can
BREAK 'the rules".

This is why kids who have no idea of
the purpose of rules enjoy breaking
them so much. All they know is that
there is something forbidden, they
don't know why, so they enjoy the
rush and the POWER of anarchy and
bedlam.

For most of us, sex is to a large
degree all about ISSUES, relating
back to INSECURITY, a need to feel
ENDLESS approval from those with power.

This is why what turns people on in the
bedroom is not politically correct.

Since women have been told again and again
that men are jerks who are controlling,
women are often "rebelling" i.e. acting
out on the impulse to REVOLT at the
perceived "control".

Again, it's the insecurity, the need
for more POWER.

Ultimately, everyone is just seeking
those feelings that come from their
own definitions of POWER.

For a woman, love/passion/lust are all
INVOLUNTARY feelings that ERUPT in full
force when she thinks about a man with
the ultimate combo of POWER.

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Michael Marks

Why Good Men FAIL With Women, And The SOLUTION To This

Today, I want to really help clear up and SOLVE

something that used to DRIVE ME CRAZY and

really hold me back from success with women.

I'm hoping this will help guys out.

So here we go:

On one hand, we all learn as children what

it means to be a GOOD PERSON.  

There’s even a saying that goes along the lines of,

“All I ever needed to know I learned in kindergarten”.

In many ways, it’s true.  Kindness. Sensitivity.

Honesty. Etc, etc.

All great things.

And if you’re like me all, you probably heard

a million times when growing up, that women

just want to meet a NICE GUY.

And then, when it came to REALITY, it really

seemed like that ALL WENT OUT THE WINDOW

when it came to attracting women.

I would see women go for ABSOLUTE JERKS.

I would see guys show what seemed like VERY

LITTLE TO NO SENSITIVITY to women,

even back in high school. 

The guys who got results with the most attractive

women would TEASE women, would NOT

be walking on eggshells around women, and

would be playful with women, and even go

so far as to ANNOY a lot of women in a way

where the women would first say things like,

“You’re such an ass!” and then end up

DATING THOSE GUYS AND SLEEPING

WITH THOSE GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I couldn’t figure it out.

For a while, I thought it was simply that these

guys were in some way “exceptions” to the norm.

I thought maybe these guys were exceptionally

rich, or good looking,  or just exceptionally lucky

that somehow a really attractive woman loved

them in SPITE of these guys’ INSENSITIVE

personalities!

I went on for YEARS trying to be a perfect

NICE GUY with women, showing ABSOLUTE

respect in EVERY WAY, including every

politically correct way as well, and what I mean

by politically correct is that I made sure that

the SEX stuff was the LAST thing I would

be hinting toward or seriously considering

in any near future, since after all, women

publicly seemed to be complaining that all

men just wanted the physical, and how

all men were psychos, and how women just

wanted to meet a man who could see them

in a NON-SEXUAL way.

That really got me NOWHERE WITH WOMEN.

So one day, after being treated like crap by

a particular woman for several YEARS,

the old beliefs I had about women DIED and

a NEW VERSION of me was born, with

NEW BELIEFS.

The NEW beliefs were that women actually

WANTED TO GET PHYSICAL WITH MEN

WHO DIDN’T BUY INTO ALL THAT PREVIOUS

BULLSHIT THAT I WAS TAUGHT ABOUT WOMEN.

So, after going for over 12 years in utter hell

with women, I suddenly found that I had more

attractive women at my fingertips than I could

EVER have time for.

AND JUST ABOUT ANY GUY WITH BASIC SOCIAL SKILLS

CAN DUPLICATE WHAT I DID.

And believe me, I do NOT say this with arrogance;

I say it because of the WAY that I turned things

around. It was simply by CUTTING OUT ALL THE BULL(*&^

I WAS DOING TO CONVINCE WOMEN THAT I WAS A GOOD GUY.

I was super simple with women: I would approach

them DIRECTLY, I wouldn’t SMILE, I wouldn’t

give COMPLIMENTS, I wouldn’t do ANYTHING

nice, I would instead actually do everything

in my POWER to HOLD BACK FROM DOING NICE

THINGS!!!!

And I really MEANT it.

I was not faking.

I really BELIEVED in what I was doing,

I really BELIEVED that women did not

enjoy all that "extra nice" treatment.

12 years of BAD results finally

got me to shed my previous beliefs!

I wasn’t ABUSIVE AT ALL, but I was NOT NICE.

I didn’t BUY anything for women.

I didn’t give compliments.

I really didn’t do ANYTHING, I would just

find some NON-COMPLIMENTARY excuse

to talk to a woman and after a few minutes,

suggest we chat some more and meet up again

IF I FOUND THEM WORTHY.

Often, I would find out something about a

woman in my first conversation with her,

and then tell her things would NOT work out,

and try to END IT THERE.  

I meant it honestly, I was not trying to play a game
or be manipulative.  I honestly felt that I was not
interested any longer in any woman who did not 
meet my standards of behavior, even if they were
VERY high standards that I insisted upon. 

The irony is that these women, would then

REFUSE TO BE REJECTED, and try to

CONVINCE ME WHY I SHOULD KEEP

GIVING THEM A CHANCE.

So, whereas for over 12 years, I kept

trying to CONVINCE WOMEN to treat me well,

to go out with me, to love me, by treating

women like GOLD, now I was getting women

fighting to be with me by me NOT TRYING

TO ATTRACT THEM, and in fact often women

would become even MORE attracted after I

had REJECTED THEM.

Again, I was not TRYING to impress women.

And when I rejected a woman, it was not

a "tactic" to attract her, it was the

way I genuinely felt.

So all this just made me very upset with women,

because it made me feel that they could not

appreciate love and kindness, that they could

not appreciate a good thing when they had it.

Now, I was actually WRONG in my assessment

of women, but you can’t blame me for not understanding

it at the time.

The reason I was WRONG was because most women

are NOT ACTUALLY ATTRACTED to abuse.

However, although women are not attracted to

abuse, the problem is that men were/are told an

EXAGGERATED CASE OF HOW BAD THE

SITUATION REALLY WAS/IS FOR WOMEN WHEN

IT COMES TO HOW THEY ARE TREATED BY MEN.

If you listen to all the women’s programs out there,

you would think that every friggen man is a PSYCHO,

A RAPIST, A MURDERER, A SICK IN THE HEAD

JERK.

If you happened to have gone to a liberal political science

program that covered women’s issues like I did, you would

have been BOMBARDED with messages about how men

are responsible for every single terrible thing on the planet

for all of history.   It’s as if women never experience any

emotion like hate, rage, jealousy; as if all women are just

and fair.

So, OF COURSE, growing up in THAT environment,

if a man BELIEVES all that stuff, he feels he has an

OBLIGATION to show his DEVOTION to a woman

at a level that in REALITY would actually just freak

a woman out and make a woman feel too much pressure.

The REALITY is that not only are women doing

WELL, but in many cases are doing BETTER THAN

MEN when it comes to EVERYTHING, from health,

to relationships, to career, to education.  Women live

longer, fare better with break-ups, and represent a higher

percentage of students enrolled in university.

And if a woman is ATTRACTIVE on top of being SMART,

she is TRULY kicking ASS. 

So, a woman like that is kind of like the SHE-HULK

in terms of POWER and CONFIDENCE.

She KNOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWS

she can get a man to LOVE her.  She KNOOOOWWS

she can get men to get physical with her. 

She KNOOOOOOOOOOOWS she can get it ALL,

contrary to the friggen B.S. told to ALL OF US MEN

as kids!

Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, what this means is

that if you REALLLLLLLLLLLY WANT TO BE NICE        

to a woman, you have to think about what actually

IS rare for her, what IS hard for her to find, to get

in a man.

And let me tell you what that thing is:

IT IS BEING A CHALLENGE FOR HER.

When I first realized this, it PISSED ME OFF.

I wanted women to APPRECIATE THE FACT

I WAS SUCH A DEVOTED GOOD GUY WHO

WOULD NOT CHEAT ON A WOMAN!

I WANTED WOMEN TO APPRECIATE

THAT I WAS NOT THE SCUM OF THE

EARTH WHO WOULD LIE TO WOMEN,

TELL THEM THAT I LOVED THEM,

AND THEN GO CHEAT ON THEM,

LIKE SO MANY MEN I KNEW.

Now, don’t get me wrong.

Women DON’T want guys to cheat on them,

but the FACT IS, most women do NOT have

this as the BIG PRIORITY ON THEIR MIND,

since they KNOW THEY CAN GET A FAITHFUL

MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Or at least, they think they can, because women

don’t understand just how polygamous men

are on a hard-wired level, and most men, unless

they feel loved, appreciated, and respected,

will not stay faithful unless their self-esteem
is in the toilet, or unless there is some other
special situation occurring. (For example,
the man simply abides by a code of faithfulness
no matter what, and that is very, very rare.)

So, when you see an attractive woman, you must

realize what is PRECIOUS TO HER is not the

same thing as what is precious to most men.

Attractive women really don’t care all that

much about you being faithful and not cheating.

They figure they FOR SURE ALREADY HAVE

THAT!!!!!!  That’s why they aren’t worried about it!

They care more about the fact that YOU are

someone who is SO FREAKING CONFIDENT

and so full of LIFE AND FUN, that EVERYONE

WANTS YOU, every WOMAN wants you and

every man wants to BE you.    

I’m slightly exaggerating to make my point clear,

but definitely the point that women want men who

are having such a great life WITHOUT THEM

that any woman would be NUTS to NOT TRY

TO GET IN WITH THAT MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!

And I don’t even mean FINANCIALLY so much

at all. Although DEFINITELY women don’t

want men who are lazy, the fact is, it is a certain

STATE OF MIND that is attractive to women.

And that state of MIND is a combination of

INSANE CONFIDENCE in EVERYTHING,

including with women, but also in general

with everything. 

This is why women are attracted to men who

are NOT AVERAGE.  They want a man who

gives off vibes of BEING MORE THAN

NORMAL.

More CONFIDENCE than normal.

More HUMOR than normal.

More EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE than normal.

More FUN than normal.

Because THAT IS THE CHALLENGE.

For a woman to get a REGULAR GUY

is not a challenge, since most guys are

BRAINWASHED to kiss up to women.

THIS is the reason women respond to guys

that either are jerks or, more accurately,

SEEM to be jerks on the surface.

The TRUTH IS, that when I look back at

most of those guys even back in high school

that did well with women, they were NOT

jerks, not most of them anyway. 

They just KNEW the TRUTH, which is that

most women are not living in some NIGHTMARE

about men, in fact they ENJOY men, they enjoy

sex, they enjoy the attention, they enjoy it ALL.

So since these guys KNEW all that, they

didn’t “feel sorry” for all these women.

They didn’t treat women like VICTIMS.

Instead, they treated women, especially the

ATTRACTIVE WOMEN, as if these women

actually had it TOO EASY, and so these guys

TEASED women, they gave women a kind of

playful hard time.

And so BOOM- ATTRACTION IS BORN

IN WOMEN, because suddenly these women

feel ALIVE.  There is a guy they have to FIGHT

FOR.

Remember, a CHALLENGE is one of the

greatest of all motivators to the human

psyche.

It doesn’t matter where on Earth you live, or

WHAT the culture is, the fact of the matter

is there will be SOME CHALLENGE that

is viewed as a real WORTHY GOAL.

And it is the CHALLENGE itself that is

a big part of what makes the whole thing     

WORTHY.

I guarantee you, if EVERYONE could easily have

all their goals, there would be far less pleasure in

REACHING those goals.

People who endure the “Tough Mudder” events do it

not for money, but for the CHALLENGE of it all.

Being a challenge for a woman has nothing to

do with being a REAL jerk.  It means learning

all the ways to GENUINELY BECOME THE

KIND OF MAN WHO REALLY IS SO

CONFIDENT, SO POWERFUL, AND IN

SUCH A SUPREMELY EMPOWERED

STATE OF MIND that he really IS

a challenge for her.

It is only once you are THAT KIND OF MAN,

that doing things like giving a GENUINE

compliment THEN becomes SUPER POWERFUL.

I don’t like the idea of FAKING.

I personally feel the need to be MYSELF.

So, that is why I worked on changing my

CORE, rather than learning how to PRETEND

that I was someone else.

Also, women, especially attractive women, are

EXPERIENCED when it comes to detecting

whether a man is faking his confidence or not,

because over the course of their lives, women

have had many men approach them. 

Even if MOST men do NOT approach women,

and say, only one in a HUNDRED men approach

a woman, in a world of BILLIONS OF MEN, that’s

still a LOT of men over the course of a week, a month,

a year, a decade, etc., that a woman has had the chance

to practice her "detecting skills" on. 

Women can usually TELL if you are the real deal or not.

It all starts deep WITHIN yourself.

For that reason, I have developed my most advanced

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Secrets to Attracting Women On A Physical Level: The Foreplay Before Foreplay

One of the biggest things you can do to

SKYROCKET your success with women

is to understand something known as

SEXUAL TENSION and how to CREATE

sexual tension.

So let me first define what this IS:

The best way I can describe it is to call
it the FOREPLAY  that happens long
BEFORE the foreplay!

In life, NINETY NINE percent of the

pleasure of almost ANYTHING is NOT

just in the arrival of the pleasurable

DESTINATION itself.

So, for example, when you get a great

slice of pizza, or a great chocolate, you

usually don’t want to just FINISH it as

quickly as possible.

You want to SAVOR it, you want that

great feeling to LAST.

In fact, if you REALLY love something,

sometimes you enjoy THINKING about it

for long before you actually GET it, and

that IS ACTUALLY PART OF THE JOY.

Think of how a little kid sees something
AWESOME, say it’s a TOY he finds in
a CATALOG.  And he gets promised by
his mom that if he is GOOD, he will get
it for his birthday or for a holiday or for
some other time in the future.

That KID then DREAMS about all the fun

he is GOING to have in the FUTURE with

that toy.  He thinks about it, he fantasizes

about it, he ANTICIPATES it.  What it

will be like to UNWRAP that toy, to

play with it, the adventures he might have

with those toys/action figures, etc,etc.

When you go to a great MOVIE, you don’t
just want to get right to the ENDING! 
It’s way more EXCITING to have the
ANTICIPATION building up inside of you,
as you FEEL the excitement the danger,
the possibility of the VICTORY for the
hero, etc, etc. 

It would be the most boring thing on EARTH

if Luke Skywalker told Darth Vader to give

up, and Darth Vader just said “okay”, and that

was IT.

It’s the SAME THING with women and the 

feelings of CHEMISTRY they want to
experience with you.

You want to make a woman feel the massive

ANTICIPATION of pleasure with you from

the MOMENT you meet her.

You want her to be THINKING about how

awesome it would be to get NAKED with you

long before it actually GETS to that point, and

of course, this IS the way TO actually get to that

point!

This way, the pleasure, in her mind, is not just
something that happens once you two are in bed,
but she is ALREADY feeling it from the moment
you MET her the FIRST time.

You accomplish this by NOT racing to the "finish line". 

What I mean by this, is that you DON’T want

to make it DIRECTLY OBVIOUS that she is

going to get to have sex with you just because

you are speaking to her, or just because you

approached her to chat with her.

What you want to do, is just give her ENOUGH

of a HINT so that her MIND is stimulated to

have to actually become ENGAGED in actually

PAINTING THE REST OF THE PICTURE
FOR HERSELF.

Trust me, when a woman paints her OWN picture

of you and her together in the near future, it’s

the PERFECT attractor because SHE is the one
DESIGNING the fantasy, so it’s going to be

PERFECT to her.

If you just make it so obvious, and so easy,

then what you are doing is in essence "ruining

the movie" by giving her the ending right away.

It’s like you are giving her a candy that instantly

dissolves and melts in a NANOSECOND and

the pleasure is over.

Here’s ONE example of building up sexual tension:

When you are chatting to a woman you have just

approached for the first time, at some point in

the conversation, give her the “look up”.

The “look up” is when you calmly look up
and down her entire body ONCE, and then
you CONTINUE to chat with her TOTALLY
calmly and you DON’T do it again, at least
not for a long time.

This way, she thinks to herself:

“Hey, did he just check me OUT while I

was TALKING to him? Did he just check

out my entire BODY???? Or was I just
imagining that?? What was he THINKING
right then? Does he LIKE me that much?
Is he that direct? He’s not doing it anymore,
does he NOT find me that hot, or is he just

trying to hold back?  What is this guy

ABOUT??????”

Do you see what I mean about how this

creates SEXUAL TENSION?

She is now STARTING to THINK about you,

and about what you have in MIND for her.

And because you haven’t done too MUCH,

she is now free to PICTURE the ultimate

torrid fantasy of you and her having the most

wild, intense. steamy hot lovemaking that

she has ever DREAMED about in her life.

A little goes a LONG way.

By doing a little, you prevent coming across

as a brute with no class or taste.  By doing

NOTHING, though you come across as

NOT sexual at all. 

Another way to think of the “look up” is to

call it a “the once over”, you look her over

once over. But I like the term “the look up”

because your eyes actually go UP her body

and then DOWN.

Now, this is just ONE super effective,

and super EASY strategy that you can

apply IMMEDIATELY on ANY woman you are

attracted to. And it’s FIELD TESTED,

that means it’s been PROVEN in REAL LIFE

on tons of women.

I have an OCEAN MORE of pure GOLD for you

on strategies for successfully approaching
and attracting the women you WANT.  

All you have to do to get these fantastic and

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Till next time,

Michael Marks