Lately, I've been speaking about some
really in-depth, advanced concepts for
attracting women.
I think it's important to also balance
things out by never forgetting some
of the more immediate "how to"
strategies.
So I just want to bring up some
tips that you can use IMMEDIATELY
when you see women anywhere.
Tip Number One:
TAKE THINGS UP, NEVER DOWN
What I mean by this, is simply look
for ways to always take things to
a POSITIVE EMOTIONAL FEEL, both
regarding the topic you decide
to speak about, and ultimately
the things you say about her
as well.
The key is to be GENUINE, look
for something you AUTHENTICALLY
feel positive about regarding the
situation or regarding her herself.
So, for example, if she is grocery
shopping, and you notice she has
a pretty healthy grocery basket
or shopping cart, you can say to
her that you respect her discipline,
which is a positive thing, but you
can ALSO be PLAYFUL about it after
saying that, you can get her LAUGHING
by saying something like, "Hmmm,
let me see what you got there,
celery, vegetables, and organic
peanut butter without sugar or
salt...Remind me never to come
to your house for a PARTY!"
Clearly, this is not a malicious joke,
she knows you are not serious, but it
IS funny, and getting a woman laughing
is a GREAT way to get her to relax around
you and also a great way to improve her
state of mind.
Life is just a bunch of moments, and the
more FUN you infuse into those moments,
the better that life is, so YOU have
now made HER life BETTER.
And this is NOT kissing up, because the
TRUTH is, that BEING IN THIS STATE OF
GREATER FUN actually FEEEEEEEELS GOOD
FOR YOU, and is a positive healthy thing
for yourself as well.
AND it shows confidence and survival
skills, because a sense of humor is
a great coping mechanism for the
stresses of life.
So always look for things that you can
AUTHENTICALLY say that are positive
about her, or that you genuinely find
funny, as this is GREAT way to start
off a conversation with a woman who
is a total stranger, and of course
this works even on women who are
not strangers as well.
Tip Number Two:
DON'T WAIT FOR THE PERFECT APPROACH
A lot of times, a guy will see a woman
he thinks is gorgeous somewhere, and
he won't want the woman to know
that he is looking at her, or that
he wants to approach her.
So he will WASTE PRECIOUS TIME trying
to figure out how to make it seem like
he is not really looking at her or interested
in her.
During those moments of thinking so much,
he has then PSYCHED HIMSELF OUT OF
APPROACHING.
He has given himself too much time to
THINK about it, and of course, in that
nervous state of mind, the subconscious
then FILLS THE MIND WITH REASONS
TO MATCH THE NERVOUS EMOTION,
i.e. ALL THE REASONS IN THE WORLD
FOR NOT APPROACHING.
So if you wait, you will just end
up allowing the same emotion that
made you WAIT to also come up with
what seems like convincing reasons
for NOT APPROACHING.
You will actually start to see
NEGATIVE REASONS that aren't even
REAL, or you will distort the situation
to make it seem impossible to meet
or attract her.
So, DON'T WAIT.
TAKE ACTION IMMEDIATELY.
The fact is, if she does see you, it
will only show her MORE reasons for
her to be impressed by you, because
she will see you ACTED upon your
attraction, you had the confidence
to take the action, instead of
waiting for too long.
Plus, the less you wait, the less time
SHE has to start thinking about it,
in case she saw you looking at her.
If you give her too long to think about it,
then the social conditioning that SHE has
been exposed to might kick in, i.e. the
stuff she has heard about "not talking
to strangers" etc.
But if you act IMMEDIATELY, then she
can instead just FEEL your confidence,
she can ENJOY your sense of humor,
she can ENJOY the fact that a cool
guy like yourself has approached her,
because you haven't given her TIME
to go into ROBOT mode and start thinking
all clinically about the whole thing.
You want her to FEEL GOOD and ENJOY
the interaction, you don't want her
to be in ROBOT ANALYSIS MODE.
Tip Number Three:
BE SEXUAL BUT STAY CLASSY,
AND DON'T GO VULGAR
Sexuality can be a very subtle thing.
It is in your voice, in the form of
speaking with a more breathy, sensual
tonality, and through speaking more
slowly and calmly.
It is in your expression, your body
language.
And yes, it can be in your words to
an extent as well, but be careful
if you do this, to do it properly.
You can playfully accuse her of trying
to pick you up if she shows interest in
you or if she gives you a compliment;
you can playfully purposefully misinterpret
something she says as a sign she just
wants you in bed. i.e. if she says she
is looking for a new bed, you can
tell her that you hardly know her yet,
if she is looking at you, you can
playfully tell her to stop undressing
you with her eyes, etc, etc.
But use less rather than more of this.
Crude humor has reached insane proportions
over the last three decades because of
desensitization in comedy and humor,
which creates the need for more and
more SHOCK to get attention.
So whereas the word for the male
organ may have appeared once or
twice in a joke or comedy movie
in 1985, it now comprises a HUGE
percentage of most comedians'
material and most comedy movies.
This is why so FEW comedians today
are really CHERISHED. Yeah, they
grab your attention for a moment
or two, but they are forgettable.
But take guys like Bill Cosby,
Jerry Seinfeld, and other classics,
and you can see how they aren't
just SHOCKING, but actually PLEASANT
to listen to, and their material is
TIMELESS, it's just as funny now
as it was then.
Similarly, when chatting up women,
your goal is not to SHOCK them
to get their attention, but to
DRAW THEM INTO YOUR REALITY THAT
IS CONFIDENT, WARM, SEXUAL, AND
FUN.
The bottom line is, subconsciously,
most human beings realize there is
something SPECIAL about real intimacy
between a man and a woman that gets
LOST when everything sexual is
'up for grabs' so easily in conversation.
This is something that a quality woman
who values a real relationship will
appreciate. So even though you might
think the world has zero quality women
left, there actually are a few of these
women around, and it's this kind of thing
that will separate you from so many
others.
These are some REALLY important tips
for meeting and attracting women,
and I'd like to help you out with
the WHOLE PICTURE, from approaching
women to attracting them, to keeping
things thriving in a relationship.
The first thing is taking some
IMMEDIATE ACTION, and for that
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Till next time,
Michael Marks
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