The Biggest Secret To Understanding And Succeeding With Women Today

If you are a man who has ever wondered
WHY things are the way they are when
it comes to dating and attracting women
today, then I believe this newsletter may
be the most important thing you have
ever read on the topic.

Knowing this “WHY” element is a HUGE
part of being able to do the “WHAT” element
in order to GET the kind of woman you want.

So here we go:

One of the BIGGEST shocks I had when I
started out approaching women for the purpose
of dating them is that almost EVERY SINGLE
WOMAN I would meet, would do at least
SOMETHING very early on that I found
downright DISRESPECTFUL.

I didn’t even know at the time that this is
something that just about EVERY MAN
goes through with women.

So let me give you some examples of things
I am talking about, because I want it to be
really clear. Also, all these women that
I am mentioning were not some kinds of
EXTREME CASES, these were typical
attractive women, with normal jobs
ranging from teachers to lawyers to
secretaries to entrepreneurs to computer
programmers to waitresses etc, etc, etc.

And  in GENERAL, these women were
NOT malicious, not mean-spirited, and
in fact in GENERAL were very warm,
sensitive, and giving people.

On one first date, a particular woman would
start talking about some male celebrity from
TV and ESPECIALLY TRY TO KEEP HINTING
TO ME that she found him very attractive.

This might sound like nothing, but this was
coming from a woman who was EXTREMELY
insecure and actually thought I was possibly
more interested (I wasn’t at all) in other women
crossing the street when we were in the car
stopped at a light at the intersection.

So I say this to make it clear that anyone who
was so insecure about those things would clearly
understand NOT to “press someone’s buttons”
by trying to stir a little jealousy.

Again, I want to make it CLEAR that OTHERWISE,
this woman actually was a VERY SENSITIVE
woman who was thoughtful and caring and
nurturing.

Another woman, early on the very first conversation,
tried to imply she was only interested in men with
certain Titanic-sized anatomical proportions. 

As crazy as this sounds, this woman also turned
out to be a very NON-SUPERFICIAL person
who was extremely WARM and GIVING.

Another two women, who kept on telling me how
IMPOSSIBLE it was to find a loyal guy, shared
a particular thing in common: Right after being
physically intimate (I try to speak with class here)
they started talking about how HOT certain
celebrities were, both MALE and FEMALE.

And both of these women would have been
SEVERELY HURT had I started speaking
about how hot I thought Megan Fox was
or something like that, especially RIGHT
AFTER DOING THE DEED WITH THEM!

I could go on and on with the REAL REPORTS
from OTHER guys who have told me their own
stories. One guy told me how a woman he was
out with, on a first date, everything was going
GREAT, and then she suddenly called him a
NEANDERTHAL, and not in a “cute” or “nice”
way, because he was TALL.

To me, that is really insane, because if
anything, being TALL is supposed to give
a guy an ADVANTAGE, not a DISADVANTAGE,
with women, right?

And no matter HOW PERFECT a guy was,
in terms of his job, his income, his looks,
his age, his background, NO MATTER
WHAT, I would hear from guys how women
would FIND SOMETHING TO TRY TO GET
UNDER THESE GUYS’ SKINS.

So what the F is going on, right?

We all know that as MEN, we do NOT
act this way toward WOMEN we WANT!

This is the kind of stuff that really makes
a lot of men REALLLLLY ANGRY.

So let me explain to you what is going on,
because it is ONE FREAKY, MASSIVE,
SOUL-SEARING REVELATION.

It’s because women want to PRESERVE
their sense of DIGNITY AND POWER
when they FEEL they are going to actually
be getting VERY VULNERABLE and
VERY NAKED and VERY PHYSICAL
with you VERY SOON.

You see, because we are living in an age
of INSANITY (more on this later below)
where LOVE, DEDICATION, FIDELITY,
LOYALTY, COMMITMENT, TEMPERANCE
IN SEXUALITY, and FAMILY VALUES are
often considered UNCOOL (for men and for women)
and a form of IMPRISONMENT, most women
FEEL they can’t be COOL and immediately also
show a high value for LOVE, LOYALTY, AND
OLD-SCHOOL TRADITIONAL VALUES.

They are afraid if they do that, then that is
the same as saying all they want is to be
barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen and
to never have the vote again.

So, because women feel like they are going
to be SURRENDERING everything they have
physically to you, this is their way to RECLAIM
some balance, some power, some dignity.

If a woman REALLY is not interested in you,
she would just GO AWAY, or ignore you,
she would not put in the EFFORT to
ENGAGE you on any level whatsoever.

When you really want to make someone go
away, you IGNORE them, right?

But it's precisely because a woman feels
she is going to get VERY INVOLVED with you
that she DOES this stuff!!!!!

Of course, there should be NO NEED to have to
do this between two people who GENUINELY
love and respect each other, right?

BUT THAT IS THE WHOLE PROBLEM.
LOVE AND RESPECT and BALANCE
AND TEMPERENCE are NOT COOL
ANYMORE.

Everything is on HIGH GEAR, ULTRA
MODE, ALL THE TIME.

It’s part of our culture.
FAST food.
FAST SERVICE.

LOTS OF SUGAR IN EVERYTHING.
LOTS OF FAT.
LOTS OF SALT.
LOTS OF NUDITY.

LOTS OF PROMISES FOR HOW TO
GET RICH QUICK.

LOTS OF NIGHTCLUBS AND ONLINE
DATING SITES WHERE WOMEN AND
MEN CAN FIND AN INSTANT ONE-NIGHT
STAND.

LOTS OF ADS IN YOUR FACE,
AND IN YOUR EARS, EVERYWHERE.

People have become lazy since they are
bombarded in our culture with messages
GLORIFYING PERSONAL INDULGENCE
WITHOUT ANY LIMITS WHATSOEVER.

Of course, in the same way that too much salt,
sugar, and fat are DESTROYERS, so too is
having an imbalance when it comes to sex,
love, and romance. It has to be a BALANCE
between them, it can’t be too much of one.

So, there are two things to TAKE from all this.

One thing is that, if a woman you’ve just met
or approached or recently started dating suddenly
starts to try to get on your nerves and under your SKIN,
to “push your buttons” so to speak, you should realize
that VERY OFTEN this means she actually is VERY
INTERESTED IN GETTING PHYSICAL WITH YOU.

Therefore, you should not be pissed off, or
angry, or upset in any way.  In fact, you
might even want to calmly look at her
lovingly and tell her the truth with
these words:

"You love me."  

At that point, when you say those words
in a calm, loving, confident way, she is
extremely likely to MELT before you.

The second thing to take from all this is that
JUST BECAUSE SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU,
DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT!!!

And THIS is where I take a VERY DIFFERENT
APPROACH than the pick up artist community.

You see, I am not interested in teaching guys
just how to get physical with women, as
that is like teaching people how to find
food in a BUFFET.  Our current society is
a BUFFET when it comes to that stuff.

There is no PROBLEM finding the physical.

The real goal is how to find a QUALITY
woman that is the TOTAL PACKAGE,
a woman that you are attracted to, a woman
that is kind, intelligent, and that will
ENRICH YOUR LIFE, and that will be a
great partner and possibly a great mother
as well.

And even though all these women who
DEEP DOWN don’t really mean to be
nasty when they try to get under your
skin before they get naked with you,
the fact is these kinds of women STILL
DON’T GET IT. 

The fact is, a woman should be STRONG
ENOUGH to RESIST the crazy culture
that we live in, and to VOICE her REAL
THOUGHTS and TO LIVE THE WAY
SHE REALLY BELIEVES.

So if a woman feels she WANTS genuine
love, if a woman WANTS deep respect,
if a woman wants a man who REALLY
cares for her, she should not be afraid to
VOICE THAT, to CHAT ABOUT THAT,
and to put in the work to SEE what you are
like, and BE CAREFUL about who she
dates.

If a woman is TOO WEAK to do the right
things, that the ONLY WAY she can live her
life is by jumping into bed with you before
she really knows you well, but also making
sure to INSULT you first, she is going to be
a woman who has a very big ISSUE in her life
with you whenever it comes to this particular
issue of TREATING YOU AS A MAN WITH
RESPECT.

She may treat you very WELL in just about
EVERY SINGLE AREA, but when it comes
to a very subtle but important area of you
being her MAN, in the greatest sense of
that word, she will falter.

This is why you must TRULY be "THE MAN"
and INSIST on 100% total and absolute RESPECT.
(I'm not saying to be a tyrant or ask for perfection,
but in the general sense of TOTAL RESPECT
for you as HER MAN, yes, you must NOT
compromise on this issue.)    

Because deep down, she has ISSUES
regarding being PROUD to LOVE and
RESPECT AND BE TOTALLY LOYAL
to her man, and what will then happen is
a NEVER-ENDING SERIES OF PROBLEMS
whenever this issue rears its head.

So, for example, because she is not
COMFORTABLE with TRADITIONAL VALUES,
she may very well feel it’s “okay” to flirt with
some other guy at work. She may feel it’s “okay”
to go for “drinks” with some guy who claims
he is just a friend, since, after all, as a “modern
INDEPENDENT WOMAN who is not barefoot
and pregnant” she can “DO WHATEVER SHE
LIKES, she can INDULGE TO NO LIMITS
on whatever she wants to do, since she is
the one in control”, right?

For the pick up artist community that just
wants to get physical, they don’t care about
these things.

But for the men who actually want women
as life-long partners, for the men who have
real love for women, for the men who want
to raise families, such women are going to be
DISASTERS.

The fact that these women may still be
sensitive, caring people in all the OTHER
respects does not help you when she is
off CHEATING with another guy.

But again, to the pick up artist community,
there is no such thing as cheating, there 
is only sex or no sex, that’s it.

This is why I created get a GREAT girl.
It’s about getting the RIGHT woman.

This is why, for example, in my program
WARRIOR WITHIN, I discuss, amongst
MANY, MANY, MANY VITAL THINGS,
I discuss how to DETECT a woman’s values
and her character IMMEDIATELY, so that
you can SCREEN OUT the wrong women
right away and so that you can detect the
RIGHT WOMEN as well.

By the way, it’s an interesting irony that
even the most DIE-HARD pick up artists
seem to “see the light” and eventually end
up not only giving up the whole pick up
artist thing but actually going in the opposite
direction to an EXTREME and talking about
TRUE LOVE and then having children, etc.

I don’t do that.
I don’t believe in TRUE LOVE in the
stereotypical sense.

I believe in a shared PROMISE and a shared
PASSION.

A man and woman who have PASSION
physically for each other, and who SHARE
DEEP CORE VALUES, including of course
the FAMILY VALUES, as nature really
brought men and women together to mate,
and to feel strongly enough about each other
to stick around together to raise the kids,
at least for a little while, and after that,
as human beings we can use our creativity
to maintain the passion. (I get into that
as well as many other important topics in
my book “Get A Great Girl” on my site.)

Now here is the thing:
Life is not perfect.
Human beings are not perfect.
There is no ABSOLUTE perfection.

So you have to use a bit of DISCRETION
in how much of a PURIST you want to be
when applying these principles.

This is also something I incorporate into
my programs and materials, which is
the reason I have so many different
materials, to cover ALL the possibilities
and ALL the strategies.  

So, for example, a woman might be
scoring a 90 percent with you and
just be engaging in a TOUCH of the
problems discussed, and she might
be a woman who can be REDEEMED
with a bit of an education from you.

But I can tell you that if you are finding
yourself having to TEACH A WOMAN all the
time how to behave, she is the WRONG WOMAN,
and also to be honest with you, if you ARE
going to try to show a woman how to behave,
that TOO is an art, because you can’t just
criticize someone, as it comes across as
mean and it also comes across as insecure,
which are both very counter-productive, so
you have to be very gentle, very humble,
very loving, and yet at the same time
you have to be CLEAR.

Now, get ready for THIS:

There ARE a FEW women around who DO
understand alllllllllllllllllllllllll
this stuff that I have written here.

They are RARE, damnnnnnnnnn rare, but
they are not so rare that you will not still
find them no matter where you are, IF
you look hard enough.

And the good news is this: Since there are
so FEW men who UNDERSTAND all this,
you will have NO COMPETITION AT ALL.

In fact, the MORE that the pick up artist
and sex-obsessed culture GROWS, the
MORE PRECIOUS you become to those
super-quality women that are around.

The REAL “underground society” today
is not that society comprised of the
sex-obsessed zombies, but rather is
comprised of those wise men and women
who see our culture for the insanity that
it has morphed into over the past few decades.

(The reasons for this are something I would
gladly discuss another time, but it has
a lot to do with the human tendency
to need more and more stimulation to
get the same emotional effect, so the
solution is to actually get LESS
of the “over-saturation” style stimulation,
which ultimately forces the emotions to
get more sensitive, stronger, and 
require LESS of a “hit” to get stimulated.)  

And if you are reading this right now and
you are serious about getting a QUALITY
woman, then I suggest you get my most
advanced program geared ESPECIALLY
for this goal. 

It’s called WARRIOR WITHIN, because
it’s all about what is INSIDE of you as
opposed to you putting on some ACT.

It contains 8 DVDs and is the LIVE FOOTAGE
of my SEMINAR on this topic where men came
from several different COUNTRIES to attend.
      
It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

If you would like a private consultation
with me, it would be my pleasure to serve
you and give you the very best of all my
experience in this field.

For a consultation, please email me directly at
michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com

Similarly, if you would like me to
speak with your organization, just
let me know. 

If you are new here, welcome aboard, and
you can find out about ALL my programs
by going here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks