Why Good Men FAIL With Women, And The SOLUTION To This

Today, I want to really help clear up and SOLVE

something that used to DRIVE ME CRAZY and

really hold me back from success with women.

I'm hoping this will help guys out.

So here we go:

On one hand, we all learn as children what

it means to be a GOOD PERSON.  

There’s even a saying that goes along the lines of,

“All I ever needed to know I learned in kindergarten”.

In many ways, it’s true.  Kindness. Sensitivity.

Honesty. Etc, etc.

All great things.

And if you’re like me all, you probably heard

a million times when growing up, that women

just want to meet a NICE GUY.

And then, when it came to REALITY, it really

seemed like that ALL WENT OUT THE WINDOW

when it came to attracting women.

I would see women go for ABSOLUTE JERKS.

I would see guys show what seemed like VERY

LITTLE TO NO SENSITIVITY to women,

even back in high school. 

The guys who got results with the most attractive

women would TEASE women, would NOT

be walking on eggshells around women, and

would be playful with women, and even go

so far as to ANNOY a lot of women in a way

where the women would first say things like,

“You’re such an ass!” and then end up

DATING THOSE GUYS AND SLEEPING

WITH THOSE GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I couldn’t figure it out.

For a while, I thought it was simply that these

guys were in some way “exceptions” to the norm.

I thought maybe these guys were exceptionally

rich, or good looking,  or just exceptionally lucky

that somehow a really attractive woman loved

them in SPITE of these guys’ INSENSITIVE

personalities!

I went on for YEARS trying to be a perfect

NICE GUY with women, showing ABSOLUTE

respect in EVERY WAY, including every

politically correct way as well, and what I mean

by politically correct is that I made sure that

the SEX stuff was the LAST thing I would

be hinting toward or seriously considering

in any near future, since after all, women

publicly seemed to be complaining that all

men just wanted the physical, and how

all men were psychos, and how women just

wanted to meet a man who could see them

in a NON-SEXUAL way.

That really got me NOWHERE WITH WOMEN.

So one day, after being treated like crap by

a particular woman for several YEARS,

the old beliefs I had about women DIED and

a NEW VERSION of me was born, with

NEW BELIEFS.

The NEW beliefs were that women actually

WANTED TO GET PHYSICAL WITH MEN

WHO DIDN’T BUY INTO ALL THAT PREVIOUS

BULLSHIT THAT I WAS TAUGHT ABOUT WOMEN.

So, after going for over 12 years in utter hell

with women, I suddenly found that I had more

attractive women at my fingertips than I could

EVER have time for.

AND JUST ABOUT ANY GUY WITH BASIC SOCIAL SKILLS

CAN DUPLICATE WHAT I DID.

And believe me, I do NOT say this with arrogance;

I say it because of the WAY that I turned things

around. It was simply by CUTTING OUT ALL THE BULL(*&^

I WAS DOING TO CONVINCE WOMEN THAT I WAS A GOOD GUY.

I was super simple with women: I would approach

them DIRECTLY, I wouldn’t SMILE, I wouldn’t

give COMPLIMENTS, I wouldn’t do ANYTHING

nice, I would instead actually do everything

in my POWER to HOLD BACK FROM DOING NICE

THINGS!!!!

And I really MEANT it.

I was not faking.

I really BELIEVED in what I was doing,

I really BELIEVED that women did not

enjoy all that "extra nice" treatment.

12 years of BAD results finally

got me to shed my previous beliefs!

I wasn’t ABUSIVE AT ALL, but I was NOT NICE.

I didn’t BUY anything for women.

I didn’t give compliments.

I really didn’t do ANYTHING, I would just

find some NON-COMPLIMENTARY excuse

to talk to a woman and after a few minutes,

suggest we chat some more and meet up again

IF I FOUND THEM WORTHY.

Often, I would find out something about a

woman in my first conversation with her,

and then tell her things would NOT work out,

and try to END IT THERE.  

I meant it honestly, I was not trying to play a game
or be manipulative.  I honestly felt that I was not
interested any longer in any woman who did not 
meet my standards of behavior, even if they were
VERY high standards that I insisted upon. 

The irony is that these women, would then

REFUSE TO BE REJECTED, and try to

CONVINCE ME WHY I SHOULD KEEP

GIVING THEM A CHANCE.

So, whereas for over 12 years, I kept

trying to CONVINCE WOMEN to treat me well,

to go out with me, to love me, by treating

women like GOLD, now I was getting women

fighting to be with me by me NOT TRYING

TO ATTRACT THEM, and in fact often women

would become even MORE attracted after I

had REJECTED THEM.

Again, I was not TRYING to impress women.

And when I rejected a woman, it was not

a "tactic" to attract her, it was the

way I genuinely felt.

So all this just made me very upset with women,

because it made me feel that they could not

appreciate love and kindness, that they could

not appreciate a good thing when they had it.

Now, I was actually WRONG in my assessment

of women, but you can’t blame me for not understanding

it at the time.

The reason I was WRONG was because most women

are NOT ACTUALLY ATTRACTED to abuse.

However, although women are not attracted to

abuse, the problem is that men were/are told an

EXAGGERATED CASE OF HOW BAD THE

SITUATION REALLY WAS/IS FOR WOMEN WHEN

IT COMES TO HOW THEY ARE TREATED BY MEN.

If you listen to all the women’s programs out there,

you would think that every friggen man is a PSYCHO,

A RAPIST, A MURDERER, A SICK IN THE HEAD

JERK.

If you happened to have gone to a liberal political science

program that covered women’s issues like I did, you would

have been BOMBARDED with messages about how men

are responsible for every single terrible thing on the planet

for all of history.   It’s as if women never experience any

emotion like hate, rage, jealousy; as if all women are just

and fair.

So, OF COURSE, growing up in THAT environment,

if a man BELIEVES all that stuff, he feels he has an

OBLIGATION to show his DEVOTION to a woman

at a level that in REALITY would actually just freak

a woman out and make a woman feel too much pressure.

The REALITY is that not only are women doing

WELL, but in many cases are doing BETTER THAN

MEN when it comes to EVERYTHING, from health,

to relationships, to career, to education.  Women live

longer, fare better with break-ups, and represent a higher

percentage of students enrolled in university.

And if a woman is ATTRACTIVE on top of being SMART,

she is TRULY kicking ASS. 

So, a woman like that is kind of like the SHE-HULK

in terms of POWER and CONFIDENCE.

She KNOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWS

she can get a man to LOVE her.  She KNOOOOWWS

she can get men to get physical with her. 

She KNOOOOOOOOOOOWS she can get it ALL,

contrary to the friggen B.S. told to ALL OF US MEN

as kids!

Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, what this means is

that if you REALLLLLLLLLLLY WANT TO BE NICE        

to a woman, you have to think about what actually

IS rare for her, what IS hard for her to find, to get

in a man.

And let me tell you what that thing is:

IT IS BEING A CHALLENGE FOR HER.

When I first realized this, it PISSED ME OFF.

I wanted women to APPRECIATE THE FACT

I WAS SUCH A DEVOTED GOOD GUY WHO

WOULD NOT CHEAT ON A WOMAN!

I WANTED WOMEN TO APPRECIATE

THAT I WAS NOT THE SCUM OF THE

EARTH WHO WOULD LIE TO WOMEN,

TELL THEM THAT I LOVED THEM,

AND THEN GO CHEAT ON THEM,

LIKE SO MANY MEN I KNEW.

Now, don’t get me wrong.

Women DON’T want guys to cheat on them,

but the FACT IS, most women do NOT have

this as the BIG PRIORITY ON THEIR MIND,

since they KNOW THEY CAN GET A FAITHFUL

MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Or at least, they think they can, because women

don’t understand just how polygamous men

are on a hard-wired level, and most men, unless

they feel loved, appreciated, and respected,

will not stay faithful unless their self-esteem
is in the toilet, or unless there is some other
special situation occurring. (For example,
the man simply abides by a code of faithfulness
no matter what, and that is very, very rare.)

So, when you see an attractive woman, you must

realize what is PRECIOUS TO HER is not the

same thing as what is precious to most men.

Attractive women really don’t care all that

much about you being faithful and not cheating.

They figure they FOR SURE ALREADY HAVE

THAT!!!!!!  That’s why they aren’t worried about it!

They care more about the fact that YOU are

someone who is SO FREAKING CONFIDENT

and so full of LIFE AND FUN, that EVERYONE

WANTS YOU, every WOMAN wants you and

every man wants to BE you.    

I’m slightly exaggerating to make my point clear,

but definitely the point that women want men who

are having such a great life WITHOUT THEM

that any woman would be NUTS to NOT TRY

TO GET IN WITH THAT MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!

And I don’t even mean FINANCIALLY so much

at all. Although DEFINITELY women don’t

want men who are lazy, the fact is, it is a certain

STATE OF MIND that is attractive to women.

And that state of MIND is a combination of

INSANE CONFIDENCE in EVERYTHING,

including with women, but also in general

with everything. 

This is why women are attracted to men who

are NOT AVERAGE.  They want a man who

gives off vibes of BEING MORE THAN

NORMAL.

More CONFIDENCE than normal.

More HUMOR than normal.

More EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE than normal.

More FUN than normal.

Because THAT IS THE CHALLENGE.

For a woman to get a REGULAR GUY

is not a challenge, since most guys are

BRAINWASHED to kiss up to women.

THIS is the reason women respond to guys

that either are jerks or, more accurately,

SEEM to be jerks on the surface.

The TRUTH IS, that when I look back at

most of those guys even back in high school

that did well with women, they were NOT

jerks, not most of them anyway. 

They just KNEW the TRUTH, which is that

most women are not living in some NIGHTMARE

about men, in fact they ENJOY men, they enjoy

sex, they enjoy the attention, they enjoy it ALL.

So since these guys KNEW all that, they

didn’t “feel sorry” for all these women.

They didn’t treat women like VICTIMS.

Instead, they treated women, especially the

ATTRACTIVE WOMEN, as if these women

actually had it TOO EASY, and so these guys

TEASED women, they gave women a kind of

playful hard time.

And so BOOM- ATTRACTION IS BORN

IN WOMEN, because suddenly these women

feel ALIVE.  There is a guy they have to FIGHT

FOR.

Remember, a CHALLENGE is one of the

greatest of all motivators to the human

psyche.

It doesn’t matter where on Earth you live, or

WHAT the culture is, the fact of the matter

is there will be SOME CHALLENGE that

is viewed as a real WORTHY GOAL.

And it is the CHALLENGE itself that is

a big part of what makes the whole thing     

WORTHY.

I guarantee you, if EVERYONE could easily have

all their goals, there would be far less pleasure in

REACHING those goals.

People who endure the “Tough Mudder” events do it

not for money, but for the CHALLENGE of it all.

Being a challenge for a woman has nothing to

do with being a REAL jerk.  It means learning

all the ways to GENUINELY BECOME THE

KIND OF MAN WHO REALLY IS SO

CONFIDENT, SO POWERFUL, AND IN

SUCH A SUPREMELY EMPOWERED

STATE OF MIND that he really IS

a challenge for her.

It is only once you are THAT KIND OF MAN,

that doing things like giving a GENUINE

compliment THEN becomes SUPER POWERFUL.

I don’t like the idea of FAKING.

I personally feel the need to be MYSELF.

So, that is why I worked on changing my

CORE, rather than learning how to PRETEND

that I was someone else.

Also, women, especially attractive women, are

EXPERIENCED when it comes to detecting

whether a man is faking his confidence or not,

because over the course of their lives, women

have had many men approach them. 

Even if MOST men do NOT approach women,

and say, only one in a HUNDRED men approach

a woman, in a world of BILLIONS OF MEN, that’s

still a LOT of men over the course of a week, a month,

a year, a decade, etc., that a woman has had the chance

to practice her "detecting skills" on. 

Women can usually TELL if you are the real deal or not.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks