One of the wild things about doing this
for REAL, having to prove it in real life
in the Real World Bootcamp on a regular
basis, is that I can offer you the TRUTH
on what works to actually get women
attracted, and what is plain nonsense.
First of all, there is a common myth
spread intentionally by many of the
"pick up artists" that "attracting
a woman in places that are not clubs
is much easier than attracting a
woman at a club".
For some reason, there is also this fake
distinction between nighttime places
and daytime places, as if bookstores,
coffee shops, drugstores, grocery stores,
and the rest of the world don't exist at night,
and as if the only places open at night are
bars and clubs.
The reason this lie is spread is because
indeed it takes MORE skill to attract a
woman in a place that is not a bar or club,
and because the commercial pick up artist
industry needs to crank out instructors
like hamburgers on an assembly line,
they can't afford to train their instructors
at the highest levels to pull this off
consistently.
So, rather than say the truth, they just
tend to not emphasise the non-club places
by saying "they're so easy, they're not
even worth your time".
Somehow, I bet this is little consolation
when a guy gets REJECTED when he DOES
try to approach a woman in these
everyday places.
Now, I take guys to BOTH places, clubs,
and everyday places like coffee shops,
bookstores, malls, public transit,
supermarkets, you name it.
I get guys results in ALL locations.
I also prefer to get guys results in
places that are NOT clubs, because USUALLY
the most attractive hotties in the clubs
tend to NOT make for great girlfriends,
(that is, unless you yourself drink a lot,
smoke a lot, and aren't looking for loyalty)
whereas the girls that are gorgeous
who ALSO would make for great girlfriends
tend to AVOID the club attention and
can only be met when they are doing
the things that they NEED to do that
get them out in public "everyday places".
So, to review, the FACTS are:
1. Women At Clubs Are ALREADY Relaxed
About Socializing And Meeting New Guys.
That's a huge part of the whole PURPOSE and
VIBE of a club.
It's about SOCIALZING!
The music, the alcohol, the good times,
is all about ENCOURAGING socializing!
2. Women At Clubs Tend To Be SINGLE!
That's USUALLY the case in a club!
If they were in a real serious relationship,
they wouldn't be getting drunk or tipsy in
a CLUB full of GUYS who are there to HIT
on them!!!!
3. The BAR Is LOWER In A Club
You really can't be expected to develop a
SERIOUS connection in a place that is loud,
crowded and boisterous!
So even a much LOWER level of connection
actually comes across as pretty high
because of the low standard!
4. The Club Hotties Who Are Girlfriend Material
Tend To Be Fewer Than The Hotties Who Avoid Clubs
THE SKILL LEVEL FOR 'EVERYDAY' PLACES
NEEDS TO BE HIGHER THAN THE SKILL LEVEL
FOR GETTING WOMEN IN A CLUB:
Meanwhile, in "everyday" locations,
you have NO IDEA if a woman is single
or not, you have NO IDEA if she will
be warm to your approach to her or not,
and you ALSO have to find a way to
TRANSITION into a conversation from
being a TOTAL STRANGER in a smooth way!
In a club, you don't have to worry about
any of this "how to open" thing, since
the whole POINT of the place is to
socialize and have fun!
This tends to put more pressure on a man,
and he needs to be able to access the
right state of mind even MORE so than
in a club, and he is under more pressure
than in a club to not seem "wierd" for
approaching her!
MYTH BUSTER:
THE OPENER ADVICE OF “SAY ANYTHING RANDOM”.
Now, what a lot of “wannabe dating gurus”
tell guys is to open up the conversation with
ANYTHING RANDOM.
Now, while it IS true that if you are in the PERFECT
STATE of MIND, that you can get away with this,
the fact that this “say anything random” advice is
the BEST they can offer suggests they don’t know
how to CUSTOMIZE what they say for the
particular woman in front of them. Again, this
is the “hamburger assembly line” approach that
comes from IGNORANCE.
Once you are at a high level, you can GET
AWAY with "random", but that doesn't mean
it's the BEST way to get results.
The truth is, there is an INFINITE WEALTH of
perfect things you can say for each situation,
that make it really CUSTOM-MADE for that
woman in that environment at that time, and
being able to do THIS really SKYROCKETS
your results with women!
For example, if you see a woman in a supermarket,
there are so many perfect ways to USE that
environment to your advantage, COMBINED
with using whatever you detect about HER
AS WELL.
I can say all this, because I LIVE it ALL THE
TIME. And not just with myself, but with
PROVING it and getting results for men in
PERSON.
Now, allow me to share with you SIX CRUCIAL
PRINCIPLES for HOW to go about making the
kind of successful approach and interaction
that results in actually getting a woman to
WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN!
THE SIX PRINCIPLES FOR THE APPROACH:
Number One:
Assess The Situation Quickly And Elevate The Mood
Number Two:
Gradually Shift Toward "Real Conversation"
And Set Up The Sexual Vibes
Number Three:
With Genuine EMPATHY, Learn More About Her
Number Four:
Allow Her To Earn Your Respect, And Then Validate Her
Number Five:
Demonstrate Unique Elements Of YOUR Personality
Number Six:
Demonstrate YOUR Passion, And Introduce Your Name
Click here to learn EXACTLY HOW TO APPLY these
six principles, which includes a DETAILED audio
demonstration of a chat with a knockout hottie
that just stepped off a train!
http://getagreatgirl.com/approach.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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