In the real world, effectively meeting
women and attracting them has nothing
to do with pick up lines or putting on
an act- what it DOES involve is REAL
insight into how the mind works, so
let's get straight to some tips you
can use TODAY!
1. USE THE PROPER EMOTIONAL FILTER
One of the most fantastic things is that you
can make almost ANYTHING work to
successfully start a conversation and get
a woman to want to chat with you, IF you
apply the right emotional filter to yourself.
What I mean by this, is that what you say
to a woman can be almost anything as long
as it comes from a place of ABUNDANCE
inside of you.
Think I'm exaggerating?
I'm not.
The reality is that there really are only two
possible driving forces behind every single
action that you or anyone else takes: And that
action is either coming from FEAR or it's
coming from LOVE.
Subconsciously, all humans can DETECT
where you are internally "coming from"
when you are chatting to them. Women
are especially good at detecting this.
So a woman can immediately TELL just
from the tone of your voice if you are coming
from a place of emotional ABUNDANCE
within yourself or if you are coming from
a place of SCARCITY.
If you feel scarcity, if you feel threatened,
you will SHOW it in your tonality.
And humans tend to reflect back whatever
emotional state is being directed at them.
If you are feeling FEAR-related emotions,
you will make a woman feel fear as well,
and she will respond accordingly- she
will SHUT DOWN.
So the first thing to do is to REALIZE that
it's YOU who is creating a lot of the results
that you are getting- it's not just the women
you are chatting to. It's YOU. They are
reflecting back to you what you are giving
off.
One solution is to ALREADY BE IN STATE
long before you are chatting to a woman.
So BEFORE you even LEAVE the house,
you should already COMMIT yourself to
being in an emotional state of LOVE, of
GIVING, of ABUNDANCE, of security.
Practice this right NOW, in front of a
MIRROR. Say something like "hey, how're
you doin" and try packing in as much
feeling of EMOTIONAL ABUNDANCE
as possible.
Love has nothing to do with being needy.
REAL love has to do with GIVING.
So REAL love has to do with thinking of
how you ALREADY have TONS of
abundance.
The truth is, you DO.
Everybody does.
The only thing that exists is LOVE and FEAR.
And you have a choice, everyone does.
If you choose fear, you will get BACK fear.
If you choose love, you will get that back as well.
Notice the expressions on your face CHANGE
in the mirror as you adopt a vocal tonality of
ABUNDANCE, of LOVE, in your voice
as you say even the simple words
"Hey, how're you doin".
This exercise is DECEPTIVELY simple-
it is simple but it is PROFOUND and
powerful as well, and it actually affects
you in a very COMPLEX way.
Say the word's "Hey, how're you doin"
over and over, looking in the mirror,
each time, trying to PACK IN MORE
EMOTIONAL ABUNDANCE, more
CONFIDENCE, more LOVE. And
remember that neediness is not love.
Neediness is taking, it is fear.
Take a look at your favorite singer as
they sing the lyrics to the emotional
HIGH POINTS of a POSITIVE SONG.
Notice the expression on their faces,
notice the effect it has on YOU the
listener.
It COMPELS you to JOIN the state of
mind that THAT person is in.
So just make sure that whatever you say
comes from a place of LOVE inside,
and not of fear.
Practice saying things from this
emotional standpoint- you can say
anything, what counts is the
emotional place deep within that
it's coming from. So EVERYTHING
you say and do must be funneled
through this filter,and it will
then work.
The other cool thing, is that when
you do this, it actually changes
your BRAIN PATTERNS so that you
actually come up with cooler
THINGS to say as well, as
you'll see when you do this
in real life.
This gets me to point number TWO:
2. WHOEVER IS STRONGER IN THEIR
EMOTIONAL STATE WILL DOMINATE
So what this means is that if you are only
half-assed about applying the above advice,
you will be STOMPED on because you
will not be making IMPACT on women,
rather women will be making all the
impact on YOU. And you will be subject
to whatever emotion they are feeling at
the moment- including the negative
emotion that YOU may be giving to
THEM.
So again, you have to be in the right state
BEFORE the moment arises, you have to
be ready BEFORE you see a woman you
want to chat with.
If you wait till you see a woman you
want to chat with, the moment can
be gone before you know it.
So do the mirror exercise BEFORE leaving
in the morning. Listen to empowering music
and MOVE to it before leaving the house.
Motion creates EMOTION.
POINT THREE:
3. ATTRACTIVE HUMOR IS JUST
CONFIDENCE TO THE EXTREME
There are all kinds of humor, but the
kind that works to attract a woman
is the kind that conveys WHAT YOU
ARE FEELING WITHIN IS INFINITE
POWER AND LOVE. And the WAY
to show this is to simply EXAGGERATE
anything POSITIVE about yourself
to the EXTREME.
There is very fine line between arrogance
and confidence, and yet it is a crucial
difference.
Arrogance thinks that you are BETTER
than everyone else. Confidence thinks
you are AWESOME and invites others
TO JOIN YOU at the top.
So, for example, let's say you are making
an online profile, and you're working on
your opening statement- something like
"Warning: Magical Genie Within"
That would prompt a lot of women to say
"hmmmmm, I wonder what that might be"
as they imagine what magical man might
be out there for them...and they'd want
to open your profile and read it.
It's even easier when approaching women
in real life, because rather than just relying
on words, you have your voice, your body
language, your clothing and accessories,
and the ability to interact back and forth
with her.
So you can tell a woman who is eating
in a bookstore, "Excuse me, there is
special policy here on eating, there is
NO eating here" then pause, and say
"Unless you give me some" with a smile.
Again, the humor here comes from your
sense of entitlement and power, and yet
it is clearly a joke, it's clearly not arrogance,
it's just you feeling super duper comfortable
in your own skin- when you REALLY feel
powerful, you actually chill out and can
joke around with WARMTH rather than
nastyness in your humor. Your tone of
voice also plays a key role in delivering
this with love and confidence and security
rather than fear or arrogance.
And if you're reading this right now and would
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You will learn how to do all this in a way
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This program will IMMERSE you in the most
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The program focuses on how to meet
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This is not about how to meet drunken
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And if you haven't downloaded my book,
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Till next time,
Michael Marks
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