The Truth About "Male Status", And The Best Thing You Can Do About It

What you are about to read is so INSANELY powerful for skyrocketing your success with women, and is also so EASY to use, that I am ECSTATIC to share it with you. 

In order for you to get the most out of what I am about to say, it’s important that you understand that I am a man who is not interested in meaningless superficial relationships, and that my passion is about that magical combination of attraction plus a shared sense of values, including an appreciation for spirituality, family, loyalty, and other priceless intangibles.

Please check out this short film I made that is all about this very issue:

In order to GET to that point of having a woman attracted to you, you have to first meet and attract her in the first place, right?

And the greatest single challenge that men have when it comes to making the approach and striking up an effective conversation with women, including women who are total strangers, is an INTERNAL obstacle, and specifically it is a feeling of NOT BEING WORTHY, not being of enough VALUE, including a particular kind of value known as having STATUS.

And it’s really that feeling of having inadequate STATUS that is the real bugger.

This is because, on some level, be it through observation, gut-instinct, or hearing it from other men or women, most men know that having high STATUS tends to get a man respect and a certain amount of “credit” in terms of being a contender in the game of attracting women.

So, for example, if you knew you were the KING of some place, or if you were some top pilot or general or athlete or celebrity, you would probably feel at least SOME kind of status, and even if you didn’t FEEL it, you would know you could USE it.

But here’s the thing: You can get about the SAME IMPACT from simply BEHAVING as if you have status, that you would from actually HAVING the high status, and if you KEEP IT UP, you can actually get MORE impact in terms of attracting women, than you would get if you were some “official high status position” dude who didn’t actually BEHAVE in a high-status way.

And now get ready for this, because here is where it gets REALLY fascinating: 

The whole CONCEPT of status is EXTREMELY MALLEABLE because as human beings, the only reason women CARE about the high-status when it comes to men is because of the FEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELING it gives them.  

That feeling is a combination of protection, safety, and feeling feminine in the presence of a man who is extremely SECURE. 

In other words, high status, as far as it being important in attracting a woman, is really just a FEEEEEEEEEEEELING she has for you. 

How you TRIGGER that feeling doesn't change the bottom line- it is a FEELING.  

It really IS all in the mind, or should I say the MINDS, because it’s not just women’s minds that are in this- it’s YOURS as well, because if you want to do this MOST effectively, then you need to start whipping your OWN emotions into SHAPE- you need to start KICKING your weak emotions and your insecurities in the BUTT.

And let me make one thing super-clear- this is NOT about putting on a SHOW, or putting on an ACT, even if at first it FEELS like that because it is so NEW to you because you have been acting in the insecure ways for so long.

If you think about it, all high status behavior really means is behaving in a way where you are EXTREMELY COMFORTABLE and where you feel no need to either be mean OR to kiss up, and you don’t feel a need to APOLOGIZE for approaching a woman, and you don’t feel a need to LIE to say that you are something you aren’t. 

You also don’t feel a need to put others down,  and you are also so secure with yourself that you are in POSITIVE MOOD, which means you can joke around but also that you aren’t obsessed with trying to be a comedian.

You are TRULY COMFORTABLE IN YOUR OWN SKIN, that’s what it means.

It really is THAT simple.

So, you can approach ANY woman, or any GROUP of women, ANYWHERE- but the problem is most guys end up being THROWN OFF COURSE by any of a HUNDRED different possible things.

So, for example, let’s say a woman says to you when you approach her, “So is this your little game you play, you try to see how many women you can get numbers from by approaching them in random places like this?”

Now, by the way, most women DON’T say things are harsh as that, but even if you DID get a woman saying something like that to you, the truth is it DOES NOT MEAN SHE IS NOT INTERESTED, and in fact what she is doing, whether she intended to or not, is giving you a MASSIVE OPPORTUNITY to demonstrate HIGH STATUS BEHAVIOR.

So, for example, rather than BUCKLE under pressure, and rather than starting to apologize or excuse yourself or try to explain in some weak namby-pamby voice that you really genuinely wanted to talk to her, and rather than you becoming defensive and starting to argue with her, you instead ask yourself what would a man who TRULY FEELS ALL IS GOOD AND SECURE would say. 

Well, he might say something like this, with just a hint of a smirk on his face: “Is it working?”

That tells her a bunch of things at once- it says you aren’t threatened by her comment, it says you have a good attitude and a sense of humor, it says you don’t feel a need to apologize for being interested in her or in women in general, and it says you are calm under pressure.

Now that is HIGH STATUS behavior.

And with a little practice, it doesn’t have to be rocket-science.

And just to prove how it’s not some magic words, but the general idea and attitude, I want to give a bunch of other responses that would be equally effective:

“You’re perceptive, and articulate.  I’m curious, what do you do?”

A response like that shows that rather than being thrown off course or unnerved, you were calm enough to notice that she sized up a situation quickly and is quite good with words, and you are curious now about the rest of her personality. 

And it shows how you can take control of a situation, because you now redirected the entire conversation toward a deeper level, rather than accept her terms of the situation, and you did it all calmly- in fact you even managed to give her a genuine compliment in the process.

By adopting a HIGH STATUS PERSPECTIVE, you start to automatically say the right things and you start to adopt the right behaviors.

You become more PRESENT, since you aren’t worried about her approval or not, since you already feel high worth. So, therefore, you are better able to focus on the moment, and you become more mentally and physically resourceful since your mind is calm and you can think better when you are calm.

You stop accepting all the NEGATIVE MESSAGES you hear from various sources, messages that tell you why you are not good enough, not rich enough, not smart enough, not WHATEVER enough- you STOP letting that crap affect you, and you instead start focusing on EXPLORING YOUR FULL POTENTIAL.

So rather than being worried about REJECTION, you are more CURIOUS to see WHAT HAPPENS, and you ENJOY the process, since at the end of the day, you already KNOW your sense of worth does NOT depend on the outcome- in fact, you start to base your sense of identity on taking action.

For example, in my own development, I remember the WORST FEELING was NOT approaching a woman and then regretting it for DAYS sometimes WEEKS.  On the flip side, if I DID take action, then no matter WHAT happened, I would feel ELATED, because to me the feeling of NOT GIVING INTO MY FEARS is what REALLY FELT AWESOME. Not being a slave to one’s fears is the most exhilarating feeling of all.

And of course, that attitude resulted in me making tons of approaches, year in and year out, and learning new things from each approach, which really helped a LOT.

And one of the COOLEST THINGS I learned is that there are NO RULES, you can basically write your own STORY of how you want things to UNFOLD when you approach a woman, and a woman will follow the story as long as YOU are COOL with it.

Whether that means you want to instant-date her right where you met her at the coffee shop, supermarket, or anywhere, or whether that means you want to things to develop slowly or quickly, or whether you are ready for a relationship or just dating, you can do whatever you want- and although not every woman will be on the exact same page with you, I have found that a lot more women are on the same page as you than you might think- as long as YOU know clearly what you want, and you don’t play immature games like being dishonest.   

Your potential with women is truly UNLIMITED, the only LIMITS are the ones your OWN MIND places on yourself.

And if you would like to learn how to GET to that level as QUICKLY as possible, then this is where I come in: In my live, exclusive, in-person, bootcamp program, I do two things. First, I take care of the whole INTERNAL side of things- how to get your inner state of mind to be at PEAK form.

The next thing I do is teach you the best way to actually APPLY ALL THIS in your interactions with women in the form of DIRECT APPROACHES. I actually demonstrate this for you, and then guide you along every step of the way so that you can do it as well.

By "DIRECT APPROACHES" here, I mean you approach women you see ANYWHERE- women who are TOTAL STRANGERS, and you go right up to them and get them attracted and connected on a deep level.

It gets even better- you will learn how to do all this in a way that LASTS.  You will not have to learn any gimmicks, you will not be using any lies, you will not be doing anything that is inconsistent with who you really are. This way, you will be able to USE what you learn and master in bootcamp for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH ALL THE WOMEN YOU MEET.

Congruency is a HUGE priority for me, both in my own approaches and in the way I teach men to acquire these skills and in the way men USE these skills.

Since the things you learn and master will be CONSISTENT WITH YOUR PERSONALITY, you will feel COMFORTABLE using them on women for the rest of your life.  

And of course, the results will be better too, since women can sense the difference in a man who is congruent.

As they say, it’s a free country. You can go to anyone you want to when it comes to your search for someone who can teach you these skills in the most powerful way possible. But if you are looking for the best coach on how to get yourself a woman who is the total package, I am absolutely certain that I am the best coach for you, and here’s how you can be certain as well:

1. My work has been verified by journalists from the largest newspapers in Canada. 

In fact, one of those reports was made over the course of several WEEKS, where the journalist followed the progress of SEVERAL men who took my in-person coaching.  Almost every single report from the men was OVERWHELMINGLY positive, and the men gave their reports directly to her. The men were not paid one cent by me.  In fact, I didn’t even know what they said about me till I read the report myself in the newspaper.

And, also, on top of this, the report was not made by some cherry-picked journalist of my choosing, it was actually written by a woman who had no reason to make me look good.  She was not paid one cent by me, and she was not anyone I knew or had any relationship with whatsoever.

2.  I have never resorted to gimmicks or “sold-out”.

Throughout the years, there have been all kinds of attraction gimmicks, and I have never been a part of it- even though there was quite a bit of money to be made had I done so.

3. You receive EXCLUSIVE coaching in my bootcamp.

I know that every man is DIFFERENT. So I need to focus on ONE man at a time. In an age where everything is about mass-consumption and mass-production to maximize profits, I know the truth- which is that private instruction and private coaching allows me to help you the MOST.

So bootcamp with me is PRIVATE and EXCLUSIVE.  It's only YOU, and that means every second you are  absorbing more and more, getting better and better, and not having one second of your time used on anything BUT making you better.

There is no dividing your time with other students-the entire bootcamp is devoted to you. One client per bootcamp per weekend.

It allows me to take the time and devote it to YOU, to PINPOINT exactly what YOU need to SKYROCKET your success, and it allows YOU to get the results with women AS FAST AS POSSIBLE.

4. I am congruent- the only thing that matters to me is the TRUTH about success with women, and I stick to THAT.  I don’t have a gimmick- my “brand” is one thing only- THE TRUTH IN GETTING SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.

To find out more about my bootcamp program, just email me at:

michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com

You can also check out my bootcamp page at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

If you would like to learn more about how I can help you get the success you want with women, visit my website at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com

Till next time,

Michael Marks