There is a secret that the vast majority of attractive women won't tell you. I'm referring to attractive women in societies where things changed drastically since feminism became something very DIFFERENT than striving for justice and equality for women.
I also realize there are exceptions to every rule, and that there are indeed pockets of amazing and gorgeous women in society who belong to subcultures that stand apart from the dominant culture.
With that being said, there are five KEY POINTS regarding the secret that I think every man who is looking to meet, attract, and keep a woman needs to know.
The first one is the issue of PROMISCUITY.
If you’ve ever wondered how the heck it is possible to approach
gorgeous women and have them get physical all the way with you in the blink of an eye, the answer is SIMPLE.
More than at any other time in history, attractive women (not all, but far
more than you can possibly imagine if you are unaware of the truth)
change boyfriends with just a bit less frequency than most people
change underwear.
THIS is just ONE of the reasons that attractive women actually
respond quite POSITIVELY to being approached.
The other reason is that they also have the confidence to know that
when a guy is approaching them, they could get just about any guy to
want to be in a relationship with them- so attractive women are very
calm, very relaxed, and very much feel a sense of control in these
situations.
When you combine these factors with the sky-high levels of
promiscuity of so many attractive women, it becomes very easy to see
how it all works. You see, as far as these women are concerned, there
is almost NO downside to a guy approaching them- since the women know they are in the driver’s seat, and they also know they don’t have to offer any kind of actual commitment or long-term thinking.
Now the thing is though, and this is where a lot of men who are
interested in these women go wrong, that doesn’t mean that female
sexuality is the same as male sexuality. Female sexuality, whether
it is a result of culture or just nature, usually requires a bit of a
warm-up before going into full intensity, which is very different
from male sexuality which is either on or off and very little
in-between and usually very little warm-up.
So, even though they are very promiscuous, that doesn’t mean they
want to be approached immediately directly with the proposition of
getting physical. Women tend to want to feel out your personality a
bit more, especially the aspect of you being positive, leading the
way, etc., etc.
A little bit of a positive attitude and a little persistence in the
initial approach and conversation goes a LONG LONG WAY since the bar is set so LOW because these women really aren’t investing anything into the interaction- the guy is doing all the work, the attractive women know they are the ones in demand, they can make the decisions---EXCEPT FOR ONE DECISION- they can’t make a guy NOT be attracted to them!!!
And this is not a joke- the reason it’s so important to understand is
because since so many attractive women are promiscuous and DO NOT WANT TO COMMIT SERIOUSLY TO A GUY, one of the few things they ARE looking for in a man is a guy, who, ironically, is NOT looking to get serious!
A guy who will be COOL with keeping things very CASUAL, and THIS is one of the reasons SO MANY WOMEN say they want to have a friendship that blossoms into a romance- part of this is also their own social conditioning to make them feel that they are not promiscuous, and part of it is also female psychology that tends to mix many things emotionally together, so friendship and romance all becomes this theoretical and attractive concept in their minds even though it rarely ever works that way in reality.
The point is, one of the few things that IS important for a guy to
remember if he IS interested in these women, is to NEVER EVER EVER mention the idea of serious relationships, raising children, fidelity, or anything like that to the vast majority of attractive women- UNLESS you are raising the issue because you WANT to find out if she is the RIGHT kind of woman- and her negative reaction will tell you your answer right away.
Those topics are DEATH TO SUCCESS with these women because they involve THINKING LONG TERM, USING LOGIC, AND EXERCISING SELF-DISCIPLINE IN THE HARDEST AREA TO DO THAT- the hardest area to do that is in the most tempting area- sex.
Think about it: When people get corrupted, it’s usually by power and
by too much luxury and pleasure- and sex is the biggest pleasure of
all. Now imagine an attractive woman who is being BOMBARDED BY MEN OFFERING HER SEX at all times.
It’s TOO MUCH EMOTION for her to resist- and things like LOGIC and THINKING about her future with men and her family and possible potential children are A MILLION MILES AWAY IN HER MIND- FAR OFF IN THAT FOGGY PLACE CALLED THE FUTURE.
And even FURTHER away are any wise thoughts regarding preventing STIs and STDs.
All forms of logic go out the window when enough emotion is stirred.
And sex is the most powerful emotion of all.
If you seriously try to talk about this with these women, it will destroy any possible chemistry.
Remember, emotions are stronger than logic, so she will NOT understand a word you say regarding this topic. She won't understand because emotions have a way of warping one's perspective.
By the way, ANY PICK UP ARTIST WHO IS HONEST WILL TELL YOU AND ADMIT THAT WHAT I AM SAYING IS TRUE.
I like to give the SUPERMAN example. Superman’s powers don’t come
from WORKING OUT, they come from the YELLOW sun of the EARTH.
Back on Krypton before it exploded, Kryptonians couldn’t fly or have special powers.
Yes, I know Superman is science-fiction or fantasy, but my point is
that getting the typical attractive woman to get physical with you is
less a matter of a guy doing hard things, and more a matter of
simply living near a YELLOW SUN- that yellow sun is PROMISCUOUS
WOMEN.
If you are looking for girlfriend who is not going to be flirting
with other guys, who is not going to cheat on you, who is going to be
loyal and supportive and stick with you through good and bad times,
then I can assure you that the vast, vast, vaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaast majority of attractive women you meet are NOT going to meet your standards.
But if you ONLY want to get physical with some attractive woman or
women, then you really don’t need to learn ANYTHING except the
following:
1. That most attractive women are promiscuous.
2. That therefore what they want in a man is just fun, sex, and no serious talk about the future.
3. That even though they are promiscuous, they still don’t want to be LABELLED as promiscuous, so you must NEVER bring this issue up, and you should pretend that they aren’t promiscuous at ALL.
This won’t be easy if you stick around for long enough, because it’s
human biology for a man to have a negative reaction when he sees a
woman he is sleeping with behaving in ways with men that will lead to
her sleeping with another guy.
4. Because of number 3 above, this is why long-term relationships almost never work out with these women.
That is really all you need to know if that is all you want when it
comes to a woman or women.
Once you know that, the rest is pretty self-explanatory. See a woman
you want to approach? Then just do it. Yes, just do it. If you are
concerned about how to keep a conversation going, the main thing is
to realize the bar is LOW.
So there we go, let’s add one more to the roster:
5. THE BAR IS LOW
They aren’t looking for you to be a NOBEL PRIZE winner or some kind
of doctor trying to save the world or ANYTHING like that.
They really are just looking for a good time, honestly, I know it
sounds crazy, but if they were looking for more serious things, they
wouldn’t live the way they do.
You can fumble the ball, you can do so much WRONG, as long as you keep it POSITIVE and you TOTALLY DON’T BRING UP THE PROMISCUITY ISSUE.
Now, don’t get me wrong, because if you flash a lot of money around,
then of COURSE they will want THAT too, and that might even make them suddenly want to ESCALATE the relationship into SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP territory, and I don’t think that is the kind of serious relationship that men really want.
But if you are looking for MORE than that, for a woman who
understands that the idea is for a man and woman to be PARTNERS in
life, to grow together, and if you are looking for a woman who still
understands the importance of the BIG PICTURE, of loyalty, of
fidelity, and of how easy it is for the years to slip BY and for her
to find herself with NO OPTIONS, well then you need to really have a
HIGHER level of skill.
You need to TRULY become effective at starting MEANINGFUL
conversations, and you need to become highly skilled at SCREENING out the wrong women QUICKLY so you can focus your time and energy on the right women.
You need to know what you SHOULD be looking for in a woman.
You also need to learn how to banish the internal demons and
weaknesses that plague all human beings, such as the desire to have
EVERYTHING- human greed is a weakness, it must be harnessed PROPERLY.
So, for example, being with the same woman, even if she is a GREAT
WOMAN, requires some work if you are going to KEEP UP THE CHEMISTRY over time. But it is WORTH THE INVESTMENT, because of what that MEANS IN THE BIG PICTURE.
A life with total chaos and no order is NOT going to be productive
or rewarding- regardless of what the promiscuous crowd likes to say.
They tend to only say that while they are in their 20s,
but somehow that argument NEVER MAKES IT into their
maturing years- which speaks volumes about how misguided
the thinking of youth often is- especially when it exists in a
culture bombarding it with false promises of endless pleasure-
when in reality the higher level of pleasure comes from
MEANING and ACCOMPLISHMENT.
And you won’t be able to get ANY sense of meaning and you won’t be
able to get any ACCOMPLISHMENT when you are a WRECK BECAUSE of a woman.
And if you are reading this right now and you would like to know
ANYTHING about meeting and keeping women, the most powerful step you can take is LIVE coaching with me.
If you want to learn the HOW TO of the actual APPROACH, I’d be
thrilled to show you all this in person on real women. You can learn
how to do this in my exclusive bootcamp program at
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And if you would like to consult with me on ANY matter regarding
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mind, what to do regarding a dating situation you are currently in,
how to know if a woman is being honest with you or not, or ANY other
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Before ending this newsletter, I would like to salute those courageous women who continue to uphold and champion the virtues of honor, fidelity, and loyalty. Not only in action, but in spirit as well.
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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