There is a great IRONY when it comes to
attracting women. Most men think the FASTEST
way to get success when approaching a woman
and trying to attract her, is to know the
perfect "pick up line".
The irony is that this is the SLOWEST
way to get results with women, and
turns the entire process into a
numbers game where a guy will just
have to sweat it out approaching
woman after woman after woman till
finally something "clicks", i.e.
the woman happened to be in a good
mood, etc, but it wasn't the actual
PICK UP LINE that got him the result.
The REAL FOUNDATION to attracting a woman
is mastering the far DEEPER LEVELS of "game",
so that you are no longer leaving it up to chance
but actually SPARKING ATTRACTION.
And I assure you, most men NEVER learn
this deeper level.
Now, I actually UNDERSTAND why most men
never learn this, because as a guy who
spent over 7 YEARS of his life trying
to get dates, especially with the kind
of women he was interested in, and then
not only not getting results, but also
getting his heart RIPPED to shreds, I
got to the point where I felt it was just
too much pain, and I would rather not
even try.
It got to the point that it genuinely
felt to me like there was some type of
conspiracy or bizarre reality that women
were all together on, as if women really
believed that men were the "enemy".
I felt this way because it really seemed
to me at the time that a lot of women
actually were TRYING to make me feel bad-
as if they enjoyed playing sick mental
"games" on me, etc.
Have you ever felt like this?
Anyway, I know I felt exactly like that, and that
only led to me REINFORCING a lot of horrific
ideas about women, which led me to believe in
a lot of the horrifying advice of so called "experts".
These guys really seemed to UNDERSTAND
just how bad the situation was, so I figured
they had the right advice as well, and I
really soaked in their advice.
The problem was that all this supposed "expert"
advice was built around OVERCOMPENSATING for
fear of REJECTION.
This results in behavior such as
tactics designed to lower a woman's
self-esteem, and tactics to make
you come across as a real cocky
kind of guy.
The mentality behind all this is
that if YOU are the jerk first,
then she will have to be on the
defensive, and that supposedly
she will then try to kiss up
to you.
However, the PROBLEM with all this
is that in REALITY a woman SEES
all this for what it REALLY is-
and what it is, is massive
insecurity.
The better the woman, and the less
of a drama queen she is, the MORE
EASILY she will spot this behavior
for what it is.
Of course, if a woman is massively
low self esteem, this type of behavior
might work, but low self-esteem
women are the kind of women
who will RUIN you faster than
anything on earth, as the low
self-esteem sees THREATS in
everything that YOU say to
her, i.e. she will feel that
you don't could never really
feel love for her, since she
is not "desirable" (her own perception
of herself) and that therefore
she needs to play jealousy games
on you to get your attention, etc.
You end up CREATING the reality you
believe in, and if you believe all
women are crazy and that you need
to play sick games with them to
get their attention, that is exactly
the reality with women that you will
create for yourself.
So let me fast forward here- the bottom line is
that I finally learned, and I learned it the long,
hard way, that the thing that was PREVENTING me
from getting results with women was that I was
in the dark regarding my own INSECURITIES.
Now, I am not ashamed to admit this.
The reality is that 99% of what makes the world
go round is insecurities - it's what makes all kinds
of destructive products, services, and entertainment
sell by the BILLIONS of dollars per year.
If it wasn't for insecurity, the economy would
probably COLLAPSE - it would be a total
joke compared to any issues in recent history.
Breeding infinite insecurities in men
about how women feel about them is
what makes entire EMPIRES thrive.
Insecurities are so powerful that they actually
DISTORT your very PERCEPTION of reality, of truth,
they even distort the way you see the most INNOCENT
and BEAUTIFUL things on earth, and I'm not just
talking about a great woman.
So the truth is, it takes a great MAN, a courageous,
brave, MAN with balls the size of MOUNTAINS, to
get OVER his own insecurities.
You see, once you make the jump, you suddenly
UNLEASH a HERCULEAN WAVE of power from within,
you start to see the REAL reason that everyone
does EVERYTHING, and you start to now become
pretty much the equivalent of a MIND-READER.
Now, imagine you could READ a woman's MIND.
Imagine you could know EXACTLY what she is
feeling, fearing, wishing, hoping, wanting, and
most of all, NEEDING.
Do you think this might be HELPFUL to your
SUCCESS in attracting her?
Hell YES, it would be MASSIVELY helpful.
You ever hear how in martial arts, the greatest
masters win before it even starts? You ever
hear how there is such a thing as PSYCHOLOGICAL
WARFARE where the battle is over before it
barely begins?
It's the same thing when it comes
to attracting a woman. If you
master this deep level, then you
will attract her INSTANTLY- it
will usually SHOW within SECONDS.
But you have to truly MASTER this
deepest level of "game" that is
actually not a game at all. The
real "game" is the game that your
own MIND plays on you to sabotage
your results. WINNING against
this "internal game" allows you
to SKYROCKET your results with
women.
Without mastering this area of your life,
the BEST that you will ever be able to do
with women is FORCE YOURSELF to act a
certain way that resembles confidence.
The problem with having to rely only on ACTING
confident, rather than on truly getting OVER
the internal insecurities, is that these internal
issues will create ILLUSIONS that are so
threatening, that you will feel that it's a
MISTAKE to even ACT confident with a woman,
you will feel that the best thing to do is
AVOID taking action altogether.
When you perceive that a woman is trying to
hurt you or that women will reject you, or that
a woman will somehow cause you massive
pain, then this will make you not even feel
like ACTING confident or acting masculine,
etc.
Telling a man to "be confident" with a woman
when the woman seems threatening or a risk to
our emotions, is the same like telling a man to
BE STRONG and stand in the middle of a
street when a huge TRUCK is roaring down
the road! The idea of standing in middle of
the street suddenly seems INSANE, it seems
like asking to be DESTROYED.
It's the same thing with trying to be confident
when in reality you feel there is a PROBLEM
or possible DANGER with approaching a woman,
trying to get a number, etc, etc, etc.
That's why what I will teach you has nothing,
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with just "going
through motions" or learning "pick up lines" -
because I know that those things AREN'T ENOUGH,
and anyway without the right EMOTIONS in you,
the pick up lines will fail anyway even if
you delivered them a thousand times a day.
The fantastic news is that you have TRUTH
and FACTS on your side. The truth is that
you CAN get the woman of your dreams,
and the other truth is that it's only YOU
who is stopping yourself from making
that happen.
Right now, it's YOU who is sabotaging
yourself and you don't even realize it.
If you don't see yourself as a man who is
successful with women, or with getting
the kind of woman you want, then it's
going to be almost IMPOSSIBLE to
ever get that woman. But the good
news is that you can CHANGE the
way you see yourself, you can CHANGE
the way you are perceiving things,
so that you actually start to see the
TRUTH, and that truth is that there
ARE amazing women out there, and
they DO want to meet you, if you could
just DO THE WORK required to get
RID of your insecurities.
And that is EXACTLY what I am going
to show you how to do, based on the
over TEN YEARS that I have been
IMMERSED in this field, I am going
to show you how to apply this technology
on everything from approaching a woman,
getting her number, getting a date, taking
things to a physical level, and keeping the
attraction burning for as long as you want-
ALL this will be shown to you in my program
called WARRIOR WITHIN.
This is a program that you really, REALLY
want to get. It's the chance to finally
get this area of your life taken care of,
on the deepest level, once and for ALL.
This program will allow your FULL POTENTIAL
with women to be unleashed. 99% of men will
NEVER master this area, at best they will
learn a pathetic "pick up line" or two that
will fizzle out before they know it, and
they will feel that women are just
"impossible" to get in the first place,
and that they are also impossible to
be with long-term.
You, however, can be one of the rare
few men who actually HAVE your choice
of women. This seminar will make you
a natural with women because it will
remove all the internal blocks to your
NATURAL ability to do EVERYTHING from
approaching to taking things to a
physical level and to getting into a
serious relationship and KEEPING
the attraction burning for as long
as you want.
If you want the most powerful way to get
all the skills you need to attract the
women of your choice, then get this
program NOW, at:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
Again, this program is not about learning
"games" or how to act like someone you're
not. This program will show you how to become
the very ESSENCE of ATTRACTION itself.
My work in the field of helping men drastically
improve their dating success has changed the
entire landscape within this field. My work
is often imitated, but the only way to get
the REAL thing is by going to:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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