ATTRACTION, FIDELITY, AND FACEBOOK

Fasten your seatbelts, because today you’re
in for something MAJOR. I suggest you read
the entire article.

There’s a ton of DEEP insights today that
have massive implications for improving
the way you go about meeting women,
attracting them, even the very way you
THINK about attraction itself.

As you know, Get A Great Girl is all about
getting the RARE kind of woman who is
not only beautiful, but also warm, and
genuinely FAITHFUL in mind and body.

If you’ve ever been with a woman that you
were REALLY attracted to, and then later
found out that she was being unfaithful,
you already know just how DEEP these
wounds penetrate, and how DISASTROUS
this is to your entire reality for
quite a long time, sometimes YEARS.

It’s even worse when it happens AGAIN,
and AGAIN.

This FAITHFUL thing is exceptionally rare
in the full sense of the word “faithful”
and it is the reason you never hear
about this from the “pick up artist” and
most of the “dating guru” community.

The reason they don’t talk about this is
because it’s EASIER to just focus on
getting “quick short term action” and
getting physical with a certain TYPE
of woman.

Now, I’m not even saying anything BAD
about promiscuous women, it’s totally
fine in my books as long as they are
HONEST about it, that’s all cool.

But the thing is, most guys out
there really DO want a girlfriend
who is also attractive and a fun
person to be around.

Even guys who want to “fool around”
STILL want to ALSO have their cake
and eat it too by having a girlfriend
that they usually lie to regarding
being faithful to her and fooling
around on the side with others.

Even guys who CHEAT would still hate
to find out that their GIRLFRIEND
was cheating on them.

So pretty much EVERY GUY wants a
girlfriend that is faithful and
that is attractive.

Now, the thing to REALIZE here is that
the very SAME thing that makes it
EASY to get “physical” with a lot of
women is the SAME reason it’s
RARE to get a woman who is SLOWER
to get physical and who is actually
FAITHFUL.

The REASON is because, more than ever,
IT’S “in style” to NOT BE THINKING LONG-TERM,
and rather to JUST THINK IN THE MOMENT.

The reason for this is because YOUTH
drive the marketing efforts of most
companies, because most companies
know that if you can get people when
they are YOUNG, they will be customers
for LIFE.

However, the one thing that YOUTH
don’t BEST understand compared to
older people is LONG TERM THINKING
and being more RATIONAL compared
to the two things that drive YOUTH:

1: Raging hormones.
2: Peer pressure.

In fact, these two things, raging hormones
and peer pressure, make up for the vast
majority of ALL advertising of ANYTHING.

Soap, beer, cars, clothing, magazines,
pretty much EVERYTHING.

The hormone component of these ads
are obvious, but the PEER pressure
stuff might seem less obvious.

However, the PEER pressure element is
EVERYWHERE.

Let me give you a prime example:
FACEBOOK.

Facebook really provides you with nothing
special at all.

If Facebook evaporated today, NOTHING
would really change. It’s not like telephones
or cars or email, etc.

But Facebook has the most IMPORTANT
psychological element going for it:
It’s the “Social Network”, i.e.
THE “SOCIAL PROOF” NETWORK.

As in “Oh my god, what if I am not shown
to be COOL on Facebook????”

It’s not a coincidence the guy who started
Facebook was in university at the time,
BOMBARDED by the whole “COLLEGE
PARTY SCENE” and who is the coolest,
etc, etc.

It’s all about people wanting to show they
are cool to other people, and superficially
pretending to befriend others who are “cool”
to show that they themselves are also cool
as a byproduct.

Yes, it has other purposes too, but this is
really how it all started and is what the
underlying driving force behind it is.

And guess what?
The HORMONE component of this IS ALSO
at play, because so many people unfortunately
just want to know “the gossip” who is sleeping
with who, who is in a relationship, who is single,
etc, etc. And of course all this is on Facebook
in one way or another as well.

Never mind the billions of guys who all want
to be “friends” with whatever attractive female
it might happen to be on Facebook, as if they
wanted to be friends and not really just
want to sleep with her.

If nothing else, if they can get to be her
”friend”, it might help provide SOCIAL
PROOF for them to get OTHER women.

In other words, this is all part of SOCIAL
PROOF. Social proof means that if enough
other people are doing something, then
everyone else believes it is the right thing
to do. If enough other people say you
are cool, then most people will now think
you are cool as well, etc.

In fact, because so MANY youth are all
brainwashed, the sheer NUMBER of
them all have ALSO influenced EVERYONE
ELSE, from people in their 30s to people
in their 40s, 50s, etc.

So our entire SOCIETY has become more
wrapped up in the “GET PHYSICAL NOW”
and “DON’T THINK” MENTALITY.

This means sexually transmitted infections
and diseases have SKYROCKETED to the
point it’s almost NORMAL to have gotten
an sti these days!

And it also means that relationships breaking
up is practically EXPECTED amongst most
people.


Let me tell you something even BIGGER:
It also means that because EMOTIONS
rule today with such MAJOR force, it
has resulted in a world where all the
INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY advances
we have made have almost become
USELESS, because the MINDSET is
so ruled by EMOTION that most
people can not tell FACT from FICTION.

Which means LIES can be spread ever
faster than ever before.

So, for example, GOOGLE is a great idea.
However, it’s also almost USELESS in
reality.

If you were to type in almost ANY subject
into Google, you would get about the
SAME amount of TRUTH and the SAME
amount of LIES as your RESULTS.

This is because, of course, there are
people out there making money from
the fact that most people would rather
PAY for LIES that fit into their raging
hormones perspective as well as their
PEER-PRESSURE/SOCIAL PROOF
picture of the world.

Scientific social studies have proven
that people mostly do NOT listen
even when they TRY to listen, because
their perspectives are so ingrained, they
FILTER out anything that does not fit
in with the perspective they already
HAVE.

Now, imagine how much WORSE this
is in a world where emotion is actually
PRIZED over TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The exact same thing of course has
happened in the world of dating advice.

It doesn’t even matter that the various
pick up artists have been proven to
be full of it, because PROOF only
matters to LOGICAL people.

In the old days, people were brainwashed
by hardcore religion.

These days, people are allowed to indulge
in their OWN emotional illusions and no
one will make you seem uncool for being
stupid.

Stupid is in style.

Now that you know that, I can explain
to you the MAIN thing about how to
get “physical quick” with a lot of women,
which is NOT the main point of this
newsletter, as you will see.

It’s just so you know what all the
“hoopla” REALLY boils down to:

1. MEET WOMAN.

This is pretty easy, just go out to a
nightclub and you’re guaranteed
LOTS of women hanging around.

Even better, they’re THEIR to meet
guys in the first place!

2. ALCOHOL

This makes it even EASIER, since
after all, most of the women there
WANT to get physical, and the
alcohol SHUTS down the nasty
THINKING part of the brain.

3. MAKE FUN AND GAMES

She’s there to get physical and have
a good time, so make everything
about laughter and fun.

4. A SLIGHT CONNECTION

Even in the superficial world, it STILL
feels good to ALSO have SOME kind
of connection with a girl, so try to
find something in common that you
both share or even do something
together that bonds you, like
playing a silly game together.

5. LEAD THE SHOW MASSIVELY

The last thing she needs is a guy
who doesn’t “GET IT”, who doesn’t
understand that women are even more
physically aroused than men, that she
is their to get physical, and that she
still expects YOU to lead the show.

This means that you must escalate
towards getting physical and take
responsibility for it and make it
all as smooth as possible.

This is because for some weird reason in
our society, even promiscuous women
are expected to act a bit less promiscuous
than the men she sleeps with. (Which
is REALLY stupid and just causes more
repression making these women even
MORE likely to be promiscuous!)

Now, the thing is, there’s nothing
EVIL about any of those things!

In fact, some of those things are good!

It’s just that it’s not ENOUGH for
attracting a woman who is much
MORE than just another woman
that is attractive.

And THIS is the reason I have written
ALL the above, it’s not a rant, it’s to
let you know just how RARE and how
DIFFERENT a genuine QUALITY woman
Is, AND HOW MUCH INNER STRENGTH
SHE MUST HAVE TO SPLIT APART FROM
THE MASSES OF SOCIETY.

If you want to attract a woman who is
far stronger to social pressure than most,
if you want a woman who is faithful,
a woman who is intelligent, who is not
into drugs or promiscuity, she needs
to see that YOU are THE MAN that
is stronger internally than most men.

Remember, SHE has SPLIT APART from
the MAJORITY of brainwashed society,
and that takes GUTS plus INTELLIGENCE.

So imagine a woman of that fortitude,
what kind of MAN she must be with,
he will have to be EVEN STRONGER
in his INDEPENDENCE from social
proof brainwashing than she is,
if she is to feel FEMININE in his
presence.

She needs to see REAL confidence,
not just LUST-DRIVEN ENERGY.

And there needs to be a real connection
on a deep level, which means, if she
is a total stranger, you have to have
the SKILL to convey a LOT about yourself
in a BRIEF amount of time, doing very
LITTLE yet communicating a LOT.

And she needs to see your PERSPECTIVE
on life and whether it’s a COMPELLING
one or not. A weak sense of this perspective
will DEFINITELY chase away a fantastic
quality woman.

If you have all THAT, well THEN it’s
AWESOME to be able to meet her
and get all into the “FUN AND GAMES”
mentality, because now she feels SAFE
to go INTO that sexual mode with you
and just totally ENJOY it with you.

If a guy asks me if it’s worth it, the
answer I give is simple:

Do you enjoy being betrayed?

Because if you hang out with the typical
young woman who is attractive, she
will most likely just try to use you or
at best it will be a short term thing.

So it’s not even a question of if it’s
worth it or not, there’s no other
choice – it’s learn how to get a
GREAT girl, or nothing at all.

The wrong woman will cost you
a fortune, your emotions, and
your health.

She will DESTROY you.

The RIGHT woman will make EVERYTHING
feel a trillion times more FUN.

What I’ve done over the past several
YEARS is focused only on the things
that actually WORK for attracting a
RARE type of woman.

HOW TO DETECT A QUALITY WOMAN:

One of the first things is DETECTING
a quality woman in the first place!

And guess what?

The truth is that a woman reveals her
ENTIRE personality to you quite quickly,
without her even realizing it.

You can find out VERY QUICKLY if you
are dealing with a quality woman or not.

The trick to this is that you have to be
LISTENING with SKILL.

Yes, with SKILL.
This means your mind is not just passively
listening, but your mind is actually looking
for certain things or the absence of certain
things in what she is saying and doing.

Most people are not only lacking at this skill,
but when you ALSO account for the fact that
most men are so mesmerized by a woman’s
beauty, you realize most men can’t eve HEAR
what she is REALLY saying because men’s
emotions keep putting a HALO FILTER
over everything she says, interpreting
it all to make her a better person
than she really is.

So for example, let’s say you meet
a woman, and she works in media/tv/
film/music/entertainment (and a ton
of women who are attractive DO work
in these fields) and she is talking
to you about her work, and she is PROUD
to tell you how she gets clients to do what
SHE wants and how she makes them think
it is THEIR idea when it is really hers, so
that they will do what she wants, etc, etc.

Now, just about every guy would
think nothing of this. In fact, a lot
of guys might even be IMPRESSED!

Meanwhile, this is a time-bomb
waiting to happen.

This woman is telling you that she
enjoys MANIPULATING people.

She is telling you that HONESTY
is not IMPORTANT to her.

Now, this is actually a REAL example
that a man brought up during the live
taping of Warrior Within, about a horrific
woman who he initially thought was GREAT,
before she tore his heart to pieces with her
infidelity.

However, after making the insights from
this program, he was able to “trace back
the steps” to when he met her, and he
thought back to the things she originally
SAID and DID when he met her.

He then remembered the SPECIFICS of the
things she said, including the details above
about how she, in essence, enjoyed
manipulating people.

He realized how with these skills, he could have
FORESEEN all of this, and would have realized
right away that this woman was a TIMEBOMB
and the last thing on earth that any man
should get into a relationship with.

Most men would never detect the messages
a woman is unintentionally really saying
about herself- whether those messages
are positive or negative.

You can detect a woman’s personality,
through these SKILLS of sifting out
the IMPORTANT things from what
she is saying.

Again, this is a skill that is usually glossed
over as not important, meanwhile it’s
almost EVERYTHING.

Not only does it tell you about the
woman, but if she is a great woman,
you can then use this knowledge of
her character to help understand
her and build a powerful CONNECTION.

She’s giving you all the INFORMATION
about herself so that you can actually
have a MEANINGFUL conversation to
her, that is not manipulative but based
on your real thoughts about her actual
identity- and if it’s an identity you
LIKE, you will be able to validate her
with a genuine compliment about her
actual core identity that you respect.

This forms a FAR DEEPER connection
than just “fluff talk” because it is about
you connecting to her CORE.

The ability to detect what kind of
woman you are dealing with is
ESSENTIAL.

In fact, the reason most people gloss
over this skill is for the very reason
they NEED this skill- they REFUSE
to believe they have anything they
really NEED to listen to or learn,
because they are SO CONVINCED
they already KNOW what they
need to know.

So this belief that they have, blocks out
ANY info that comes in regarding the
need to IMPROVE their listening skills!

And yet, what they know is REALLY
just the EMOTIONS they are feeling,
but they think it’s MORE than an
emotion, so if they feel ATTRACTION
to a girl, they also feel that this girl
must be “GOOD”.

In my Warrior Within program, we go
DEEP on this, and to be honest, just
this ALONE is worth the entire cost
of the program, as learning to detect
exactly WHAT kind of woman you are
dealing with RIGHT AWAY can save
you INFINITE PAIN!

Notice, by the way, that this woman
had NO CLUE she was revealing something
that is actually UNATTRACTIVE.

In fact, to HER, this IS an attractive thing,
that’s why she was showing off about it!

And most men would think the SAME.

This is why you want to learn these
skills that most men do NOT know.

Similarly, if a woman shows you that
she IS honest through the things she
is saying without even trying hard,
you can spot the RIGHT woman.

Remember, people reveal themselves
because they have no idea that their
negative behaviors ARE negative.

If they realized it, they would CHANGE.

And NO ONE can force them to realize
it unless THEY THEMSELVES are open
to changing and learning.

This is why I find it ludicrous that the
pick up artist crowd likes to pretend
that their advice ALSO works to get
ANY woman to become a girlfriend!

Complete and total b.s. unless by
“girlfriend” they mean cheating
girlfriend.

Getting a GREAT girl, especially these days,
is truly an entirely different CATEGORY of skill,
and it does NOT mix with the mainstream
concept of “success with women”.

And as powerful as this newsletter is,
it’s barely scratched the surface of
the FULL SPECTRUM on how to get a
quality woman. This newsletter just
touched the surface on DETECTING
a quality woman, and there is so
much more on this, plus all the
information on actually ATTRACTING
her as well.

Remember, a rare quality woman that is
APART from the majority of the masses
is very DIFFERENT in what attracts her
than all the other typical women.

If you’re ready to meet 'the one' and get
a fantastic woman who would be a great
girlfriend, I seriously suggest you get
my 'Warrior Within' program on DVD.

You will learn not only how to “see” what
kind of woman you are dealing with,
which will save you immense time and
energy, but you will also learn the truth
on how to UNLEASH all the deepest levels
to your INNER GAME to attract her and
KEEP her as well.

This isn’t “lust-driven” confidence.

It’s about being the kind of man that
stands APART from the vast majority
of men, because his power comes
from WITHIN, not from “social proof”
or any other gimmick.

THIS is the kind of man such a woman
CRAVES, and this program will show you
all the REAL-LIFE ways of developing
these skills.

This program has zero gimmicks.
It's ALL SOLID CONTENT.

She’s out there right now, looking for
the man who understands what’s in
this program. Let that man be YOU.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you still haven't downloaded my program,
"Being The Selector" then do that now. 

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/selector.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks