How To Beat The Odds And GET The Woman You Want, or: Hot Women Wear Headphones For A REASON!

I would be incorrect if I said that
online dating is always a mistake. If
you MUST be 24 hours a day, 7 days
a week, in locations where there are
no women, then online dating makes
sense.

If you are very shy and would like to
start with talking to women online
instead of in person, this might be
a good idea for some guys as well.

HOWEVER, otherwise, the EFFORT and TIME
that must be spent to find the right woman
ONLINE over weeks and possibly MONTHS if
not YEARS is actually FAR, FAR GREATER
than what it takes to just go for a stroll
and meet a TON of incredible women in
just one AFTERNOON.

This is another reason why taking BOOTCAMP
with me is so powerful: It is because you
learn how to waltz right up to women
and attract them on the SPOT.  And it is not
some kind of THEORY; you actually get to
PROVE IT in front of your own EYES.

Any by "PROVE IT" I mean the following
kinds of things happen:

1. The woman gives you her email.
2. She gives you her number.
3. She buys you a drink.
4. She gets girly and giggly with you
even though you are not super funny.
5. She kisses you.
6. She makes out with you.

Number 6 tends to happen more in clubs,
but in general, the bottom line is that
you can TELL the women are actually
INTERESTED instead of just saying
things such as, "I have to go".   

Focusing your energy on meeting women online
tends to also make you needy as when you finally
meet a woman you are interested in online, you
start to get insecure if she does not respond
right away, and it does not help to know that
if she is attractive or even not so attractive
she probably has a thousand messages in her
inbox from other guys because it is SO EASY
for any guy to just click SEND and send a
message to her INBOX.

Meeting women and approaching women in person
takes a lot more SKILL and hence you get rid
of most of the so called "competition".

PLUS, by getting lots of women from meeting
them in person from cold approaches, you
also become SUPER EMPOWERED AND CONFIDENT
AND SECURE and if you DO decide to go back
to online dating, you actually COMMUNICATE
in a way that SHOWS you are not needy
and in a way that shows you are fun.

It will then show even in your messages
back and forth with women on the online
dating site.

It will also show in your profiles online,
because it is EASIER to put up a playful,
confident, or intriguing profile when you
are feeling EMPOWERED with women as
opposed to feeling NEEDY.

However, what you are at your best online
is NOTHING compared to what you are at your
best IN PERSON. You have MUCH MORE POWER
to attract in PERSON.

And when you see how many women you have
choices from when you master the skill of
approaching in cold approaches, you will
not feel the desire to go back to online
dating.

Online, a woman does not get to feel your
personality since she does not get to see
your body language, your expressions, your
tonality, etc.

You lose some of the HUMAN TOUCH online.

But in REAL LIFE, you get to reveal WAY MORE
PERSONALITY, way more of the HUMAN TOUCH.

NUMBER TWO: HOT WOMEN, HEADPHONES, MOVING 

If you look around at hot women, you will notice
a LOT of them have headphones on, and you will
notice they do not often stay STATIONARY in
one place for long in places like malls or
stores, etc.

Some guys complain about this, saying it
makes it harder to approach women.

I used to be one of those guys.

But guess what?
Women being hot and being harder to STOP
and to get them into chat mode compared
to getting other women to stop and chat
is NOT a coincidence.

Hotties NEED to make themselves harder to stop
or they will never get to move through the world
without spending ALL DAY talking to EVERY GUY
that sees them.

The HEADPHONES is PART of that.
The headphones are SAYING, "I'm in my own world,
please leave me alone".

So if you DECIDE TO GIVE INTO THAT, you have
just made yourself part of the MAJORITY of
men who DO NOT GET ANYWHERE with her.

Similarly, these hotties MOVE around more, they
KNOW if they stop for long enough, FOR SURE
they will get a LOT of men who have no clue
about how to behave, and ALSO that these men
will get upset if she has to leave without
giving them the number, etc.

So hotties PREVENT a lot of problems this way. 

DO NOT GIVE INTO THESE ARTIFICIAL BARRIERS.
JUST OPEN UP THE CONVERSATION ANYWAY, and
do it RIGHT.

Women know you are approaching them, just make
sure you approach them in a way that makes them
GLAD you did.

THREE: CONGRUENCY

There's one more thing I want to mention today:
It is all about something known as CONGRUENCY.

When opening up a conversation with a woman
who is a total stranger, you can SCREW IT ALL
UP even if you do EVERYTHING ELSE RIGHT but
you fail to show CONGRUENCY.

Congruency simply means that your WORDS are
CONSISTENT with your BODY LANGUAGE and tonality.

So, let's say a guy is at a bookstore and starts
chatting to a woman about a book she is reading
and he PRETENDS to be interested in the book
but he is not really interested in it.

Most likely, his FACIAL expressions will reveal
some discomfort or disdain or boredom with it,
from the way his eyebrows furl or the crinkles
in his forehead or the way his glance moves
around unsteadily, or the way his voice shows
a lack of genuine interest, etc.

On the other hand, if a guy actually SAYS
that he knows NOTHING about that topic but
is curious what she finds interesting about
it, he will sound CONGRUENT if this is the
truth about the situation.

A woman sensing CONGRUENCY in a man is a BIG thing.

One of the BIGGEST problems in "pick ups" or
'cold approaches' on women who are total strangers
is coming across as "sketchy" - as UNTRUSTWORTHY.

Women WANT to meet men, but they also want
to be SAFE.

So a guy who is the most innocent guy in the
world, and who just wants a woman and just
wants to impress her, but who is not being
CONGRUENT with her, will trigger her ALARMS.

She does not KNOW the reason he is not being
congruent is rather innocent, i.e. that he
likes her. All she knows is something is NOT
true about the situation. 

This is a bit similar to how dogs sense a
person's fear, and it often agitates the
dog, even if the REASON the person feels
fear is BECAUSE of the dog, and not because
the person wants to attack the dog!

All the dog knows is that something is WRONG.

The flip side is also true.
If you are being CONGRUENT, you can use almost
ANYTHING to get a woman into you.

Here's an example from bootcamp:
At a store, the song "Fields of Gold" by Sting
was playing softly over the loudspeakers.

In the moment, I just felt MAN, THIS SONG IS
REALLY CLASSIC STUFF, IT'S CALMING, IT'S
GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD STUFF.

So I just turned to the woman, who was in middle
of her own thing, reading a book, and I said,
"Isn't this song beautiful?"

And I MEANT it. 
I said it SLOW, and said the word "beautiful"
as if the word beautiful was ITSELF sacred.

I was truly totally congruent with it.
I've loved that song since it first came out.

And now she FEELS it.
She is soaking it in.

And she goes "Yes, it really is".



This woman was YOUNG, so I said the next totally
TRUE and congruent thought I had, which was:

"That's pretty cool you know this song,
because you seem pretty young".

So then she tells me that she has her parents
to thank for that, they brought her up with
great music. We chat a bit about how Lady Gaga
was actually influenced by her parents who
played their music around the house, including
music by Bruce Springsteen, etc.

At that point, I introduce myself and
extend my hand. She smiles and introduces
herself as well as we shake hands. We
continue chatting about things that
RESONATE such as having classic values,
timeless music, and inspiration.

I use this example because it was NOT
genius, it WAS however very CONGRUENT.

Being totally congruent also means you
do not use pick-up lines, because pick-up
lines run the risk of a guy feeling he
is "doing an act", which means not being
congruent to his real identity.

After a while, I had to end it, because
the point was illustrated and my client was
ready to do some more approaches of his own.

(He got the number of a sexy, slim but shapely
woman who wanted him so badly that she was
not afraid to reveal she had NO PLAN for
SATURDAY NIGHT and wanted to know what HE
was doing! And to prove it was a real  number,
he actually called her right away, and her
phone rang on her right then and there!)

And if you are reading this right now, I
promise you that what you have just read,
as powerful as it is, is just the TIP
of the ICEBERG.

My "Real World BOOTCAMP" is going to equip you with the skills to attract more women in one WEEK than most men attract in a LIFETIME.

Bootcamp is a bit like THE MATRIX.
You will see that YOU create the
results that YOU want with women, and
that there are NO limits.

You get to benefit from over TEN YEARS
of my dedication to these skills and to
teaching these skills.

Email me with possible weekends that work for
you and I will let you know if any of them are
still available.

Bootcamp is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

And if you don't already have the following
two ESSENTIAL programs, get them IMMEDIATELY:

"The Dating Wizard" E-Book:
This book is the FIRST thing to read.
It is an ABSOLUTE MUST.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html    

"Acing the Approach":
This program shares my LATEST strategies
for succeeding at the art and skill of
approaching and attracting women who
are total strangers.

It's at:  

http://getagreatgirl.com/acing-the-approach.html   

Till next time,

Michael Marks    

The Most POWERFUL Thing You Can Do To Attract Women

There are a ton of things I want to share with
you today, but due to a lack of time I’m going
to focus on one SUPER important thing today
regarding attracting women.

Without exaggerating, I honestly think this
is the absolute most important newsletter 
on this topic that I have ever written, even
though it’s going to be pretty quick.

Here it is:

If you want to get super-hot women to be
CRAZY attracted to you, if you want to have
that feeling of knowing that your super-hot
girlfriend can’t WAIT to get naked with you,
and if you want to be able to have TONS of
choices with attractive women, or if you want
to KNOW that these women are DESPERATELY
IN LOVE with you, then you must actually BLOW
APART YOUR NEED FOR LOVE, APPROVAL,
ASSURANCE, AND SECURITY.

And you must do this NOT from a place of ANGER,
or SADNESS, or BITTERNESS, but rather from
a place of DETERMINATION and WISDOM and
UNDERSTANDING.

You see, the problem is that a lot of men mistake
the word 'love' for 'unselfish love'.

The truth is that pretty much ALL love is selfish,
and that is not a bad thing, it just is what it is.

When a mother CARES for her child, and tries
to make the child feel good, on a subconscious
level, she knows this is GOOD for the child,
and will improve that child’s chance at survival.

The child will carry her DNA and hopefully
REPRODUCE to carry ON her DNA.

But when a woman is looking at the MAN
she will REPRODUCE WITH, she is hoping
that all that work this man’s mother did has
paid off into making him at THIS point in
his life a MAN who NO LONGER needs
“mothering”.

But a lot of men kind of are hoping that the
WOMAN in their romantic life will give them
the SAME TYPE of warmth, dedication, and
CARING that their mom did.

Now, here’s the crazy part: IF a woman senses
that you INDEED really ARE “THE MAN”
then this STRIKES the very CORE of her
sexuality, it truly makes her WEAK with
ATTRACTION for you.

And now that she is ATTRACTED, guess what?
NOW she wants to MOTHER you, she wants
to do ANYTHING to make sure you are
absolutely, totally, completely HAPPY with
her, satisfied with her, and THINKING about
her.

She’ll now do things that are almost IRRATIONAL
in terms of LOVE, of GIVING, of SACRIFICING
herself in order to make you HAPPY.

She might even make a lot of MOTHERS look like
NOTHING compared to the intensity of sacrifice
and effort she will make to MAKE SURE YOU
ARE HAPPY.       

However, unlike a typical mother, if you SCREW UP
on being a MAN, you are TOTALLY SCREWED
in the sense she will pull a 180, she will totally
LOSE attraction and do almost ANYTHING to
get AWAY.  All those words of LOVE and
commitment she may have said will be
VAPORIZED in a NANO-SECOND and she
will likely DENY she ever even SAID those
words, and it’s even POSSIBLE that she may
very well BELIEVE that there is no WAY
she could have EVER really fallen for you,
that somehow this just was a big mistake
where she got fooled or something.

So REMEMBER- if you WANT the love,
if you WANT the attraction, if you WANT
that hot woman to be CRAZY for you, then
you must beat the SH*! out of the part of yourself
that thinks it NEEDS this kind of ‘love’ from
a female that you plan on mating with.

ONLY then, ironically, will the love flow,
her sexy legs spread, and her devotion show.

I say this NOT to be crass, but to be HONEST
about a topic that is so important and yet so
ignored.

It is so vital to also realize that none of this
makes women crazy. It ACTUALLY makes
women very NORMAL because THIS way
they can feel a lot more secure that the
CHILDREN they produce with you are
likely to be SURVIVORS and WINNERS
in the sense of making it in the evolutionary
chain of generations, and of making it in
a form of “dna” genetic immortality that
can carry on and on.

So, what this means, is that women a woman
who is HOT is not giving you love, this is
the PERFECT TIME to show that you are
THE MAN even MORE.

But what do most men do?
They either crumble with their head between
their legs, or they try beg the woman to be
“nicer” as if their emotions depended on
the approval of these women.

And yet, doing this only FURTHER cements
women’s feeling that CLEARLY this guy  
is NOT the guy who they should be mating
with.

And again, this is not something that women
CONSCIOUSLY do.  I’m just telling you that
this is the EVOLUTIONARY HARD WIRING
for the REASON they feel this way, i.e. feeling
REPULSED even if the women don’t know
exactly WHY they feel repulsed by it.
And also, women don’t KNOW they are even
being repulsed by the specific BEHAVIOR,
they just feel an AVERSION to the MAN
that behaves this way. 

This all makes sense once you understand that
EMOTIONS were DESIGNED to ensure humans
(or animals) take the right ACTIONS immediately.

When a woman feels the EMOTIONS of being
REPULSED, she is sure to NOT waste any time
even THINKING about whether she should or
should not be with that guy. 

Her emotions just TOTALLY DRIVE HER TO
GET AWAY FROM THAT GUY IMMEDIATELY.

And, the opposite is ALSO true:
Show the RIGHT behaviors, and her EMOTIONS
kick in to WANT that man no matter what ELSE
is going on.

So the next time you see a hot, leggy, gorgeous-faced
woman in clothes that reveal just the right amount of
sexy, remember what ATTRACTS HER and what turns her
OFF. 

This isn’t about what you would LIKE.
You might LIKE for her to be really soft and nice
and treat you with kid-gloves and assure you that
everything is going to be great, and that she likes
you, etc, etc, etc.

But that is not the way it works.
And deep down, that is not really the
MAIN thing you want.

It’s about what you really WANT:
You really want her because she is a WOMAN,
and an attractive one at that.  In other words, this
is a PHYSICAL thing, it really is all about the
MATING, whether you are conscious of it at
that second or not.

And if you WANT that sexiness to be all YOURS,
then you better MAN UP instead of hoping to be
treated like a nice little boy is treated by his mom.

That means if you approach a woman, let's say
at a bookstore, and you open up a conversation
with her, and she's NOT showing lots of excitement
or doing cartwheels right off the bat, you should
NOT run away.

In fact, her brain may very well be GOING INTO
HIGH GEAR knowing that this might be a situation
leading to the most wild and satisfying and
wonderful experience of her life.

OR it might be another time she is meeting just
another scared little BOY.

You have to understand that this is what is going
on in her mind, but she is not going to tell you
all this.

Remember, as a woman, all she has to say is YES
and most men would LOVE to jump in the sack with
her IMMEDIATELY.

She is not an idiot. She knows what is going on.
She needs to see if you are THE MAN for her.

If you run for the hills before she has even
had a chance to see if you are up for the task,
then she thinks you are NOT the MAN.   

And if she does something like TEASE you for
CHATTING TO HER, this is FANTASTIC news,
because it means she is interested enough
to TEST your response to her, and your response
counts 'A PLENTY', as they say.

The way you respond to her SHOWS HER what kind
of man you are.  It almost does not even matter
what she says, what matters is what YOU say in
response to convey the STRENGTH of your CHARACTER.
   
So if she says 'You know, this has happened twice
to me today', most guys will get freaked out, thinking
'Oh damn, this woman gets hit on so much and now she
is thinking I am just another one of those guys, there
is no WAY I am going to get her number and end up in
bed with her'.

And yet THIS FEAR AND THIS ATTITUDE is exactly what
SELF-DEFEATS MOST MEN!

So most men will reply with something like
'Really? Oh man, well I'm sorry, I just was
making conversation' if they even say anything
besides sorry.

Meanwhile, the MAN would say something like
'Really? Man, those guys must have been feeling
sorry for you'.  And the MAN would say this with
a SMIRK.

And if she said something back like:
'Excuse me, sorry for me?'

The MAN would respond with, 'You're excused, but
do not do it again'.

With every passing SECOND, the MAN is now
making this woman get WETTER AND WETTER,
and all she is hoping for is that this
guy is for REAL and not going to suddenly
turn out to be a little scared boy later
on.

When you behave this way, and show that you
are POWERFUL and FUN and NOT NEEDY, and
emotionally independent, she starts to
get overwhelmed in that way that only
be called the most glorious seduced
feeling in the world.

She can feel herself falling, she WANTS
this feeling, it is SO RARE for her to
MEET the man that GETS ALL OF THIS.

You are THE MAN, and it is ONLY the MAN
who will attract the SEXUAL element in a
WOMAN.

Do anything else, and it’s ‘JUST FRIENDS’ at best.
In fact, getting a woman attracted has almost
nothing to do with her being your FRIEND.

When a woman is ATTRACTED to you, she does good
things for you not because she wants your friendship,
it's because she wants to POSSESS YOU. 

And I say that in a GOOD way.  She wants you so bad,
that she can't WAIT to surrender her body to you
again and again and again.  She wants to rock your
world in the bedroom, she can't stop thinking
about you. And she wants YOU to be thinking about
HER.

She will go to the ends of the Earth to try to
get you to think about HER, to spend time with
HER.

That is not friendship, that is PRIMAL ATTRACTION.      
She couldn't really care less about Facebooking
your or sharing coffee or tea. She wants you
in a far more compelling way.

This is one of the reasons my first book,
The Dating Wizard, hammers home the
point on BEING THE MAN.

You must BE the man even when she insists she
doesn't WANT you to be the man, because it is
THE MAN that she wants!  As long as you are
the MAN, she is having wild fantasies that
keep her wet all the time, even if she is
arguing with you sometimes about wanting you
to be LESS of the man.

But when you are NOT being the man, and
becoming all soft and needy and insecure
and weak, suddenly she 'needs more space'
and more 'time to discover herself', etc,
etc, etc. 

Now, here’s the thing thing though:
It’s not as SIMPLE as ONLY being the MAN.

Being the man IS SUPER IMPORTANT.
It is the FOUNDATION.

But when picking up women, if you don’t ALSO
understand that female culture has evolved in
a way where women feel the need to show they
are NOT easy, you will also make no progress. 

Women have evolved this way because men
tend to NOT want promiscuous women to be
the mothers of their children.

So, one ON hand, being a MAN is the key
to attracting women.

On the other hand, if you are too overtly sexual
in your pick-up, if you are too aggressive, you
TRIGGER her ANTI-SLUT DEFENSE SHIELD.

This invisible shield is something she uses to
metaphorically BLOCK you from making
any progress with her in order for her to
PROVE to you that she is not a slut.

She wants to show that being AGGRESSIVE
is not very IMPRESSIVE to her, because LOTS
of guys suddenly get aggressive when they want
something, i.e. wanting HER. 

If she were to give sex to every guy who showed
a little bit of DESIRE to her, even if it is MANLY
desire expressed without apology, she would spend
her entire life on her back.

And THIS is just one area where having the right
COACH, having the right TRAINING, becomes
ESSENTIAL.

Picking up women, and KEEPING women attracted
long term, requires UNDERSTANDING and SKILL.

Let’s face it, if there’s ONE area that men have
competed against other men in since the beginning
of human history, it’s in the area of attracting
WOMEN.

There is no FINER or more WORTHY area of
getting the UTMOST skill and MASTERY in,
than the area of how to attract women.

It is for this reason, that I SERIOUSLY suggest
you get my ATTRACTION MASTERY PROGRAM.

This program contains approximately 12 HOURS
of my most POWERFUL strategies and concepts
for attracting women no matter WHERE you find
them, and no matter WHAT situation you are in.

This program has been designed to get men to
become GREAT  at attracting women.  When
you become GREAT at attracting women, this
serves as a powerful foundation for all your
other success with women, including relationships
and marriage. 

This way, if you decide to enter into a relationship,
or marriage, or if you decide to spend more time
on a particular woman, it will ONLY be because
you actually KNOW she is THE BEST CHOICE,
and NOT because you felt insecure that you
couldn’t get anyone else.

Insecure relationships are usually DOOMED
because the insecurities ultimately SUFFOCATE
the other person and stir resentments as well
as a lack of appreciation in the other person.

My ATTRACTION MASTERY PROGRAM is an absolute
MUST have, and it is ESSENTIAL material that
you won’t find in any of my other programs.

You can download it and be using it to attract
the women of your choice in just MINUTES
from now by going here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

And if you haven’t yet downloaded my book,
“The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women”
then do that immediately.    

It’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

BOOTCAMPS are currently sold out for February
and March, but there are a few spaces left
in April. Book your spring bootcamp NOW.  

Let me sum up bootcamp in one sentence:
YOU WILL LEARN HANDS-ON, IN THE REAL WORLD,
AS I COACH YOU, ONE ON ONE, ON 'PICK-UP'
ON WOMAN AFTER WOMAN AFTER WOMAN AFTER WOMAN
UNTIL YOU GET THESE SKILLS DOWN SOLID.   
 
BOOTCAMP is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html   

Till next time,

Michael Marks

POWER - "The Ultimate Aphrodisiac"

Many years ago, Henry Kissinger said the
following words:

"Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac."

Indeed, power is attractive, and you can almost
NEVER convey TOO MUCH POWER to a woman.

Ironically, when most men approach women
who they want to attract, the men behave as
if they are walking on EGGSHELLS with
women.

In other words, men behave as if WOMEN must
be treated super-delicately and cautiously.

This type of behavior is MISGUIDED.

It would NOT be misguided if we really WERE
living in a society where women did not have
equality.

It would also make sense in an environment where
most men really WERE bad to women, so that
women really REQUIRED a man to show
he is not abusive.

In such environments, men walking on eggshells
in their initial interactions with women would be
APPRECIATED by women.

But since women in our society DO have equality,
and since most men are NOT bad to women,
behaving this way is very UNATTRACTIVE. 

It prevents men from giving off the VIBES of POWER.  

And make no mistake about it, women are
ATTRACTED to vibes of POWER.

Now, I UNDERSTAND the mistake most men
are making, as I used to do it myself.

I was SO worried about doing the WRONG
thing, I was so worried about trying to show
that I was NOT a psycho, that I was NOT
a rapist, that I was not just interested in
a woman for her body, etc., etc., etc.

All this was because for my entire life I was
IMMERSED in the popular culture that tells
men how TERRIBLE men are in the way that
they treat women, from things like sexual
harassment to cheating on women, to not
viewing women as equals, etc., etc., etc.

So the picture I got as a child and young adult
growing up, is that women just want a NICE GUY
who will RESPECT them and NOT cheat on them,
and who won't be too focused on the SEXUAL,
because "women just want to be viewed as equals".

Again, I need to repeat, this thing about how so many
women complained that men are a bunch of CHEATERS.

This is a HUGE thing that men have heard from women
from the time they were little boys all the way into adulthood.

So all this results in men behaving in a SUPER CAUTIOUS
way with women, showing ultra-high level respect and not
taking any risks that can POSSIBLY be misinterpreted.

Men end up trying to PLEASE women to the ultimate
degree in the effort to show that men DO sincerely
and genuinely care about relationships and about
being faithful and about looking at women as equals.

Men will answer any question women ask, men will
give over all the power to women in an effort to
SHOW good faith.

MEN ARE GIVING UP THEIR OWN POWER. 

This would be OKAY if we really WERE living in a world
where most men were BAD GUYS with women.

Because if that were really the case, then women would
APPRECIATE all this "giving up power" because men
would be having SO MUCH power that giving up power
would just be a way to restore SOME form of BALANCE.

But the FACTS ARE that actually most men are NOT
bad guys at ALL with women.  MOST MEN are actually
pretty damn GOOD to women.  And the men who ARE
the "bad apples" who abuse women are no more numerous
than the "bad apples" among women who abuse MEN.

Women are attracted to men who convey power,

but men are giving AWAY that power!

And by power, I am referring to the power that you
ALREADY possess but you don’t realize it.

That power comes in the form of NOT giving
up your various forms of power with women.

One way of giving up your power is by
behaving in a NEEDY way with women.

Another way of giving up your power is by
OVER-VALIDATING a woman who has
NOT earned it.

Another way of giving up your power with
women is if you feel you need to ANSWER
every single question a new woman asks you,
if she is asking it in a way that reeks of her
thinking the following:

“I’m the one in demand, I ask the questions,
and you answer them.”

Another way of giving up your power with 
women is telling a woman all your problems,
as if you are not her MAN, but as if you are
her CHILD.

Now, I need to bring all this up because unfortunately
there is no MEN’S LIBERATION movement like
there was/is a women’s liberation movement.
Women’s lib told men that men are a bunch of
rapists, abusers, and that men take all the jobs,
and that women just wanted to be treated with
equality and respect.

Okay, there are some women like that.

But the FACTS are that women make up 60%
of the students in universities. Men only make
up 40%.

Where is the MEN’S liberation movement here?
Where is the movement to create EQUALITY
for men?

How about regarding sex and cheating?
Supposedly it was all the MEN who were doing
the cheating.

But recent stats show us that actually women cheat
almost as much as men, and if anything women
are better at covering it up, so it’s possible they
actually cheat more but don’t honestly report it
on the stats.  Plus, it also depends on how you
define cheating.

Plus, most men don’t go reporting it when a woman
is physically abusive to them, or physically assaults
them.  So a man is supposed to just let a woman
do whatever she wants and just stand there as she
assaults him, because he usually won’t report it to
the police.

And as far as nice guys being what women want,
most women will trade a nice guy for a POWERFUL  
guy who wants to have wild sex.

In a society where clearly men do NOT have
"all the advantages over women" it is ABSURD
for men to "give up all their power" unless they
want to REPEL women. 

Now, I created get a GREAT girl for the very
SPECIFIC reason that it’s NOT about just getting
ANY girl, it’s about getting those RARE women
today who actually HAVE some decent values
and who APPRECIATE a good guy.

But a good guy is not the same thing as a
POWERLESS guy.

In fact, this is the reason I wrote my BOOK
called "Get A Great Girl".  It's for those
rare, super special women out there, on
how to attract and keep them.

But the thing is, it’s STILL important to understand
the DYNAMICS of power in our current society
regarding men and women. 

For one thing, people want what they CAN’T have.

I can tell you something- when it comes to sex,
most women today can have that VERY easily,
and with almost ANY GUY.

I’m not saying they can easily get the RIGHT
guy, but they can easily get TONS of guys.

Let me give you an example: I knew a woman
who was very attractive and who seriously
was interested in "one night stands".

So you would THINK  that this would be an
easy thing for her to get from men, right?

SUPPOSEDLY, most men aren’t interested in
relationships.

SUPPOSEDLY, most men just want to have sex
with lots of women. 

That might be the case with some men, but in
today’s society of brainwashed men, MOST men
become VERY needy for relationships very quickly.

It's because of the PERCEPTION that it's hard
to get women, which makes men want women
to "settle" down with them even if the women
are NOT treating them right!

So, getting back to this real-life situation with this
attractive woman who wanted to get some simple
one-night stands, and who was HONEST with every
man she met, telling them UPFRONT that this
was all she was looking for, guess what happened?

Guess what happened with every SINGLE guy that
slept with her, even though she TOLD each guy right
away that this was supposed to be a one night stand?

Guess what happened even though each guy AGREED
to it just being a one night stand?

EVERY SINGLE GUY kept ON contacting her, wanting to turn it into something MORE than a one night stand.

In other words, it seems to me, that for the MOST
part, in our current society, the MEN have become
the WOMEN, and the WOMEN have become the MEN.

The WOMEN are the ones having to tell guys
"it’s just sex".

The women call the shots.
The women are confident.
The women have the power.
The women aren’t needy.
The women understand "the game".

The men are willing to accept almost ANY woman.
The men quickly become needy.
The men feel that it is almost impossible to get women
and treat even TERRIBLE women as if these women
were GOLDEN in character.

The men have become needy for relationships
for the WRONG reasons.

It’s one thing to love a woman, it’s something
else for a guy to THINK he loves her because
his mind is in a place of SCARCITY, thinking
that there aren’t TONS of options for himself.

Etc, etc, etc.

All this ALSO ends up making men all bitter and
jaded as they fail to attract women.

So jaded, in fact, that when men DO meet great
women with integrity, loyalty, and all the other
traits that men seek in women, the men do all
the wrong things that make the virtuous women
think that life will be very miserable with them.

ALL THIS CAN EASILY BE CHANGED
IF MEN WOULD JUST STOP THE INSANITY
OF GIVING UP ALL THEIR FORMS OF POWER
SO FAST WITH WOMEN!

Trust me, no matter WHAT happens, NATURE
is STILL the stronger force in our primal beings,
for both men and women.

What I mean by this is that the natural order
of things is for men to BEHAVE like men,
and NOT act needy with women, and men
WOULD behave this way if their minds
were not so brainwashed.

Women really only WANT men who behave like MEN.

Most men are NOT rapists.
Most men are NOT abusive.
Most men are DECENT PEOPLE.

And guess what?
Most women KNOW this, even though the
women’s lib propaganda keeps touting the
extremes of the worst examples of male
behavior.

The women who spread the propaganda do
NOT represent most women. What is really
twisted is that the propaganda sometimes
DOES make women worry a bit more than
they should that every man might be a psycho.

However, most women will NOT think
you are a psycho just because you decided
to approach them and chat with them,
ESPECIALLY if you do it the RIGHT way
as I show you in my materials.

And most women DO want sex.
Most women do NOT need you to PROVE
that you are not a rapist or something before
you talk to them.

Most women actually ENJOY it when you
approach them in a PLAYFUL way that
is NOT too serious.

Being too serious shows a feeling of LACK
OF POWER because if you KNEW that you
could have TONS of women,  you would
treat the interaction with a lot more FUN.

You would be LESS FORMAL, because
formal is something we do to ensure we
do not offend.  But if you KNOW you
have value, you don’t WORRY about
trying so hard not to offend.

At the same time, you should NOT force
yourself to make women laugh, instead
the PLAYFULNESS should come from
your OWN state of mind that is NOT
needy for women.  So you are being
playful with her from a place of
CONFIDENCE and DOMINANCE
and NOT from trying to be a court JESTER
who is a clown trying to be her entertainer.     
     
Next time you chat with a woman, see
how much of your OWN power you can
RETAIN.

Stop trying to CONVINCE a woman of
your value.

Don’t try to IMPRESS her.

Ironically, THIS is the way to ATTRACT her, because you are communicating on a deep primal emotional level that you are so powerful that you don't NEED to prove yourself.

Don’t act FORMAL with her, instead, treat
her like you have already KNOWN her for
YEARS, and that you don’t HATE her, but
that she is kind of a pain in the ass that you
still have some affection for. 

Because the truth is, she is just human, she
probably WILL have some things about her
that will be a pain in the ass, but at the same
time there are probably some GOOD THINGS
about her as well.

So this is a far more REALISTIC picture and
actually by you behaving this way, you show
her that you understand the REAL picture
of who she is, which makes her a lot more
interested in YOU, since she can be HERSELF
instead of the fantasy that most men create
about her. 

If anything, turn the TABLES on the whole
DYNAMIC that is going on with most men
and women.

YOU be the one who is interviewing HER.
YOU behave the way you would if too MANY
women were trying to contact you and be with
you and sleep with you.

Finally, let me state one more POWERFUL thing.
As soon as your mind makes the JUMP to
the RIGHT WAY of thinking,  you suddenly
start to SEE and EXPERIENCE just about
EVERYTHING differently with women, in
a way that EMPOWERS you like CRAZY.

So, for example, the statistic I told you above,
regarding how women are the ones getting
the better education today?  Well if women
are 60% of the COLLEGE students, then
colleges are a GREAT place for men to
pick up women!!!!!!!

You have great odds in your favor!
You can even tease women that you’ll
have to settle for being a boy toy while
the women work at the office and you
just sit home watching tv and movies
while the women work hard and bring
home the dough for you, and that they
will be happy as long as they know
they have a hot guy like you waiting
for them at home…

But of course, you would continue
the tease, right?  That with all that
time on your hands at home, your
mind might start to drift and that
you might end up sleeping with
the milk-WOMAN!  (Yes, I know
that there is no MILK-MAN delivering
the milk anymore.)

Giving off the vibes of POWER this way,
is not only FUN, it's actually super
ATTRACTIVE.

And as you GET THE DESIRED RESULTS
you want with women, you will notice
that it becomes EASIER and EASIER
to do all the RIGHT things because
you won't be ACTING, you will truly
be FEELING all the right instincts.
  
And if you have not yet read my book,
"THE DATING WIZARD", then DEFINITELY
do that IMMEDIATELY, before anything else. 

The reason I don’t constantly mention this book
is because I figure that if you have been reading
my columns or newsletters for a while, that it’s
OBVIOUS that this book is where it all begins.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

This book is ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL if
you want to get ANYWHERE with good women
and if you want to prevent yourself from getting
turned into MINCED MEAT by the wrong women
as well. 

Another great step would be to download my
program “Attraction Accelerators”, which will
give you TONS of IMMEDIATELY APPLICABLE
tips you can use to attract women INSTANTLY.
I’m talking SUPER POWERFUL STRATEGIES that
are EASY to apply from the very first SECOND
you see a woman that you want to approach
ANYWHERE.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

ALL of my programs give you at least TEN TIMES
THE VALUE of your investment in them.  You’ll
see how much POWER I deliver for you when it
comes to attracting women.

To check out ALL my programs, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks