Women And "Testing" - What You MUST Know

I want to share something that even I myself

have grown to appreciate far more in recent

years.

Very FEW human beings willfully give power away.

This includes the women who benefit from

continuing the MYTH that "men are terrible"

and the myth that "therefore men should

prove to women they are worth being with"

while at the SAME time continuing the myth
that "we should just all assume that 'of course'
women are all perfect, and women don't have
to prove a thing to men when dating, in a
relationship, etc."

In fact, the human mind is designed to RATIONALIZE

quite a bit of selfishness unless trained to do otherwise.

So a lot of women probably actually

BELIEVE the feminist propaganda.  In fact,

a lot of MEN believe it, which is why

they feel this need to act so submissive

and fearful when it comes to interacting

with women.

But only in recent years did I become

more conscious of WHY this type of

thinking is so prevalent- thanks to

a man who has taught me countless

insights on this topic.

It's due to feminism- which is NOT about

protecting women - even though it sounds

like it is on the surface.

The BIGGEST thing I learned in recent years

is that contrary to popular belief, women are

NOT hardwired to TEST you in the way you

may have been taught by many pick up artists

and dating experts.

Basically, conventional wisdom from pick up

artists is that women are hard-wired to test

men, so they will say all kinds of things to you

and do all kinds of things to you that are hurtful

or provocative NOT because these women

really want to do these things to you but

because they want to SEE how you will react-

supposedly they want to see if you are a real

man who is all in self-control and who is super

confident and all that jazz.

So, supposedly a woman will exhibit rude behavior,

cruel behavior, disrespectful behavior, provocative

behavior just to see your reaction. Supposedly, women

do this because they are HARDWIRED to do so, in

order to mate with only the men who are real men,

men who are so calm and so confident and so secure

that nothing bothers them.

As if a man who has high self-esteem WOULD
think to himself "Hmmmm. This woman is giving
me rude behavior- so let me now try to CHANGE
her, let's invest EFFORT in making this woman
RESPECT me!"

As if THAT is the sign of a man with CONFIDENCE?

The real sign of confidence and self-esteem would be
to LEAVE, rather than LOWER himself to SPEND
his ENERGY trying to CHANGE HER.

Does the KING waste energy on ABSORBING disrespect
from someone, and then on top of that, also expend energy
on that person, trying to get that person to ultimately WANT
him?

Of course not.

SUPPOSEDLY, if a woman says to you that you are
short, fat, poor, ugly, dumb, a loser, a brute, or anything
else, that’s not because she is a messed-up human being,

SUPPOSEDLY it’s because she just wants to see if you
are the right man for her.

SUPPOSEDLY, if a woman flirts with other men when
she is dating you, that’s not because she is disrespectful,
it’s because she really just wants to see how you react,

she really hates flirting with other men.

Well, guess what?

There was a time that I actually believed this,

because almost every woman I met DID behave

this way.

And, on top of this, when I exhibited the right

REACTIONS, it always DID skyrocket the woman’s

attraction.

But what I learned over the years is that this has

NOTHING to do with the hard-wiring of women.

It has to do with CORRUPTION and becoming

SPOILED.

So, if you let a child get away with bad behavior,

that child will just keep PUSHING the boundaries

of his or her bad behavior further and further-

TILL YOU STOP it.

And, just like a child, if the child sees that you are

CALM and not BEING MADE ANGRY OR FEARFUL

and that you are IN CONTROL, you will have a

far greater IMPACT than if you show that you

are completely at the mercy of their behavior.

But NONE of this means that the child is

HARDWIRED to test you any more than the

child is hardwired to do something like steal-

the only hard-wiring that women have in this

regard is the basic HUMAN hard-wiring to

GET AS MUCH AS WE CAN if we can get it.

So, in a nutshell, FEMINISM has basically

TOLD WOMEN that women should be

GETTING MORE, MUCH MORE, and that

MORE is never enough.

Women are told that they have been VICTIMS

and that men are RAPISTS AND CHEATERS AND

SCUM-BAGS.

And most men, especially the ones who actually

DO CARE about being decent and fair, BELIEVED

the propaganda- and so most men BEND OVER

BACKWARDS to please any woman they find

attractive and even women they DON’T find

attractive still most men will BEND OVER

BACKWARDS to treat FAIRLY and to PROTECT

from abuse.

A cool dude (http://tobiasbratt.blogspot.com/ ) sent me

a video showing a social experiment where a guy and
a woman agreed to PRETEND they were getting into

an argument, and when the woman PUNCHED

HIM AND KEPT ON BEATING INTO HIM, in

PUBLIC, not ONE PERSON did A THING-

NOT ONE PERSON EVEN SAID ONE WORD

TO THE WOMAN TO STOP HER ABUSE.

When the experiment was reversed, and the

guy just STARTED to get physical on the

woman – within SECONDS he was STOPPED.

So THAT is how sensitive the general male

population is towards the PROPER treatment

of women- but when it comes to men, not

only is it considered okay for a woman to

verbally abuse him, it’s also okay for her to

physically abuse him.

I bring this up to PROVE TO YOU that the

issue is not HARD-WIRING – women are not

BORN to treat men like garbage.

Women have to be TAUGHT to treat men this way.

And if you think it's "different" when it is a
WOMAN abusing a man, then I urge you to ask
yourself why you are so quick to think that-
and if that assumption might possibly be
the RESULT of being BOMBARDED with
messages about male assaults on women and
barely ever being told a WORD about the
millions of cases of women abusing men
in every way you can imagine that happen
each year as well.

And, of course, in a culture that also WORSHIPS

female beauty, and also tells men that men

are selfish violent scumbag rapists, even the

MEN themselves start to believe it, and of course

will spoil any woman they are interested in,

while the woman will feel this is just the right

thing, that this is PROPER.

So, just like a child who is spoiled and thinks that

THERE IS INFINITE RIGHT FOR SELFISHNESS, so too

a woman who believes the feminist propaganda

will feel that it’s fine to mistreat most men and

to ignore anything that any man says is important

to him.

It is absolutely NOT a coincidence that more men

than ever before in history are choosing not to get

married- and it’s not because they don’t want to

love a woman.

It is absolutely NOT a coincidence that there are

groups known as MEN GO THEIR OWN WAY

where heterosexual men have made a conscious

decision to go their own way because to them it’s

just not worth it.

It is absolutely NOT a coincidence that men all

over the planet are even looking to pick up artists

to try to find some way to improve their chances

of success with women.

It ALL comes from the SAME general ISSUE-

THERE WOULD BE NO NEED FOR ANY OF THESE

PHENOMENA IF FEMINISM HAD NOT CREATED

THIS MASSIVE DISTORTION OF REALITY IN

SO MANY PEOPLE’S HEADS.

The solution is not to try to “WIN the game”-

because men and women being with each other

is actually a NATURAL thing- it doesn’t require

GAMES and SPECIAL TACTICS.

It only requires all sorts of insanely difficult efforts

(which still barely produce results when it comes

to getting a great relationship with a girlfriend )

when dealing with women who are brainwashed

by feminism.

The ANSWER is to simply FIND WOMEN who are

NOT brainwashed by feminist perspectives-

perspectives that encourage women to treat

relationships as expendable, perspectives that

encourage women to value EVERYTHING ELSE

above their connection to a man and their family-

rather what is emphasized is INDEPENDENCE

FROM A MAN, IMMEDIATE SHORT-TERM SEXUAL

GRATIFICATION, FINANCIAL GAIN, and a light-headed

attitude toward RESPECTING a boyfriend or husband.

So the answer is simple.

GET A WOMAN WHO IS NOT FROM A FEMINIST

ENVIRONMENT- you may have to travel out of your

own country.

If you must TRAVEL, then DO that.

If you can’t do that, then you have to be EVEN MORE
SUPER CAREFUL than usual in your screening process-
find women who had REALLY AWESOME parents who
SHIELDED nthem from the DESTRUCTIVE EFFECTS
of feminism.

Let me tell you, the difference IS MIND-BLOWING.

The hardest part of attracting women from places

where feminism didn’t take off, is REMEMBERING

that they WANT you to BE A MAN.

They won’t PUNISH you for talking to them.

They won’t PUNISH you for showing CONFIDENCE.

They won’t PUNISH you for showing that you

aren’t interested in playing CHESS with them,

but rather that you are a man who actually

IS attracted to their FEMININITY.

They won’t PUNISH you for treating them with respect.

They won’t find endless ways to RIDICULE you under

the B.S. excuse that this is some form of TESTING you.

I remember the first woman I dated a woman

who was from a COMPLETELY different environment,

where there was NO feminism.

I could not BELIEVE my mind on the first date.

She never showed a SHRED of disrespect- I was

so overwhelmed with emotion internally it took

all my power not to say that I wanted to marry

her right then and there.

I kept waiting for her to test me in the following

weeks, but NOPE, not one OUNCE of b.s.-EVER.

Imagine- being RESPECTED by a woman,

and not having to play INSANE games

to SUSTAIN the relationship.

THIS CAN BE REAL, in fact there are BILLIONS

of these women around- they just aren't

at your proverbial fingertips if you happen to

live in a feminist-infiltrated society.

You have to do more searching for them.

Oh, and for all the feminists that think these

women are “doormats” and “easy”, the truth is

that these women tend to be FAR MORE STRICT

about NOT getting physical so fast, and tend to be

FAR MORE CONFIDENT in their beliefs than the

typical feminists who rant about how all men

are rapists- and then go get drunk and sleep

with 50 guys. 

This doesn’t mean that every woman you meet

from a non-feminist country is going to fall in

love with you- what it means is that you can

actually expect a NORMAL range of responses

from women, as opposed to the practically

UNIVERSAL, predictable list of abuses that you

will get from women who have been brainwashed

by feminism.

The thing is, if you have grown up in any of the

so-called “Anglo-sphere” countries and even some

that don’t speak English, chances are you’ve been

so IMMERSED in FEMINIST lies that you are now

REPRESSED, your masculine instincts and desires

are BEING REPRESSED under TONS OF LAYERS OF

SOCIAL CONDITIONING.

But women are actually ATTRACTED to the

MANLY part of your behaviors- even if some

women- the feminist brainwashed ones- won’t

admit it.

There are TWO paths you can take for the FASTEST

results in your life when it comes to success with

women.

ONE is my BOOTCAMP program.

I will UNLEASH the part of you that is UNSTOPPABLE

with women, the REAL you that women LOVE.

Bootcamp is at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

The other way is through a PERSONAL CONSULTATION.

For more details on having a personal consultation

with me on ANY matter related to dating, attraction,

or relationships, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks