In a world of confusion and lies, I would
like to spread some TRUTH when it comes
to attracting women. I’m on a break right
now, so I only have a few minutes before
I have to get back to the real thing, so
this is going to be “short and sweet” today.
Have you ever heard women say they like
a guy who is FUNNY?
This is one of those things you have to be
careful of, because there are plenty of guys
who are funny that don’t seem to get the
women, but then again there are other
guys who are funny who seem to get
incredible women.
So allow me to explain what is going on.
Humor can be used to convey different things.
For example, it can be used to convey
CONFIDENCE.
If a woman asks you about where you live,
or what you do, and you can tell she is asking
it just to make conversation and not because
it really is a serious question, or if you can
tell how most guys try so hard to qualify
themselves and try to impress women
with their answers, you can instead say
something like:
“I live in a cardboard box and I am very
ambitious, as I plan to move into a huge
cardboard box as soon as I get one from
someone throwing out their cardboard box for
a big-screen TV.”
So you are being funny and you are simultaneously
showing you don’t feel a need to qualify yourself,
so you are showing confidence.
At the same time, humor of ANY sort can be
powerful when you are trying to break through
the barriers of being a TOTAL STRANGER when
you see a woman out in public somewhere that
you would like to meet.
If you can get a woman LAUGHING, you
OVER-RIDE the part of her brain that plays
the TOO-CAUTIOUS role and in general works
to shut DOWN the guys who approach her.
But since you got her LAUGHING, she
can’t help but feel DIFFERENTLY and
feel more POSITIVE about this whole
situation.
So humor does not always have to be about
ATTRACTION or even CONFIDENCE in
order to be of MASSIVE VALUE when
meeting and approaching women, especially
women who are total strangers.
With all the stories on the news regarding
psychos, it sure helps if you can get a woman
RELAXED when you are approaching her.
Studies have shown that it is hard to NOT LIKE
someone who had just made you laugh three times.
A lot of men worry about coming across in some
creepy way to women. Well, one SIMPLE answer
to this problem is to get her laughing, because if
she is laughing, she SIMPLY CANNOT HELP
BUT FEEL MORE POSITIVE ABOUT YOU.
So now, at that point, you can NOW unleash
ALL of your skills that you have learned on
attracting women, because she is now OPEN
to the DISCUSSION with you.
So humor can OPEN THE DOORS for you
to allow you to work your magic.
By the way, there's one last element
regarding humor that I didn't mention
here, that is in a way the most
IMPORTANT of all, and it is something
that just about all women realize:
Powerful humor also conveys INTELLIGENCE.
So, in a world where so many men seem to
only be able to whistle cat-calls at women,
and who seem to only have the one-dimension
of being interested in the physical, it
is EXTREMELY POWERFUL to be able to CONVEY
to women that in addition to having a
PHYSICAL INTEREST IN HER (which she
already knows if she is attractive),
you also have OTHER ELEMENTS TO YOUR PERSONALITY,
including INTELLIGENCE.
Intelligence is one of those things that
you don't want to convey in a dry CEREBRAL
way, but rather in a JUICY EMOTIONAL WAY.
And powerful humor allows you to do
exactly that- it PROVES your intelligence
and it does it without sounding BORING
and without sounding as if you are insecure
and have to explain it directly.
INDIRECT and EMOTIONAL is the way to
CONVEY what you want to convey, and
HUMOR conveys intelligence in an
INDIRECT and EMOTIONAL way.
And if you would like to learn MORE about
humor, I suggest you check out a special
audio program I conducted with a man who
I personally met several times, and who I
can verify is fantastic with women and who
even once served as a guest instructor and
speaker at one of my bootcamps.
He had no real experience with women until
he was 26 years old, and then he decided to
change everything around for himself when it
came to women. He learned it all from scratch,
and his story is even described in a best-selling
book.
One of the big things about this man is that he
also happens to be INCREDIBLY FUNNY.
In fact, just about everything regarding his style
with attracting women involves humor.
I got a chance to conduct a special interview with
him where all we did was focus on one topic, and
that topic is HUMOR.
I HIGHLY SUGGEST YOU LISTEN TO THIS PROGRAM.
It is very rare to get a chance to get “into the mind”
of a guy like this, who really “gets it” when it comes
to humor.
Download this special program IMMEDIATELY and
you can be using it in just MINUTES from now.
It’s at:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/confident-humor.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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