Two Crucial Tips For Approaching Women

When approaching women, most men make the
SAME mistakes, over and over again, ESPECIALLY
if they really LIKE the woman!

Attraction Mistake #1:

QUALIFYING ONE'S SELF

In the effort to IMPRESS a woman, most
men try to basically show off, and it's
not cool. And yet, it's almost instinct,
as the insecurity welling up inside
seems to be saying "I MUST IMPRESS HER!"

Notice how in the clip below, the
"Braveheart" character is trying to
impress by speaking to her in these
other languages:

Beautiful In Any Language
Braveheart at MOVIECLIPS.com

She even says, "Is that supposed to impress me"?

So point 1 is to HOLD BACK from the insecurity that DRIVES us to try to impress so hard! Don't give into that feeling that makes you want to show off in any way.

Attraction Mistake #2:

THEY DON'T "GO WITH THE FLOW" OF WHATEVER A WOMAN'S "TEASE" IS

When you are dealing with a quality woman, you have to understand that she is not trying to be MEAN to you when she teases you, and rather you must see that this is a form of her FLIRTING and actually "playing" in a good way.

So when in the clip above, he says "Are you impressed yet?" etc, and she later says "Do that and stand on your head and I'll be impressed" this is clearly her way of FLIRTING back and in fact she couldn't possibly be any more INTERESTED.

The proper REACTION of course, to such a comment, is to GO WITH IT.

And Wallace's Braveheart character does exactly that, he GOES with the tease, he doesn't try to FIGHT against her comment.

He says, "My kilt will fly up but I'll try anyway", and he motions as if he is about to go do it!

So often, insecurity DISTORTS a man's perception of things, and he will see malicious intent where there is nothing nasty going on.

The worst thing is when a man meets a woman who LIKES him, but he has no sense of humor and gets offended by something innocent she said, and then he starts to become defensive or cold, totally RUINING the good vibes. 

On the other hand, when you are feeling SECURE, you see the playful joke for what it is, and you GO with the joke, because you GET IT and appreciate the humor.

You also end up SHOWING how secure you are by going with the joke and NOT getting defensive. 

For more on the APPROACH, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

For more on getting a GREAT woman, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And to learn "hands on", go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks