The Fantasy Woman

Are you, or have you been, in the "fantasy woman" trap?

What I mean by this, is, have you ever been
hung up on an ex-girlfriend, or maybe a woman
that you weren't even together with,
but you just keep thinking about her?

You keep thinking about some woman,
maybe even AFTER you're still dating
other women???

You're not alone, in fact this is
one of the biggest things that
happens to guys, and I just got
an email about this, that I
thought would be great to share
here, along with my reply and
solution.

***LETTER FROM A MAN WHO'S
GETTING RESULTS WITH WOMEN
BUT STILL THINKING ABOUT
AN OLD FLAME***

Hey Michael,

I bought your Seduction Mastery CD
program and have listened to the whole
program twice now, and it is absolutely
fantastic, and has definitely improved
my results with women, there was just
one question I had about a woman whom
I was briefly involved with but got away
due to external circumstances.

It's been a few months since I've seen her
but I still think about her a lot even though
I'm dating new women. How can I overcome
these thoughts of this old flame?

Chuck L., WI

>>>MY REPLY<<<

Thank you for the kind words on the
Seduction Mastery program, it's great
to see you're getting results with
women!

Regarding the repeated thoughts of this
old flame, the key for you here is to
become aware of what is actually
happening here:

1. Over time, you forget the hardships with
this old flame, and you instead focus on and
create a THEORETICAL version of the future
with her that you think you are currently
missing out on by not being with her.

2. Of course, of all the theoretical versions of
the future, your mind creates and chooses the
one that is PERFECT AND FANTASY LIKE!

The mind will ALWAYS prefer this custom-made
FANTASY over ANY reality no matter how good
any reality is, FANTASY is always going to be
more instinctive and more seductive to your mind.

The human mind enjoys doing this, it has no joy
or reward from putting in all that energy to
create a realistic picture with all the flaws
that reality has, so instead it keeps going back
to the FANTASY that you CUSTOM-DESIGNED
in your mind.

The mind is not conscious it is doing this, it
just creates the potential picture, and rather
than creating a flawed and realistic picture,
it creates the FANTASY picture.

3. So which one is your mind going to stick with?
The fantasy or the reality?

The FANTASY WOMAN that this real woman has
now BECOME in your mind, of course, since
it's more fun.

So what is happening right now is that you
are picturing this old flame in a way that is
fantasy-based as opposed to reality based.

4. Now, compare this FANTASY to any other
woman you go out with in REALITY.

There is absolutely no woman on earth in
REALITY who can ever, ever, EVER
match a FANTASY.

5. Now that you are aware of this, you can
start to realize where you are going off in
terms of what you are thinking about this
old flame, and slowly you’ll get back a
more real perspective not only logically,
but EMOTIONALLY where you start to
enjoy the REAL women in the real world
rather than the fantasy version of the one
that’s in your head.

And while we’re on the topic of the way
things work in the REAL WORLD, if
you want the REAL solution to conquering
‘Approach Anxiety’ so that you feel
TOTALLY COMFORTABLE and
confident approaching ANY woman,
ANYWHERE, then you owe it to yourself
to get my latest Actions For Attraction
CD, called “Obliterating Approach Anxiety”.

This CD will show you the REAL way
to solve this problem, and the REAL way
has nothing to do with “positive thinking”
at all! If positive thinking worked for this,
every man on earth would already have
solved this!

Rather, what you will learn is the ONLY
way where failure is IMPOSSIBLE.

If you follow the program, you WILL
beat approach anxiety. I warn you
though, one thing: This program is
NOT for boys, it’s for MEN.

In other words, this program is not about
learning cutesy pick up lines or tactics
that allow you to avoid any REAL internal
changes.

This program takes both GUTS as well
as INTELLIGENCE.

Let me be clear of what you have to gain
here:

If you sign up for my Actions For Attraction
monthly CD series before the deadline of
midnight of Thursday June 3rd, you will receive
the “Obliterating Approach Anxiety” CD.

In ADDITION, you will receive THREE
bonus CDs: Inner Game, Online Dating,
and Awesome Openers.

You will ALSO receive a deluxe CD case to
keep your future CDs organized and protected.

The only thing you pay for is the
Obliterating Approach Anxiety CD,
plus the cost of shipping for the bonuses.

AND there is ZERO risk, if you’re not
totally satisfied, you can even KEEP the
bonuses and get every PENNY back.

So there’s ZERO to lose and EVERYTHING
to gain, most importantly getting the
woman of your dreams NOW!

To subscribe and get this special CD as well,
you must go here before the deadline of midnight
of Thursday, June 3rd:

http://getagreatgirl.com/actions

Be cool,

Michael Marks