Advanced Strategies On Approaching Women

There's nothing like having the KNOW-HOW

of exactly what to do when you see a woman

or group of women you'd like to approach.

One of the greatest mistakes that guys make

when approaching women is regarding WHEN to
start flirting. And by flirting, I mean
things like playfully teasing her in a
non-malicious way, things like looking her
over, things like having a certain James Bond
tonality in your voice, etc.

Most men either NEVER FLIRT in the original
conversation (thinking "that can come later")
or even worse, they start flirting TOO EARLY.

Timing is CRUCIAL.

Flirting too EARLY is especially disastrous when
dealing with women that are of a higher quality
inside and out, the kind of women who aren't
promiscuous party girls.

The problem with flirting too early, is
that it triggers all the WRONG things:

1. It makes you come on TOO STRONG, trying
TOO hard, which actually makes her feel that
you are not acting “normal”.

2. This in turn, sets off her alarms for thinking
you are probably just trying to get in her pants.

3. Because she’s met about a million guys that JUST
want to get into her pants and don’t care about anything
ELSE in life, she has thus been conditioned to SHUT
GUYS DOWN when she senses this.

At the same time, this does NOT mean that
you should start a conversation in a
BORING way, but the reality is that unless
you are in a club where the energy is high
and the music is blaring, you are going to
do WORSE if you start the interaction in
any way that seems like an obvious “pick up”.

A club IS for pick-up, so it’s practically
EXPECTED there, but in a normal place like
a gas station or book store or food court,
it’s NOT designed especially for men and

women to meet each other for the first

time.

So the key is to start in a way that is NOT a clear
“flirt” or “pick-up”, but is still fun or cool.

If you start in a way that seems too flirty,
she will often actually act insulted, as if
in her mind she is saying to you "You think
I’m easy, you think I'm that kind of woman?”

Similarly, even if she is studying by herself somewhere

like a cafe, just because she is by herself does not

mean she should be treated like an "easy" choice,

because you still need to respect the steps involved.

So start with something that is still EMOTIONALLY
RELEVANT, i.e. interesting, funny, intriguing, etc,
but that does not have heavy “PICK-UP" connotations.

Here' an example:
Let’s say you meet her at the gas station while
you’re filling up your car, you can make a playful
comment about the cost of fuel or playfully accuse
her of harming the environment by driving rather
than walking, and if she says, “How about you?” then
you can playfully say back, “This isn’t about me,
don’t change the topic!”.

Notice though, how this conversation did not start
off as an obvious FLIRT. It started LOWER key,
it was NOT about PICKING HER UP.

Now, after a bit more small talk, i.e. 30 seconds
to a minute's worth of small talk, where you were
responding to whatever her reply was to you about
the driving, THEN at this new point, you can
transition into more FLIRTY conversation, (i.e.
"I bet you come to the gas station just in hopes
of meeting a cool guy like me") because NOW you
are in an actual CONVERSATION.

Once you are in a CONVERSATION, it’s now more
socially acceptable to flirt with them, and they'll

love it now.

It's crucial to do things RIGHT.

You want to have as much GOING
for you as possible, right?

You don’t want to make things
harder for yourself or miss out
on potential opportunities with
the right woman or women.

If you want to learn to ACE the skill of
APPROACHING WOMEN, as well as
how to attract and keep a fantastic woman,
I suggest you download my book,
"Get A Great Girl" immediately at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

To find out about ALL my programs for
helping you meet and keep the woman
of your dreams, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks