Hitting the 'THE SWEET SPOT' To Attract Women

Today I need to explain something called THE SWEET SPOT.

It is MASSIVELY IMPORTANT for attracting women.

I wrote about this in the past, but it's been a long time so I have a feeling most guys have forgotten how ABSOLUTELY IMPORTANT this is for success in attracting women.

The only thing I CARE about when it comes to this thing called “how to attract women” is getting guys RESULTS.  No mumbo-jumbo, no hocus-pocus, no superstition.

It all must actually WORK.

So today, I’m going to share with you some of the GREATEST points of all time regarding how to attract women.

Obviously, these are going to be the BROAD strokes here, as it would be impossible to put every detail in one newsletter and that is the reason I have my actual programs.

So let’s begin.

ONE: HIT “THE SWEET SPOT”

By the “sweet spot” I mean the right BLEND of confidence mixed with kindness.

I often call this mixture the right "balance",
but a client referred to this mixture, or this right
balance I was describing, as "the sweet spot",
and I like the words "the sweet spot" as a term.  

And yes, KINDNESS is absolutely attractive to
women, WHEN it is blended with POWER.

If you just show kindness, you are kissing up.
If you just show power/dominance/confidence,
you are coming across as an insecure JERK.

When you BLEND kindness with power, you
become attractive and charismatic.

So, for example, telling a woman she has impeccable
taste in men is a playful way of giving her a compliment
and saying something cool about yourself.

Helping a woman who is looking for directions and then
playfully telling her you will bill her for the help, is
kind and confident.

 







If a woman gives YOU a compliment, i.e. she says, “You are pretty cool”, and you say, “I know”- THAT shows confidence.

If you then pull her into you and kiss her, that shows affection on top of the confidence.

It’s this MIXING of confidence and kindness that is VERY cool.

Most guys MISS the target.  They come in too
arrogant in their effort to show confidence, or
they come in too “nice” in their effort to show
kindness, caring, or affection.

Miss the mark, and get NOTHING.
Hit the mark, and you start a CHAIN REACTION
inside her mind that  results in a BURSTING FIRE
OF HEATED ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s an analogy that came up from the same client
during a bootcamp when it “clicked” in his mind,
he said the following, and I paraphrase:

“It’s like that scene at the end of the original
Star Wars, when they blow up the "Death Star".
Luke had to fire into a super NARROW area
and ONLY a direct hit in that super tight
area would work.”





Miss the target, however, and the "Death Star" is left
TOTALLY UNAFFECTED.

HIT the target, and the entire thing IGNITES
into a fireball of a billion glowing splinters.

It’s the same with women but in a positive
way:

MISS the mark, and it’s pretty much NOTHING.   
      
But if you hit the “sweet spot” in their mind
with that combo of CONFIDENCE/POWER
mixed with KINDNESS, and it is quite
literally INSTANT attraction heat they
feel in the most primal sense for you.

TWO:  THE THRILL OF THE GAME

What I mean by this is that APPROACHING
WOMEN for the goal of romance, sex, etc,
is ABSOLUTELY THRILLING and so
there is not even a QUESTION of whether it
is “worth it” or not to approach women!

Seriously, aside from having your HEALTH and FOOD or SHELTER, I can’t think of anything MORE rewarding.

And I don’t just mean the end product, I mean that even the PROCESS itself is awesome.

Approaching women is a BLAST.

Let’s say you love football.
Would you ONLY play football if you knew you were going to WIN every single game????

Or does a guy who LOVES football love ALL his games, even if he doesn’t WIN them all?

That’s because to him football is EXCITING.

When you approach women, especially women
who are TOTAL STRANGERS, it is the most
exciting thing in the world, at least to the guys
I know and for myself as well.

I’ll tell you why:
Each time you approach a woman who is a total
stranger, you are INTERFERING with the
entire fabric of your UNIVERSE.

That woman may very well be the woman who
turns out to be your LOVER, and/or the mother 
of your children, or the woman who inspires you
to be all you can be.

But if you are not BOLD, you will just sit back
and let it all be, and NOTHING will happen,
an entire DIFFERENT future (possibly boring)
instead of the possibly AMAZING one you could
have had, IF you had taken action to approach her.

And it’s YOU who is changing your own destiny.
YOU are the one TAKING ACTION.

Part of being a MAN in just about every culture
on EARTH is being the one who takes the lead
when it comes to the human “mating”. 

Women ARE DEEPLY AFFECTED by a man’s
DARING, his BOLDNESS, his BRAVERY,
his INITIATIVE.  And they know full well
how INTIMIDATING it is for most men
to approach women who are total strangers.

So DOING THE APPROACH not only is the only way to MEET her as a stranger,  but it ALSO sends the right message
because of the very fact it DOES take guts to do it!

If you want to be successful at approaching women, it is important to realize that the approaches themselves are PART of the excitement.

Also, when you have the skill that comes from doing a lot of approaches, women can SENSE that you have options, because you actually SUBCONSCIOUSLY behave differently, and they pick up on those signals.

Women can often TELL that you have options by sizing up your confidence which shows up in all kinds of subtle subconscious ways when you interact with women.

And  when a woman knows you have OPTIONS, she gets even MORE attracted.

And all this is because you DO the approaches.
So it’s NEVER a “waste” of time to approach
women, because the SKILL SET in itself
becomes something women RESPECT
and are ATTRACTED to in you.

Instead of being a man who HOPES that
he will get women, you are the man who
TAKES ACTION.

THREE: ALWAYS BEHAVE AS IF YOU
ALREADY KNEW YOU HAD HER, AND
AS IF A BILLION OTHER SUPER-HOT WOMEN
WERE AT YOUR FINGERTIPS.

What is such a tragedy is that there is so little
TIME to make the right impression on a woman
who is a total stranger.

The GOOD PART of this however, is that if you
do it RIGHT, and you make the right impression,
that impression will STICK LIKE CRAZY GLUE!

In her mind, she knows NOTHING about you.
So you have a PERFECTLY CLEAN SLATE
to create the PERFECT image.
 
She has NOTHING to contradict any positive
message you create about yourself. 

Soooooooooooo, what this means is if you
BEHAVE as if you already HAD her in your
palm, if you behave as if you have a billion
other options but you still are interested in her,
then SHE WILL FEEL THIS IS THE TRUTH
ABOUT YOU.

It’s also a great way to PREVENT coming across
as insecure or a jerk.

Plenty of guys THINK they are acting “confident”
by telling a woman OFF the first second the woman
does something they don’t like.

But if a guy is REALLY confident and secure, he
feels NO NEED to have to PROVE himself or
to insult her.  Instead, when a guy is super-secure
he often can see the REAL reasons a woman is
behaving a certain way.

What I mean by this is that it’s NORMAL for
a woman to be a bit CAUTIOUS when meeting
a man who is a total stranger.

A guy who is INSECURE will feel THREATENED
and possibly INSULTED by anything she does that
isn’t a clear sign of her INTEREST.

But a guy who is secure will NOT feel threatened
and is far more likely to respond to anything she
does in the most ATTRACTIVE way.

So for example, if a woman is asking a guy a lot
of questions about “does he pick up lots of women
in stores” or something like that, a SECURE guy
knows she is actually INTERESTED and she just
is trying to find out if HE is serious at all about
her or is she just “woman number one thousand”
to him.

So a secure guy will give a warm smile and possibly
joke to her that indeed she is number one thousand,
(just to get that out of the way since he knows she
is thinking it) and then in a CALM voice tone, say:

“Actually, meeting the RIGHT person is what it’s all about, right? We all meet people, but it’s about meeting the right one.”


TRUST ME, the way you BEHAVE is worth a
TRILLION TIMES more than how much MONEY
you have, what you LOOK like, or how FAMOUS
you are, or whether you are a rockstar or not.

In fact, a client recently emailed me about a guy who was a real rock star who really WAS great with attracting women, and who then traded lives with a dude who was a “regular guy” who was NOT good at all at attracting women.

Somehow they managed to fool most strangers.
In other words, people thought the regular dude
WAS the rock star guy and they thought the rock star
guy was the regular dude.

Well, guess what happened? The guy who really
WAS the authentic rock star dude STILL did
awesome with women, even though he had NONE
of the “rock star” status.

And the guy who could NOT attract women beforehand
STILL couldn’t do well even WITH the “rock star”
status.

That’s because the CHARISMA is what REALLY COUNTS. 

You can’t just BUY the right behaviors, attitudes, feelings, etc.
You can’t just “adopt” them from someone else.

And if you DO convey the right behaviors, actions,
attitudes, feelings, etc, then NO ONE can somehow
make you UNDESIRABLE, no matter what they do.

You can see this all the time in real life. Take a look
at any ten random women who are gorgeous, and you will
find out that MOST of these women are with guys
that SEEM ordinary until you actually INTERACT
with them.

As you can tell, EVERYTHING you read here comes from REAL WORLD experience.

And I can ACCELERATE your learning curve in the real world of approaching women.  You can save YEARS from learning it all the hard way, because I can show you the DIRECT path instead of you taking the trial-and-error path.

The trial-and-error path of trying to succeed with women not only is INEFFICIENT, but it also can DRAIN your motivation from going through infinite FRUSTRATION.   

I seriously suggest you take my Real World Bootcamp because I will PERSONALLY show you EVERYTHING you need to know, and it will all be done for REAL.

The Real World Bootcamp is non-stop IMMERSION in the world of approaching women who are totalstrangers, with a very special twist: You're getting expert coaching, the result of over ten years experience from someone who has been getting men RESULTS with women for all that time, every step of the way. 

In the Real World Bootcamp, you learn how to
master the skills for successfully approaching
women right out of the blue, anywhere, who are
total strangers- and then ATTRACTING them.

The Bootcamp makes you self-sufficient because
it teaches you exactly what you need to do to
optimize your approaches to women who are complete
strangers, anywhere, so that you can maximize
the chances of getting them attracted, connected,
and wanting to know you more.

Think of a personal trainer at the gym: He shows 
you proper form, strategy, and technique.

WithOUT the expert  instruction, one will never
optimize their results, and will also likely get injured
and then not be able to work out at all, possibly for years.

Just going out to the gym with no clue what
you are doing can result in not only very little
to no progress, but it can actually result in
making a guy WORSE OFF than had he never gone
to the gym at all.

Similarly, going out to approach women without
expert training can result in a lot of negative
habits that actually push women AWAY.


It can also create negative emotional associations 
in your OWN mind with approaching, to the point
that a guy never does it again, and misses out
on the entire world of possibilities with all
the women that are out there, all the women
that he does not get to meet through rare
"luck" situations.

This bootcamp teaches you how to USE all those opportunities that are available everyday when you see women ANYWHERE, including at the mall, cafe, park, library, post office or grocery store, or just walking on the sidewalk or while riding the bus or train - it could absolutely ANYWHERE.

It's at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks