I realized that I’ve been walking around for YEARS thinking that everyone already KNEW a particular piece of knowledge, but I just realized that in fact most people do NOT know it, and it is MASSIVE for your success with women.
I kind of thought everyone KNEW this by now, but it hit me, that NOBODY talks about a very important REALIZATION- and it’s SO SIMPLE, so FREAKING SIMPLE, and makes a UNIVERSE of difference in terms of your RESULTS with women-yet NOBODY talks about this.
People go on for HOURS AND HOURS AND HOURS dealing with all kinds of aspects of how to attract women, and they never even bother to get to the ROOT CORE OF THE ENTIRE FRIGGING THING.
And it’s because they don’t TRULY KNOW OR UNDERSTAND WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON.
SO, HERE IT IS:
If you’re like most guys who grew up in the western world, you probably heard, in fact, you probably were BOMBARDED by messages regarding how women just want to find a GOOD GUY.
About how most guys are just a bunch of CHEATERS, and how women just WISH they could find a guy who was NOT a CREEP, a guy who was INTO them, a guy who would be FAITHFUL, a guy who was not a womanizer, a guy who was not more married to his job than to his wife, a guy who really was devoted to his woman.
Now, here is the important thing- this happened to HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS OF MEN ACROSS THE PLANET, who were IMMERSED IN THESE BULLSHIT PROPAGANDA LIES ever since CHILDHOOD.
Since CHILDHOOD.
Do you understand what this means? SINCE CHILDHOOD.
That means that HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS OF MEN IN WESTERN COUNTRIES were INDOCTRINATED in a PERSPECTIVE OF REALITY THAT WAS TOTALLY FALSE.
A perspective that REALLY MADE MEN BELIEVE THAT MOST MEN WERE JERKS AND EVIL TOWARD WOMEN.
A perspective that made the vast majority of men, who were GOOD DECENT PEOPLE, feel a RESPONSIBILITY to HELP RECTIFY THIS INJUSTICE.
So INFINITE ENERGY was applied to making sure that women were treated with SUPER MASSIVE SENSITIVITY- to prevent being misconstrued, to prevent harassing women, to prevent abusing women, in every way you can imagine, from the sexual, to the financial, to the social, to the emotional, to the deepest aspects of the psychological.
INFINITE CARE WENT INTO MAKING SURE TO JUST KEEP ON GIVING TO WOMEN, TO KEEP ON TRUSTING WOMEN, TO KEEP ON BUILDING UP WOMEN’S POWER, WOMEN’S SELF-ESTEEM, AND TO NEVER QUESTION ANYTHING WOMEN WERE SAYING.
So, men really started to BELIEVE that women really DID just want FAITHFUL RELATIONSHIPS. (And who knows, maybe at one time women really DID just want relationships, but one thing is for sure, the corruption of women changed all that.)
The majority of western men started to REALLY BELIEVE that women really DID just want to have a family and a guy who would be loyal and loving and that the women would be INFINITELY GRATEFUL because such good men were supposedly almost IMPOSSIBLE to find.
Meanwhile, during these DECADES of lies where men were being indoctrinated by feminism, and women were being indoctrinated to believe in feminism as well, women had no reason to STOP taking all the POWER THAT WAS BEING GIVEN OVER WITHOUT BEING EARNED.
And by POWER, I don’t just mean financial or political power.
I also mean EMOTIONAL POWER.
So, for example, a man who believes that women just want a relationship from a faithful guy, and who believes that women are the MORE NOBLE gender, and that women would NEVER take another person for granted, (especially not a GOOD GUY for granted), will BEHAVE accordingly.
So, if a woman does NOT appreciate his great behavior, he will NOT believe this is a reflection of the general state of reality in dating women, he will just RE-INTERPRET the INCONSISTENCY in some way that still PRESERVES the picture of the world of women being perfect that he was INDOCTRINATED WITH SINCE THE MOMENT HE CAME OUT OF HIS MOTHER’S WOMB.
IMPORTANT, THIS.
The moment he was BORN, he was already BATHED AND IMMERSED AND SURROUNDED IN NOTHING BUT FEMINIST PROPAGANDA ABOUT HOW EVIL MEN ARE AND HOW INNOCENT WOMEN ARE AND HOW WOMEN WOULD JUST APPRECIATE A MAN WHO WAS NOT FROM THE EVIL ABUSIVE MEN.
Now, REMEMBER that WOMEN were ALSO growing up in this SAME environment.
So how can THEY be expected to DISAGREE with it?????
And so, WHY ON EARTH WOULD ANY WOMAN RESIST ALL THE POWER BEING GIVEN TO HER, WHEN SHE HERSELF HAS BEEN INDOCTRINATED TO BELIEVE IT IS ALL SOMETHING SHE DESERVES AND IN FACT HAS BEEN TOLD THAT ALL THAT SHE IS GETTING IS STILL NOT ENOUGH, BECAUSE “EVIL MEN” ACTUALLY OWE HER INFINITELY.
Let me tell you something- POWER CORRUPTS, and ABSOLUTE POWER CORRUPTS ABSOLUTELY.
This is why in Plato’s Republic, it states how the leaders of society should be those who DON’T WANT TO BE IN CHARGE, WHO DON’T WANT THE POWER; the leaders should be the PHILOSOPHERS. The PHILOSOPHERS should be the KINGS.
Because they are concerned with TRUTH, not with POWER.
And so when women were BOMBARDED WITH POWER, they didn’t RESIST it, for all the reasons outlined above. People just don’t tend to REFUSE power, especially when everyone is telling them that they DESERVE IT ALL.
FAST FORWARD TO TODAY.
And we somehow WONDER why it is that the feminist movement, aside from a PRECIOUS FEW honest women such as Christina Hoff Summers, is a movement comprised of people who have no knowledge of the TRUTH, or even worse, who don’t CARE about the TRUTH?
We are WONDERING why it is that women seem to have the same or more degrees of CHEATING, and this is not taking into account that women tend to under-report these things.
We are WONDERING why GOOD GUYS are having a PROBLEM with ATTRACTING WOMEN, AND KEEPING RELATIONSHIPS? We wonder why GOOD GUYS ARE GETTING ABUSED EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY, LEGALLY, AND FINANCIALLY by women?
And why men’s needs are being IGNORED by society?
So, NOW, let me get to my MAIN point that I was referring to at the OUTSET of this newsletter.
The REASON that women DON’T FULLY APPRECIATE A GUY WHO IS LOYAL IS FOR THE SAME REASON A BILLIONAIRE DOESN’T APPRECIATE A FREE SANDWICH.
From the time a woman is old enough to date, she is BOMBARDED by attention not just by men who naturally already are attracted to women, but by MEN who are made TEN TIMES MORE DESPERATE BY A CULTURE OF FEMINIST LIES AND PROPAGANDA.
Men THROW THEMSELVES AND THEIR DIGNITY at women in DESPERATE EFFORTS TO GET ANY ATTENTION THEY CAN.
And it’s not just PHYSICALLY.
I get messages from men ALL OVER THE WORLD except from feminist countries, where they are IN LOVE with women who have done NOTHING, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO EARN THAT ATTENTION AND INTENSITY OF EMOTION from these men.
And it’s not just with SUPER ATTRACTIVE WOMEN, it’s often with just TYPICAL WOMEN, neither here nor there, just regular women.
For DECADES, men were TOLD that all women wanted was a guy who would be devoted, and most men were WILLING to do that, and in fact HAPPY to do that, which is actually pretty hard to believe because men are actually HARDWIRED to be more polygamous, but STILL most men would be HAPPY to give up the polygamous pleasure in return for being with a good woman.
And so what happens is that WOMEN are bombarded with ENDLESS GUYS willing to be EVERYTHING TO THEM and these women DON’T APPRECIATE IT. These women in fact feel SMOTHERED BY IT.
And of course, as these men are REJECTED, it makes these men become MORE DESPERATE, and fall deeper into their own ABYSS of despair, which makes these men then act in EVER MORE DESPERATE, UNATTRACTIVE AND UNCONFIDENT WAYS, CREATING A NEVER-ENDING NEGATIVE CYCLE
MEANWHILE, THE GUYS WHO HAVE NO CARING IN THEIR SOUL FOR ANYONE, WHO DON’T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT ANYONE, INCLUDING ABOUT WOMEN, DON’T COME ACROSS NEEDY AT ALL.
They never bought into any of the B.S. propaganda because they simply HAVE NO CAPACITY to give a rat’s ass about ANYONE or what ANYONE says.
And of course it is these guys who don’t smother women with feelings of desperation.
These guys have no human desire for giving and receiving love, so they have NOTHING EMOTIONALLY INVESTED AND THEY CAN JUST PLAY THE PARTY FUN VIBES attitude PERMANENTLY, and are a PERMANENT CHALLENGE TO TODAY’S WOMEN WHO NEED A CHALLENGE.
And then women wonder why they have slept with 30 guys and they were all CREEPS.
Also, it’s important to realize that this corruption starts early with women- it starts the moment that men start to show interest in them, and in fact it even starts earlier as they hear the propaganda from the moment of birth that “women are superior and that women are innocent poor victims of evil men”.
And it’s important that you KNOW THAT WHAT I WRITE HERE IS PROVEN, it’s not a CONSPIRACY THEORY.
One of the most recent and powerful NEW supporters of the truth I have been writing about for almost 13 YEARS since my book “The Dating Wizard” in 2003 is Christina Hoff-Summers, who refers to herself as “The Factual Feminist” as opposed to the ones who stick to lies rather than facts. She’s fantastic for PROOF of all that I write. She is a woman on the side of GOOD. Of TRUTH.
So you HAVE to understand that OFFERING A WOMAN YOUR FAITHFULNESS, YOUR LOYALTY, means about NOTHING to her in a world where a BILLION MEN are offering her the SAME THING.
This is so ABSOLUTELY IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND, because it FLIPS EVERYTHING YOU KNOW UPSIDE-DOWN and is ESSENTIAL FOR YOUR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.
Now, I am not saying to CHEAT on ANY woman; I’m saying that the ONLY time that your FAITHFULNESS matters is AFTER she already WANTS YOU BADLY.
And if you put the CART before the horse, so to speak, by emphasizing your LOYALTY, the only women who respond to you will be the women who truly CAN’T GET ANY GUY ON THE PLANET TO BE INTERESTED IN THEM.
So YEAH, of course, to THEM, your FAITHFULNESS is SOMEWHAT VALUABLE.
And my point here is that WOMEN’S DNA didn’t change as a result of feminism; women want the same thing they HAVE ALWAYS WANTED- the same thing ALL humans want, which is to get whatever is most PRECIOUS.
And today, for women, getting FAITHFUL GUYS is not HARD.
And if a woman is particularly ATTRACTIVE, it’s actually a problem for her, because she can’t meet ONE SINGLE DAMN GUY WHO IS NOT INTERESTED IN TYING HER DOWN WITH A RELATIONSHIP before she even KNOWS if she LIKES him or not.
And so all the guys she meets, even if they learn some pick up artist games and tactics, end up BECOMING SOFT AND WEAK AND NEEDY once they FALL FOR HER.
And of course due to SUPPLY AND DEMAND, and BIOLOGY, most men DO INDEED FALL FOR HER.
These women KNOW THEY HAVE THE VALUE TO GET YOU TO WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM, AND TO WANT TO BE FAITHFUL TO THEM; THEY KNOW THEY CAN GET MEN TO DO THIS!
So, if you are reading this right now, and want to know what to DO to SUCCEED with women, let me state a few things:
1. If you STILL feel WEAK OR DESPERATE for APPROVAL OR RELATIONSHIPS FROM WOMEN, you need to BEEEYOTCH-SLAP YOURSELF SILLY TO SNAP OUT OF IT.
This might seem hard at first, but once you SNAP OUT OF IT, you will see that actually NOT BEING NEEDY FOR THIS IS YOUR TRUE NATURAL STATE, and the fact you WERE feeling low self-esteem or desperate was all part of the BULLSHIT MATRIX THAT THIRD-WAVE FEMINISM WAS TRYING TO MAKE YOU BELIEVE WAS REAL.
You can actually be FREE from ALL of it.
And the IRONY is that THIS WILL UNLEASH your natural sense of fun, of confidence, of MAGNETISM that pulls women into you.
2. STOP DATING TYPICAL WESTERN WOMEN.
In my book, The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today, http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html I go into DETAIL on exactly HOW to find the right women, but for here let me just state that there ARE millions and millions of women that are NOT brainwashed by feminism.
They EXIST, they come from countries where feminism never took off, and they may have recently moved close to you. Just as a clue, feminism took off in North America, Western Europe, Australia, the UK, and a few other places, but that still leaves the REST OF THE ENTIRE WORLD FREE FROM THE POLLUTED EFFECTS OF THIRD-WAVE FEMINISM.
The thing to remember, though, is that just because you meet these women, does not mean there is nothing for you to do- THERE IS ONE THING YOU MUST BE for these women- and that is UNAPOLOGETICALLY MALE.
And this is, IRONICALLY, THE HARDEST DAMN THING TO DO when you have been RAISED IN A CULTURE WHERE FEMINISM MADE YOU FEEL LIKE A CRIMINAL PERVERT EVIL SCUMBAG FOR BEING AND FEELING MASCULINE.
This is where I come in, and where my materials and programs will UNLEASH the REAL YOU, the you that has been REPRESSED BY DECADES OF BAD CONDITIONING.
These women won’t feel BAD WHEN YOU BEHAVE AS A MAN, they will actually feel bad when you start to act like aren’t a man! And the only time they will give you issues is when you start acting like a kiss-up overly-sensitive wuss around them!
They have a sense of humor, they won’t get OFFENDED by a joke. They won’t feel the need to call the cops for a JOKE, for a FLIRT; THEY ENJOY BEING WOMEN AND THEY ENJOY YOUR COMPANY.
Now, obviously, there has to be that COMPATIBILITY as well, where the idiosyncrasies of your personality mesh with hers, but there is no over-arching MASSIVE ISSUE THAT POLLUTES THE WHOLE PERSPECTIVE as THIRD-WAVE FEMINISM DOES TO WOMEN.
Now, if you are reading this newsletter, you can CLEARLY SEE that I DON’T BULLSHIT with you.
I tell it like it IS, and I don’t get my jollies from making things OVER complicated and trying to sound super-smart- ALL I CARE ABOUT IS ACTUALLY STICKING TO THE FACTS, AND ACTUALLY HELPING YOU GET THE KIND OF RESULTS YOU WANT, WITH THE KIND OF WOMEN YOU WANT.
And the BEST THING you can do, aside from getting my programs including my latest book, The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today, at http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html is to either sign up for BOOTCAMP or sign up for my CONSULTATION service.
In BOOTCAMP, you spend two days with me, where I UNTANGLE all the TOXIC EMOTIONAL WASTE that has been holding you back with women for years, possibly DECADES, and I also take you out into real places to approach and attract women, showing you it all in person, and coaching you as YOU do it on women for real as well.
When you sign up for BOOTCAMP, you are ensuring that you LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN.
In bootcamp, I can SEE any mistakes you are making, and CORRECT them, RIGHT THERE ON THE SPOT.
I have been teaching men how to attract women for well over a DECADE, and in all those years, all I did was build up credibility, year after year, having my students observed many times by members of the press as they succeeded in attracting women, and during all those years I NEVER “sold out” and NEVER taught GIMMICKS.
My training is and always has been focused on the REAL ELEMENTS that make the DIFFERENCE between SUCCESS and FAILURE.
The fact of the matter is, there is absolutely NO INSTRUCTOR IN THE WORLD WITH MORE CREDIBILITY.
And, in my training, you will also learn how to DETECT the RIGHT kind of women who are NOT brainwashed by feminism, and also how to DETECT great character as well, so that you are not wasting time on the wrong women when you can be spending that time pursuing the RIGHT women.
Plus, of course, you will learn ALL THE COMPONENTS of success, ranging from super-strong inner confidence, to how to unleash your sense of humor, and how to build a strong connection.
Bootcamp is at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html
The fact of the matter is, that my bootcamp is so powerful, that many, many, MANY men end up meeting the woman of their DREAMS very quickly after graduating from the bootcamp. I’ve even had several men meet the women they ended up MARRYING, just DAYS after graduating from bootcamp.
And these women are striking in EVERY WAY- beautiful, intelligent, wise, loving, and dedicated.
Now, I also realize that not EVERYONE can IMMEDIATELY make it out to bootcamp, so if you need IMMEDIATE URGENT HELP with ANY matter related to dating, attraction, or relationships, you can also arrange PRIVATE CONSULTATIONS WITH ME BY PHONE.
Some guys just need ONE consultation, and other guys keep coming back whenever they have a question they need ANSWERED. It’s completely up to you, I simply GIVE YOU WHAT YOU NEED, AND CAN BE THERE WITHIN 24 HOURS, sometimes even SOONER.
One consultation can be the difference between GETTING the love of your life or letting it slip through your fingers. It can be the difference between a life of JOY and a life of REGRET.
Consultations are at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html
And if you haven’t yet got my NEW book, DOWNLOAD IT IMMEDIATELY. It is PACKED with ESSENTIAL INFORMATION for success with women today, and it will show you EXACTLY how to get yourself a GREAT woman.
It’s called The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today, and it's at:
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Till next time,
Michael Marks
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