Today is an EXTREMELY important newsletter
for any man who wants to do better with women,
or who wants to understand the truth about what
is REALLY happening today with many women.
It is the result of some very powerful insights,
including not just my own that come from YEARS
of observation and actual experience, but also from
the observations and experience of another person
who is someone I have been working closely with
on this topic for many years.
In the western world, (specifically, the countries
where feminist propaganda is in full effect, which
means primarily the English speaking countries,
also known as the "Anglosphere") - the greatest
single source of the problem when it comes to the
areas of dating, relationships, and meeting women,
approaching women, attracting women, (and in fact
many OTHER issues in life these days) ALL that stuff is:
AN OVERBLOWN SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT IN
MANY WOMEN IN THEIR BASIC SENSE THAT
MEN SHOULD KISS UP TO WOMEN AND TOLERATE
ANYTHING FROM WOMEN.
Those words should be EMBLAZONED in your
mind, they should ECHO forever in your soul,
if you want to know what the REAL ISSUE is
in the current INSANE situation out there.
So let me get to the FIRST manifestation of this
OVERBLOWN SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT.
The Stereotypical Feminist Propaganda
In a nutshell, I can explain the whole thing.
Women, as human beings, deserve to be respected
just like men deserve to be respected. There was
a time when women in our culture were not
given the vote (just like there was a time when
most men also did not have any political power)
and various forms of discrimination were in play
against women.
For the most part, that time in our culture has
PASSED. Today, women are more present in
universities than men, men are the ones committing
suicide more often than women, men are the ones
dropping dead more often than women from illness,
women tend to make the same wages for the same
work, etc, etc. etc. Today, when a woman is an
astronaut, it’s not even news, it’s just another day.
However, FEMINISTS tend to act as if women in
in the western world (they tend to do very little
for women outside the western world) are being treated
HORRIBLY by men in the west, as if women are these
victims of a non-stop nightmare situation at the hands
of men.
Over the years, the basic message given to women
was, and still is:
YOU ARE SUPER DUPER SPECIAL, YOU DESERVE
TO HAVE YOUR BUTT KISSED BY MEN, BY ALL MEN.
YOU ARE SUPER SPECIAL JUST BECAUSE YOU
ARE A WOMAN.
WOMEN CAN DO ANYTHING MEN CAN DO,
BUT WOMEN CAN DO IT BETTER.
MEN ARE EVIL, DISGUSTING, SCUM BAGS
WOMEN MUST STICK TOGETHER AGAINST MEN,
REGARDLESS OF WHETHER THE MEN ARE RIGHT
OR NOT.
INTERPRET ALL ACTIONS BY MEN AS SUSPECT.
There are other destructive aspects of feminism as well,
such as the attempt to destroy the very concept of
FEMININITY, which is of course the very thing that
men are attracted to in women in the first place!
I don’t want to go off on a tangent here, but this is also
extremely destructive, of course.
What’s crazy about this is that most women actually
WANT to be feminine, as it is a natural inclination for
most women, but because the leaders of most feminist
groups tend to be MASCULINE, they want to actually
force all the OTHER women to ALSO be masculine-
this is a perverted attempt by feminist leaders to
feel “normal” by forcing all the other women to
NOT BE NORMAL and imitate the feminist
LEADERS’ aberrations from most women’s
natural inclinations.
But for now, let’s just stick to the general issue
of feminists teaching women to think they are
all SUPER SPECIAL, SUPER IMPORTANT,
AND SUPERIOR TO MEN.
It doesn’t take a ROCKET SCIENTIST to
see the general TRUTH of this, and to see
the IMPACT this has made in our society,
ONCE YOU HAVE BEEN WOKEN UP
OUT OF THE ‘MATRIX’.
In other words, when you are ‘asleep’ under
the brainwashing you have been exposed to
from an entire lifetime, including most importantly
being BORN into a society that teaches you from
BIRTH that as a man, you must make a SPECIAL
effort to CATER to women, because WOMEN
ARE INHERENTLY the SUPERIOR ONES,
you might not see how insane this is.
But let’s take it FURTHER.
Not only do MEN get brainwashed from birth
that they are somehow under the OBLIGATION
to prove to women that they are GOOD AND
NICE AND NOT RAPISTS OR ABUSIVE,
but at the SAME TIME women are being told
the OPPOSITE message in terms of how WOMEN
should behave:
In other words, while MEN are being brainwashed
to KISS UP to women, women are being brainwashed
to LOOK DOWN at men.
And then we wonder why it is that men will line
up around the block to get into a nightclub to meet
women, men will pay big bucks to get into the club,
only to get mostly rejected for acting in the very
ways they were told to act, i.e. buying drinks, showing
how nice they can be, showing how they don’t plan
to do anything sexual, etc, etc, etc.
And of course, the women will get in free, will
get free drinks, etc, etc.
If a man wants to get a woman attracted, he must
NOT try to behave in a FEMININE way. He must
behave in a MASCULINE way.
And, contrary to feminist nonsense, he will be
MORE SUCCESSFUL with women by actually
making women FEEL MORE FEMININE, not
LESS FEMININE. And women will feel MORE
feminine in the presence of a man who is MASCULINE.
So, NOT kissing up to women is one way to do that.
NOT apologizing for being interested in a woman
in a physical way is another way to do that.
NOT acting like a woman is doing a FAVOR
for you by going out with you is ANOTHER way.
NOT spending big bucks on a woman is another way.
Spending big bucks on a woman you just met is saying
that you feel you don’t have enough value as a MAN
for her, so you have to COMPENSATE by giving her
big bucks in terms of gifts, favors, etc.
But let me get back to the challenges created
by women being told, from birth, that they are
so GREAT just for BEING women.
What this results in, is that women in the west
go from being innocent creatures to being
indoctrinated with the belief that they are
so special, that men are inherently INFERIOR.
When someone believes that OTHERS are not
as important, it is basically saying the others
are SUB-HUMAN compared to one’s self.
So, these women grow up COMPLETELY IGNORING
THE MALE PERSPECTIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A man has an EVOLUTIONARY, BIOLOGICAL
HARD-WIRING to not want a PROMISCUOUS
woman as a girlfriend?
The feminist-brainwashed woman’s response to
that is: MEH
Actually, it’s LESS than MEH.
IT NEVER EVEN GETS HEARD IN THE FIRST
PLACE, the VERY THOUGHT OF CONSIDERING
ANYTHING A MAN HAS TO SAY IS NEVER
SERIOUSLY CONSIDERED, SINCE IT’S,
IN HER OPINION, NOT IMPORTANT, IT’S
SUB-HUMAN, IT’S LESS HUMAN, LESS
WORTHY.
So basically, to so many women, the opinions
of even the MOST IGNORANT FELLOW WOMAN,
is worth more than a man’s opinion, unless of course,
that man PARROTS the FEMINIST PERSPECTIVE.
So if a woman has a difference of opinion with
her boyfriend on something in the relationship,
she will value the opinion of her fellow female
friend FAR MORE than what her boyfriend says.
And if this results in the boyfriend dumping the
woman, the woman’s girlfriend will just say
to the woman that “she deserves BETTER”.
And when ultimately every guy gets sick of her
b.s. and dumps her, again, she will FIGURE
THAT FOR SURE IT’S ALL THE MEN WHO
HAD THE PROBLEMS, IT CAN’T POSSIBLY
BE HER, SINCE AFTER ALL, SINCE BIRTH,
EVERYWHERE SHE TURNED, SHE WAS
CONSTANTLY TOLD SHE IS SUPER-DUPER
SPECIAL AND ALWAYS SUPERIOR TO MEN
AND THAT ALL MEN WANT HER NO MATTER
WHAT THE HECK SHE DOES.
Such is the degree of feminist infiltration into the
cultural mindset.
And this is why you see so many men spewing
out feminist nonsense, they are usually either
BRAINWASHED, or they are scared of what will
happen if they don’t agree with their girlfriends or
wives, or they are scared of not pleasing women in
general, lest, they fear, they will not get any approval
from women.
Of course, the irony is that the men who KNOW
THE TRUTH actually attract women far easier
than the men who kiss up to the feminist nonsense.
By the way, just in case any one doubts
what I am saying, I want to make it clear
that the general effect of telling someone
they are PERFECT when in fact they are
NOT, is SUPER DESTRUCTIVE and a
FORMULA for DISASTER, regardless of
WHO is being told they are perfect always
since birth.
In fact, this is a HUGE problem with parenting
in our generation. For thousands of years, if
not millions, CHILDREN grew up FAST.
They had to face HARDSHIPS very early.
And parents did NOT baby their children for
very long at ALL.
I know that growing up, my father was NOT
one to baby ANYONE in the family. I NEVER
got the feeling that I was super special.
In fact, when I got a good mark on a test,
I never thought I was going to get some kind
of REWARD for it. I figured it’s my job to
work HARD, just like it was my dad’s job to
go to work. I felt DECENT for getting a good mark
on a test, but not AMAZING.
I was raised being told to just do my best and
to not screw around, and that I should appreciate
the OPPORTUNITY because the world had so much
more ROUGH situations than what I was facing.
So there was not really a huge UP for “success”,
nor a big DOWN for “failure”, at least not from
THEM, it was more my own PERSONAL feeling
of frustration if I didn’t do well. And THAT motivated
me to work even HARDER- IT WAS ALL SELF-
MOTIVATION.
And basically, this was the standard parenting
practice, this was OLD SCHOOL.
But then, the so called “experts” came in and
started telling parents that it’s so important to
make sure children feel SPECIAL, to the point
that parents KISS UP TO KIDS LIKE CRAZY
to keep them feeling happy and special, and the
result is that this creates a HUGE problem.
The problem is that if someone is told to believe
they are SPECIAL for doing NOTHING, regardless
of their BEHAVIOR, regardless of their achievements,
you end up creating a person who is INFINITELY
SELFISH, INFINITELY NARCISSISTIC.
In the movie FIGHT CLUB, there is a scene
where one of the characters talks about how
we were all promised we would be ROCK STARS
but we HAVEN’T ALL BECOME ROCK STARS.
And I think the point is not rock stars verbatim.
The point is SUCCESS.
The point is, you don’t just become a SUCCESS
in life because it would be NICE.
You don’t get special treatment just because you exist.
It’s the result of HARD WORK, and often there is
a bit of luck to it as well.
So, if you want to experience INNER PEACE, it’s
important to EXPERIENCE AND SUSTAIN
INNER PEACE WITHOUT getting special
ADORATION from anyone!!!!
This actually IS possible.
This is where things like meditation come into play.
You don't NEED much external stuff to feel inner peace.
Whether it’s fans, or whether it’s getting the desire
from men if you’re a woman, or getting the desire of
of women if you’re a man.
Do you see the common link with feminism?
Feminism preaches to women that they are all
SPECIAL just for being women.
To be special, DO something special.
Have a special character.
And the number ONE special thing that person
‘A’ REALLY cares about in person ‘B’ is how
much person ‘B’ gives a DAMN about person ‘A’!
Meanwhile, though, feminists have taught women
to NEGATE the importance of MEN, and also
to a degree MANY youngsters in the latest generation
of WESTERNIZED men and women have been taught
by their well-intentioned but misguided parents that
they are MORE IMPORTANT than everyone else.
So, of course, this spells DISASTER on the
HUMAN COMMUNICATIONS FRONT!
Women who by and large DISRESPECT men and
feel men are to be USED, and many of the younger
generation both male and female being taught that
NO ONE ELSE’S PERSPECTIVES are valid since
no one else is as important as them.
It is important to note that both feminism and
modern parenting are the result of PENDULUMS
swinging too far to one extreme.
So in the effort to help women get equality, men
have succumbed to an INSANE dose of FEMINISM,
and in the effort to help give their own children a
more “caring” environment than what they had,
parents are giving kids WAYYYYYYYYYYYYY
tooo much CREDIT AND POWER, with HORRIFYING
EFFECTS.
And again, I must use the word HORRIFYING.
The absolute worst thing for a human being is to
think he or she is perfect.
If someone feels they are perfect, then what happens
is that it then becomes OKAY to ABUSE others,
since those others are SUB-HUMAN, they are
LESS HUMAN, LESS WORTHY, and so they
don’t have any MERIT to what they say.
And because human GREED, not just for money,
but for fame, for honor, for respect, for ALL
SELFISHNESS, knows NO BOUNDS, NO LIMITS,
it is the most DANGEROUS THING to allow humans
to think they are perfect.
Once people think they are perfect, or even superior,
they can then do ANY NIGHTMARISH BEHAVIOR
YOU CAN IMAGINE, and feel PERFECTLY GOOD
ABOUT DOING IT AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN
TILL THE LAST BREATH OF THEIR LIVES.
Does this mean YOU SHOULD HAVE LOW SELF-ESTEEM?
Of course not, you can and should have high self-esteem,
but NOT as the result of thinking you are perfect.
High self-esteem should come from being able to
FORGIVE OURSELVES for not being perfect!
After all, we are all just HUMANS who ain’t
PERFECT, and we NEED to have interactions
with others who are HONEST with us in order
for ourselves to have an accurate picture.
We’ve all F-ED up in our lives.
We’ve all SCREWED up.
NOBODY has never made any mistakes.
The trick is to LEARN from it, to forgive ourselves
and genuinely LEARN.
Stay away from those kinds of people who
INTENTIONALLY TRY TO DESTROY YOUR
SELF-ESTEEM, but don’t negate the opinions
of EVERYONE.
There needs to be a healthy balance of self-love
and also of self-critique, that comes from not
instantly negating all other perspectives.
Without self-critique, all humans, and all human
organizations, are DOOMED.
Feminism has resulted in women that are UNABLE
to even PERCEIVE of the possibility that maybe
AT LEAST SOME MEN actually DO have a VALID
WORTHY PERSPECTIVE- and not just the men
who parrot the feminist perspective.
So, in summary, there are two major issues when
it comes to dating and interactions between men
and women today:
One is the effect of feminism- it has made many
women far too narcissistic to even be CONSIDERED
as a relationship possibility.
The second is the general effect of modern parenting
on both boys and girls – it is resulting in a society
where people are addicted to anything that can
REINFORCE the narcissistic tendencies that their
parents have unintentionally instilled in them –
such as the addiction to Facebook and to creating
a false image that seems cooler than they think
they really are, such as by doing whatever they
can to get more followers on Facebook, etc.
But to blame it all on Facebook is ridiculous-
as it is the DESIRE to be worshiped that is the
problem, which resulted from misguided parenting.
The bottom line is, people need to start seeing
how it is not only OKAY to not be perfect,
but how it is IMPERATIVE to see it, and to
FORGIVE ONE’S SELF FOR IT, and to
TRY TO GIVE MORE OF A RAT’S ASS
ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE, and also of course
women need to wake up to how they have been
screwed over by feminists, because men aren’t
interested for real in being in a relationship with
women who are not going to respect them.
And now for what this all means for you as man:
You probably already know that humans want
to be respected. The key with women (and don’t
waste your time on feminist-brainwashed women)
is to show respect, but not to become a kiss up, not
to become needy with women.
The irony is that the reason acting a bit cocky
works with women is in the INITIAL STAGES,
because it actually shows LESS SELFISHNESS
in the current dating climate.
Currently, most men are SO NEEDY (and
we can understand why, since feminism has
screwed up the balance) they will make a woman
into their ENTIRE MEANING FOR EXISTENCE,
and they will call the woman ten times a day every
day and it’s just too overwhelming and too much
and too needy.
So when a man meets a new woman, and
exhibits some playful cockiness, that’s good,
but that DOESN’T MEAN that he should
CONSTANTLY ACT COCKY once he is
already past the initial interaction.
The confidence displayed is important not
because narcissistic behavior is attractive,
as it’s not, the confidence is important and
attractive because it shows a woman early
on when she is in the deciding stage, it
shows her that you are not going to be needy
and weak and to be demanding all her time
and controlling her out of fear, etc.
The second take-away from all this is just
how important it is to not let YOURSELF
get caught up in this narcissistic culture.
Find a woman who doesn’t think she is perfect,
and tries to improve herself, but also is able to
forgive herself for not being perfect.
Be the same way yourself- realize that nobody
is perfect, try to improve, and forgive yourself
for not being perfect- NOBODY is perfect.
One can be confident even while still having
HUMILITY. This was one of the biggest lessons
I had to learn growing up.
The number one way I was able to get over
some woman I was obsessed with, when I
was 17, and it took years for me to develop this,
was to realize that HUMILITY is a GOOD THING.
I had a mentor, who basically told me to have
more HUMILITY.
When I realized that I wasn’t so special just because
I EXISTED, I started to realize, why SHOULN’T
I have to go through this? What makes me so special
that I should get this woman, just because I want her
so much? Sure, I might want her, but so what? Yeah,
I’m a decent enough guy, I would treat her well, but
why does the universe OWE ME this?
So, yah, it’s gonna be hell getting over this disappointment,
(and believe me, it was, even though ultimately it did turn
out to be the best thing, since it freed me to finally realize
that indeed there really ARE more fish in the sea and it
ultimately led to me helping men across the planet) but
why does the universe owe ME some kind of special
treatment?
The HUMILITY part of the lesson was more important
to me than all the other women in the world, since at
the moment, I didn’t care for all the other women in the
world, I wanted one particular woman. But the
HUMILITY worked.
This is another reason why showing off is so unattractive.
It reeks of someone who is so narcissistic with so little
humility that he thinks everyone else actually CARES
about those things more than the actual SOCIAL
element of the interaction.
In other words, what REALLY matters is how he
contributes to the way everyone ELSE feels
in the interaction.
And it’s so simple- just think more about respecting
the OTHER person, without kissing up.
When you meet women, be on the LOOKOUT for
signs of an overblown sense of ENTITLEMENT.
If she disrespects you or anyone else, FORGET HER.
It’s not worth the HELL she will create in your life.
Get yourself a GREAT GIRL.
Because the RIGHT women are not easily
found, you have to meet LOTS of women
in order to find the RIGHT one.
And that is why it is SO IMPORTANT TO LEARN
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Till next time,
Michael Marks
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