Monday, January 12, 2015

Attracting Women: The Importance Of BALANCE

Approach anxiety is one of those topics
that is mostly misunderstood, so I thought
I would clear it up.

If a guy is feeling a little nervous before approaching
a woman, that is NOT really approach anxiety.

MOST GUYS on the planet are going to feel
SOME anxiety before approaching a woman,
especially if it is a woman they are really attracted to,
and especially if they are approaching a woman
who is a complete stranger, and especially if
she is in some place that is not particularly made
for socializing.

But there is a much more INTENSE issue of
approach anxiety- a TRUE anxiety.

I’m talking actually feeling ANXIETY to the
point of NOT BEING ABLE TO TAKE ACTION
when seeing a woman you want to get to know.

So, I made a program that is designed for guys
who REALLY experience APPROACH ANXIETY-
a program designed to OBLITERATE that
anxiety.

It is, without exaggeration, the absolute BEST
program on the PLANET for obliterating approach
anxiety.

I am so one BILLION percent confident about this,
I actually WANT guys to please try the competition
and compare the difference.

I KNOW this program is the best, because it is
NOT based on GUESSWORK. It is based on
REAL PROVEN RESEARCH and it is the most
METHODICAL, STEP BY STEP, LOGICAL,
and  COMPREHENSIVE APPROACH to
SOLVING this issue for GOOD.

This program is NOT about all the STRATEGIES
for how to attract- those are in my other programs-
this program is EXCLUSIVELY about how to
OBLITERATE APPROACH ANXIETY.

It is called OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY.

It has NOTHING to do with “thinking positive”.
It is NOT the same old advice.
It is not about “just go approach and do it”.

And I’ve made it so there is very little excuse
NOT to get this program. It’s priced at $19.97.

Get this program and learn full details HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/approach-anxiety.html

I should mention one other thing here as well-
the most important things in life  usually have
government regulation around them. On one hand,
it kind of sucks that this is necessary, but on the
other hand, it PURE PROFIT was allowed to
be the ONLY FORCE driving things, you could
imagine what a nightmare it would be- imagine
if doctors, police officers, fire fighters, and countless
other crucial services operated ONLY on a
principle of profit, and decided to abandon
all other concerns.

When it comes to the dating advice field,
it's pretty much the WILD WEST, there is
almost NO regulation at all. So you can understand
that the dynamics of the market reward those
"dating coaches" who cater to those men who
desire EXCESS in this area of their lives.    

To me, helping men meet women is a VITAL
service. The thing is, it’s only vital in the sense
of MAN needs WOMAN in order to have BALANCE.

It’s not vital in that man does not need to
have tons of one night stands and orgies.
In fact, in my opinion, that would probably
lead to a LACK of balance.

In general, engaging in any form of excess is not
satisfying, and in fact it usually is far more destructive
than helpful.    

I have always known since childhood that
BALANCE is the important thing.

So, food is important, but PIGGING OUT
on junk food and drinking to excess is NOT
the same as the importance of food from a
BALANCED perspective.

BALANCE, BALANCE, BALANCE.
We truly lack BALANCE in society today.

People want to have SUPER-SIZE portions.
They want things EXTRA SWEET.
EXTRA SALTY.
TONS OF WOMEN.
INSTANT PLEASURE, LESS WORK. 

But in the BIG PICTURE, we were not
DESIGNED to take in MORE THAN
A BALANCED AMOUNT of STIMULATION,
whether it is food, women, status, fame, etc.

A lot of people want to be famous so bad that
they are slaves to having FACEBOOK followers
or TWITTER followers. People want to be on
REALITY TV to be famous.

People want to be famous just to be famous, but
they don't realize that EXCESS in any these things
(it's one thing to appreciate your friends, it's
something else to want a million people adoring you)
is not going to give them the feeling they seek-
a feeling of BALANCE.

Just like too much sugar eventually
gives you an energy CRASH, so too does
INDULGING TOO MUCH in the desire
for women, social status, respect, etc.,
result in a short-lived adrenaline rush,
followed by a feeling of emptiness.

We are HARDWIRED to want to have these things
because we need them IN SMALL AMOUNTS.

If we had no MOTIVATION for the opposite sex,
for food, for social approval, etc, we, or rather our genes,
our DNA, would be wiped out from the gene pool.

But in today’s society, the NEW challenge is not
how to GET QUANTITY, as the “price” of quantity
has come down. It’s EASY to get promiscuous women,
it’s EASY to get LOTS OF CALORIES, it’s easy to
get ATTENTION.

It's even easy for some to avoid PHYSICAL work
and it's easy for some to never engage in exercise.

It's also easy to get caught up in EXCESS of things-
including even things like exercise.

The new challenge is EXERCISING DISCIPLINE
AND FINDING BALANCE.

The middle road, when it comes to most things,
is where the wise man goes.
So this is what GET A GREAT GIRL is about.
I take it VERY seriously.

It’s NOT important to me to teach men how to
get strippers, how to get orgies, etc.

It IS important for me to teach those men out there
who just seek BALANCE when it comes to women.

Since there is so little money in actually helping people,
because people are weak and are attracted to EXCESS,
no one else out there really seems to give a damn 
that there actually is a NEED for someone to HELP
GOOD GUYS OUT, guys that aren’t interested in acting
all arrogant about pick up artist skills, guys that are wise
enough to know that orgies are ultimately not where
it’s at in REAL LIFE.

I believe in balance.

I don't go around telling men to avoid women.
I don't go around telling men to try to score
with as many women as possible.

I think it’s IMPORTANT to be able to learn these
skills and have choices, so that you are not in a position
of DESPERATION with women, but rather a position
of calm and empowerment.

I think it’s important that the woman you choose
feels EXCITED to be with you. It’s important for
you, and it’s important for her. You don’t want
her to be with you as some sort of FAVOR, you
want her to be with you because she is ATTRACTED
to you.

If you want to learn the BALANCED perspective
on finding the right woman, attracting women,
and keeping the right woman, I suggest you take
my bootcamp, arrange a consultation, or check out
my home study programs.

BOOTCAMP is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Phone Coaching Is At:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Home Study Programs Are At:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks

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