Yesterday, there was an article in the Wall
Street Journal by Matthew Kaminski,
it said the following:
“Vladimir Putin sees a West made soft
by money, led by weak men and women,
unwilling to make sacrifices to defend
their so-called ideals.”
You might be wondering what the heck
this has to do with dating, relationships,
and quality women.
And the answer is, A LOT.
Let's compare our current generation to
a few generations back.
How much SACRIFICE was a couple prepared
to endure to make a relationship or marriage
work, compared to today?
To what degree was something like LOYALTY
and COMMITMENT celebrated compared to today?
These things are not existing in a vacuum
in a society that also celebrates selfishness
in ALL areas to no limit.
It’s not a coincidence that these things are happening in the last several decades, when things like family, relationships, marriage, and love of country have become attacked by the forces of UNFETTERED greed, lust, and selfish individual desire.
I say “unfettered” because, the truth is,
SELFISHNESS to a degree, IS important,
it IS natural, we MUST take care of ourselves,
but not to the point of INSANITY.
Just to prove how far things have gone,
can you IMAGINE there existing
websites that actually PROMOTE
affairs, 50 years ago?
50 years ago, if a politician was caught in
a SCANDAL, or lying, it was a big deal.
NOW, we practically EXPECT IT and
what is even more, we tend to EXCUSE
it, as long as it doesn’t affect our
FINANCIAL lives.
Who cares if a president or prime minster
cheats on his wife?
Who cares if a president lies, or if he has
never served his country in battle?
DOES IT AFFECT MY MONEY?????
Who cares if a president’s wife has said
things like she has barely felt any love or
pride for her country, as long as it doesn’t
affect my WALLET, right?????????????
As a society, we make the mistake of thinking
that if something isn't TANGIBLE, that it
is not important.
So something like a president's or prime minister's
CHARACTER doesn't seem important to a lot of people,
all people want to know is will it give them more
money or less money.
The GREATEST IRONY OF ALL is that
we are simultaneously living in the most
politically correct time in history.
As my best friend has stated, the truth is that
POLITICAL CORRECTNESS has actually
become a way to get away with GREAT EVIL.
So, on the SURFACE, we are as a society
very POLITICALLY CORRECT.
God forbid you should make a joke that might
possibly not kiss someone’s butt, even if it is
meant in a good way. Don’t even admit you
enjoy a woman’s beauty, that is a big sin.
And the kind of politically incorrect
entertainment that is on, like Family Guy,
is not designed to ELEVATE us, it is
designed to just shock us, meanwhile,
a few decades ago, a politically incorrect
show like ALL IN THE FAMILY was designed
to make us think and to elevate us morally.
Overall though, today, we are very
politically correct on the SURFACE.
Meanwhile, please go on and secretly
have affairs, cheat people in business,
BE LENIENT ON corporate fraud, and lie
through your teeth, all in the name of making
more money or having more sex.
Yes, in a few ways we have made progress, and
it is true that things like women getting the vote
and fighting against various forms of discrimination
have been MASSIVELY IMPORTANT things. We've
also improved in terms of MEDICINE.
I like to keep things honest.
Aside from those admittedly HUGE things, however,
we have LOST a ton of SOUL-SUSTAINING things
as well, and it mostly stems from celebrating GREED
and LUST and not having enough of a celebration of
things like DISCIPLINE and LOYALTY.
So it’s no surprise that relationships are suffering
as well, as hundreds of millions of people have
become brainwashed by the new ideals.
It used to be, that the Western world celebrated
FREEDOM, but also celebrated the RESPONSIBLE
USE of FREEDOM.
It is for these reasons why it has become ever
more important to be SELECTIVE when
it comes to the women you allow into your life.
One of the most bizarre things is that the
pick up artists PRETEND to show they are
screening women, because they know it
makes it SEEM like they are having high
standards, which is attractive, but I actually
MEAN IT, it’s not a game, you must really
HAVE these high standards if you actually
want to meet a woman of quality.
A woman that is not brainwashed by the b.s.
It is also an interesting irony that some of the
greatest women I have met come from countries
where they had so little freedom, that when they
DID come to the west, they APPRECIATED
the freedom so much that they CHERISHED
IT and used it WISELY.
It wasn’t an opportunity to go out and have affairs
or screw people over in business, it was an opportunity
to reach one’s full potential, get educated, be creative,
have a family, and enjoy life.
Getting a great woman today is truly a challenge.
It’s also real hard for those women to meet
a great guy.
You must be RUTHLESS AND HARD in your SCREENING
when it comes to dating women.
First of all, BEING THIS WAY is in ITSELF
attractive to a quality woman. She is
ATTRACTED to the fact you are STRONG
enough to RESIST women who do NOT
meet your standards.
In fact, SOME women actually ACT BADLY
JUST TO SEE IF YOU WILL NOT TAKE THEIR B.S.
I personally don't suggest you date those
women, but those women do exist.
Second of all, you must be this way in order
to be in the RIGHT FRAME OF MIND to preserve
your character.
It is a slippery slope, once you start to
ACCEPT the wrong ideals, the wrong values,
the wrong behavior from a woman, you start
to DOUBT YOUR OWN MORAL CODE, you start to
go against your own cherished values, you
start to experience INNER CONFLICT, you
become SOFT AND WEAK, and guess what?
This repulses ALL WOMEN!
Be tough, be strong, be RUTHLESS about your
values, defend them to the last breath.
And you will see just how far women will go
to get you, and of course, you will also now
have to be doubly strong, as this very action will
often make so many women attracted to you,
that you will have to SHUN the attention
of the wrong women and ONLY allow in the
right ones.
If you are serious about getting a quality woman,
you should probably sign up for my new monthly
audio program, called The Quality Man. It is
all about how to find and attract those rare
quality women that still exist.
It's at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/thequalityman.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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