Saturday, January 18, 2014

Attract A Woman FIRST, "Logic" Her SECOND


One of the most important things I can
tell you about attracting a woman is   
something that flies completely in
the face of commonly accepted advice
on how to attract women.

The common advice is to focus on
giving a woman all the LOGICAL
reasons for why she should be with you.

For example, pointing out to a woman
that you both have common interests
and passions.

Now, I’m not saying that there is NO
POINT in doing that at all, and in fact
doing a LITTLE bit of that may very
well be NECESSARY to sometimes
get the ball rolling.

But there is a TERRIBLE DANGER
present when you start to tell a woman
or convey to a woman why you two
SHOULD be together.  For example,
telling a woman that you both have
a similar interest in a certain hobby
or activity or topic.

The PROBLEM with doing too much of that
is that it not only has NOTHING to do with
PRIMAL ATTRACTION, it actually sends
a message to a woman’s subconscious that
actually the LOGICAL REASONS are the
ONLY reasons to be with you, and that there
is no REAL PRIMAL ATTRACTION going
on, and that these so called logical reasons
are a COMPENSATION PRIZE for being
willing to go out with a guy that she does
NOT feel intense attraction for.

In FACT, what you REALLY want to be doing is
actually looking to convey to her a powerful reason
for why she should "LOGICALLY" NOT BE WITH YOU,
(because there are so many obstacles/sacrifices/
inconveniences/efforts that have to be made to be
with you) but for ILLOGICAL reasons that are solely
to do with HER PASSION for you, she SHOULD be
with you.

This way, in her mind, it becomes VERY CLEAR THAT
HER INTEREST IN YOU IS SOLELY THE PRODUCT
OF "ANIMAL ATTRACTION", which is, of course, the
most powerful of all forms of attraction, and ultimately
is the ONLY "logical" strategy to pursue if you want to
attract a woman in the most powerful way.

Will this work on every woman? No, but this is the
ONLY method to go on, because any woman who will
ONLY be with you because of logical reasons is going
to be giving you a very WEAK love, a very WEAK
attraction, a very WEAK connection, a very WEAK
everything.

You WANT a woman who is CRAZY for you, who
doesn't CARE what it TAKES to be with you, who
will go through HELL and HIGH WATER to be
with you.

THAT, my friends, is the WAY IT SHOULD BE
AND THE WAY IT HAS TO BE IF YOU WANT
LONG-TERM PASSION WITH A WOMAN.
 
Any other kind of "love" is B.S. once you have
experienced a woman who is WILD for you. 

This is a HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE
LESSON for any man, especially a good man who
only has the best interests of a woman in mind.

What so often happens is that good men want to
make it clear to women that there is so much more
than just animal attraction going on; they want to
make it clear to these women that things will work
long term for all the logical reasons, but the PROBLEM
with this is that ANIMAL ATTRACTION will just
about ALWAYS trump BORING LOGIC when it
comes to a woman’s decision to be with a man.

Again, by "logical reasons", I mean reasons that
sound like good rational reasons for being with
someone but don't really have to do with INTENSE
ATTRACTION. 

This is the reason, of course, that the most successful
romantic stories of all time (think of Romeo and Juliet,
and the movies Titanic and The Notebook) always had
massive "logical" reasons for why the woman and man
in the story should NOT be with each other, and only
ONE reason for why they should: RAW, OVERWHELMING,
ANIMAL ATTRACTION.

Starting off with having too many "robot logic"
reasons on one’s mind (i.e. "we get along so well" or
"we both love literature" or "we both work out a lot"
or any other "logical" reason that is not about RAW
ATTRACTION) for why one should be with someone,
actually DISPLACES the RAW SEXUAL ATTRACTION
one feels for that person.

Instead, you want to establish yourself in HER mind as
the man she feels RAW, ANIMAL, INTENSE,and
UNCONTROLLABLE ATTRACTION for.

However, you will PREVENT this if you try to make things
TOO SMOOTH on the "LOGICAL FRONT"!

I know it sounds crazy, but it is true.  Think about
it for your OWN attraction to various women over
the years.  Have you ever noticed women that you
felt MASSIVE attraction for, at least initially, and
also noticed that there were many PROBLEMS
or CHALLENGES that would be involved in actually
BEING with her?

In other words, plenty of logical reasons to NOT
be with her?

Whether it was family or friends who would not
approve, whether it was barriers put up by physical
long distances, or whether it was any of a trillion
other reasons, these things only ENHANCED your
attraction to these women.

The reason for this is because all this only made it
CLEARER to you that in fact your ANIMAL
ATTRACTION was so strong that all these things
that were barriers were STILL not enough to stop
your attraction for these women.

(There are also other reasons for this that go beyond
the scope of this newsletter, that have to do with
how to allow her to fully and deeply experience you
as the perfect fantasy man in her mind, so that even
when she meets the reality, the fantasy concept will
 work to your advantage to cast everything about you
in the best possible light.)   
 
In fact, sometimes, this phenomenon is SO powerful,
that the very ELEMENT of CHALLENGES AND
OBSTACLES and all the other logical reasons for
NOT being with someone END UP BEING THE
VERY FORCES THAT ATTRACT ONE TO THE
OTHER!

Now, I’m not saying that you should MAKE UP
false problems or false reasons for why she
should not be with you, but you SHOULD
playfully push women AWAY so that they can
experience the JOY of REALIZING THAT
WHAT THEY FEEL FOR YOU IS ACTUALLY
ATTRACTION and is not just some kind of
boring logical reason to be with you.   

Playfully push women AWAY by telling them
things like  you are a very hard to get guy,
that it takes a lot to impress you, that you
hate breaking women’s hearts, but that you
might end up breaking hers, etc, etc, etc.

PLAYFULLY, not MALICIOUSLY.

Give a woman a chance to have to FIGHT for you,
so she can FULLY EXPERIENCE her OWN desire
for her to get you, as opposed to her seeing this
as just being about YOUR desire to get HER.

The more confident a woman is about herself,
the MORE you can push this in a way where
she will ENJOY IT in terms of feeling MORE
attraction.

By pushing a woman "away" in this sense, by making
her NOT have the easiest time in getting to be with you,
her mind is FORCED to focus on the following thoughts:

"WHY AM I PURSUING THIS GUY? IT'S NOT LIKE
IT IS GOING TO BE EASY TO GET HIM."

"WHY AM I PURSUING THIS GUY IF THERE ARE SO FEW 
LOGICAL REASONS TO BE WITH HIM, AND IF IT'S SO 
INCONVENIENT FOR ME TO BE WITH HIM?" 

"IT MUST BE BECAUSE MY ATTRACTION TO HIM IS SO STRONG!"

Also, if there are INDEED REAL CHALLENGES
involved in her being with you, rather than getting
DISCOURAGED from attracting her, this should
actually encourage you.

Now, by the way, this does not mean that similarities
don't attract.  Often, similarities DO attract, but
you should let those similarities NATURALLY
show themselves and work their magic, as opposed
to you trying to ACTIVELY USE THEM AS
"SELLING POINTS".

Trying to "sell yourself" always does the OPPOSITE
when it comes to attracting women, because it conveys
that there is not already the most important ingredient
present: RAW ATTRACTION.    

It's so crazy, that you can take a woman who WAS
attracted naturally, and actually DIMINISH that
attraction by trying to "sell yourself" and by trying
to convince her of all the "logical reasons" she
should be with you!

And it's not like women are CONSCIOUSLY making
the decision to be attracted or to not feel attraction
when you do these things.  Rather, it's all happening
on a subconscious level.    
   
Now, ONCE a woman is showing you MASSIVE
ATTRACTION, guess what?  THEN you can
let her know some "LOGICAL" reasons for her to
be with you, (do not overdo it), because THEN
she will ONLY interpret these logical reasons
in a POSITIVE way, i.e. that it is FATE or
DESTINY, or she will interpret those positive
logical reasons for being with you as FURTHER
JUSTIFICATION FOR BEING WITH YOU,
in terms of making her feel good that she is not
ONLY with you because of ANIMAL attraction,
she can feel PERFECT about being with you
since she feels you are the one she has ANIMAL
attraction for, AND the one she can also see
a long-term future with.

Now, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, do NOT
abuse what I am teaching you, and also remember
that this "gift" works for yourself as well, because
if you get a woman that you feel is super easy to get,
you will probably NOT feel the same chemistry
for her as you would for a woman that you felt you
had to overcome obstacles for in order to get.

The only thing is that we are living in a world where
for the most part, it already IS hard for most men,
because men are not taught these important things
on how to attract women, but women are taught
EVERYTHING on how to attract men. (It's part of
the subculture of men and women, that men don't
talk much with each other about how to attract
women, but women talk with each other like
crazy on how to attract men).

Also, a long time ago, men had so much power in any
relationship with women, compared to the power
that women had in relationships with men, that men
were ALREADY considered "hard to get" in general
by women, and therefore women APPRECIATED
men more and felt more attraction as well.

But nowadays, it's almost reversed, when it comes to most
of the attractive women anyway, so that women really don't
need to focus on showing that they are hard to get.

There is also absolutely no need to OVERDO things.

The idea here is to SPICE UP THE CHEMISTRY
so that a woman is having a FANTASTIC TIME   
being with you, and of course so that you are having
the time of your life being with a woman who is
all over you and totally into you and totally treating
you with the FULL LOVE AND RESPECT YOU
DESERVE.

And believe me, there is NOTHING ON EARTH
like the feeling of a woman really being NUTS
about you and treating you AMAZINGLY.

The WHOLE REASON I created Get A Great Girl
is because I could not STAND the way MOST WOMEN
treat good guys.  I was (and I think I still am) a VERY
decent person, I am the kind of person who will never
hurt someone, who will not abuse people, etc.  And
meanwhile, all this got for me and for the good men
I knew, when it came to women, was MASSIVE
ABUSE by any woman who seemed attractive.

I thought, for a long while, that women were
CRAZY.

Now, I don’t think that women are crazy anymore,
but I do think that there is something VERY WRONG
with the way most women are being taught on how
to TREAT a good man.

And LOGICAL DISCUSSIONS won’t work to
change anything.    

There is only ONE solution, which is a combination
of being VERY SELECTIVE with women so that
you immediately SCREEN OUT the wrong women
and don’t waste time on the wrong women, which
allows you to spend your time only on the RIGHT
women, and the OTHER thing you must learn is
how to ATTRACT women.

In my DVD program Warrior Within, I go into
FULL DETAIL on BOTH, I teach you how to
DETECT the right women (and how to know
if a woman is the WRONG woman, IMMEDIATELY)
and of course I also teach you how to ATTRACT
that right woman as well.

It’s not just about DETECTING the right woman,
as important as that is.  It’s also about ATTRACTING
that woman.  I teach you BOTH.

To get this important program, go here IMMEDIATELY.


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Till next time,

Michael Marks

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