Attract A Woman FIRST, "Logic" Her SECOND

One of the most important things I can

tell you about attracting a woman is   

something that flies completely in

the face of commonly accepted advice

on how to attract women.

The common advice is to focus on

giving a woman all the LOGICAL

reasons for why she should be with you.

For example, pointing out to a woman

that you both have common interests

and passions.

Now, I’m not saying that there is NO

POINT in doing that at all, and in fact

doing a LITTLE bit of that may very

well be NECESSARY to sometimes

get the ball rolling.

But there is a TERRIBLE DANGER

present when you start to tell a woman

or convey to a woman why you two

SHOULD be together.  For example,

telling a woman that you both have

a similar interest in a certain hobby

or activity or topic.

The PROBLEM with doing too much of that

is that it not only has NOTHING to do with

PRIMAL ATTRACTION, it actually sends

a message to a woman’s subconscious that

actually the LOGICAL REASONS are the

ONLY reasons to be with you, and that there

is no REAL PRIMAL ATTRACTION going

on, and that these so called logical reasons

are a COMPENSATION PRIZE for being
willing to go out with a guy that she does
NOT feel intense attraction for.

In FACT, what you REALLY want to be doing is

actually looking to convey to her a powerful reason
for why she should "LOGICALLY" NOT BE WITH YOU,
(because there are so many obstacles/sacrifices/
inconveniences/efforts that have to be made to be
with you) but for ILLOGICAL reasons that are solely
to do with HER PASSION for you, she SHOULD be
with you.

This way, in her mind, it becomes VERY CLEAR THAT
HER INTEREST IN YOU IS SOLELY THE PRODUCT
OF "ANIMAL ATTRACTION", which is, of course, the
most powerful of all forms of attraction, and ultimately
is the ONLY "logical" strategy to pursue if you want to
attract a woman in the most powerful way.

Will this work on every woman? No, but this is the
ONLY method to go on, because any woman who will
ONLY be with you because of logical reasons is going
to be giving you a very WEAK love, a very WEAK
attraction, a very WEAK connection, a very WEAK
everything.

You WANT a woman who is CRAZY for you, who
doesn't CARE what it TAKES to be with you, who
will go through HELL and HIGH WATER to be
with you.

THAT, my friends, is the WAY IT SHOULD BE
AND THE WAY IT HAS TO BE IF YOU WANT
LONG-TERM PASSION WITH A WOMAN.
 
Any other kind of "love" is B.S. once you have
experienced a woman who is WILD for you. 

This is a HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE

LESSON for any man, especially a good man who

only has the best interests of a woman in mind.

What so often happens is that good men want to

make it clear to women that there is so much more

than just animal attraction going on; they want to

make it clear to these women that things will work

long term for all the logical reasons, but the PROBLEM

with this is that ANIMAL ATTRACTION will just

about ALWAYS trump BORING LOGIC when it

comes to a woman’s decision to be with a man.

Again, by "logical reasons", I mean reasons that
sound like good rational reasons for being with
someone but don't really have to do with INTENSE
ATTRACTION. 

This is the reason, of course, that the most successful

romantic stories of all time (think of Romeo and Juliet,

and the movies Titanic and The Notebook) always had
massive "logical" reasons for why the woman and man
in the story should NOT be with each other, and only
ONE reason for why they should: RAW, OVERWHELMING,
ANIMAL ATTRACTION.

Starting off with having too many "robot logic"
reasons on one’s mind (i.e. "we get along so well" or
"we both love literature" or "we both work out a lot"
or any other "logical" reason that is not about RAW
ATTRACTION) for why one should be with someone,
actually DISPLACES the RAW SEXUAL ATTRACTION
one feels for that person.

Instead, you want to establish yourself in HER mind as

the man she feels RAW, ANIMAL, INTENSE,and
UNCONTROLLABLE ATTRACTION for.

However, you will PREVENT this if you try to make things
TOO SMOOTH on the "LOGICAL FRONT"!

I know it sounds crazy, but it is true.  Think about

it for your OWN attraction to various women over

the years.  Have you ever noticed women that you

felt MASSIVE attraction for, at least initially, and

also noticed that there were many PROBLEMS

or CHALLENGES that would be involved in actually

BEING with her?

In other words, plenty of logical reasons to NOT
be with her?

Whether it was family or friends who would not

approve, whether it was barriers put up by physical

long distances, or whether it was any of a trillion

other reasons, these things only ENHANCED your

attraction to these women.

The reason for this is because all this only made it

CLEARER to you that in fact your ANIMAL

ATTRACTION was so strong that all these things

that were barriers were STILL not enough to stop

your attraction for these women.

(There are also other reasons for this that go beyond
the scope of this newsletter, that have to do with
how to allow her to fully and deeply experience you
as the perfect fantasy man in her mind, so that even
when she meets the reality, the fantasy concept will
 work to your advantage to cast everything about you
in the best possible light.)   
 

In fact, sometimes, this phenomenon is SO powerful,

that the very ELEMENT of CHALLENGES AND

OBSTACLES and all the other logical reasons for

NOT being with someone END UP BEING THE

VERY FORCES THAT ATTRACT ONE TO THE

OTHER!

Now, I’m not saying that you should MAKE UP

false problems or false reasons for why she
should not be with you, but you SHOULD

playfully push women AWAY so that they can

experience the JOY of REALIZING THAT

WHAT THEY FEEL FOR YOU IS ACTUALLY

ATTRACTION and is not just some kind of

boring logical reason to be with you.   

Playfully push women AWAY by telling them

things like  you are a very hard to get guy,

that it takes a lot to impress you, that you

hate breaking women’s hearts, but that you

might end up breaking hers, etc, etc, etc.

PLAYFULLY, not MALICIOUSLY.

Give a woman a chance to have to FIGHT for you,
so she can FULLY EXPERIENCE her OWN desire
for her to get you, as opposed to her seeing this
as just being about YOUR desire to get HER.

The more confident a woman is about herself,

the MORE you can push this in a way where

she will ENJOY IT in terms of feeling MORE

attraction.

By pushing a woman "away" in this sense, by making
her NOT have the easiest time in getting to be with you,
her mind is FORCED to focus on the following thoughts:

"WHY AM I PURSUING THIS GUY? IT'S NOT LIKE
IT IS GOING TO BE EASY TO GET HIM."

"WHY AM I PURSUING THIS GUY IF THERE ARE SO FEW 
LOGICAL REASONS TO BE WITH HIM, AND IF IT'S SO 
INCONVENIENT FOR ME TO BE WITH HIM?" 

"IT MUST BE BECAUSE MY ATTRACTION TO HIM IS SO STRONG!"

Also, if there are INDEED REAL CHALLENGES

involved in her being with you, rather than getting

DISCOURAGED from attracting her, this should

actually encourage you.

Now, by the way, this does not mean that similarities
don't attract.  Often, similarities DO attract, but
you should let those similarities NATURALLY
show themselves and work their magic, as opposed
to you trying to ACTIVELY USE THEM AS
"SELLING POINTS".

Trying to "sell yourself" always does the OPPOSITE
when it comes to attracting women, because it conveys
that there is not already the most important ingredient
present: RAW ATTRACTION.    

It's so crazy, that you can take a woman who WAS
attracted naturally, and actually DIMINISH that
attraction by trying to "sell yourself" and by trying
to convince her of all the "logical reasons" she
should be with you!

And it's not like women are CONSCIOUSLY making
the decision to be attracted or to not feel attraction
when you do these things.  Rather, it's all happening
on a subconscious level.    
   

Now, ONCE a woman is showing you MASSIVE

ATTRACTION, guess what?  THEN you can

let her know some "LOGICAL" reasons for her to

be with you, (do not overdo it), because THEN

she will ONLY interpret these logical reasons

in a POSITIVE way, i.e. that it is FATE or

DESTINY, or she will interpret those positive

logical reasons for being with you as FURTHER

JUSTIFICATION FOR BEING WITH YOU,

in terms of making her feel good that she is not

ONLY with you because of ANIMAL attraction,

she can feel PERFECT about being with you

since she feels you are the one she has ANIMAL

attraction for, AND the one she can also see

a long-term future with.

Now, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, do NOT

abuse what I am teaching you, and also remember
that this "gift" works for yourself as well, because
if you get a woman that you feel is super easy to get,
you will probably NOT feel the same chemistry
for her as you would for a woman that you felt you
had to overcome obstacles for in order to get.

The only thing is that we are living in a world where
for the most part, it already IS hard for most men,
because men are not taught these important things
on how to attract women, but women are taught
EVERYTHING on how to attract men. (It's part of
the subculture of men and women, that men don't
talk much with each other about how to attract
women, but women talk with each other like
crazy on how to attract men).

Also, a long time ago, men had so much power in any
relationship with women, compared to the power
that women had in relationships with men, that men
were ALREADY considered "hard to get" in general
by women, and therefore women APPRECIATED
men more and felt more attraction as well.

But nowadays, it's almost reversed, when it comes to most
of the attractive women anyway, so that women really don't
need to focus on showing that they are hard to get.

There is also absolutely no need to OVERDO things.

The idea here is to SPICE UP THE CHEMISTRY

so that a woman is having a FANTASTIC TIME   

being with you, and of course so that you are having

the time of your life being with a woman who is

all over you and totally into you and totally treating

you with the FULL LOVE AND RESPECT YOU

DESERVE.

And believe me, there is NOTHING ON EARTH

like the feeling of a woman really being NUTS

about you and treating you AMAZINGLY.

The WHOLE REASON I created Get A Great Girl

is because I could not STAND the way MOST WOMEN

treat good guys.  I was (and I think I still am) a VERY

decent person, I am the kind of person who will never

hurt someone, who will not abuse people, etc.  And

meanwhile, all this got for me and for the good men

I knew, when it came to women, was MASSIVE

ABUSE by any woman who seemed attractive.

I thought, for a long while, that women were

CRAZY.

Now, I don’t think that women are crazy anymore,

but I do think that there is something VERY WRONG

with the way most women are being taught on how

to TREAT a good man.

And LOGICAL DISCUSSIONS won’t work to

change anything.    

There is only ONE solution, which is a combination

of being VERY SELECTIVE with women so that

you immediately SCREEN OUT the wrong women

and don’t waste time on the wrong women, which

allows you to spend your time only on the RIGHT

women, and the OTHER thing you must learn is

how to ATTRACT women.

In my DVD program Warrior Within, I go into

FULL DETAIL on BOTH, I teach you how to

DETECT the right women (and how to know

if a woman is the WRONG woman, IMMEDIATELY)

and of course I also teach you how to ATTRACT

that right woman as well.

It’s not just about DETECTING the right woman,

as important as that is.  It’s also about ATTRACTING

that woman.  I teach you BOTH.

To get this important program, go here IMMEDIATELY.

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

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http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks