Sexual Tension And The TRUTH About Things Like Valentine's Day, Romance, And Giving Women What They Really Want

Today is Valentine’s Day and everywhere you
look now, you hear the word “romance” and
romantic, etc, etc.

But what REALLY is “romance”?

What makes women really FEEL that they are
experiencing an earth-shaking ROMANCE?

One of the MAJOR keys to this is something
known as SEXUAL TENSION.

Sexual tension is the FOUNDATION for every

effective romantic story from the beginning of

time right up till today.

The best way to understand sexual tension is
to see it as the OBSTACLE between FEELING
sexual desire and being able to FULFILL that
feeling.

The OBSTACLE is what actually makes the
desire even STRONGER.

In the classic story of Romeo and Juliet, the
OBSTACLE between them is that they come
from enemy families.

In the movie Titanic, Jack and Rose are
separated by CLASS.

The element of sexual tension is so powerful
that TONS of stories incorporate it into their
MAIN story. 

Of course, this is the case as well in the
story and film 50 Shades of Grey - in fact
the whole ESSENCE of the male lead in the
story is that he's  is not "a hearts and flowers
kind of guy".

He is the proverbial guy referred to by the quote:
"I'm the guy your mother warned you about."

Since he's NOT a "hearts and flowers guy",
he is NOT easy to get.  Thus, there is
TENSION.  

Plus, of course, rather than be politically correct,
he actually is assertive in bed and not into things
like typical feminism, to say the least.

And women vote with their wallets, since this book
has been a best-seller for women and has been
translated into over 50 languages.

Of course, the press and most media and of course
feminist groups will say how horrible it all is, but
in the end, actions speak, and they the truth speaks
volumes. 

Ironically, it is the feminist brainwashing of men
to KISS UP and to do the OPPOSITE of sexual
tension that actually ROBS women of the chance
to feel DESIRE for most men!

Now don't get me wrong, it's not about being
ABUSIVE, just about making things INTERESTING
enough to get a woman LONGING for you,
CRAVING for you.

In the film Top Gun, the chemistry between Maverick
and the sexy older female flight instructor (Charlie)
is HEATED UP by the fact they should NOT
be engaging in a non-professional relationship.

This obstacle makes it HARDER for them to
get together, so that when they finally DO,
they are EVEN MORE nuts about each
other and the passion then explodes in
full force!

Sexual tension always works because we always 

APPRECIATE something MORE when we 

DON’T get it easily.

In fact, today I saw an interview with a couple that
has been happily married for over 40 years. They
are still in love and still hold hands.

When asked what he thinks is the reason so many
people can’t make relationships work today, his
answer was simple: “They have it too good”.

He and his wife met after having both their families
entirely wiped out during WWII. They were so
happy to both have a chance to live a life, that they
both APPRECIATED the opportunity enough to
never take it for granted.

By the way, of course, this is NOT to say that you should
STICK with someone who is not treating you right or
where there's genuinely no compatibility. 

And, I’m not saying that everyone has to put
themselves through SUFFERING in order to
really PUMP UP the maximum amount of
DESIRE, however it IS crucial to understand
that the more POWER someone has, the LESS
likely he or she is to think something is so great.

So, if you take a typical attractive woman who grew up
in a feminist society, the fact is, when it comes to
CHOICE of men, she feels NO TENSION AT ALL
because men are KISSING UP ALL THE TIME to her. 

Most men make it SO easy for women, that it’s 
not FUN for these women.

There’s no DYNAMIC in place to help these hotties
experience the CHALLENGE so that they can then
ENJOY the REWARD of getting that man!

So THAT is why it’s so important that IF you want
to get a super-hottie, you have to step OUT of your
mind set and into HER mind-set, just to EXPERIENCE
what that really FEELS like and MEANS.

Listen, I really LOVE the idea of being in a
great relationship. I LOVE romance.

The problem is most men think of ROMANCE in terms
of how good it would be to GET the woman, not in terms
of how much fun it would be make the PROCESS exciting.

That’s because the typical guy’s mindset is that
just GETTING her would be ENOUGH!

There is such a SCARCITY mindset, that indeed,
he WOULD appreciate her and be happy!

He's flying on a different mental ALTITUDE

than the woman is!  They are on two different

dimensions, different plains of existence, they 

can't VIBE with each other.

However, if he really KNEW he could get
LOTS of women, then he would make the
PROCESS of getting a woman a lot more
FUN for both her AND him.

This would be because he would not feel
the need to try to ACCELERATE the process
of “winning her over”, and IRONICALLY
this in itself IS the accelerator of getting her
won over!

So what are some examples of OBSTACLES
that you can create that BLOCK a woman from
“getting you” even as you also simultaneously
chase her?

One example includes PLAYFUL TEASING.

Now, it’s important to calibrate this properly:

If you meet a woman who is not very confident,
you will HURT her feelings and make her feel
INSECURE.

If you meet a woman who is SUPER CONFIDENT,
she will EAT IT UP and love you for it because
she finally feels that element of challenge.

So for example, I remember being on the bus once
and this super hottie got on, and she was taking
forever to find her change for the fare.

So while their was this awkward silence, I just
had fun with it, and told her that I bet she does
this on every route, stalling till it’s time to get
off the bus, and that she hasn’t paid the fare in
years!

She went from having this uncomfortable look on
her face, to at first having her jaw drop, then look
at me, then protest that it’s not true, and then she
MELTED into a smile and I told her that I’d
be willing to sit with her to keep her company
since no one else really wanted to talk to her
type.

This was a MIXED type of message, since on
one hand OBVIOUSLY I am not being mean
because it’s not TRUE, but on the other hand
it’s the kind of thing that is NOT what most
guys’ INSTINCT tells them to do.

Their INSTINCT tells them to try to HELP her,
i.e. possibly pay her fare for her, or to try to
console her and help her NOT get embarrassed.

But they forget that this woman is in many ways

a POWERHOUSE.

Yes, she has feelings.
Yes, she should not be mistreated.

However, when you are dealing with a POWERHOUSE,
YOU DON’T HAVE TO TREAT HER WITH THE
KID-GLOVES!

It’s not FUN for her.

Imagine if you were Superman and the only sports
teams you could play against were HUMAN.

It wouldn’t be FUN.
You wouldn’t enjoy WINNING.
You’d want to play against some SUPER BAD-ASSES.

That way, WINNING would MEAN something.

Here’s another point about sexual tension:

It’s not just in your WORDS.

Rather, it is applied to EVERYTHING you do.

So, for example, if you are on a date with a woman,
there can be SUBTLE sexual tension simply by
sitting together on the edge of your bed, and talking
about ANYTHING.

The mere fact you and her are on the BED together
while you DON’T try to jump her bones is actually
a lot HOTTER than if you immediately tried to
get all naked with her.

It’s a subtle look on your expression, in your tonality,
that implies you KNOW things are sexual, but that
you are not going to tell her exactly when it’s going
to happen.

You aren’t making yourself that EASY.
It's 'so close, yet so far'.

The fact that physical intimacy is so CLOSE
but that you are NOT jumping on the opportunity
makes it all the more DESIRABLE.

Of course, this only works if it's ALSO clear that
you are not lacking the CONFIDENCE to make
a move.

It must be clear from your overall behavior
with her that it is your DECISION to hold
back, and it's not the fear of rejection.

It's you being in control of your desire
and not a slave to it.

By the way, I learned some of this from women
a long time ago.

I remember one girl who would be in middle of
making out, and then PURPOSELY talk about
something completely different, and playfully
say, “Want to play CHESS? Chess is a good game!”

She KNEW that by STOPPING the physical,
it only made the desire STRONGER and
made me even MORE NUTS about her.

It's a "sweet torture", and most women really
DO love to GET this.

I doubt that she knew that there is actually a term
for this proven psychological principle at play here,
and it is called FRACTIONATION.

Fractionation is when you split up the sexual actions
over TIME rather than going for it all at ONCE.

By STOPPING, and then RE-ENGAGING a few
minutes LATER, or even a few MOMENTS later,
especially when you make it so that she can’t fully
KNOW when you are going to start again, you
INTENSIFY the sexual experience for her.

Of course, once she is GRINDING against you
hard-core, you should probably dive into sex
with her with wild abandon!

You can incorporate this into your initial
approach with her as well. For example,
giving her a HUG when she tells you
something that you approve of, i.e. that
she has the entire ROCKY collection at
home! Then, in middle of the hug, you
can STOP it before she can expect, and
say, “WAIT! I don’t KNOW you yet!
Slow down!”

The key here is to be operating from a standpoint
of GOODWILL, CONFIDENCE, ADVENTURE,
and FUN.

This is NOT about how to HURT a woman.
Remember, in order to make this all work, you
must be careful to GAUGE her reactions and
ADJUST to what actually makes it FUN for her.

Here’s the other thing:
The more that YOU YOURSELF can enter the
same kind of POWERHOUSE mentality that
SHE has, the BETTER you will do, and the
MORE YOU WILL ACTUALLY ENJOY
life too!

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and TONS of crucial RELATED concepts
to SKYROCKETING women’s attraction
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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Attract A Woman FIRST, "Logic" Her SECOND

One of the most important things I can

tell you about attracting a woman is   

something that flies completely in

the face of commonly accepted advice

on how to attract women.

The common advice is to focus on

giving a woman all the LOGICAL

reasons for why she should be with you.

For example, pointing out to a woman

that you both have common interests

and passions.

Now, I’m not saying that there is NO

POINT in doing that at all, and in fact

doing a LITTLE bit of that may very

well be NECESSARY to sometimes

get the ball rolling.

But there is a TERRIBLE DANGER

present when you start to tell a woman

or convey to a woman why you two

SHOULD be together.  For example,

telling a woman that you both have

a similar interest in a certain hobby

or activity or topic.

The PROBLEM with doing too much of that

is that it not only has NOTHING to do with

PRIMAL ATTRACTION, it actually sends

a message to a woman’s subconscious that

actually the LOGICAL REASONS are the

ONLY reasons to be with you, and that there

is no REAL PRIMAL ATTRACTION going

on, and that these so called logical reasons

are a COMPENSATION PRIZE for being
willing to go out with a guy that she does
NOT feel intense attraction for.

In FACT, what you REALLY want to be doing is

actually looking to convey to her a powerful reason
for why she should "LOGICALLY" NOT BE WITH YOU,
(because there are so many obstacles/sacrifices/
inconveniences/efforts that have to be made to be
with you) but for ILLOGICAL reasons that are solely
to do with HER PASSION for you, she SHOULD be
with you.

This way, in her mind, it becomes VERY CLEAR THAT
HER INTEREST IN YOU IS SOLELY THE PRODUCT
OF "ANIMAL ATTRACTION", which is, of course, the
most powerful of all forms of attraction, and ultimately
is the ONLY "logical" strategy to pursue if you want to
attract a woman in the most powerful way.

Will this work on every woman? No, but this is the
ONLY method to go on, because any woman who will
ONLY be with you because of logical reasons is going
to be giving you a very WEAK love, a very WEAK
attraction, a very WEAK connection, a very WEAK
everything.

You WANT a woman who is CRAZY for you, who
doesn't CARE what it TAKES to be with you, who
will go through HELL and HIGH WATER to be
with you.

THAT, my friends, is the WAY IT SHOULD BE
AND THE WAY IT HAS TO BE IF YOU WANT
LONG-TERM PASSION WITH A WOMAN.
 
Any other kind of "love" is B.S. once you have
experienced a woman who is WILD for you. 

This is a HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE

LESSON for any man, especially a good man who

only has the best interests of a woman in mind.

What so often happens is that good men want to

make it clear to women that there is so much more

than just animal attraction going on; they want to

make it clear to these women that things will work

long term for all the logical reasons, but the PROBLEM

with this is that ANIMAL ATTRACTION will just

about ALWAYS trump BORING LOGIC when it

comes to a woman’s decision to be with a man.

Again, by "logical reasons", I mean reasons that
sound like good rational reasons for being with
someone but don't really have to do with INTENSE
ATTRACTION. 

This is the reason, of course, that the most successful

romantic stories of all time (think of Romeo and Juliet,

and the movies Titanic and The Notebook) always had
massive "logical" reasons for why the woman and man
in the story should NOT be with each other, and only
ONE reason for why they should: RAW, OVERWHELMING,
ANIMAL ATTRACTION.

Starting off with having too many "robot logic"
reasons on one’s mind (i.e. "we get along so well" or
"we both love literature" or "we both work out a lot"
or any other "logical" reason that is not about RAW
ATTRACTION) for why one should be with someone,
actually DISPLACES the RAW SEXUAL ATTRACTION
one feels for that person.

Instead, you want to establish yourself in HER mind as

the man she feels RAW, ANIMAL, INTENSE,and
UNCONTROLLABLE ATTRACTION for.

However, you will PREVENT this if you try to make things
TOO SMOOTH on the "LOGICAL FRONT"!

I know it sounds crazy, but it is true.  Think about

it for your OWN attraction to various women over

the years.  Have you ever noticed women that you

felt MASSIVE attraction for, at least initially, and

also noticed that there were many PROBLEMS

or CHALLENGES that would be involved in actually

BEING with her?

In other words, plenty of logical reasons to NOT
be with her?

Whether it was family or friends who would not

approve, whether it was barriers put up by physical

long distances, or whether it was any of a trillion

other reasons, these things only ENHANCED your

attraction to these women.

The reason for this is because all this only made it

CLEARER to you that in fact your ANIMAL

ATTRACTION was so strong that all these things

that were barriers were STILL not enough to stop

your attraction for these women.

(There are also other reasons for this that go beyond
the scope of this newsletter, that have to do with
how to allow her to fully and deeply experience you
as the perfect fantasy man in her mind, so that even
when she meets the reality, the fantasy concept will
 work to your advantage to cast everything about you
in the best possible light.)   
 

In fact, sometimes, this phenomenon is SO powerful,

that the very ELEMENT of CHALLENGES AND

OBSTACLES and all the other logical reasons for

NOT being with someone END UP BEING THE

VERY FORCES THAT ATTRACT ONE TO THE

OTHER!

Now, I’m not saying that you should MAKE UP

false problems or false reasons for why she
should not be with you, but you SHOULD

playfully push women AWAY so that they can

experience the JOY of REALIZING THAT

WHAT THEY FEEL FOR YOU IS ACTUALLY

ATTRACTION and is not just some kind of

boring logical reason to be with you.   

Playfully push women AWAY by telling them

things like  you are a very hard to get guy,

that it takes a lot to impress you, that you

hate breaking women’s hearts, but that you

might end up breaking hers, etc, etc, etc.

PLAYFULLY, not MALICIOUSLY.

Give a woman a chance to have to FIGHT for you,
so she can FULLY EXPERIENCE her OWN desire
for her to get you, as opposed to her seeing this
as just being about YOUR desire to get HER.

The more confident a woman is about herself,

the MORE you can push this in a way where

she will ENJOY IT in terms of feeling MORE

attraction.

By pushing a woman "away" in this sense, by making
her NOT have the easiest time in getting to be with you,
her mind is FORCED to focus on the following thoughts:

"WHY AM I PURSUING THIS GUY? IT'S NOT LIKE
IT IS GOING TO BE EASY TO GET HIM."

"WHY AM I PURSUING THIS GUY IF THERE ARE SO FEW 
LOGICAL REASONS TO BE WITH HIM, AND IF IT'S SO 
INCONVENIENT FOR ME TO BE WITH HIM?" 

"IT MUST BE BECAUSE MY ATTRACTION TO HIM IS SO STRONG!"

Also, if there are INDEED REAL CHALLENGES

involved in her being with you, rather than getting

DISCOURAGED from attracting her, this should

actually encourage you.

Now, by the way, this does not mean that similarities
don't attract.  Often, similarities DO attract, but
you should let those similarities NATURALLY
show themselves and work their magic, as opposed
to you trying to ACTIVELY USE THEM AS
"SELLING POINTS".

Trying to "sell yourself" always does the OPPOSITE
when it comes to attracting women, because it conveys
that there is not already the most important ingredient
present: RAW ATTRACTION.    

It's so crazy, that you can take a woman who WAS
attracted naturally, and actually DIMINISH that
attraction by trying to "sell yourself" and by trying
to convince her of all the "logical reasons" she
should be with you!

And it's not like women are CONSCIOUSLY making
the decision to be attracted or to not feel attraction
when you do these things.  Rather, it's all happening
on a subconscious level.    
   

Now, ONCE a woman is showing you MASSIVE

ATTRACTION, guess what?  THEN you can

let her know some "LOGICAL" reasons for her to

be with you, (do not overdo it), because THEN

she will ONLY interpret these logical reasons

in a POSITIVE way, i.e. that it is FATE or

DESTINY, or she will interpret those positive

logical reasons for being with you as FURTHER

JUSTIFICATION FOR BEING WITH YOU,

in terms of making her feel good that she is not

ONLY with you because of ANIMAL attraction,

she can feel PERFECT about being with you

since she feels you are the one she has ANIMAL

attraction for, AND the one she can also see

a long-term future with.

Now, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, do NOT

abuse what I am teaching you, and also remember
that this "gift" works for yourself as well, because
if you get a woman that you feel is super easy to get,
you will probably NOT feel the same chemistry
for her as you would for a woman that you felt you
had to overcome obstacles for in order to get.

The only thing is that we are living in a world where
for the most part, it already IS hard for most men,
because men are not taught these important things
on how to attract women, but women are taught
EVERYTHING on how to attract men. (It's part of
the subculture of men and women, that men don't
talk much with each other about how to attract
women, but women talk with each other like
crazy on how to attract men).

Also, a long time ago, men had so much power in any
relationship with women, compared to the power
that women had in relationships with men, that men
were ALREADY considered "hard to get" in general
by women, and therefore women APPRECIATED
men more and felt more attraction as well.

But nowadays, it's almost reversed, when it comes to most
of the attractive women anyway, so that women really don't
need to focus on showing that they are hard to get.

There is also absolutely no need to OVERDO things.

The idea here is to SPICE UP THE CHEMISTRY

so that a woman is having a FANTASTIC TIME   

being with you, and of course so that you are having

the time of your life being with a woman who is

all over you and totally into you and totally treating

you with the FULL LOVE AND RESPECT YOU

DESERVE.

And believe me, there is NOTHING ON EARTH

like the feeling of a woman really being NUTS

about you and treating you AMAZINGLY.

The WHOLE REASON I created Get A Great Girl

is because I could not STAND the way MOST WOMEN

treat good guys.  I was (and I think I still am) a VERY

decent person, I am the kind of person who will never

hurt someone, who will not abuse people, etc.  And

meanwhile, all this got for me and for the good men

I knew, when it came to women, was MASSIVE

ABUSE by any woman who seemed attractive.

I thought, for a long while, that women were

CRAZY.

Now, I don’t think that women are crazy anymore,

but I do think that there is something VERY WRONG

with the way most women are being taught on how

to TREAT a good man.

And LOGICAL DISCUSSIONS won’t work to

change anything.    

There is only ONE solution, which is a combination

of being VERY SELECTIVE with women so that

you immediately SCREEN OUT the wrong women

and don’t waste time on the wrong women, which

allows you to spend your time only on the RIGHT

women, and the OTHER thing you must learn is

how to ATTRACT women.

In my DVD program Warrior Within, I go into

FULL DETAIL on BOTH, I teach you how to

DETECT the right women (and how to know

if a woman is the WRONG woman, IMMEDIATELY)

and of course I also teach you how to ATTRACT

that right woman as well.

It’s not just about DETECTING the right woman,

as important as that is.  It’s also about ATTRACTING

that woman.  I teach you BOTH.

To get this important program, go here IMMEDIATELY.

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Sexual Tension: It's What Women WANT

Today is Valentine’s Day and everywhere you
look now, you hear the word “romance” and
romantic, etc, etc.

But what REALLY is “romance”?

What makes women really FEEL that they are
experiencing an earth-shaking ROMANCE?

One of the MAJOR keys to this is something
known as SEXUAL TENSION.

Sexual tension is the FOUNDATION for every

effective romantic story from the beginning of

time right up till today.

The best way to understand sexual tension is
to see it as the OBSTACLE between FEELING
sexual desire and being able to FULFILL that
feeling.

The OBSTACLE is what actually makes the
desire even STRONGER.

In the classic story of Romeo and Juliet, the
OBSTACLE between them is that they come
from enemy families.

In the movie TITANIC, Jack and Rose are
separated by CLASS.

The element of sexual tension is so powerful
that TONS of stories incorporate it into their
MAIN story.

In TOP GUN, the chemistry between Maverick
and the sexy older female flight instructor (Charlie)
is HEATED UP by the fact they should NOT
be engaging in a non-professional relationship.

This obstacle makes it HARDER for them to
get together, so that when they finally DO,
they are EVEN MORE nuts about each
other and the passion then explodes in
full force!

Sexual tension always works because we always 

APPRECIATE something MORE when we 

DON’T get it easily.

In fact, today I saw an interview with a couple that
has been happily married for over 40 years. They
are still in love and still hold hands.

When asked what he thinks is the reason so many
people can’t make relationships work today, his
answer was simple: “They have it too good”.

He and his wife met after having both their families
entirely wiped out during WWII. They were so
happy to both have a chance to live a life, that they
both APPRECIATED the opportunity enough to
never take it for granted.

Now, I’m not saying that everyone has to put
themselves through SUFFERING in order to
really PUMP UP the maximum amount of
DESIRE, however it IS crucial to understand
that the more POWER someone has, the LESS
likely he or she is to think something is so great.

So, if you take a SUPER ATTRACTIVE WOMAN,
the fact is, when it comes to CHOICE of men, she’s
got lots of POWER and OPTIONS.

And the fact ALSO is, that the vast majority of these
men make it SUPER DUPER EASY for these women!

They make it SO easy, in fact, that it’s not FUN
for these women.

There’s no DYNAMIC in place to help these hotties
experience the CHALLENGE so that they can then
ENJOY the REWARD of getting that man!

So THAT is why it’s so important that IF you want
to get a super-hottie, you have to step OUT of your
mind set and into HER mind-set, just to EXPERIENCE
what that really FEELS like and MEANS.

Listen, I really LOVE the idea of being in a
great relationship. I LOVE romance.

The problem is most men think of ROMANCE in terms
of how good it would be to GET the woman, not in terms
of how much fun it would be make the PROCESS exciting.

That’s because the typical guy’s mindset is that
just GETTING her would be ENOUGH!

There is such a SCARCITY mindset, that indeed,
he WOULD appreciate her and be happy!

He's flying on a different mental ALTITUDE

than the woman is!  They are on two different

dimensions, different plains of existence, they 

can't VIBE with each other.

However, if he really KNEW he could get
LOTS of women, then he would make the
PROCESS of getting a woman a lot more
FUN for both her AND him.

This would be because he would not feel
the need to try to ACCELERATE the process
of “winning her over”, and IRONICALLY
this in itself IS the accelerator of getting her
won over!

So what are some examples of OBSTACLES
that you can create that BLOCK a woman from
“getting you” even as you also simultaneously
chase her?

One example includes PLAYFUL TEASING.

Now, it’s important to calibrate this properly:

If you meet a woman who is not very confident,
you will HURT her feelings and make her feel
INSECURE.

If you meet a woman who is SUPER CONFIDENT,
she will EAT IT UP and love you for it because
she finally feels that element of challenge.

So for example, I remember being on the bus once
and this super hottie got on, and she was taking
forever to find her change for the fare.

So while their was this awkward silence, I just
had fun with it, and told her that I bet she does
this on every route, stalling till it’s time to get
off the bus, and that she hasn’t paid the fare in
years!

She went from having this uncomfortable look on
her face, to at first having her jaw drop, then look
at me, then protest that it’s not true, and then she
MELTED into a smile and I told her that I’d
be willing to sit with her to keep her company
since no one else really wanted to talk to her
type.

This was a MIXED type of message, since on
one hand OBVIOUSLY I am not being mean
because it’s not TRUE, but on the other hand
it’s the kind of thing that is NOT what most
guys’ INSTINCT tells them to do.

Their INSTINCT tells them to try to HELP her,
i.e. possibly pay her fare for her, or to try to
console her and help her NOT get embarrassed.

But they forget that this woman is in many ways

a POWERHOUSE.

Yes, she has feelings.
Yes, she should not be mistreated.

However, when you are dealing with a POWERHOUSE,
YOU DON’T HAVE TO TREAT HER WITH THE
KID-GLOVES!

It’s not FUN for her.

Imagine if you were Superman and the only sports
teams you could play against were HUMAN.

It wouldn’t be FUN.
You wouldn’t enjoy WINNING.
You’d want to play against some SUPER BAD-ASSES.

That way, WINNING would MEAN something.

Here’s another point about sexual tension:

It’s not just in your WORDS.

Rather, it is applied to EVERYTHING you do.

So, for example, if you are on a date with a woman,
there can be SUBTLE sexual tension simply by
sitting together on the edge of your bed, and talking
about ANYTHING.

The mere fact you and her are on the BED together
while you DON’T try to jump her bones is actually
a lot HOTTER than if you immediately tried to
get all naked with her.

It’s a subtle look on your expression, in your tonality,
that implies you KNOW things are sexual, but that
you are not going to tell her exactly when it’s going
to happen.

You aren’t making yourself that EASY.
It's 'so close, yet so far'.

The fact that physical intimacy is so CLOSE
but that you are NOT jumping on the opportunity
makes it all the more DESIRABLE.

Of course, this only works if it's ALSO clear that
you are not lacking the CONFIDENCE to make
a move.

It must be clear from your overall behavior
with her that it is your DECISION to hold
back, and it's not the fear of rejection.

It's you being in control of your desire
and not a slave to it.

By the way, I learned some of this from women
a long time ago.

I remember one girl who would be in middle of
making out, and then PURPOSELY talk about
something completely different, and playfully
say, “Want to play CHESS? Chess is a good game!”

She KNEW that by STOPPING the physical,
it only made the desire STRONGER and
made me even MORE NUTS about her.

It's a "sweet torture", and most women really
DO love to GET this.

I doubt that she knew that there is actually a term
for this proven psychological principle at play here,
and it is called FRACTIONATION.

Fractionation is when you split up the sexual actions
over TIME rather than going for it all at ONCE.

By STOPPING, and then RE-ENGAGING a few
minutes LATER, or even a few MOMENTS later,
especially when you make it so that she can’t fully
KNOW when you are going to start again, you
INTENSIFY the sexual experience for her.

Of course, once she is GRINDING against you
hard-core, you should probably dive into sex
with her with wild abandon!

You can incorporate this into your initial
approach with her as well. For example,
giving her a HUG when she tells you
something that you approve of, i.e. that
she has the entire ROCKY collection at
home! Then, in middle of the hug, you
can STOP it before she can expect, and
say, “WAIT! I don’t KNOW you yet!
Slow down!”

The key here is to be operating from a standpoint
of GOODWILL, CONFIDENCE, ADVENTURE,
and FUN.

This is NOT about how to HURT a woman.
Remember, in order to make this all work, you
must be careful to GAUGE her reactions and
ADJUST to what actually makes it FUN for her.

Here’s the other thing:
The more that YOU YOURSELF can enter the
same kind of POWERHOUSE mentality that
SHE has, the BETTER you will do, and the
MORE YOU WILL ACTUALLY ENJOY
life too!

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Till next time,

Michael Marks