Today is a bit unusual, as it's
bootcamp day, and normally
bootcamps begin on Friday,
so that means there's very little
time to write today- but there
was something on my mind that
I really wantedto share with you
that is crucial for getting the right
woman in your life.
And I really do mean getting the
RIGHT woman, not just how to
get a girlfriend, but how to get
a GREAT girlfriend.
There is something about the human
brain, and the way it works, that
is kind of FREAKY:
The more you do something, the more you
BELIEVE in what it is you are doing.
It does not MATTER what the heck it is
that you are doing.
Whether it is buying lottery tickets,
writing letters to Santa (which is why
it not only hurts the first time a kid
realizes the truth, but at first there
is going to be denial of reality),
eating potato chips, or spending energy
on the wrong woman.
The more you do something, the more
you will feel you MUST continue doing
that thing, and you will rationalize
it any way you must, in order to
feel that indeed you are doing the
right thing.
This is a HUGE thing to realize.
Even giant companies like COKE make
the mistake of underestimating how
powerful this is.
After giving people the message that
Coke is the original cola, and that
it is "it", and having people enjoy
the feeling of being part of a
tradition that they have been doing
non-stop for GENERATIONS, suddenly
they told people NOPE, no more
of that, now you must drink NEW COKE.
You see, in the taste tests, people
LIKED New Coke more than old Coke.
But those taste tests were blind taste tests
where the people had no clue that this was
actually going to be the beginning of the
END of the good old Coke they always knew.
In the 'clinical' world of the physical
scientists, it all made sense.
It TASTED better, that's what the taste buds
said when they didn't know about anything else.
But in the world of PSYCHOLOGY, we know
that it is the BRAIN that ultimately
affects ALL the physical senses.
And in people's MINDS, in the real world,
people couldn't give a rat's ass about
BETTER TASTING COKE.
They wanted to do what they had been
doing since they were BORN, and since
their parents were born, and their
GRANDPARENTS were born:
DRINK THE SAME COKE THEY HAVE ALWAYS
BEEN DRINKING SINCE THEY CAME OUT
OF THEIR MOTHER'S WOMB!
And of course, COKE itself fell for the
"momentum" disaster of KEEP ON DOING THE
SAME THING even when it doesn't make sense.
So, when Coke brought back CLASSIC Coke,
and everyone cheered "HURRAY!", the people
at Coke WERE STILL ADDICTED TO THEIR
BEHAVIOR OF THE PAST, they KEPT ON
TRYING TO PUSH NEW COKE in ADDITION
to the old Coke.
But NO ONE WANTED NEW COKE!!!
So, only when it became AS BRIGHT AND CLEAR
AS A SUPERNOVA, did Coke decide to get RID
of "New Coke".
By the way, I love the taste of Coke,
and I love the "vibe" of Coke, even
though I rarely drink soft drinks.
Hmmm, maybe I'm just a sucker for the
same thing!
Do you see my point?
THIS IS HOW POWERFUL THE MIND'S DESIRE TO
DO THE SAME OLD THING IS!
It OVER-RIDES all logic!
It over-rides even OTHER emotions and
physical sensations!!!
It DISTORTS perception!
It causes PAIN!
And people KEEP ON DOING IT!!!
The worst tragedy against yourself is to
not even REALIZE what you are doing or
what is happening to you.
So I am here to SCREAM IT OUT LOUD
to wake you UP:
If you don't CHANGE the path you are on,
you will ONLY GAIN MORE AND MORE MOMENTUM
TO STAY IN THE WRONG DIRECTION AND YOU
ARE GOING TO EVEN BELIEVE IT'S THE RIGHT
DIRECTION, SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU'VE BEEN
DOING IT FOR SO LONG.
There are many reasons for this, and
unfortunately there is no time right
now for me to explain it all in a
newsletter, but the point is this:
If you are currently taking the WRONG
actions to get the right woman in your
life, chances are you are going to
not only CONTINUE taking the wrong
actions, but to think that what you
are doing is in fact the RIGHT way
to go about it.
One of the most common, classic tragedies
of this situation is when a guy is pursuing
ONE woman who is not responding to his
interest in her, and he continues to pour
MORE into trying to get her.
The more energy and time he spends on
trying to get her, the more he feels
that this effort is WORTH it, that
ultimately there will be a big payoff
for all his efforts.
It has to do with many things, including
our own egos and the fact we want to
feel that we are not wasting our time.
But it also has to do with other complex
mechanisms of the human brain. Notice
how even some SUPER INTELLIGENT
people have joined crazy cults that thought
aliens were coming to take them to
another planet, etc, etc, etc.
These people were NOT crazy, and in
many ways ALL people do 'crazy' things
all the time, they just aren't aware
of how crazy it is.
And this irrational effect is even
STRONGER when it comes to getting
a woman, because on top of all the
REGULAR irrational forces that plague
the human mind, there is now also the
force of the HALO EFFECT as well,
which in brief means that the beauty
of a woman ends up making a guy
feel that she is somehow more noble
or virtuous or worthy than she
actually IS.
I'm not saying that there aren't worthy
beautiful women out there, there absolutely
ARE- that's part of the whole reason for
Get A Great Girl in the first place.
What I'm saying is that the beauty ends
up making a lot of the WRONG women seem
like the RIGHT ones.
If you don't STOP yourself, you just
dig yourself deeper and deeper into
a toxic emotional situation that ends
up taking over your entire life.
This is why almost every single man I have
ever spoken to, before he learns what is
happening to him and becomes aware, ALWAYS
has 'this one girl who is really special'
who he is really focused on getting, but
yet he can't give me ONE good reason why
SHE is more special than any of about a
MILLION other women.
He will say she is very intelligent, very nice,
very good, etc, etc, but when I ask for the
EVIDENCE for these things compared to how
plenty of other women are in respect to her,
she is actually NOT so special at all.
Worst of all, this focus on ONE woman
also starts to make him needy, which
ruins his charisma and ruins all the
attractive behavior he could show her.
This makes her even LESS interested, which
of course now makes her seem even MORE
OF A CHALLENGE, and more scarce, and
more precious, and more desirable,
so he gets even MORE obsessed with her,
and this negative cycle just keeps
digging a deeper and deeper hole
into an endless abyss of desperation,
misery and loneliness.
And it does NOT have to be this way at ALL.
There IS a choice!!!!
I'm telling you right here, right now, that
indeed your MIND is unintentionally playing
a 'dirty trick' on you if you are going
through ANYTHING like this.
You can CHANGE IT ALL by taking a NEW
behavior, a step in the RIGHT direction,
which will then make you want to take
another step in the right direction,
and start a whole PRODUCTIVE CHAIN OF
EVENTS TO QUICKLY GETTING YOURSELF
A GREAT GIRL.
I suggest you get my 'Warrior Within' program
on DVD immediately. It will FREE YOUR MIND
on all the areas that it is currently holding
you back on when it comes to your success
with women.
This program is not some 'hocus-pocus',
as you know I am not a fan of 'airy-fairy'
stuff, only CONCRETE STRATEGIES
THAT WORK FOR DEEP CHANGE
AND ACTUAL RESULTS WITH
GETTING THE KIND OF WOMAN
YOU WANT.
You don't have to be the TITANIC.
You CAN turn your ship around by taking ACTION
in the RIGHT direction NOW by getting and
using my program IMMEDIATELY.
It's at:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
And if you can make it, you will thank yourself
a million times for experiencing what BOOTCAMP
will do for you.
Bootcamp is a one-to-one, private, exclusive
program where you will be trained by me on
tons of women, so you can make the fastest
gains in learning and skill.
In Bootcamp, there is no way to come and NOT
grow MASSIVELY in your skills with women, it's
simply impossible to leave bootcamp the same
man you were before you came in, because
I am going to IMMERSE YOU in an experience
that FORCES you to change and to learn.
And you're going to thank me for it, in spades.
Bootcamp is at:
http://tinyurl.com/7bpm6sd
If you don't take action to change your life,
no one else will do it for you. Chances are,
they themselves are wrapped up in irrational
forces that they don't even realize, and
the truth is that very few people will EVER
'wake up' to what is REALLY happening so that
they can get the results they really WANT.
You, however, are now AWAKE.
You have a choice.
So let me ask you, what is holding you back
right now? Is it MONEY? Are you still not
a TRILLION per cent sure that my programs
are WORTH ten TIMES what they cost?
Hey, NO PROBLEM! I understand how hard
it is to change, so if you STILL aren't sure, then
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Start with a TEENSY-TINY investment in a
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Seriously, not getting this program is
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This program is a great way to start getting
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You can download it and use it in just
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I look forward to hearing from you soon,
and I look even more forward to hearing
your success story.
Cheers for now...
Sincerely,
Michael Marks
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