Detecting And Attracting Quality Women

Getting a great girl involves detecting and
attracting quality women, and you will
probably have to approach several women
to get the right one for you.

In doing bootcamps over the years, I've
experienced and taught the most effective
ways to spark attraction in women, plus I've
learned how to detect a quality woman.

I've also seen some of the most common
mistakes that men make, and the interesting
thing is that these mistakes are pretty
universal, I used to do the same thing,
and it seems EVERY guy makes these
same mistakes!

So today, I'm going to share with you
some of the most powerful steps you
can take to attract a woman the moment
you see her, how to successfully get
into the conversation, and how to
detect the right women as well as
how to avoid the wrong women!

And, of course, how to avoid the
biggest mistakes that men tend
to make.

1. IT’S NOT ABOUT MAKING HER LAUGH

Rather, it’s about YOU enjoying a good
laugh, and bringing HER into this world
of fun. A world of fun that is YOUR
world.

When you go in trying to MAKE her laugh,
it always ends up with you showing inferior
status, as if you’re the court jester trying
to entertain the king.

And that is a total attraction-destroyer.

On the other hand, when YOU are having a blast,
then you not only are actually funnier anyway,
but the vibes being given off by you all say
that you are the kind of guy that has everything
in life under control, and that life will be FUN
with you.

You also convey that you are clearly so comfortable
in your own skin that you can be in this mode even
with a woman who is a knockout.

So if I’m in line at the store, and a hottie is in
front of me with a bottle of water and celery,
and I pick up a candy bar and wave it in her
face and PRETEND as if the chocolate bar
is hypnotically saying “You want MEEEE,
I know you dooo- give into meeeeeeeeee”
the key is that it’s coming from a place where
I think it’s funny, not because I need to get her
to laugh.

And that makes it FUNNIER, because it
makes the DELIVERY of the words far
more CONFIDENT.

And that makes the delivery far more
BELIEVABLE.

If you are going to say something, you
have to go TOTALLY INTO IT, you
have to be consistent, congruent to
whatever it is you’re saying.

If you sound like you don’t really MEAN
what you are saying, it never works well.

This is why you can give the greatest
joke to someone to say and it will be
useless because he doesn't seem to
believe in the words he's saying.

2. RISK ASSESMENT OF HUMOR

All humor requires RISK.
Without SOME risk, humor is IMPOSSIBLE.

So by risk, I mean the risk that SOMEONE
will get offended.

The KEY however, is to have the emotional
and other forms of intelligence to see if the
risk is worth the PAYOFF.

So the key is to keep the risk SMALL, and
the payoff HIGH.

If you are going to tease a woman, only tease
her on things you know she has a high chance
of being CONFIDENT about.

So if she’s tall, you can tease her about being short.
If she’s a knockout, you can tease her about being
undesirable, etc.

If she’s witty, you can tease her about being dumb.

3. THE FACEBOOK INVERSE RELATIONSHIP

What this means, is that if you’re looking for a
QUALITY type of woman, a girlfriend that is
not all focused on only HERSELF, a woman
who is NOT a narcisst, then you want to
ABSOLUTELY AVOID the women who
have TONS of “FRIENDS” ON their
PERSONAL FACEBOOK PAGE.

What do I mean by "tons"?
I mean more than one person can truly
connect with on a genuine level.

So when it starts hitting the HUNDREDS
or THOUSANDS, it's time to be cautious.

Remember, I'm talking not about their
COMPANY if they have one, but their
PERSONAL page on Facebook.

Humans were designed to basically live
day-to-day in TRIBES.

On a psychological level, we are still
HARDWIRED this way.

One person can indeed have meaningful
communication on a regular basis with
about a TRIBE sized group. 

Not HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS
or THOUSANDS.

So why all the caution?

The reason is that in general, there is an inverse
relationship between the amount of so called
"friends" a woman has on facebook and the
degree of her genuine friendliness.

It’s ironic, isn’t it? After all, the whole point
of Facebook is to get official “friends”, right?

And that’s EXACTLY the reason narcissists
gravitate toward it, because if they can get
lots of FRIENDS on FACEBOOK, they
can then APPEAR as POPULAR.

These types of women will go through
MASSIVE WORK just to engineer their
entire Facebook image, from the amount
of "friends" they have (whom will be
promptly dropped as soon as they have
been used by the narcissist woman),
to the particular quotes they use,
to the photos put on display, etc,
etc.) ALL so that they SEEM highly
"wanted".

Facebook allows people to create an artificial
FRONT, a MASK if you will. It’s kind of
similar to the whole Pick Up Artist vibe
of having memorized pick up lines or
memorized routines that aren’t a real reflection
of one’s identity, but that are SUPPOSED to
show how “cool” or “funny” one is, etc, etc.

4. SEEK WOMEN WHO DON'T SEEK INFINITE ATTENTION

As illustrated above, narcissists FEED
off of infinite attention and worship,
while QUALITY women tend to be less
obsessed about make-up, dressing to
the nines, and wearing clothing that
might be EXTREMELY uncomfortable but
they feel is worth it to get the
attention.

The irony is that real beauty is hard
to hide anyway, to the trained eye.

So if you're looking for the right
kind of woman, start screening OUT
the attention grabbers, and start
focusing more on the women who are
just as gorgeous but don't need to
ADVERTISE it as if it's going out
of style.

This behavior that is the OPPOSITE
OF SEEKING ATTENION, is why, by the way,
a woman who is the kind of woman that
is looking for a GOOD MAN, for something
REAL, gets turned off IMMEDIATELY when she
senses the FAKE vibe, the cheesy lines,
etc.

Which leads me to the next point:

5. WHEN ABOUT TO APPROACH A WOMAN
AND SAY SOMETHING TO HER, MAKE
SURE YOU OBLITERATE EVERYTHING
IN YOUR MIND BESIDES THE IDEA OF
“HI”.

Yes, the VIBE when you START the conversation
or chat should be EXTREMELY LOW KEY.

It’s different in 30 seconds from that point, or
even 5 seconds from that point, where you can
raise the energy level, joke around, talk about
something intriguing, etc, you can do all sorts of
stuff.

And even then, say LESS, and focus
more on LISTENING to what she says in
RESPONSE to you.

Why is this? It's because THIS will give you
the chance to actually have meaningful things
to say BACK to her so you can truly CONNECT
with her.  She is revealing herself to you as
she talks to you, so the more she speaks,
the more meaningful your response can be.

But in general, in that FIRST MOMENT, if
you are about to talk to a woman in any
place besides a high energy location like
a music dance club, etc, you should keep
it LOW KEY, and UNASSUMING.

That FIRST MOMENT is NOT the time
to be worrying about how to seem COOL
OR CLEVER OR ANYTHING.

In fact, the irony is that the ABSENCE of
all that stuff is what in fact IS cool.

So you are putting ZERO pressure on her.

She should feel that she has the TOTAL
CHOICE AND EASE TO LEAVE THE
SITUATION IF SHE WANTS TO.

The TONE of your voice should be LOW KEY.

I didn’t say QUIET, but that your voice tonality
should be LOW KEY, NOT INTENSE.

Most guys when they approach a woman,
they go in feeling that there is this HUGE
thing at stake, and it SHOWS in their
facial expression and tonality.

But if you REALLY go in there to begin
with by GENUINELY not EXPECTING
OR FEELING THAT SHE MUST DO
ANYTHING, but at the SAME TIME
showing that you are RELAXED and
showing WARMTH in your voice,
THAT is the way to show that you
are comfortable in your own skin,
and it also TAKES AWAY THE
PRESSURE on her.

And the BEST way to PREVENT
RESISTANCE is to REMOVE
PRESSURE!

So the HIGHEST chances of her NOT
resisting your approach come from
REMOVING all pressure to begin with!

Once she is not RESISTANT to your
approach, now SHE can go into the mode
of focusing on how to get CLOSER to you
instead of how to get away.

Remember, all this happens within a few
seconds, and AFTER these few seconds,
you can THEN turn up the energy and
the vibe and the fun, because she now
is RECEPTIVE to it.

TIMING is critical here, just like it is in
so many other aspects of life.

What you’ve just read, as powerful and true
as it is, is just a SAMPLE of the crucial
information you will find in my WARRIOR
WITHIN and ACTIONS FOR ATTRACTION
programs.

Warrior Within is my most ADVANCED program
on mastering the DEEPER elements of success
with women, especially getting a quality woman.

Mastering the DEEPER level means you will be able
to instinctively see the "matrix" in every interaction
you are having with women- from first seeing her
to getting under the covers, and even into a relationship.

You will know all the options, the best decision to make,
the reason she is doing what she doing, etc.  And you
will be able to do all this on a very natural, instinctive
level that you UNDERSTAND as opposed to just
robotically doing attraction tactics.  

Actions For Attraction focuses on the more
IMMEDIATE actions you can take right away
when approaching women. There is an ‘Actions’
CD Set, plus a new ‘Actions’ CD every MONTH.

For TOTAL success, I highly recommend BOTH.

Warrior Within is HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

To get my Actions For Attraction CD SET, go HERE:

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every MONTH, go HERE:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks