The Attraction Facts

Today, there’s a lot I want to share
with you about the facts of what
actually works to attract a woman.

However, before I do that, I need
to get something out of the way,
and it’s about the importance of
facts vs. lies.

If you were to enter a bookstore right now,
and you were to check out just about any
topic that involves advice, you’ll notice
one thing immediately:

There’s a heck of a lot of supposed ‘experts’
on certain topics, such as how to get women,
how to be a good parent, how to get fit, how
to get rich, etc, etc, etc.

If you start to think about it, the subjects that
have tons of different books written about them
tend to have three things in common:

1. Opinions
They’re about opinions, yet they’re all
stated as if they are facts.

2. Most People Don’t See The Lies
(So The Authors Aren’t Ridiculed)

Even though these books are presented
as facts and the authors act all “authoritative”
(now we know where that word comes from)
the reality is that even if they are proven
wrong, they don’t have to be accountable
for saying these lies and distortions,
and they also know that they won’t be
ridiculed by society for saying endless
stuff that is not true.

That’s because most people are confused
themselves.

3. The Topics Are Emotional Ones

In fact, the topics are so loaded with painful
emotion as well as euphoria, and the marketers
tend to add fuel to the emotional fire, to the
point that many, many people (and I don’t blame
human nature for being human) will flock to the
lies rather than the truth since the lies tend to
appeal to their sense of gaining pleasure or
preventing more pain.

And when I say lies, I mean lies.
So, for example, an “expert” will go on record
and say the BEST way to be healthy and fit is
to eat lots of fat! He will PROMISE this is
the way, to eat endless fat as long as you
avoid carbs.

One day, carbs are GREAT.
The next day, another expert PROMISES
they are TERRIBLE. Sometimes, it’s
even the SAME “expert”, who has finished
selling his books on the old advice, and now
needs a new angle.

When it comes to parenting advice,
one day the experts tell us, ‘DON’T
TRY TO STIMULATE a child too early,
his infant mind is growing so fast
that stimulation is traumatic and
DANGEROUS!

But then the experts say…NOPE,
YOU MUST TRY TO STIMULATE
THE CHILD AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE
SO HIS MIND WILL GROW!

It’s so obvious that they can’t all be RIGHT!

Lies can be extreme, they can be anything that
works to get one’s attention.

The same thing happens in the dating field.
"Be a nice guy" was what women experts told men.
"Be a player" was what pick up artists told men.

EXTREMES and OVERSIMPLIFICATIONS
are what catch attention.

TRUTH, though, can only be itself.
Sometimes it’s emotional, sometimes it’s not.

Now, let’s take a trip to the other side of
this universe, allllllll the way to the
land of facts, truth, science, and evidence.

By the way, I love emotional stuff, I just think
that it needs to be applied to the truth, not to
promote lies.

In the land of evidence, facts, truth, science,
math, etc, there isn’t nearly the same market
or audience.

Have you heard of the latest bestselling math book?
How about the New York Times bestseller,
Grade 12 Science by Houghton Mifflin?

I haven’t heard about it either.

See, when it comes to areas that most
people don’t get emotional about, and where
telling lies like 2+2=5 will get the author
instantly ridiculed, and where the truth on
the subject isn’t all that emotional, there
isn’t the same amount of books or material
being published.

Here’s the other thing:

Dealing with the truth often requires some
real work, which is a lot harder to get excited
about than the idea of getting a knockout of
a woman to want to jump you because you
said the right thing to her.

The bottom line:
Truth doesn’t sell, unless it’s dramatic.

Truth usually only becomes dramatic when
the lies finally start to cave in on a mass
scale.

When people thought the world was flat, for
thousands of years, and then finally they
heard the world was round, that was probably
pretty dramatic.

So, when I say, for example, that my Warrior
Within program will show you things like the
most scientific, statistically-tested method for
obliterating approach anxiety, I mean it, and
it’s the truth.

In fact, what I learned from an incredible friend
about overcoming approach anxiety is so important,
and no dating guru had ever spoken a word about it
before me, that the truth is this single thing alone
is more effective and actually backed up by science
than the entire “seduction dating advice” has ever
offered since day one.

But because I don’t dress it up as THIS IS THE
WAY THE PENTHOUSE MODELS COME
CRASHING DOWN YOUR DOOR, some
folks just let this gold pass them by.

When I say that, for example, in my Actions
For Attraction CD Set, I interview a man who
I personally witnessed in real life as being
not only a professional comedian, but also
fantastic with women, and has truly combined
the two things and is a golden interview
for learning how to be funnier and more
effective at the same time with women,
I mean it.

But due to fact that lies have inflated the
promises that everyone gives or implies,
I would need to say something like
BARRY’S INTERVIEW WITH ME IS
THE SECRET FOR PANTIES GETTING
WET ACROSS THE COUNTRY, HE’S
GOT THE SECRETS FOR WOMEN’S
PANTIES TO GO FLYING OFF AT THE
INSTANT A WOMAN SEES YOU AND
SHE HEARS YOU UTTER A FUNNY
WORD TO HER. IN FACT, IF PANTIES
DON’T GO FLYING THE MOMENT
YOU USE THIS, IT’S BECAUSE SHE
IS TOO IN LOVE WITH YOU AND
IS AFRAID OF REJECTION.

The real truth, is that everything matters,
and everything counts. It’s all this TOGETHER
that makes the results.

Including something called social intelligence,
which is the ability to detect the “emotional vibe
requirements” of the situation:

Let me give an example:
Seth McFarlane, creator of family guy, recently
was at a comedy roast of Donald Trump. There
were several other people there, including a
striking woman who was a sharp comedian
herself.

Seth introduced her by teasing her in the following
way: “She’s got the body of a crack wh*re, and
the razor sharp wit of (pause)…a crack wh*re.”

She was LAUGHING out of her seat so hard.

The reason it was so funny and not hurtful, is
because first of all, the comment about her
body and the crack ***** is not an insult
since the point is that she’s slim and not fat.

Second, the comment about her razor sharp
wit being NOT sharp is so OBVIOUSLY
not true since after all she IS a professional
comedian, whose very career is reliant on
her wit. It’s obviously not true, and also
even if it WAS true, it’s the kind of thing
that someone in her position is clearly
insulated against or would never have
been in that line of work (that is all about
this type joking behavior) to begin with.

The proof is that she was laughing DEEP,
She was not just giving a superficial polite
smile.

In many ways, he gave her a compliment and
also he conveyed social intelligence by showing
that he was not afraid to ACKNOWLEDGE
her fantastic looks, which are so much a clear
part of her identity, but at the same time he
showed that she was part of the group and
that her looks would not make her somehow
“beyond the comfortable reach” of anyone.

He made her comfortable, he made everyone
comfortable, he made her laugh, he made
everyone laugh.

If ever there was a right time to say this,
everyone was….Winning! ?

I’m sure you can see that this interacting
with women stuff actually DOES have
a science behind it.

So, let me share with you some more FACTS
on what actually HELPS to attract women:

1. VOICE

Worried about the right pick-up lines?
Forget that, focus on your voice instead.

In fact, the less “try hard” your opening words
are to a woman you meet, the more cool you
will be, the more trust you will make her feel,
and the more you will be conveying that you
are comfortable in your own skin - IF your
words are delivered with the right TONALITY.

Tonality, and by this I don’t mean whether
your voice is more like Darth Vader or
Mickey Mouse, but rather that your voice is
conveying the RIGHT COMBINATION
OF EMOTIONS.

One great mix of emotions to be present
in your voice is UPBEATNESS, mixed
with DOMINANCE, and SENSUALITY.

You can be asking for something as simple
as THE TIME, but if your voice shows these
emotions, it’s going to do far more for you
than the most “clever” speech or line that
you could give delivered with the wrong
emotions in your voice.

The great thing about this is that it’s not
an act! You can’t PUT THESE EMOTIONS
INTO YOUR VOICE without actually
FEELING it for REAL!

So this brings you another benefit as well!

It puts you in the PERFECT COMBINATION
OF EMOTIONAL STATES so that you can
now also ACCESS those parts of your mind
to now SAY all the right things that are
CONSISTENT WITH THOSE EMOTIONS!!!

As you might guess, it’s a lot easier to be
FUNNY when you are actually FEELING
LIKE JOKING AROUND!!!!!

It’s a lot easier to be DOMINANT with a
woman when you are FEELING dominant!

So this strategy with using your voice is
applying the science of PHYSIOLOGY
in your FAVOR!!!

The mind and body work together, and
this is a great way to put that truth to
GOOD USE!

2. THE COUNTER-CAMPAIGN

Listen, if you really want results with
women, it means you have to change
what you are doing right now.

Well, the problem with change is that
for a LIFETIME now, you’ve been getting
the WRONG advice from within- and by
WITHIN, I mean EMOTIONALLY.

Let’s fact it, if we all felt GREAT about
approaching women, we’d all do it.

Because we feel all kinds of NEGATIVE
emotions and fears, we DON’T do it.

To COUNTER this “FEAR CAMPAIGN
FROM WITHIN”, YOU NEED TO
WAGE A MASSIVE “COUNTER-CAMPAIGN”!

Plaster your walls with messages and signs
and posters, and make voice recordings that
play in the background, even while you sleep,
MAN, YOU HAVE TO GO BIG TIME
IF YOU WANT BIG CHANGE AND
BIG RESULTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Remember, you must counter a LIFETIME
of a “SMEAR CAMPAIGN” FROM WITHIN
THAT HAS BEEN TELLING YOU TO NOT
APPROACH!

As cool as this is, this is honestly just scratching
the surface, I seriously suggest you get my
Warrior Within program and my Actions For
Attraction CD Set to get the big picture.

3. POSITIVE THINKING? I DON’T THINK SO!

Screw positive thinking! Positive thinking
is MUCH MORE POSITIVE when you can
deal internally with the WORST CASE SCENARIO.

In fact, by NOT being able to internally deal
with the worst case scenario, we tend to
be much more fearful of taking the positive
action, because, after all, we will think
BUT WHAT IF I SCREW UP????
WHAT IF NO WOMAN LIKES ME?????

The key is to learn how to CONQUER
this internal crap so that indeed we CAN
become the positive thinking person!

Again, I promise you, in my programs,
you will learn the details on HOW to do this!

4. LISTEN WITHOUT INSTINCTIVE DISTORTION

What I mean by this, is that the vast majority
of people, even good people, don’t realize
how they are not really listening to what
a person is saying. They are not trying to
NOT listen, they just aren’t aware of
how their own emotions are FILTERING
the message that is coming in from
another. And this has BIG TIME ramifications
when chatting and interacting with women.

Part of the reason many women say that it’s so
hard to find a man they can CONNECT with,
is that they are forgetting all the men that
CAN connect with them that they aren’t
attracted to (that’s me being honest again)
but the OTHER reason is that even when
a man DOES attract a woman, he often
LOSES her attraction within MINUTES
when she says something to him, and
he distorts her message without even
REALIZING IT.

Here’s one way to avoid this problem:
If you sense that you are getting emotional
about something, especially if it’s negative,
ask yourself what is it that you both AGREE
ON and see if you can work your way from
THAT POINT to getting less emotional, and
see if NOW you understand her in a different
light.

This doesn’t mean to brainwash yourself
into agreeing with her, not at all. What
it means is that you now actually
UNDERSTAND what she is saying,
and a woman would much rather have
a man who UNDERSTANDS her than
agrees with her on everything.

And if you’re reading this right now, I can
absolutely assure you that there is a whole
UNIVERSE of crucial information on the
topic of getting a fantastic quality girlfriend,
and that universe can be found in my
program called WARRIOR WITHIN.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

I also suggest, if you haven’t already
been getting my Actions For Attraction
series since day one, that you go HERE
immediately:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

By the way, if you’re still reading this,
and wondering, “Hmmm, should I really
get this material? Is it REALLY useful?
Will it REALLY CHANGE MY LIFE?”, I’d
like to share another fact with you:

Years ago, a book came out, called THE GAME.
It was a huge hit, which for a lot of people
was the same thing as being proof that it
was the way to go to attract women.

It pretty much summed up the popular dating guru
and pick up artist “strategies” for how to get
women.

There was a MASSIVE focus on pick up lines,
memorized routines, how to come across as
hard-to-get so that a woman should value
the guy more, etc, etc, etc.

It was also SWORN by the endless streams
of followers as the ABSOLUTE TRUTH.

Fast forward a few years, and now
the information in that book is
considered ANTIQUATED, pick up
lines are NOT "cool", and memorized
routines are NOT considered "cool"
now even by ANYONE'S standard.

Hmmm, what happened to all those
methods as being the BIBLE OF TRUTH
ABOUT ATTRACTION?

Wasn’t it POPULAR?
Wasn’t the fact it was so POPULAR a
form of proof that it must be TRUE????

At that same time, a lot of MY material was
mocked by a lot of "experts" and followers
of these "experts", who never TRIED my
programs.

Meanwhile, the guys who DID use my
programs were getting such fantastic
results with women, that eventually
the entire "dating guru" field had
to CHANGE.

Some of them, on the surface, even
seem a bit like me. That's because
they spend a lot of their time reading
and taking my material, but then,
they distort the whole thing, by
inserting HOGWASH to make it
"more commercial".

This distortion from the outset
is even worse than "broken radio",
where by the time you finally get the
message, it's so distorted, it doesn't
represent the truth of the original
information anymore. That's because
they are intentionally distorting
the material from the first moment
they take it, in order to sell more.

If you are genuinely interested in
getting a quality woman for a fantastic
relationship, come to the source,
where the info is legit:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

By the way, the reason I never promoted
the "games" style approach to attracting
a woman is not only because it usually
doesn't work, but in those rare times
when it DOES work, what it does is
it attracts a woman not to YOU, but
to the GAME you've played on her.

So you must KEEP UP THOSE GAMES
in order to keep her.

Also, I noticed that the "games" style
approach to attracting women tends
to bring out the "games" and the worst
behavior in women, which should come
as no surprise considering that women
aren't so stupid, so when they see they
are being "gamed" they tend to give
"games" back.

And of course, eventually, the real you
always ends up showing, so the game
always ends up a total loss for everyone
pretty quickly.

This is why my programs are about
learning things that actually have value
for REAL, as opposed to it being a
trick, a game, or an act.

I was never interested in being a
dancing monkey for ANYONE, including
any woman. In fact, the very idea
revolted me from any woman that
was of that type who could even
go for that kind of guy.

By the way, I also learned a lot of
these things the hard way. At one
point, I myself was brainwashed by
the dating guru advice, and it
really screwed up my relationships
with the very best women I had
met!

In fact, the more that a woman was
the kind of woman that was a genuine
person who valued loyalty, who was
a fun person who didn't play games
herself, the MORE repulsed she
would be by the "games" promoted
by so called experts and dating gurus.

It took me YEARS to learn what I now
teach, and to organize it all into
effective programs that actually work.

Hence, the birth of Get a GREAT Girl.

To me, it's ALL about quality.

If you’re looking for a true quality woman,
the kind of woman who would be a fantastic
girlfriend, go here IMMEDIATELY:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And don't forget to also check out my
Actions For Attraction CD Set, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

To find out about ALL my programs,
or to read my other articles, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/

Till next time,

Michael Marks