Confidence with women- we hear it all the time.
It's no secret that the number one thing that
makes an "average guy" an EXTRAORDINARY
guy, an extraordinarily attractive to women,
is confidence.
All the typical things women say they want
in a man, from money to looks to prestige
to WHATEVER, it all gets blown out of the
water as soon as massive confidence enters
the picture.
Suddenly then, in the presence of massive
confidence, she finds herself attracted
to him no matter what.
So how do you GET this confidence?
There are TWO steps involved:
STEP ONE:
You must accept that if you currently don't
feel confident for whatever reason, those
reasons are YOUR distortions of your potential,
and that in fact you CAN change the way
you feel.
Yes, you must realize that right now,
if you DON'T feel massive confidence,
you are either consciously or unconsciously
coming up with EXCUSES for why you CAN'T
attract this woman or that woman, etc.
You must realize that you can CHANGE this,
even if you don't know how yet, the first
step is to realize that this feeling of
confidence CAN be experienced.
Most men are NOT tapping their full potential
at ALL. Psychologists estimate that people
only tap into about 5% of their brain's
potential, and of course the brain controls
everything else.
So whatever results YOU are getting
right now, most likely you can get about
95% BETTER results.
So again, to cut back to the chase,
you must ACCEPT that if you are currently
NOT feeling confident, that you CAN
feel confidence.
The first step is BELIEVING.
So I ask you, what KICK in the pants
do you need to start BELIEVING?????
What does it take for you to get
MOTIVATED INTO BELIEVING THAT YOU
CAN CHANGE AND GET THE FEELINGS OF
SUPER CONFIDENCE?
Here are a few things to help motivate you:
1. It's a fact that most humans do NOT
tap into more than just a tiny percent
of their brains' potential.
So you already HAVE the resources in your
mind, you just have to start PUSHING and
USING it.
2. One way to get rid of your NEEDINESS
is to realize that MOST of the physically
attractive women, if you really knew them,
you would not want to be with them, for
the simple reason they are spoiled.
That's the whole reason I created
Get A Great Girl- it's because
most of the "dating guru" advice
out there is about how to get
some woman who is attractive
into BED, but they completely
and absolutely ignore the fact
that if you want an actual
RELATIONSHIP, then NONE
of their stuff works.
That's because no tactic in the
world can make a woman with poor
character A GREAT WOMAN.
This I promise one TRILLION
percent, no matter what they
say.
This is EVEN more true if you are the kind
of man that doesn't smoke, doesn't take
illegal narcotics, the kind of man who
believes in integrity, who is honest, who
believes in being faithful, who is ambitious,
etc.
The reality is that most women who are
attractive are usually spoiled and
not exactly the best when it comes to
loyalty. They play "games" so to speak
when it comes to really being faithful,
for the simple reason that our culture
has spoiled women.
Women have been spoiled because when
men gave women feminism, (yes, it
was men who did this originally or
it never would have happened) men
did not change with the times- they
kept on acting as if women were
these dainty, impoverished, innocent,
helpless, poor creatures, and men acted
as if women were doing men a big favor
as if women didn't enjoy getting physical,
etc.
Meanwhile, the reality is that women
are more in university than men, the
reality is that most men are not abusive
at all and in fact it may very well be
that more women are abusive to men
than vice versa but that men simply
don't report these things because it's
not culturally "cool" for a man to
do this, and also meanwhile even
with all this feminism stuff it's
men who pay for most dates, etc.
Also, most women don't even WANT
a man who acts so "equal" and acts like
he is just another woman, they are
attracted to dominance and confidence,
they are not attracted to estrogen in men.
That's why one of the most famous feminists
ended up marrying Ted Turner, who was
one of the most powerful people around.
When a woman REALIZES that you know FULL
well the REAL SCORE, and that you know full
well that if she is like the typical attractive woman
these days then she isn't such a great catch, well
THEN she tries much harder than she would for
an ignorant guy who is acting all needy,
as if he has got some perfect woman.
Moreover, you will know that you can
SCREEN PAST the wrong women and know
that really it's YOU who is doing
the screening, not them.
Also, the rare kind of great girl who
knows that mistreating a man will eventually
backfire in her face, will be ECSTATIC to know
she has met a great guy like you who is
well aware of the messed up situation
when it comes to most dating, and that
you have not fallen for it yourself,
and that you rather have made
a decision to skip past the wrong
women and go for the RIGHT one.
3. Right now, some jerk who is also
an ignoramus, but THINKS he is the
greatest thing on earth, is doing
pretty damn well with women, all
things considered.
So, are you going to let these JERKS
get these women instead of YOU?????
You have everything they do, and MORE,
except the one thing you're missing is
the BELIEF that you have everything they
have!!!!!!!!
These jerks get women not because they
are jerks, but because jerks tend to
not question their value, while good
guys are too modest and not sure if
they have the value to attract a woman,
and so good guys often don't even
PLAY THE GAME so to speak to begin
with, letting the jerks win by DEFAULT!
4. Here's one more motivator-
your genes have made it to THIS point,
a MILLION years at LEAST in terms of
evolution, so obviously you DO have
it in your genes to ATTRACT, otherwise
there is no way your genes could have
KEPT ON REPRODUCING FOR A MILLION YEARS
ALREADY!!!!!!
That's a million years of
successful attractions, evolution
itself has declared you a winner!
****NOW, STEP TWO:****
Step two of getting confidence is
DOING THE THING YOU ARE NOT CONFIDENT
TO DO!
Don't wait until you have confidence!
Don't wait till you are SURE THAT YOU
CAN MAKE IT SUCCESSFUL AND WORK.
Don't wait for feeling everything is now
GUARANTEED to work, so that you can
absolutely avoid all potential pain no matter
what- instead EMBRACE the idea of
it doesn't matter whether you succeed
or not!!
It's about you taking the ACTION.
Even if it all goes to HELL, it will just be
a memory, and in fact, the TOUGHER it
is, the STRONGER it will make you after,
so you can almost look forward to the
GREATER challenge that is presented
to you by your fears- the greater the fear,
the greater the chance for GROWING.
If you get the girl, great, and if you didn't,
also great because you faced your fear,
which in itself will make you stronger
and more courageous and more attractive!
Time is so precious, don't waste it on
giving into your fears!
So you can't LOSE unless you DON'T take action!
So for example, if you are not confident
in approaching a woman, then approach
her WITHOUT CONFIDENCE!
If in your mind you think you are going
to look like an idiot, then you must
accept that you MIGHT LOOK LIKE AN IDIOT.
Yes, this is PART of getting the CONFIDENCE
to NOT CARE if you look like an idiot.
You'd be surprised to learn that NOT
CARING WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU is
actually ATTRACTIVE to a woman, and
the way to get to that point of not
caring what others or what SHE thinks
of you, is to at first KEEP ON DOING
IT EVEN IF YOU DO WORRY WHAT SHE WILL
THINK.
By doing the action again and again, you
get desensitized to it.
In fact, if you are obsessed with the
constant thought that she will think you
are an idiot, and positive thinking doesn't
help you, then rather than pumping yourself UP
and telling yourself "yes I will get her
number and she will think I am a STUD",
instead do this:
I WILL APPROACH HER EVEN IF SHE THINKS
I AM THE MOST GROSS THING ON EARTH!!!
You can even tell yourself that she
DOES think you are gross!!!!
This way, you will stop trying to
think positive when thinking positive
is not only not working but just making
you feel worse- because every time
you tell yourself that "she's gonna love me"
you then instantly ask yourself, 'What if she
does NOT think i'm cool????"
So remember that step two is to DO THE
THING YOU THINK YOU SUCK AT WITH WOMEN,
AND DO IT A LOT, AGAIN AND AGAIN, till
you STOP caring about whether you suck
or not, and of course by doing this
you will BECOME COMFORTABLE AND THEN
CONFIDENT because the FEAR is what
robs your brain of all it's resourceful
power, but by doing it again and again
you will not care what others think,
and you will be able to enter the
resourceful state of mind that will
make you CONFIDENT.
As powerful as this is, and it's MASSIVELY
poweful, this is just the TIP of the iceberg
compared to getting the FULL SCOOP from
my programs and materials.
I suggest you start with my books to build
your foundation, and work toward my
MASTERY program, and you can check
them out right now by going here:
http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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