How To Attract Women With "Disarm & Charm"

If you ever thought that attracting women
is hard, I have good news for, it's actually
EASY.

The MEETING part, and initial attraction,
even if she is a TOTAL STRANGER, in
a non social environment, i.e. the bus stop
as opposed to some party, is actually far
easier than most men realize, if you
know how to do it RIGHT.

Most men end up doing it wrong and tripping
her “ALARMS” that cause her to SHUT DOWN.

This is especially true if she is a woman with
high standards, the kind of woman who is very
selective of the men she sees.

The way to stand OUT and be EFFECTIVE
is to DISARM and CHARM her.

The reason for this is that although women
want to meet you, the only thing holding them
back is this tiny thing that women are feeling,
called FEAR.

Fear of maybe you’re one of the creeps their
dads told them about as kids, to beware of.

Fear of approaching you, as women still
expect men to do the approaching as
otherwise most women feel if they do the
approach then they are coming on too
strong, plus they themselves are often
afraid of rejection.

Unless you're talking in a nightclub, where
the atmosphere is already very social, when
you're in normal places like the bus or coffee
shop, women have been conditioned to be a
little cautious for good reasons, after all there
are a lot of less than virtuous men out there
just as there are a lot of less than virtuous
women out there.

If a woman is afraid, it will be used against
you, so you first DISARM her of this fear,
you take away her feelings of fear.

And now that she is DISARMED and open to
you, THEN you CHARM her to attract her.

So how can you immediately DISARM and
CHARM her?

My favorite method to do that is by you drawing upon
POSITIVE VIBES that she herself can IMMEDIATELY
relate to.

In the same way you wouldn't be able to relate
to a woman talking to you about the finer
applications of lipstick, you shouldn't expect
most women to be identify with demolition
derby, or some obscure Bruce Lee movie.

Also, there is no point in starting a conversation
with a woman about anything BORING, even if
she can relate to it.

You can disarm her and charm her by playfully
bringing up topics that are both INNOCENT and
FUNNY, and you can give these topics a flirtatious
sexual TWIST.

One POWERFUL way to do this is to bring up
famous TV SHOWS from childhood, and then
offer a playful sexual perspective on the show,
or even a playful perspective on the show from
the standpoint of male and female gender roles.

I call it "Innocent Adult Views On Childhood TV!"

It's important to remember that it must still be
INNOCENT, and yet ALSO be ADULT.

This is a fine line that most people overlook.

I mean, who CAN'T like The Flintstones?
Who CAN'T like Cookie Monster, Oscar the Grouch,
and Ernie and Bert???

So here's just one example of “Disarm & Charm”
using "Innocent Adult Views On Childhood TV":

Walk up to a woman and casually say:

"Excuse me, I have a very serious question
I need the answer to. Could you help me out?"

(This SERIOUS tonality at the start is done
on purpose because it makes it all the more
funny when she finds out in about three
seconds from the topic that actually this is
NOT serious at all!)

So she nods to you, or says, "Ok sure", etc.

You then go on with:

"See, I was wondering, if you were to choose
one of the two, would you marry Fred Flintstone
or Barney Rubble? This is very serious."

As she starts to crack a smile, you keep a
straight face and give her a sec to answer.

If she laughs, you continue to let her know
this is very important and serious and that
you need the answer.

If she then says that she would choose
Fred, you tell her "Oh man, this would
never work out with you and me-
Fred is far too normal, goes to work
every day, very reliable good guy,
far too much pressure for me.

I'm more of a Barney Rubble type guy,
I mean you know that NO ONE knows
where the heck Barney goes every
morning, right? Fred goes to the
quarry, but Barney??? Where
does he go???? The guy is an
ENIGMA!

So I need a woman like Betty who is more
cool with an enigmatic guy like myself!"

Chances are, she WILL be laughing by now,
and that is not only because this stuff is funny,
but because the MEMORIES of childhood
and of that show are triggering POSITIVE
EMOTIONS in her, and it's hard to view you
as a THREAT if you are being associated in
her mind with Barney or Fred or the Flintstones.

By the way, if she says she would choose
Barney, you could high-five her and tell her
she is SUCH a cool girl.

(Totally over-exaggerate, which HEIGHTENS
the humor because even though she knows
you are kidding, it still feels GOOD for her,
since she feels, even if just playfully, that
she EARNED this respect because of her
choice, she didn't just get this high-five for
nothing, but rather because of her great taste
in choosing a man- BARNEY RUBBLE! People
appreciate what they EARN!)

And you could then go on to tell her why she
is so cool, because she is like Betty, who
was cool with Barney not having a real job
all day and that you plan to do the same thing
and just watch TV all day!

Then you can add the final kicker and say that
you two are TOTALLY GETTING MARRIED
asap!

She will NOT think you are needy, she will
KNOW you are being playful.

So you have already DISARMED her by showing
an innocent side of yourself immediately, but you
have also CHARMED her by conveying all that
humor, confidence, and charisma that followed
your initial comment to her.

Using the Disarm And Charm principles,
you could create a BILLION more examples,
and you could make them even MORE powerful
by incorporating into them all the OTHER skills
I teach in my programs and materials.

The first key to remember is to use something
from CHILDHOOD TV, something that is
FAMOUS so that she ALREADY is very familiar
with it so that you don't have to waste time
explaining all the details.

You want her to GET IT immediately, so it's
key you use something that she will KNOW.

The second key to remember about this idea
is to give the whole discussion an ADULT twist.

The third key is to NOT GO OVERBOARD
with the adult twist. In other words, KEEP IT
ALL INNOCENT.

You do NOT want to go into the land of the
VULGAR- that totally RUINS the whole effect,
the whole point of the idea in the first place.

If you never watched the Flintstones, then
don't use that example. There are so many
shows that you could choose from, it's ridiculous.

It doesn't even have to be TV. It could be some
kind of popular SNACK that was famous for kids
back when you were a child.

Maybe the snack came with some really
LAME gift, or some offer for a free gift if you
sent in about a "thousand" proofs of purchase,
(exaggerate for effect) that at the time
seemed REALLY cool, that you could discuss
and twist in playful way.

For example, you could tell her that you
only like adventurous girls, and that you
are looking for a partner in crime, to steal
the toys from the cereal boxes in the
supermarket.

And you can playfully tell her that she is
too much of a wuss to be up for it, etc.

Or you can playfully tell her that you know
she would do it for some prize from the
Strawberry Shortcake cereal!

From there, now that you have her Disarmed
and Charmed her, it's going to be MUCH easier
to get into rapport with her and to get into a
real conversation of getting to know each other,
now that you both have your "guard" down.

You've displayed guts, humor, charm, and
you've taken her into a receptive state of mind.

Get the idea?

It's gold, and I guarantee you IT WORKS.

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arms.

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There’s nothing like the feeling of having
a great girl you’re crazy about being just
as crazy about YOU.

Make the decision now to take care of
this part of your life once and for all.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

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