Wednesday, May 26, 2010

How Women Are Spoiled - How To Solve This

If you want to succeed with ATTRACTIVE
women in ANY way, there is something
MASSIVE you need to understand before
anything else.

It’s crucial to understand the REASON there
is such a problem out there with women to
BEGIN with.

The reason is both SIMPLE yet it also
is something that virtually NO ONE
sees, and NO ONE discusses.

Everyone thinks it’s just “natural” that
women and men will just have the
war of the sexes, etc.

That is HOGWASH!

The REAL reason there is a problem
is simple, yet elusive to everyone:

MOST WOMEN WHO ARE EVEN REMOTELY
ATTRACTIVE ARE BRAINWASHED TO BE
SPOILED.

That’s it, that’s the bottom line.

Now you know why I created "Get A GREAT Girl".

If you value a woman who APPRECIATES things,
and if you value traits such as honesty, integrity, loyalty,
and genuine love, then it's only a GREAT woman
who shares these values that is worth  your time
and worth attracting in the first place.

Men who are stereotypically "good looking" are
not spoiled the same way, because men tend to
achieve value through a NUMBER of things, so
a guy who is "good-looking" knows he has to be
more than that to be "desirable", so guys are in
general less spoiled this way.

(That's why female supermodels are celebrities and
mult-millionaires, but nobody even knows the NAME
of any male models, not even women know them!)

That's why, again, MOST women who are even
REMOTELY attractive, are brainwashed to be
spoiled because the only thing they HEAR all
day and all night is how WONDERFUL they
are, and how FANTASTIC of a PRIZE THEY
ARE, no matter what is REALLY the truth!

Also, all this is really true for OUR generation.
It's not really true for your MOM's generation.

This is the first generation where many
young women have NEVER KNOWN a
world where attractive women were
NOT WORSHIPPED!!!!!!!!!

It’s not politically correct to STAND UP
to these lies either, so the lies go
unchallenged and thus they get
more and more reinforced in women’s
and even some men’s minds as well!

Here’s how women are spoiled:

1. The PHYSICAL deterrent of man
is diminished.

Now, obviously, I am against any kind of
abuse. The fact is, men and women
have checks and balances in power,
when in nature.

Men are stronger physically, but they
also will SACRIFICE themselves for
the woman they love, the family,
etc, etc.

In return, a woman gave her loyalty,
etc, etc.

Today, however, a man must act
EXTRA NICE AND ON TIPPY TOES
otherwise his VOICE tonality alone
will be used against him, in false
accusations of assault, threat, abuse,
harassment, etc.

So a man can’t even BE a man, he has
to IGNORE his own testosterone.

He has to symbolically cut his balls off
when he is communicating with women.

Meanwhile, women can hurt men emotionally,
they can get the police after him even when
he is innocent, they can do all sorts of
HORRORS that our culture tends to
STILL believe women rather than men
even with zero evidence!

This SPOILS a woman, into thinking
it’s NORMAL for a man to have to
kiss up and almost FEAR women
but for women to NOT FEAR men
at all, knowing the legal system
will always fall on her side.

2. THE MEDIA INFLATES WOMEN’S EGOS

Now here's the thing, it's hard to BLAME
the media, since the media is simply a
REFLECTION of the culture, and is
made up of our own society.

I'm just saying that our society's screwed up
values when it comes to kissing up to women
get REINFORCED through society's mass-media.

Because it’s not politically correct to stick to
the TRUTH, what we sometimes get instead
of truth are certain programs, magazines,
sitcoms, commercials, etc, all aimed at
WOMEN that tell women certain things,
such as:

LIE NUMBER ONE:

That COUGARS are actually more desirable
than young women.

So you get women who were not only
spoiled their entire YOUTHS, but are
now told they are even MORE desirable
now that they are OLDER.

This makes some of these women NEVER
learn and never mature emotionally! 

Imagine a girl who has been flattered and
kissed up to her whole life for her looks,
and is now being told she is even BETTER
than before.

The reality is that of course, cougars are
not physically more attractive than younger
women. They are less, but this truth is
COVERED up and instead replaced with
a massive lie, which just makes women
more spoiled with men.

Here’s another example:

LIE NUMBER TWO:

That men are dumb and desperate for sex.

Certain sitcoms on TV where the man
has NO BRAINS, and is desperately
craving sex with his wife, while the wife
is far SMARTER and not too keen on
sex with her husband.

Here’s another:

LIE NUMBER THREE:

That women are special just for being women,
and it's okay to be rude in rejecting men.

The ENDLESS commercials for products
for women, telling them how GREAT
they are, and that “they’re worth it.”

This is what these women want to hear.

Now, just to be perfectly honest, this MIGHT
be catering to the fact that so many women
actually feel LOW self-esteem, so maybe this
caters to their desire to feel self-worth?

Meanwhile, commercials for men tend
to show the guy being ELATED when
any girl wants to talk to him, and in
fact it’s quite normal for commercials
to show women rejecting guys.

There’s one commercial with a guy
filling up his car at the gas station,
he strikes up a chat with the woman
nearby, who is also filling up her
car at the same time as him.

He asks her, “You come here often?”
and she says “Actually, no!,” and she
just TAKES OFF in her fuel efficient car,
rather than talk with the guy.

I realize the point in that commercial
is to show how fuel efficient the car is,
and that she doesn't need to fill it
up often, but the WAY the point is
delivered is something that would
NEVER be done vice-versa to
women, because in our culture
today men are almost "supposed to"
think it's totally FINE for women to get
away with being RUDE to any guy
that shows interest. 

THIS IS ALL NOW CONSIDERED
"OKAY AND NORMAL" for a commercial.
It's not exactly considered "normal" in
REALITY, but the fact it's "okay"
in a commercial is still not good,
because it reflects a lack of respect,
which is why you DON'T see commercials
so often playing the disrespect angle when
it comes to MEN and how they treat WOMEN. 

In the commercial I explained above for
the car, the guy is supposed to EXPECT this
MASSIVE rudeness even though HE put
himself in the way of emotional risk by talking
to her first.

And it's not like the guy in the commercial
looks like he is uncool or anything, which
PROVES how it's totally NOT ABOUT
YOUR LOOKS, you can be a MALE
SUPERMODEL and STILL GET
ABUSE FROM MOST OF TODAY'S
WOMEN, if they are even REMOTELY
ATTRACTIVE.

No protests from any man’s group in
the streets for this kind of thing.

Men aren’t allowed to complain, they
have to be happy with this.

Sex and the City and Cougartown are
women's shows that allow women to
indulge in their own hallucinations
and fantasies and pretend they are
reality, the problem is that these shows
are not CLEARLY and obviously
FANTASIES in the way that for
example men understand that
PORNOGRAPHY is not reality.

So in many ways, shows like Cougartown,
Desperate Housewives, and Sex and the City
are more damaging, since they aren't OBVIOUS
as being TOTALLY UNREALISTIC to women.

The only part that is REAL about these shows
is the fact that on all these shows, the women
are UNHAPPY by their lifestyles, which of
course is an important part of the show, for
if the women WERE happy, there would be
no dramatic premise, it would just be boring. 

But somehow most women who watch these
shows seem to forget this bottom line which
is that most of the female characters on these
shows are UNHAPPY from their lifestyles.

These shows pretend that these women who are
all aging and looking horrible for real, are somehow
supposed to ACTUALLY be such hot things, and
who are supposedly living the "independent" and
free-for-all sex life.

Every cool girl I've ever met so far
absolutely HATES these shows.

It's almost become a test you can give
women, if they hate something like
Sex and the City or if they don't even
know much about what the show is
(which is even better as it means they
never even gravitated toward it in the
first place), they are probably a better
type of girl.

I'm not saying a woman has to have loved
YOUR favorite shows, whether it's the A-Team,
Knight Rider, or Breaking Bad, but it's a good
sign if she doesn't love any particular women's
shows that spoil women with untrue beliefs that
promote the idea that women are somehow more
empowered than men.    

But of course, in our current society, it’s MEN who
so often are portrayed as the dirty, superficial, evil,
physically and emotionally abusive ones, as well as
the just plain stupid ones.

In REALITY, it’s the men who actually die in the
wars, make up the majority of fire-fighters, and
who sacrifice themselves for women, but THIS isn’t
mentioned a lot in our society these days.

Nope, instead, we get MOVIES like Charlies' Angels,
(which in ALMOST NO WAY AT ALL RESEMBLES THE
ORIGINAL SHOW WHICH WAS MAN-FRIENDLY)
where some WOMAN kicks every guy’s ass.

And of course, it’s STILL men who tend
to pay for dates, and who must risk
rejection by approaching women,
never the other way around.

So OF COURSE all this results in
some women who are really wacky
in their behavior. I'm not saying
ALL women, okay? But it's more
women than makes any reasonable
sense to expect.

And I DON'T say this to stir up anger
against women, because the GOOD NEWS
is that there STILL ARE some GREAT
women out there, and believe me, they
are searching for a GREAT GUY as well.

It's hard even for a great woman to find
a guy who is emotionally mature and who
has his act together, so in a different way,
it's just as hard for a great woman to find
what SHE is looking for in a man.   

Also, a GREAT woman WANTS to know that
you appreciate HER fantastic character and
that indeed you WON'T desperately accept
BAD behavior from the wrong woman just
because you want sex!

But getting back to how some spoiled
women behave, they will say hurtful things
and push their luck as far as you will
allow them.

It’s not even their FAULT anymore,
I totally MEAN this, not just being
"nice" here when I say that, it's
NOT WOMEN'S FAULT ANYMORE
BECAUSE THEY ARE TOTALLY
BRAINWASHED, BUT IT IS YOUR
JOB AS A MAN TO NEVER ACCEPT
THIS TREATMENT FROM ANY
WOMAN-----THIS IS THE ONLY
WAY TO CHANGE IT FOR YOURSELF.

When it comes to how most women today
who are even remotely attractive view men,
these women are like children who
had TERRIBLE parents who just let
them get away with EVERYTHING.

Most of these women feel it’s all NORMAL,
they don’t feel any reason to stop what they
are doing.

HENCE, the reason why it’s SO IMPORTANT
TO HOLD ONTO YOUR POWER AND NOT
TO GIVE IT AWAY.

Be VERY CAREFUL when meeting women,
not every woman is a "GREAT girl".

I personally would not even be interested in
a disrespectful woman even if she "reformed"
herself after she "learned" her lesson from me.

I'm also not interested in using my technology
and teachings to sexually attract what I feel
is a woman with a WARPED personality.

Just because you CAN attract a certain woman,
doesn't mean you SHOULD!

To paraphrase a line from JURASSIC PARK,
"Your scientists were so busy trying to figure
out if they COULD, they never stopped to
ask if they SHOULD!"

There ARE some great women out there who
have ALREADY learned long ago that it is
the RIGHT thing for people to show RESPECT
to each other.

This is also why I teach how to DETECT a
woman's personality QUICKLY, so that you
don't waste time on the WRONG women,
and to prevent yourself from getting into
a relationship with the WRONG woman.

What happens with many men if they
meet women who are insensitive or
demanding or whatever, is that the men
just GIVE INTO IT, in order to KEEP
the women, when in reality this just DRIVES
the women AWAY ANYWAY!.

It drives them away because the human
mind doesn’t appreciate that which it
didn’t have to earn.

Most good women are the women who have
been brought up to APPRECIATE things,
and who didn't have everything handed
to them.

Plus, so many men don't make women have
to EARN their attention, because the men
are GIVING all their attention to the
women simply because the women are hot.

Don't be one of those guys who just gives
all his attention to a woman just because
she's hot, instead reward her for what
she actually does to EARN your attention
or to earn virtue and respect in general.

TIP 1:

HOLD ONTO YOUR POWER

Don’t give away your power, and by
power I mean your emotions, your time,
your money, your energy, until a woman
has EARNED them from you.

TIP 2:

SLOW DOWN, DON’T RACE TO THE SACK

Slow down the interaction, most guys
want to get naked so fast, and this only
reads as desperation.

Instead, slow down and TALK to her,
get to know who she is, let her know
you have standards, and more importantly
ACTUALLY HAVE STANDARDS.

If she doesn’t meet your standards, reject her.
99% of the time, this only makes you more
attractive and makes her pursue you more.

But you have to be willing to really walk away.

TIP 3:

NEVER GO OVERBOARD

Don’t go to extremes and don’t become
abusive yourself, just because she says
something irritating isn’t a reason
for you to become abusive.

Now, you must be able to make distinctions.
If a woman said something NASTY, then
dump her.  You can't change a personality.

But if she just said something that bothered
you, but it wasn't intentional or really nasty,
then INSTEAD of becoming abusive, just
freeze frame and stop the conversation
and let her know why you are getting
up to leave (or whatever is appropriate
for the environment and situation).

This way, you lead by example.
As Mao Tse Tung said “Respond
intelligently even to unintelligent
treatment.”

TIP 4:

STEAL HER PERSPECTIVE

Most women have the perspective
of being the one who is more
desired, and most men FEED
this by calling incessantly and
asking dorky insecure questions
and trying to qualify themselves.

If a woman doesn’t like something
about you, or teases you about something,
IT’S CRUCIAL you take her frame,
so you should just say back to her:

“If that’s how you feel” and let her
walk away—99% of the time she
won’t, or she would not have been
talking to you in the first place,
she is just spoiled and needs
a real man to put her in her place
but not with threats, rather with
your ULTRA SECURE response’
of “if that’s how you feel” and
don’t say a WORD after that
and WATCH how she will fill
in the void to keep the conversation
going.

Now, the next thing I am about to say
only applies if you are naturally too
NICE of a person, the kind of person
who is always finding out that he gave
MORE of a rat's ass about being a
good person than anyone ELSE
gave a rat's ass about.

In other words, if you are a really GOOD
GUY, and sensitive, and you don't want to
get abused, then do this:

Always be just A BIT more busy
than she is, a bit less time for
a relationship than she has,
a bit less everything, and the
REASON for this is that
every good deed you do for her
in terms of having so much time
and energy for her is subconsciously
partially read by her as desperation,
so your good actions will count
MORE when done sparingly.

This can CHANGE once she shows
she respects you.

And if this woman is truly a GREAT
GIRL, who doesn’t abuse you, who
doesn't PUNISH your goodness with
LACK OF INTEREST on her part,
then go HERE right away:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

If you’re starting out, you need to first meet a
LOT of women, and my MASTERY PROGRAM
will show you the advanced levels of attracting
women EVERYWHERE- whether you see
her on the bus, mall, party, bookstore, café,
ANYWHERE. 

It will also PROTECT YOU FROM ABUSE
BY ANY WOMAN, NO MATTER WHO
SHE IS.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

Make the decision now to take care of
this part of your life once and for all.

Be cool,

Michael Marks

P.S. To check out all the programs I've
made to ensure you succeed with women,
go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I think this was really well done. Thanks for the advice