Monday, February 23, 2009

What Is "Minimum Game"?

Sometimes people ask what I mean by "minimum game" when it comes to approaching a woman who is a stranger.

A big part of this is "minimum game" is keeping the energy level to the minimum that is needed to do the job. This is in direct contrast to 99% of the advice out there which supposedly is designed to GET a reaction out of a woman.

The irony is that trying so hard to GET a reaction ends up getting you the worst reaction.

Notice how the first impulse in the mind (when one is new at this) most of the time is try to want to ensure a massively positive response- but the problem is this very attitude stems from insecurity. This insecurity creates overcompensation in all kinds of forms, from weird extra smiley behavior to weird creepy behavior to mean behavior.

The idea is to land the plane smoothly, not to bring the plane in at 1200 miles per hour. This takes nice smooth calibration, keeping the vibe of the conversation stable over a longer course of time, rather than the typical clown style approach which tries to get some big reaction out of a woman right away.

At first, it might seem that it's harder to keep the vibe stable and still interesting for a long period of time than it is to go in there with the "clown jokester" approach, but after a while you will see that it's far more natural and it's actually EASIER to do it the "stable and still interesting" because it's far closer to you, in fact it IS the real you!

So why is it so hard to be ourselves? Because we get brainwashed with bad programming, and learning to "unlearn" all that stuff is the real art, it's where the real work needs to be done.

And I show you EXACTLY how to do that in my WARRIOR WITHIN program, at:


http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

If you're serious about being the best you can be with women,
I suggest you check this program out immediately.

For now, for tommorow, and for always, BE THE MAN.

Michael Marks

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