Sunday, February 1, 2009

What A Great Woman Teaches You About You

The most amazing thing about getting
a great woman is not that you end up
having to do nothing, no work on
yourself. In fact, it's the opposite-
when you are with someone who is
clearly selfish and ignorant, it's
easy to blame all the issues on
the other person.

But when you know you are with someone
who you respect, then you don't have
the psychological convenience of being
able to deny the issues that you need
to work on the most.

That's why a great woman actually helps
you become an even greater man, and this
is truly the hardest work you will ever
do, and is also by far the most rewarding.

You will learn about your own insecurities,
and you will have two choices- either EVOLVE
and get stronger from within and see things
for what they really are, see the "paper tigers"
for what they really are, or you will
FALL and lose everything you wanted.

Ultimately, as ironic as this sounds,
the greater your relationship with
a woman, the greater your relationship
with yourself- you learn about yourself,
and you become far wiser, and stronger,
unless you give in to the insecurities
and take the easy way out to blame
everything on someone else.

Anyone can have a casual relationship,
but it takes a real man to develop
something deeper where you're forced
to do the internal work required to
BANISH your own illusions and paper
tigers.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

www.GetAGreatGirl.com

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