A Quality Woman, A Quality Culture

One of the challenges for a lot of
men and women today is that they
feel a pressure to act a certain
type of way, a way that is arrogant
and rude.

Now, maybe when one is 15 this might
seem cool to some. But by the time
you're an adult, there's no place for
it.

The problem is that a lot of the culture
today celebrates insane values, just
take a look at the popular culture
and music. It often preaches violence,
lust, and a total absence of real
love.

Yet, when someone contributes REAL
entertainment with quality values,
something like Titanic or The Notebook,
it almost always becomes a super
best-seller. That's because people,
young and old, men and women,
are STARVING for the real stuff.

And so, in honor of GOOD VALUES,
I am putting up a song by John Denver,
(Calypso, that honors Jacques Cousteau)
and the great news is that there
are awesome women out there who
totally love this kind of thing
too!



They key though is to not act
APOLOGETIC for having great values-
your PRIDE in these great values
liberates women from having to
feel a need to pretend they are
part of the insane culture--
they would love to know that
you are a quality man.

Don't even PRETEND to be a guy who
is into the screwed up values, all
that would achieve is attract the
WRONG kind of woman. On the other
hand, when you are super congruent
and proud of your great values,
you not only show greater confidence
in yourself, but you also show
a great woman that she can trust
you to stand up for these things
no matter what, no matter
WHAT pressure you are under.

Michael Marks

http://www.getagreatgirl.com