The Most Important Quality To Find In A Woman These Days

I want to address a really important question today regarding whether or not you can trust a woman with other men who she claims are "PLATONIC" friends. 

First of all, if the woman is attractive, then let's just call a spade a spade and not engage in this insane politically-correct culture that pretends there is no such thing as instinctive male sexual drive. 

If she is attractive, then most men WILL feel sexually attracted to her, and it WILL cloud the minds of most men.  So there is no such thing as a purely platonic friendship, certainly, when the woman is attractive- the guy DOES feel chemistry for her, but this does not mean he can't be in control of himself, of course.  But it's not PLATONIC. 

The real question here, though, is, can you trust your girlfriend or wife?

The answer to this question really boils down to ONE thing- how RESPONSIBLE of a person is she in general? And in particular, how responsible of a person is she regarding the RELATIONSHIP?

And today, more than ever, unfortunately, many, many women have SHIRKED off responsibility for their behaviors, especially in terms of how to treat other men, due to the influence of third-wave feminism.

I first started to notice this about 15 years ago in nightclubs and college campus pub-nights. Even though I never drank myself, I would notice almost IMMEDIATELY as soon as a conversation was going well with a woman I was chatting up, she would start DRINKING more. 

 














I didn’t realize why this was, as I was still pretty clueless about some things back then, but eventually I learned that what was happening was that many women are extremely promiscuous, but at the same time they don’t want to PERCEIVE THEMSELVES as promiscuous.  

So, by getting THEMSELVES drunk, they are in effect getting RID of their ABILITY to make decisions, and also offering themselves a RATIONALIZATION for whatever happens later, so the next morning they can always feel like it wasn’t really them who did whatever it was they did.

This is just one reason why I am not a fan of picking up women in clubs or pubs or anywhere else where they may be drunk. But my main point here is how this is an example of SHIRKING responsibility.

Similarly, over the years, being in this field, I have heard all kinds of INSANE things, such as women saying things like if they cheated while on vacation, “It doesn’t count”, or that sleeping with ten guys while on vacation “doesn’t count”.

Also, the ENDLESS TIDAL WAVE of blaming MEN for everything - for example, when a woman says that she dated TEN ABUSIVE MEN in a row, you have to wonder why she couldn’t find anyone ELSE.  Was there perhaps something about those guys- were those guys cool, wealthy, powerful, or some other attractive trait, that these women have to take some responsibility for fully KNOWING what they were getting into but thinking it was worth it?

GROSSLY exaggerated claims of abuse, such as that one in four women on college campuses in the US are victims of rape, which went UNCONTESTED FOR YEARS, have recently been PROVEN as TOTALLY FALSE to the MIND-BOGGLING degree of CLARITY that NO ONE, not even THE MOST EXTREME FEMINISTS, can ARGUE with the recent REFUTATIONS to those claims.

It’s also interesting that some of the most famous feminists who claimed they just wanted equality between men and women, who claimed that the PERFECT relationship between men and women were ones where the men and women were EQUAL in status and power, ended up marrying men who were INFINITELY MORE FINANCIALLY POWERFUL than them, such as Jane Fonda who married Ted Turner.

 









So with their MOUTHS they SAY things, but they aren’t being RESPONSIBLE about those things.

So, it is in THIS light, in THIS context, that I tend to be very SKEPTICAL about some women who say they are hanging out with some guy who is "just a friend".

It’s NOT because it is IMPOSSIBLE for men and women to be friends.

It is because we are living in a time when women are told they don’t have to be RESPONSIBLE for their behaviors- they can just blame anything that happens on the guy.

So if the woman was in a relationship, and hanging out with some guy for coffee or a dinner or whatever, and that guy started making moves on her, what kind of CULTURE do we live in? 

We live in one where it is EASY for the woman to start SHIRKING responsibility, to start BLAMING her boyfriend for not being good enough, for being too good or too nice, for being WHATEVER excuse she wants in order to cheat and not have to take RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT.

It is WRONG for any man to abuse a woman, and we live in a society in the western world that KNOWS this, and AGREES with it, and it is ILLEGAL.

However, if a woman hits a man, if a woman is verbally abusive to a man, if a woman cheats on a man, what we tend to hear are ENDLESS excuses, endless rationalizations, endless SYMPATHY and EMPATHY for the woman.

For example, when Arnold Schwarzenegger was found to have cheated on his wife with the maid, which was wrong to do to his wife, the INSTINCT of most people was to hate on him, but what is so BIZARRE is that NO ONE mentioned the MAID HERSELF!!!!   

Somehow, she got off as PERFECTLY INNOCENT, as if she was FORCED to do all this.  

It is as if the culture was saying, "There IS NOOOOOOOOO WAYYYYYYYYY that she was anything other than TOTALLY INNOCENT, and there is NOOOOOOOOO WAYYY that she was trying to BENEFIT from being with one of the most successful men in Hollywood and American politics, EVER. Nooooooooooooo, it’s only ARNIE who is the absolute villain here."

Do you see what I am getting at?

A society where WOMEN are simply NOT held to the same degree of RESPONSIBILITY for their BEHAVIORS as men are, all thanks to third-wave feminism.

Also, it is interesting how many women end up with BAD BOYS, women who have all the choices in the world. For example, Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee. And just about EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THE KARDASHIANS.  And if you have enough experience dating, you’ve probably seen plenty of this as well in your own environment.

So, men are supposed to behave NICE to women, when being overly nice does not work, but when women are mistreated by bad boys, it’s not the WOMEN who are told by feminism to learn a lesson, nope- it’s the EVIL MEN who must change, when in reality most of the guys who are super-sensitive and nice to women end up getting taken advantage of.

So, in a society like THIS, yes I believe you have to be damn careful in your screening process with women, and in not being naïve. We are living in a culture where women simply aren’t put to the same level of MORAL RESPONSIBILITY towards the SAFEGUARDING of a relationship as MEN are. 

I have been saying FOR MANY YEARS that OF COURSE I believe in fairness, and women being treated right, and women being astronauts, doctors, or whatever they want is awesome.  

What I have a problem with is a MORAL DECAY that results from third-wave feminism preaching a DOUBLE STANDARD, and most of all, preaching LIES.


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And what this means is that if you want a long-term relationship with a woman, you must screen for a woman who is AWARE of this VERY issue, and who is RUTHLESS in her vigor to SAFEGUARD the integrity of the relationship by actually being RESPONSIBLE in her actions and decision-making.

Once you are with a woman like that, then not only CAN you let her do what she wants, but you in fact SHOULD trust her, as when trust is earned, and trust is then given as a result, she will feel no desire or need to RUIN it, and in fact will cherish what she has with you.

Now, there ARE some great women today, who have great senses of responsibility, and honestly, to me, a woman like this is a TRUE "Wonder Woman"- because it takes incredible STRENGTH to STAND UP to the SOCIAL PRESSURE of a society gone MAD. 

There is an old quote: "A woman of valor, who can find?" What is interesting here is that the word VALOR denotes noble character, but it especially notes COURAGE as well.  It takes COURAGE for a woman to STAND UP up for good values when society's values are corroding into chaos all around her. 


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If you would like to learn more about success with women and relationships, or if you have a specific issue that you need solved, you can now arrange a personal consultation with me.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Most IMPORTANT Skill For Attracting Women And How To Master It

I want to make a few VITAL things clear today regarding how to attract women.

The first is that ATTRACTING a woman is all about unleashing the positive PRIMAL emotions in yourself, which helps brings those SAME emotions out in her.

The more YOU are feeling sexual, confident, dominant, upbeat, and playful, as OPPOSED to feeling like a robot, or feeling worried about the outcome of the interaction, or feeling serious, the better your results will be.

Now the thing is, some guys will read that and take it out of CONTEXT.

They will go too far, or they won’t be intense enough.

It is important to OBSERVE the situation accurately, not only so you can GENERATE attraction, but also so that you can REALIZE an opportunity when you SEE it!



What is required for success is the proper CALIBRATION of those states of minds and actions, which means the proper amount and intensity of those things, depending on the situation and the woman, and depending on where you are at in the conversation.

So, for example, let’s say you are at a major mall and you see a woman carrying a bunch of shopping bags and she looks tired as she is plodding her feet along. You approach her and make a playful comment teasing her on how it seems she has done some real “work” today. Perhaps she smiles at you and chuckles and she says she’s done a lot of “damage” (i.e. to her finances from all the purchases).

Well, now that she is clearly OPENING UP TO YOU, you have to CALIBRATE properly. Do you decide to tease her FURTHER? And if so, how intense should the tease be, so that it doesn’t come across as mean-spirited?

A comment like, "You’re going to really regret it" is just MEAN and NOT FUNNY- unless you reallllly deliver it with the right tonality and expression.

A better comment from you in response to her mentioning how she has damaged her finances might be: "Hey, is the stuff you bought for you?"

This might be better, because let’s say she says that it is, you might then reply with, “Well that’s cool, you know that charity begins at home!”

And now she may smile AGAIN.

So now you have a woman that was a total stranger just moments ago, who has opened up to you, and revealed that she has possibly done something she lightly regrets, (and as such has now engaged in a subtle form of disclosure with you, which is an element you can use to build greater connection as you do the same as well to follow up), and you have gotten her to smile or laugh- all IN SECONDS from meeting her.

By saying something positive like that, you are keeping the conversation upbeat and rewarding her for talking to you, a total stranger.  She might smile in response to the “charity begins at home” comment, or she might laugh, but no matter what she says, chances are it will be a positive reaction because you CALIBRATED properly.

But now at THIS POINT, now that you have got her a little more INVESTED in the interaction by mere fact that she is actually speaking with you, you might want to add a bit of SPICE to the conversation  by introducing a touch of “positive/playful tension” i.e. not making it too easy for her to get you, otherwise she will likely feel the whole interaction went TOO FAST, and is thus somehow “not right”—this is because women are conditioned to expect there to be a certain amount of “the dance” (figuratively speaking) before she will actually escalate to the next stage with you.

It can happen pretty darn fast, but not TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO fast, or it actually LOSES the very feeling of chemistry, of fun, of romance.

This is why, the IRONY of learning to attract women, once you get some experience at it, is actually about learning to SLOW THINGS DOWN, and NOT speed things UP.

I know that probably sounds strange, right? After all, most guys want to know how to SUCCEED, not how to SLOW THINGS DOWN EVEN FURTHER, right?

But yet success requires just a LITTLE BIT OF SLOWING DOWN for what actually is going to be a FAR MORE EFFECTIVE AND EFFICIENT result. 

Think about it- what do most guys do?

They basically SKIP all the FUN, the vibing, the playful, the connection, and just want to get to “So, do you wanna go out sometime?” or they say something like, “Hey, you’re beautiful, what’s your number?” if they say anything at all.

This SKIPS the entire possibility for creating CHEMISTRY, for creating that VIBE where it’s all about building up the sexual tension, the playful ‘ping-pong’ of energy going back and forth between the two of you as you both engage in repartee, also known as “banter”.

Women UNDERSTAND THIS, WANT THIS, AND CRAVE THIS.

THIS is why a woman, if she LIKES you, will actually try even HARDER to slow it down, so that you actually DO have a chance, ironically.

She needs you to make it feel RIGHT to her- and it's really not hard to do, plus if you think about it, it's more fun for you as well, since it gives you a chance to feel out her personality  before going further.  Good things in life are never rushed.

All YOU have to do is UNDERSTAND this “mating dance before the mating dance” if you will.
Slow it DOWN, have some FUN, and yet also be AUTHENTIC.

Okay, but you probably are wondering how the heck can you do this when you are feeling NERVOUS about making the approach, right? How can you be PLAYFUL and all the other good stuff when you feel your heart is going to explode?

Well guess what? If your heart feels like it’s going to EXPLODE, that can actually be a GOOD thing as well, because it means you have PASSION, it means that you really LOVE women, it means that you have a lot of ENERGY in you that just needs to be TAPPED properly- and let me tell you something- PASSION is attractive to women.

Passion for love, for music, for art, for your hobbies, for learning, for sports, PASSION itself is attractive.

You can use that passion to MOTIVATE you.

Also, your passion for HER is something she may very well DETECT, and that is NOT a bad thing, it can be a very good thing.  

And guess what? It’s OKAY to not be PERFECT in your approach, especially as a beginner, as every single guy HAS to start off LESS THAN PERFECT!!!  Your first approaches might very well SOUND nervous, stammered, and you might not be able to keep the conversation going for more than a few seconds- THAT’S OKAY!
You will get BETTER with PRACTICE, you will get better at CALIBRATION.

And also, as I said before, if you are being AUTHENTIC at all times, and not telling her lies, and genuinely trying to connect, she will SENSE that, and it will HELP you.

In fact, this is something I realized that came out of something painful. Personally, I see no point to being with a woman unless there is an intense personal connection that is mutual, but I understand that not everyone is like this.

However, because connection really IS everything to me, it resulted in many relationships where I just felt the connection wasn’t strong enough, and so it wasn’t meaningful enough to me.

I used to think everyone else was crazy, but then I realized that actually I have this innate burning obsession for connection that goes far beyond what most people require or are even capable of- so although it made me feel super alone with almost every woman I ever met because the connection wasn’t strong enough, my burning obsession for intense connection DID result in me creating a connection that the WOMEN felt was super strong, and it wasn’t their fault that THEY couldn’t create the SAME feeling of connection- not most of them. 

But my point to you is that connection and authenticity are VERY powerful, so powerful in fact that you will find it is the most important part of the interaction in terms of what you are doing actively. The rest- i.e. you being in the positive state of mind, takes care of most of the other aspects of the attraction.   

If you have the connection part down, the rest is simply more about NOT RUINING a woman's natural attraction to you by doing something to WRECK the moment, than it is some major thing you have to actively do aside from the connection.  Again, this is because a woman picks up on your state of mind subconsciously from your body language, tonality, facial expressions, all which flow from your state of mind.

The more you genuinely care about these things the better you will do with women.

Of course, learning under my coaching from my books and programs, and learning even FASTER by learning from me in PERSON, will get you to a HIGHER LEVEL OF MASTERY MUCH SOONER, but you can start right NOW with whatever level you are currently at this moment.

One of the KEYS is to realize that the conversation has to KEEP GOING for a certain amount of time, before enough minutes have gone by that you actually pass the “stranger zone” and are now someone she feels she actually HAS a real INTEREST in, whether that is because you managed to attract her so powerfully, or even if you just made a really damn good impression in general through your wit, your connection skills, and your general sense of control over yourself where you give off an air of masculinity and positivity and you make her feel safe and secure.

But TIME IS IMPORTANT, the conversation does have to continue for at least a few minutes, and I have found statistically from experience myself and the experience of the clients I’ve coached, that this is usually about 7 minutes to about 20 minutes.

Past 20 minutes, and you are usually reaching a point of diminishing returns, meaning that it’s not BAD to continue it, but you are not really attracting her much MORE beyond what you already did, nor are you enhancing the connection further, it tends to PEAK at about 20 minutes when everything is done right.

So, that means typically that she has been smiling, laughing, perhaps also moments of looking really seriously into your eyes, and just moment of chilling out being COMFORTABLE IN YOUR PRESENCE, as well as moments where you two are connecting over something shared that is meaningful, whether it is a shared experience, a shared value, a shared element of childhood, etc.

Also, during the interaction, it is important that indeed there IS a time when you are actually doing nothing but just having a nice quiet moment together, where she just feels good being with you, she as a woman with a man, and you just feeling that awesome feeling of being with a woman you like-no words need to be spoken.

So, ALL these things are important elements of a successful interaction, and yet they have one COMMON THREAD- and that is that they all HAPPEN VERY EASILY from you WHEN YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT STATES OF MIND.

And this is why when you put too much pressure on yourself to GO ATTRACT WOMEN, you actually end up often coming across as awkward and not natural at all. And it’s harder to be playful, and to truly be indifferent to the outcome.

And during these situations,  it’s easy to end up OVERCOMPENSATING for feelings of anxiety or insecurity by going TOO far with the teasing so that it ends up coming across as hurtful and not playful, or you end up going TOO FAR with the connection stuff and it seems like you are desperately trying to grab at straws for something to share in common.

So here are some things to help you chill out and improve your success when you approach women:

1. Don’t make it the only focus of your activity.

This is why I suggest you include meeting women as part of your OTHER activities, like shopping, playing sports, going to the bookstore, getting a coffee, etc. 

Just make sure these other activities are RELAXED or POSITIVE, so that you are ALREADY in state when the moment of opportunity rises.

This way, your mind was already occupied with something else positive, and now that you are seeing a woman you find attractive, you are ALREADY in state, and you haven’t had time to freak yourself out. You are psychologically ready to take IMMEDIATE action.

2. Regarding finding a connection, let’s start with the basics- MAN AND WOMAN.

So if you have started the conversation with an observational comment about something, (keep it positive), or you have playfully teased her, or even if you just went right up and gave her a meaningful compliment that was authentic, the fact is there IS ALREADY one connection you both have.

She is a woman, you are a man.

That’s enough of a reason to already BUILD something together, because as long as you are exuding positive energy and good vibes and you are in a good state, there is the PULL of sexual attraction, and the shared desire to be with each other on a very primal level, even though of course as a modern society we don’t have to ACT upon these feelings at all- but the fact of the matter is they are THERE.

If they weren’t there, there wouldn’t be a society at all!

So in the back of your mind, know this, to help you relax.

And when your mind is FREE to feel RELAXED, your CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS are now UNLEASHED.

THIS IS A SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN FACT. It is BIOLOGY.

When you are feeling PANICKED, your brain shuts down all the NON-ESSENTIAL skills for survival, and puts your body and mind into “FIGHT OR FLIGHT” mode.

This is where you get your heart beating fast, adrenaline pumping, and you are ready to fight, flee, or freeze.

Unfortunately, that is very BAD state to be in when you actually need your MIND to be FULLY AWAKE so that you can PROCESS all the data that flows from her in a conversation.

You want your mind in the most RESOURCEFUL state, where it can LISTEN well, PERCEIVE well, be able to be playful, witty, observe patterns in things she is saying or simply understanding her words, her body language, her tonality so that you can give her meaningful feedback, etc.

So chill out by knowing that it you already have something going for you—the fact that she is a woman who has been HARDWIRED and that you are a man who has been HARDWIRED to feel a certain way about the opposite gender.

THAT is a connection, whether it is SAID or not.

Also, realize that most people could use an ENERGY LIFT in their day, and the GREATEST BOOST in our emotions tends to come from our INTERACTIONS with others, and here YOU ARE, actually putting some POSITIVE ENERGY into HER DAY, making it more fun, sexual, and interesting.

That means there is a very GOOD CHANCE she will be RECEPTIVE to you.

The most AMAZING thing to me is that we are living in a society where you really CAN meet almost INFINITE women, all you need is to have the KNOW-HOW, and it can actually be EASY.

Now, there is a whole OTHER side, which is about how to work on yourself and how to SCREEN the women you meet so that you both are able to enjoy having an AWESOME relationship together long term, but that is a whole other discussion, one that I also teach and that is super-important as well.

But for now, let’s get the FIRST PART handled, shall we? How to GET the girl in the first place.

The BEST thing you can do is take a BOOTCAMP with me, in PERSON.

I will teach you EVERYTHING you need to know, by providing you with PRIVATE and PERSONALIZED coaching as you learn to approach and attract women in DOZENS of different venues from bookstores to coffee shops to public transit to supermarkets and just about everywhere else!

Learning from my books and audio and DVD programs is a FANTASTIC start, and taking my PERSONAL COACHING and BOOTCAMPS allow you to MAXIMIZE your success in these skills.

Every man is different, so the first thing I do is observe your interactions with women, so that I can find out exactly what it is YOU need to SKYROCKET your success. 

You will notice a MASSIVE DIFFERENCE IMMEDIATELY upon using what I show you. I’m not just talking about AFTER bootcamp, you will even notice how things change IMMEDIATELY for the better with women for you, upon you putting into effect the things I teach you.

The results and the proof are simple. You take the program. You decide the women you want to attract, ANYWHERE. You see BEFORE YOUR EYES the results, and you be the judge yourself.

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Remember, in bootcamp, you get PERSONALIZED and PRIVATE coaching. That means the bootcamp is EXCLUSIVE. All my time is spent on YOU and you only. This allows for you to have an ACCELERATED learning rate compared to bootcamps where your time with the instructor is divided amongst another couple of students, or another three students, etc. 

And even more importantly, I am the guy who basically CHANGED THE ENTIRE PLAYBOOK for the field of how to approach and attract women. From getting rid of pick-up lines, to generating attraction in a more natural way, to learning how to screen for the kind of women who will treat you right, to raising the entire standard on “inner game”, and much more. 

That means when you ask me a question, you are not getting a robotic answer, you are getting the answer from a man who has devoted his LIFE to helping men deal with the CRISIS inflicted upon them from a world where women have been brainwashed, men have been brainwashed, and where men are often made to feel BAD about even feeling DESIRE for a woman!

I understand just how much TORTURE it can be to feel HELPLESS in this area, to feel ALONE, to feel OVERWHELMED.

I truly GET IT.

And when you learn from me, you will learn not only how to attract women, but how to go about the entire endeavor in a way that is consistent with a holistic approach to life in general- you will learn to do it all in a way that is SUM-SUM. You win, the woman wins, and it LASTS.

Again, BOOTCAMP is at:

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Each one of these programs was made with painstaking effort and care, and I know you will benefit from all of them.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

NEW INSIGHTS INTO ATTRACTION AND THE APPROACH

It’s been a long time since my last newsletter, and there has been so very, very, VERY much I’ve wanted to share with you regarding new insights into attraction, approaching, and relationships, and even the human MIND in general, but I’ve just been truly dug in deep with work and not had the time to actually write up everything into a new book or newsletter or audio program, etc.

But if I don’t get started sharing this, it might NEVER get out, so I am going to share ONE of the MOST AMAZING insights I’ve ever had when it comes to successfully approaching women ANYWHERE, and this applies even more to places that are “normal places” as opposed to places specially designed for meeting women such as nightclubs and parties.

So here we go:

ALWAYS BE IN MIDDLE OF DOING SOMETHING ELSE WHERE YOU ARE ALREADY IN A GREAT STATE OF MIND

The reason this works is because ultimately it’s ALL ABOUT STATE OF MIND, and the problem is when you make your FOCUS the actual APPROACHES, then what happens is your mind is now focused on LOOKING FOR A WOMAN, and it can’t HELP but start going into THINKING MODE, and ironically, you don’t WANT to be THINKING, you want to be so deep in FANTASTIC STATE that you INSTINCTIVELY start ACTUALLY talking to a woman you like, and you do it with JOY, instead of THINKING ABOUT IT.

ALWAYS BE IN MIDDLE OF DOING SOMETHING ELSE WHERE YOU ARE ALREADY IN A GREAT STATE OF MIND.

If you have to start THINKING about it, it’s already FAR from optimum.

But when you are already DEEP in a super optimistic, upbeat, positive state, your THOUSANDS OF YEARS OF DEVELOPED HARD-WIRING IN YOUR BRAIN INSTINCTIVELY TAKES OVER when you see a woman you’d like to talk to. The attraction to women is such a PRIMAL part of your brain, that all it needs is to simply not be RESTRAINED by bullshit FEARS and NEGATIVITY. 

A lot of people resort to ALCOHOL to do this, but of course the alcohol impedes their OTHER faculties and hampers their sense of emotional intelligence in other ways and interferes with proper social calibration.

Now, as far as the HOW TO for how to do this properly, it’s SIMPLE:

First, start doing the things you really DO enjoy in life, things that make you feel good, and usually this has to do with some form of doing something you are naturally talented at and then connecting

that with PEOPLE on as massive a level as you can.  Maybe you are teaching some skill you have to others in a class, maybe you are volunteering to help in some other way.  Etc.

Next, just go about your GENERAL LIFE, but make sure to live your general life in a place where there are SINGLE WOMEN AROUND!

So what I mean by all this, is that you don’t have to DO anything special, and in fact you SHOULD NOT DO ANYTHING SPECIAL, the SPECIAL thing you are doing, IRONICALLY, is that you are NOT DOING ANYTHING in terms of LOOKING FOR WOMEN, or in terms of THINKING about what you are going to SAY to a woman you might see.

All that “doing special thinking” really should occur WAY WAY WAYYYYYYYYY before, for example, if there are INNER GAME issues you need to work on, then yes by all means, take care of those issues, but once you are out there and there are women around, the best thing is to ALREADY BE IN THE RIGHT STATE so that your INSTINCTS take over-the instincts you were BORN WITH AS A MAN!!!!

YES! The ones you were BORN WITH, you don’t have to train for this, the thing you have to “train” for is actually UNLEARNING all thebullshit you were taught since birth by an INSANE culture that

teaches you how EVIL it is for men to be masculine and how evil it is for women to be feminine, as I explained in my very FIRST book, called THE DATING WIZARD.

To quote Yoda, “You must unlearn what you have learned”.  It’s important to UNLEARN all the hogwash that was force-fed to you by generations of MISGUIDED feminism. I say MISGUIDED because at one time, there was some logic to feminism, but the way it is now in the western world is completely insane, destructive, and something most people are unaware of in terms of its full impact on society.

And by the way, I have to say this here, I am NOT some ridiculous chauvinist, I have NO PROBLEM whatsoever with women being WHATEVER THEY WANT, totally and absolutely- what I have a problem with is a movement teaching that men are garbage and that women are superior- this hurts the good men and women on the planet far more than anybody else, since the male and female creeps never listen to anyone anyway, including to the feminists.

So anyway, the key to a successful approach is to keep the approach as SPONTANEOUS as possible, fueled ONLY by your AWESOME STATE.

So if you see a woman at the gas station filling up, you can start joking with her about the price of gas, about the way she is filling up, about her style of holding the pump, about how people never seem to have time to interact with each other and how good it is that at least there are gas stations where people can talk to each other,etc, etc, etc.

THE KEY IS INFINITE OPTIMISM AND "POSITIVITY".

But the MOMENT you start turning it into a whole big planned speech, with “special moves”, it starts to REEK of being INAUTHENTIC, and also you start to FEEL like you are putting on an act, and that ruins your own confidence, and all this together ends up ruining the vibe.

Trust me, what you have just read should be RE-READ A DOZEN TIMES A DAY until it is INGRAINED IN YOUR SOUL.

Ever wonder why there is so LITTLE actually USEFUL advice like you read above, and instead so much total BULLSH*T?

It's because we have, as a culture, have become IGNORANT and thus VULNERABLE to the actions of various individuals and companies exploiting people's HARD-WIRED emotions.

For example, regarding MISLEADING INFORMATION, DESTRUCTIVE PRODUCTS, AND EMOTIONALLY COMPELLING PROPAGANDA.

It doesn’t matter whether it’s JUNK FOOD, JUNK ADVICE, or JUNK PRODUCTS, the bottom line is that it all comes with a marketing FORCE designed to THROTTLE LOGIC AND RATIONAL THINKING.

So, for example, it is almost IMPOSSIBLE to eat healthy if you rely on the restaurants or fast food establishments everywhere- whether it’s TOO MUCH SALT, SUGAR, FAT, OR CHEMICALS, there’s almost NO ESCAPE if you rely on them, and they get away with it because of the combination of IGNORANCE among people and the POWERFUL MARKETING and product design that is not in your best interests.

Food corporations hire the best scientists on the planet to make food HYPER-PALATABLE so as to require almost SUPER-HUMAN resistance to it when you have been exposed to it and you are hungry and there are no other options and when it is also marketed to CHILDREN, to capture the

market at a young and vulnerable age—see the movie FED UP for more on this.

And in dating advice, you are bombarded with B.S. lies about how all you need is some manipulative tactic to get any woman, when in fact you really SHOULD NOT WANT JUST ANY WOMAN, as a lot of women out there will DESTROY you if you allow them into your life and if you are the kind of man who is a good man and who is also honest and who invests his emotions into a relationship.

The trick is NOT to get TONS OF WOMEN; it’s to get the RIGHT woman.

But COMPANIES know that humans are not always RATIONAL, and they know that there is that FANTASY element to men's minds-to live like the image that HUGH HEFNER has created, but that

too is just an IMAGE, it's not REAL.

I could easily make TEN TIMES the money I do, by resorting to that b.s. I know allll about it, because I have studied it to prevent becoming FOOLED by it.

Unfortunately, people are VULNERABLE and companies, and individuals, in the name of personal GREED, will EXPLOIT THAT.

Third wave feminism has EXPLOITED the good will of MILLIONS of men, and used it AGAINST men, with the result being good men getting abuse like HELL while almost NO ONE speaks out against it, and unfortunately, sometimes the only ones who DO are the ones who really ARE spreading hate and misinformation, as opposed to the VERY, VERY, VERY FEW individuals who are being RESPONSIBLE to point out the LIES of third-wave feminism, while NOT creating NEW LIES themselves, lies that would appeal to MEN in the same way that third-wave feminist lies are designed to appeal to women.

There too, I could easily get TEN TIMES the support I have, by engaging in HATE tactics and pandering to the MISINFORMED men.

Truth is a TERRIBLE business, let me tell you, but it’s the only one with any MEANING- the rest is just living the MATRIX- it’s fake, it’s not real, it doesn’t mean ANYTHING.

Similarly, many POLITICIANS tell people what they WANT TO HEAR, rather than the TRUTH.

The TRUTH is as that if you want PEACE, you better be prepared to DEFEND that peace from those sworn to DESTROY IT, and if you want JOBS, you better support an environment that allows small businesses to succeed because they are the ones creating millions of real jobs as opposed to the government handing out money, -and the freaking idiots out there who refuse to see REALITY in the face often SUPPORT the politicians with a good hair-do, with nice promises, and who tell everyone the world will be perfect as long as we all hold hands and sing KUMBAYA.

Third-wave feminism is similar in that it is based not on TRUTH, but on what SOUNDS true. “Women, made from sugar and spice, and men, those evil beasts, it’s not fair, we should support all those innocent women from all those evil beast men.  All those beast men who only want to get physical with those women who never think of getting physical.”

Also, another problem is that people today have FREEDOM like they never had before, they have FREEDOM when it comes to sex and relationships, FREEDOM when it comes to their sense of spirituality and morals, FREEDOM when it comes to the choice of what to eat, and whether to get exercise or not, FREEDOM when it comes to EVERYTHING, but most people CAN’T HANDLE IT.

FREEDOM must be appreciated and cherished and respected; it's nature must be FULLY understood.

Most people need to learn the HARD WAY that actually they NEED to SELF-IMPOSE discipline in these areas, and that UNLIMITED FREEDOM does not mean INDULGING in everything without limit. All that results from that are corruption, mental illness, emotional weakness, obesity,broken relationships, the destruction of the family unit, infidelity, lack of love for community, and a life lacking in meaning.

Now, you might think that I am this angry guy in real life, but nothing can be farther from the truth. It’s just that GOOD THINGS are based on HARD WORK and DISCIPLINE, and there are some GREAT women out there who realize this as well, which is why I continue to champion the goal of getting a GREAT girlfriend instead of just trying to rack up points with a number count of how many women you got physical with.

There are great women out there, and honestly, there is nothing more ENERGIZING in your life than being with a great woman.  What you have read in this newsletter is just the TIP of the ICEBERG of an entire UNIVERSE of SECRETS on how to actually GET yourself an AMAZING woman.

Contact me NOW about taking a PRIVATE BOOTCAMP with me where I will take you through the TRANSFORMATION process of getting rid of all the MISGUIDED CONDITIONING you’ve been exposed to over your life and I will FREE your instincts to RESTORE them to the way NATURE intended to make you AWESOME with women, or contact me with any questions you may have about any of my programs or services.  

Whether it's about how to attract women, or whether it's a relationship question, I'm going to ANSWER your question and help you SOLVE the issue as EFFICIENTLY AS POSSIBLE. 

My clients come from all over the world- and they are the kind of men who are INFORMED. You will be joining an elite group of truly INFORMED men when you benefit from taking my advice. Don't allow yourself to get SUCKED INTO THE VORTEX OF IGNORANCE. 

Instead, ENTER THE BRIGHT LIGHT OF KNOWLEDGE AND GUIDANCE- you will find that EVERYTHING you learn from me is based on MOUNTAINS AND MOUNTAINS OF EVIDENCE THAT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO IGNORE BY ALL STANDARDS. 

My email ismichaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com

My site is www.getagreatgirl.com

Till next time,

Michel Marks