Today’s
newsletter is of ENORMOUS importance
if you care
about getting yourself the kind of woman
you really
want.
If you want
to know just how passionate I truly am
about this
whole topic of getting a great woman in
your life, I
think you might enjoy a preview to a film
I recently
completed that is all about finding a
truly WORTHY
woman.
You can
check it out here: (By the way, Dek Webber is a pen name.)
The Promise - Trailer for The Movie from Dek Webber on Vimeo.
Today I’m
going to share some important info with
you on why,
if you want a woman who is going to
treat you
right, you will very likely have to go OUT
of the
normal circles you tend to dwell in, and you
might even
have to do some traveling.
You will DEFINITELY have to screen women
intensely, and only allow in the women who
fully understand how important it is to constantly
practice the skill of APPRECIATING one's
boyfriend or girlfriend or wife or husband,
assuming that indeed that person is being
good to them.
Appreciation is the great EQUALIZER.
It is a skill that human beings can practice
that can overpower what would otherwise
be overwhelming forces of corruption
that exist in society today.
You will DEFINITELY have to screen women
intensely, and only allow in the women who
fully understand how important it is to constantly
practice the skill of APPRECIATING one's
boyfriend or girlfriend or wife or husband,
assuming that indeed that person is being
good to them.
Appreciation is the great EQUALIZER.
It is a skill that human beings can practice
that can overpower what would otherwise
be overwhelming forces of corruption
that exist in society today.
Still here?
Good,
because most people tune out the
second they
hear there may be some
EFFORT
required to solve something.
People
SOONER believe a lie that appeals to
their
wishful thinking than they believe a TRUTH
that may
require some effort if they accept
the
consequences of that truth.
I’m going to
explain to you why you MUST get the
RIGHT woman
and not waste your time trying to
CHANGE the
vast majority of women you meet.
And I’m
going to explain why the best thing you
can do for
yourself is to actually be, in many ways,
the OPPOSITE
of what most feminists teach men
to be.
Just allow
me to start by saying that I am NOT one
BIT in favor
of even a SHRED of injustice.
So OF COURSE
I think that it is wrong to treat ANYONE
in a way
that is not fair, and that OF COURSE includes
women.
A woman does
the same job as a man?
Of course
she should be paid the same.
Voting? Of
course the same rights as men.
A woman
wants to become an astronaut?
Go for it.
All that
stuff should be common sense.
What I am
referring to in this newsletter when I
discuss feminism,
is how feminists spread a
negative and
FALSE perception of MOST men,
(i.e. as
violent, rapists, abusers, close minded,
insecure,
jealous, controlling) and how feminists
encourage
women to look DOWN at how women
USED to play
a massive role in preserving the
good morals
in families and in society.
There's more actually-like how feminists
attempt to denigrate the role of mothers
and of motherhood in society, and how
feminists glorify women ONLY if they
make career more important than family,
and how feminists encourage promiscuity
as a form of “freedom”, and how feminists
actually teach women lies regarding
what men
truly value in women, and how
feminism
glorifies the making of money as
the ultimate
pinnacle of a woman’s development,
and how feminism
encourages women to have
a
light-headed attitude toward all traditional
values in general, and how feminism
encourages
arrogance in women.
I also want to say that feminism is not the
ONLY issue causing challenges for men
when it comes to having harmony with
women, but feminism as it stands today
is definitely the biggest issue.
And also, I want to make it clear that ALL of
the issues plaguing modern dating and relationships
between men and women CAN be solved, as they
are all PERSPECTIVE issues- issues that can be
SOLVED with a greater emphasis on learning
to APPRECIATE.
But it takes a woman to WANT to learn this,
just as much as it takes a man, yet most men have
already had this message told to them since
birth- to treat women really well- it's just women
who have been told a very different message by
feminists, when it comes to how they should
treat men.
In particular, today many women are taught NOT
to appreciate a man who is honest, hard-working,
ready to commit, loyal, etc.
So, with that said, there is something of EXTREME
I also want to say that feminism is not the
ONLY issue causing challenges for men
when it comes to having harmony with
women, but feminism as it stands today
is definitely the biggest issue.
And also, I want to make it clear that ALL of
the issues plaguing modern dating and relationships
between men and women CAN be solved, as they
are all PERSPECTIVE issues- issues that can be
SOLVED with a greater emphasis on learning
to APPRECIATE.
But it takes a woman to WANT to learn this,
just as much as it takes a man, yet most men have
already had this message told to them since
birth- to treat women really well- it's just women
who have been told a very different message by
feminists, when it comes to how they should
treat men.
In particular, today many women are taught NOT
to appreciate a man who is honest, hard-working,
ready to commit, loyal, etc.
So, with that said, there is something of EXTREME
importance that
you need to know:
Just because
a man gets a woman into bed
with him,
does not necessarily mean that woman
VALUES him
very much at all.
Unless you
live in a non-feminist society, those
were the OLDEN
days-when women would be
more CAREFUL
when it came to the physical stuff.
Today
though, because so many men have
thrown their
own value out the window (as a
result of
feminism) in order to get women, the
fact that a
guy will sleep with a woman means
NOTHING
special to a woman.
So she can
sleep with almost any guy, and the
next night,
she knows she can get almost any
OTHER guy to
sleep with her. Maybe not to
commit to
her, but certainly to sleep with her.
Getting a
girlfriend who will treat you right,
and getting
physical with a woman, even if
you didn’t
have to pay for it, are TWO VERY
DIFFERENT
things.
This is one
of the biggest things that the
pick up artist
community COMPLETELY
IGNORES. I should know, because for a
time I
thought the pick-up artists had all
the answers.
When I
started asking questions about getting
QUALITY
women who would actually be GREAT
girlfriends,
they had NO ANSWERS.
So I started
a private mission to try to discover
for myself
just what the heck the answer was
to the
problem, and even tried to figure out
WHY the
problem was so prevalent- WHY
it was that
just about EVERY woman I met
seemed to
display the SAME attitudes that
spelled
DOOMSDAY for any relationship.
It took
YEARS- this is the honest truth- YEARS
of struggle,
as well as the help of a wise and noble
friend- but
I did finally figure it out.
Now,
regarding the pick-up artist community,
it really is focused on how to get a guy into bed witha woman or with some women- they never said
what kind of woman or women you would get.
So when you see some pickup artist making out
with some woman he just met a moment ago,
it can be pretty compelling viewing if you don't
know what is going on.
And if all you care about is getting physical with
a woman, regardless of whether that woman will
be faithful or care less about you, then you're
going to be thrilled.
But if you think that the women these guys are
with some woman he just met a moment ago,
it can be pretty compelling viewing if you don't
know what is going on.
And if all you care about is getting physical with
a woman, regardless of whether that woman will
be faithful or care less about you, then you're
going to be thrilled.
But if you think that the women these guys are
making out with in two minutes, are the same
kinds of women that would make for quality
girlfriends, you would be making a mistake
that could haunt you for many years, especially
if you ended up getting serious with these women.
So the bottom line is YES, it CAN
BE pretty easy.
IT can be PRETTY
EASY with MILLIONS of women today.
And that is
actually NOT a good thing.
It is a huge
problem.
This issue is something that isn't the focus of
the pick-up artists. They're about getting physical,
end of story, with SOME woman or women-
they never said these women are going to be
the kinds of women that most men want as
girlfriends.
This issue is something that isn't the focus of
the pick-up artists. They're about getting physical,
end of story, with SOME woman or women-
they never said these women are going to be
the kinds of women that most men want as
girlfriends.
Getting a woman to get physical with you can
be EASY.
By the way, if you are curious about the "how to"
on getting most of these women to get physical,
it is about hitting the right balance of playful,
sexual, and dominant, with a touch of depth-
(sometimes people call this "having class")
just enough to make her feel that she is not
being promiscuous but rather actually connecting
with a man on some level deeper than ONLY
the physical - so she can avoid any
feelings of doubt or guilt about the whole thing.
Most men tend to take the whole interaction WAY
too seriously considering these women are not
thinking seriously at all.
And most men tend to try to tell women things
that will show how well they will treat these
women, which triggers the whole relationship
thought in her head, and the last thing she wants
is to commit to some guy.
OR, there are some guys who act so over the top
in the sexual side of things, that they come across
as having no class at all- and the irony is that these
women want to FOOL THEMSELVES into thinking
that the promiscuity is not promiscuity, so it becomes
important to give the whole interaction the VENEER
of class even though it really is just all about sex.
Now don't get me wrong- ALL women appreciate
it when a guy has class, and can be dominant and
confident and sexual and playful, it's just that the
quality women ALSO are careful to screen men for
having OTHER qualities such as maturity, and
they need more than just a man showing the ILLUSION
of class and honor, and these women don't go to
bed with a hundred guys- there has to be a
DEEPER CONNECTION.
But for the majority of the attractive women you
probably meet, all you need to do is focus on the
playful, sexual, and dominant, in the right balance,
with just a SMATTERING of class-enough to make
her feel she is not promiscuous- and then it is EASY
to adopt a lifestyle that would make Caligula look
like nothing, if that is what you really wanted.
It is SO
easy, in fact, that the same way it is super
easy for YOU
to get a woman to sleep with you, it
is EQUALLY
easy for the NEXT guy to get the SAME
woman to
sleep with HIM the very next DAY-
scratch
that, the next HOUR.
And for the
SAME reason a woman will go to
bed so
quickly with a guy, she will also do
OTHER things
quickly without thinking,
as long as
it FEELS GOOD IN THE MOMENT.
And it has
NOTHING to do with you not being
GOOD ENOUGH
or MAN enough or ANYTHING
enough.
She simply
is not interested in giving of herself
to any one
man, not in any meaningful sense,
until she feels
her biological clock is about to
expire- and
that has nothing to do with her
authentically
changing in terms of her values,
it’s more of
a having no-choice situation-
and even
THEN it’s pretty “iffy”.
If you think
I am kidding, just do a little
Google
search on the rates of STDs and
STIs- they
are SKY-HIGH- so women aren’t
getting
these from being exactly virgins,
to say the
least.
And if you
look at the rates of affairs and
cheating,
and especially if you factor in that
women
probably are UNDER-REPORTING
their actual
statistics of having affairs,
you will see
most women are no longer the
GUARDIANS OF
VIRTUE or anything
like that.
The reason
why it’s so easy to get women to
be physical
with you is because, (and this is
ESPECIALLY
true in bars and clubs where
alcohol is
flowing, but it’s true just about
anywhere
where feminism has spread)
women have
been taught by feminism
that
promiscuity and pure selfishness is
GOOD.
Most young
women today in feminist-influenced
countries
are obsessed with whatever feels good
in the MOMENT
rather than the long-term.
Women were
told by feminists for decades
that the
only reason women were NOT being
promiscuous earlier
was because men were
FORCING
women to be that way.
Women were
told that all men were having affairs,
that all men
are animals and that rape is rampant
everywhere, and
that it’s time women evened the
score, etc.
Then, what
makes it even EASIER to pick up
women for
getting physical is the fact that
most of the
OTHER men these women ARE
meeting today
are KISSING UP so badly just for
a chance to
go out with these women,
and most of
these men keep PRESSURING
these women
to get into RELATIONSHIPS-
and these
women DON’T WANT THAT-
not unless
they can do whatever they
WANT in
terms of having their cake and
eating it
too, i.e. flirting around, possibly
cheating on
their boyfriends, etc.
So when a
guy comes along who focuses
on just the
FUN stuff, on getting physical
without any
commitment, and who shows
NO
NEEDINESS, no desire for a relationship,
OF COURSE
she wants him!
I know this
sounds IRONIC.
You’ve
probably been brought up to believe
that WOMEN
are the ones who want serious
relationships,
right?
But
actually, no, the only kind of serious relationship
is the kind
that is serious in terms of YOU being
responsible,
faithful, and forgiving, while she gets
to flirt
around with others, focuses on herself, and
does
whatever she wants- and if you don’t like it,
well then
you automatically are then a “controlling,
insecure,
jealous, possessive, abusive man, who
doesn’t
truly love her”.
But to be
with a guy who makes NO demands,
who ONLY
wants to have fun for the short-term
and who lets
HER be the one who decides how
long it
should last?
Well then,
in her mind, she feels “Why not?”
With a guy
who is that disposable, there is no down
side for
her, at least not in her own mind.
The fact
that eventually this will lead to a
situation
where no decent man will want
to be with
her, this never enters her mind,
again as a
result of feminism- feminism
tells her
that of course ALL MEN WILL
ALL WANT HER
ALWAYS SINCE SHE IS
SO PERFECT
AND SUPERIOR TO THEM.
So you have
women who are super EASY.
You have men
who are KISSING up and
simultaneously
BEGGING for relationships,
which causes
PRESSURE for the women,
and this
triggers RESISTANCE on the part
of women.
It’s NOT
HARD AT ALL to then get a woman
to be
interested in you if you CATER to her
INTEREST-
which is to NOT have a relationship,
which is to
focus on the superficial, the short-term,
etc.
Then, also factor in the effect of ALCOHOL,
which is widespread in most social settings,
and you then start to see more of the full picture.
which is widespread in most social settings,
and you then start to see more of the full picture.
But indeed
MOST MEN do in fact find it to be
MESMERIZING
to see how some guy can approach
a woman and
get her to be PHYSICAL VERY QUICKLY
with him.
Many years
ago, I was the same way.
After being
in a HORRIBLE relationship, and then
dating a few
women who were manipulative and
abusive, and
after having all this happen to me even
though I
treated these women like GOLD and gave them
every ounce
of my loyalty and respect, I had a really
negative
picture of women at the time- really DID
BELIEVE that
all women were the same.
So, I
thought, if all women were the same, I may as
well just
focus on whatever WORKS to get a woman
ATTRACTED,
and I would just have to live with the fact
that my
previous concepts of how things “should” be
between a
man and a woman simply was a fantasy.
And that’s
when I started to, mostly on my own, learn
all the PICK
UP ARTIST stuff- at a time when there
was really
NO mainstream pick up artist advice at all,
no book like
“The Game”- NOTHING.
Most of my
learning simply came from ABANDONING
the OLD
version of me- the version that tried so hard
to prove to
a woman that I was NOT like the negative
stereotype
of men that I had been BRAINWASHED to
believe by
feminism was so COMMON.
Rather than
try to prove ANYTHING to any woman,
I would
tease women that if they did some favor for
ME, I might
give them my number- that was the
kind of
attitude I displayed and lo and behold almost
EVERY SINGLE
WOMAN I met would RESPOND VERY
POWERFULLY
to this.
It went
AGAINST every single thing that feminists had
told me that
women wanted.
And it
WORKED.
These women
wanted to get physical, they wanted
relationships,
it all seemed great on the surface.
So what was
the problem?
The problem
was that there was a lack of true
RESPECT from
these women.
I know a lot
of guys don’t understand this.
They figure,
who cares, as long as a hot woman
wants to get
naked with you, isn’t that all that matters?
And the
answer is NO, it’s not all that matters.
And the
IRONY is that the more you UNDERSTAND
this, the
BETTER you will do with women.
A woman can’t
allow herself to be ravaged (as in
when a woman says to a man how she craves to
be "ravaged" in a positive sexual sense by him) by
when a woman says to a man how she craves to
be "ravaged" in a positive sexual sense by him) by
a man she
can’t RESPECT, and if you don’t respect
YOURSELF
enough to not take an ounce of b.s.,
you not only
lose yourself, you also lose the woman.
So, what happens
is, because of feminism, women
are VERY
confused.
They think they
are supposed to be promiscuous, that
they are
supposed flirt with other men even if the women
are in
relationships already, and they think that they are
supposed to
put their career before their family or
their
children, and they think that they should ALSO
somehow
STILL have the perfect boyfriend, the
perfect
relationship, the perfect family life at home.
And yet, on
a PRIMAL level, they can ONLY feel
attraction to
a man who doesn’t tolerate disrespect.
So if you
calmly put her in her place, she will actually
feel MORE
attraction to you, but if you accept the
disrespect,
she actually loses attraction, and then
she will
give you even more disrespect, which if you
tolerate will
result in her losing more and more attraction
for you till
the whole thing is definitely over.
And if you
lose your temper, that too is a form of showing
weakness, so
all the time she disrespects you what you
have to do
is calmly put her in her place.
And even if
you always are successful in handling
this insane
treatment, you might keep her ATTRACTED,
but there is
no way in this universe that you will still
LOVE her-
how can you love a woman who you
have to constantly
TRAIN to do a simple thing like
RESPECT you?
RESPECT you?
Which is why
the men who really do want to feel
genuine love
for a woman will end the relationship
rather than
just keep it going for the physical part.
And to be
blunt, MOST women, especially attractive
women, in
societies where feminism’s influence
has
flourished, are like this. It’s the
reason that
most of the
attractive women you meet who are
young all
think the only thing they should be are
actresses or
models – it’s the reason so many of
them drink
and smoke and party so hard- and if
they DO work
hard at some other job, it’s ONLY
for the most
selfish reasons you can dream up of-
these women are
like this because they have been
CORRUPTED.
Feminists
have told them they are SUPERIOR to men.
And most men
KISS up to them, TOLERATING all this.
So of
course, the men who kiss up do NOT attract
these women-
and the men who are smart enough to
know these
women are trouble stay away from these
women. That just leaves the pick up artist types
left-
the guys who
don’t care about women, but who still
want to get physical
even if it is with these women.
But if you
don’t KNOW ANY OF THIS, you will be
MESMERIZED
at the sight of a pick up artist
walking into
a club and making out with the
hottest
woman in the club within 5 minutes of
entering.
And this
brings me to the part where I mentioned there
was a time
when I truly thought that all women were
the same.
Since I
figured that LOVE was out of the question,
I became
TOTALLY CONGRUENT with just being a
PICK UP
ARTIST.
I had my
plan in my head of exactly what I was going
to do when I
walked in, what to do for various possible
situations,
and like a flow chart in my mind, I knew where
I was going
to lead the woman in the club, where I would
get her
seated, where we would get intimate, how the
first kiss
would be elicited, etc., etc.
The very
FIRST TIME I went to a club with this
CONGRUENCY
in my mind, I was BLOWN AWAY
by how EASY
it was. I don’t want to share gory
details here
because I think it’s distasteful, but
suffice to
say it was EASY.
It’s NO BIG
DEAL, because these women are THERE
for a guy to
PICK THEM UP- that is why they are
THERE! Showing off about this is like showing off
that you
collected SNOW when it was SNOWING!
This is why it
is so insane when women tell guys they
are going to
clubs just to dance- and why it is even MORE
insane when
a girl tells this to her boyfriend especially
if she is
going without him.
Again, it’s
the feminist hypocrisy again- which is to
deny the
obvious while having their cake and eating
it too. If women didn’t go to clubs to meet MEN,
then why not
go to WOMEN ONLY clubs and just
DANCE
there??????????????????????????????
Especially
when you factor in how the women are
getting liquored
up in these places at the same time.
But if you
aren’t AWARE of all this, if you are
just a good
guy who is trying to get a woman,
and you are
confused as how to get a woman
because all
you hear all day and see all day
on TV are
reports on how terrible men are
and how
women just want a guy who will
be super
careful and cautious with them,
you will
think A MIRACLE is happening
when you see
how EASY it can be.
The more
INNOCENT a guy is, and the more
HE is genuine and serious about commitment,
HE is genuine and serious about commitment,
and the more HE
cares about morals, the more
HE WILL BE
blown away by the sight of a guy
getting a
woman to be physical very quickly-
BUT ONLY
UNTIL HE LEARNS THE FULL TRUTH-
that these
women indeed are not going to
be
trustworthy, mature, free of STDs and STIs,
free of abusive behavior, and of free of being a slave
to short-term thinking.
to short-term thinking.
Once a guy
knows the FULL PICTURE, suddenly
the VALUE of
these women PLUMMETS.
And THAT is
why so many women try SO HARD
to never
CONSCIOUSLY think about what they
are doing- this is the whole reason WHY alcohol is
REQUIRED so often to make it all WORK.
are doing- this is the whole reason WHY alcohol is
REQUIRED so often to make it all WORK.
I believe
women are HARD-WIRED to actually KNOW
that
promiscuity is a MISTAKE for them- and it’s NOT
a big desire
for most women. But with enough
ALCOHOL to
overpower the HARD-WIRING that
is BUILT
DEEP INSIDE OF THEMSELVES, they can
go AGAINST
THEIR OWN NATURE.
It’s not a
coincidence that bars and clubs serve
alcohol and
that bars and clubs are the typical
place where
men and women who are singles
so often
meet.
But it's not so much a question of meeting women
in clubs versus meeting women out of clubs, it's
more a question of what COUNTRY you are in,
or what COUNTRY she is from, since the value
system when it comes to these issues is the SAME
amongst most women raised in feminist countries.
in clubs versus meeting women out of clubs, it's
more a question of what COUNTRY you are in,
or what COUNTRY she is from, since the value
system when it comes to these issues is the SAME
amongst most women raised in feminist countries.
Things were
not always this way. For most of
human
civilization in fact. But feminism is
trying
to go
against the very BIOLOGY of human beings.
But again, MOST
MEN don’t put two and two
together.
They still think that the typical woman
found in
feminist societies is a PRIZE.
So when they
see a pick-up artist video showing
some guy making
out with some woman they
think
something magical is happening.
It doesn’t
mean the woman will care one drop
about him
the next day, or even the next hour.
And if a
guy DOES get into a relationship
with almost
any of these women, he is just
allowing a TROJAN
horse into his mind, a
woman who
will devastate his emotions later
when the
doomed relationship kicks in.
And make no
mistake about it- a relationship with
a typical
attractive young woman raised in a society
affected by
feminist propaganda is DOOMED.
She will likely
cheat. She will lie. She will also not even
be CONSCIOUS
of what she is doing because she
is going to
RATIONALIZE it all since our society which
has been
feminist-infiltrated now makes it seems
OKAY to be
dishonest to men and to treat men
like garbage
and to ignore the needs of men.
In fact, if
she does cheat on the guy, she will end up
BLAMING it
on him, saying that he caused her to do
it because
he wasn’t nice enough to her, or, ironically,
that he was
too nice to her and that she just couldn’t
feel respect
or attraction to him because of that.
The getting
physical part is so easy today with most
women from
countries where feminist propaganda
flourished
and was taught to little boys and girls
from birth,
to the point it has created a perspective
that is WARPED.
So on one
hand, YES, women ARE attracted
to you when
you act like a MAN.
Over the
years, my learning has evolved,
yet at the
same time the central principle
has only
become even STRONGER, and I’ve
only
realized even MORE how TRUE my
original
words were then and are now.
What I mean
is, men who are interested in
women deep
down already know the truth-
women want
men with GUTS.
Being too
afraid to approach a woman, acting apologetic
for
approaching a woman, getting all weak and
fragile and overly-sensitive, and being so in
touch with
your “feminine” side as the feminists
keep telling
men to do, is NOT going to attract
a woman, and
certainly not going to attract
the kind of
woman you want.
Women DO
absolutely feel GREAT attraction
for men who
are DECISIVE, who take action,
who aren’t
afraid to be sexual, who have
NOT fallen
for all the feminist propaganda.
But almost
no woman in a feminist country is
going to
TELL you this, because feminist conditioning
demands she
deny it to herself. But it is still there
in her
emotions, at a very strong level of desire,
repressed
below the surface.
However, the
answer is NOT to attract the typical
woman raised
in feminist-influenced countries.
You MUST go
ONLY for women who have been
raised in
countries where feminism didn’t have
a chance to
CORRUPT women’s perspectives
on
relationships, on men, on family, on raising
children,
etc.
I URGE you
to listen to me here- almost every single
man who IS
affected by the current problem when it
comes to
this issue will NOT follow my advice.
They won’t
follow it because people want EASY
solutions. They don’t want to do anything that
requires
hard work –and the HARDEST WORK
for any
person to do is actually THINKING
VERY DEEPLY
ON A LOGICAL LEVEL.
If something
involves REAL HARD THINKING, then
people will
do ANYTHING to avoid it- even if it means
LIVING IN
HELL, because people feel that CHANGING
or having to
THINK is the WORST HELL THERE IS.
Along the
same logic, DON’T BOTHER TRYING
to EXPLAIN
to a woman the destructive effects
of feminism.
IT WON’T
WORK, because of the fact that it’s not
PLEASANT for
her to accept.
People want
HAPPINESS, AND THEY WANT EASE.
They don’t
want to THINK.
THINKING IS
THE HARDEST WORK IN THE UNIVERSE.
IT IS,
UNFORTUNATELY IN MANY PEOPLE’S MINDS, HELL.
And
explaining how “feminism is destroying our civilization”
is a TRIPLE
WHAMMY. (Yes, I know the term is '"double
whammy", but there are THREE here.)
whammy", but there are THREE here.)
First of
all, it requires THINKING in order to understand this.
So that is
HELL for most people.
Second of
all, the RESULTS of this thinking means
she is going
to have to start CHANGING the way she
behaves- and
CHANGE for most people feels like
HELL even if
it is actually going to give them PLEASURE
in the long
run.
And third of
all, the particular CHANGE here is
one of the
most PAINFUL KINDS of change,
it requires
admitting being so WRONG ABOUT
how she has
been treating good men, about how
she has been
living her life- and about how her
perspectives
have been attracting the very WORST
men to her.
It requires
her to fully realize that she has been
the one
CONTRIBUTING to her failure to meet the
right
guy- her behavior has been attracting
the men
who truly
DON’T CARE AT ALL ABOUT HER, because
any man that
did feel an emotional investment in her
wouldn’t be
able to ACCEPT her lack of interest in
anything
meaningful.
So you WON’T
change a woman.
And the
women in feminist societies will lead
to relationships
that are DISASTROUS.
And if for
ONE SECOND YOU THINK I AM JOKING
OR
EXAGGERATING, just take a look at an online
dating site-
go to the most TYPICAL ones, you don’t
have to even
go to some trashy site, just go to a typical
popular
dating site.
Take a look
at how few attractive women, if ANY,
emphasize things
like CHARACTER, HARD WORK, HONESTY,
FIDELITY,
FAMILY, the importance of raising children
properly.
You will see
a mostly BARREN LANDSCAPE when it comes
to these
topics, issues, or morals.
Now, look to
see how many times TRIVIAL things or
SELFISH
things are emphasized in women’s profiles-
things like:
“You better
know how to spoil me! Tee hee hee!”
“I love to
travel and go to fine restaurants.”
“If it's not
easy, it's not meant to be.”
"I'm equally
happy having a beer as I am wine.”
“I’m a very
independent woman.”
“You better
love dogs.”
THESE are
the kinds of things that are the focus
of women
from countries where feminism took over.
Plus, when
you ALSO factor in that alcohol is
such a pervasive part of socializing in our society,
such a pervasive part of socializing in our society,
the consumption of alcohol, whether it is
intentional or not, provides the mental lubrication
for feeling fine about getting promiscuous.
intentional or not, provides the mental lubrication
for feeling fine about getting promiscuous.
Now, there
is ONE MORE super-important factor
to be aware
of that contributes to the nightmare.
FEMINISM
also happens to have EXPLODED around
the same
time ADVERTISING truly became an
OVERWHELMING force in many countries-
including
the beginning of massive advertising
on TV in the
1960s.
And what
does advertising depend on?
It depends
on COMPANIES NEEDING them, and SELLING
AS MUCH AS
POSSIBLE.
Now, how do
you sell as much as possible?
By promising
HAPPINESS from buying that thing.
And then,
because of course happiness, beyond
things like
food and shelter, is not something you
can buy, you
have to keep people distracted from
this truth
and disappointment when they buy the
product and
don’t feel that happiness they were
seeking.
What they
initially feel is the happiness that comes
from
allowing themselves to now feel what they
IMAGINED
they would feel when getting the thing
they bought,
so for a brief moment in time, the
NOVELTY of
the moment works, but quickly fades
and again
they go back to feeling a lack of happiness-
but
advertising all around them tells them what they
need is the
NEWER VERSION of that product or any
of the other
millions of products and services out
there, all
serving as an endless distraction from the
truth.
So the way
to keep on selling things is to
NEVER TRULY
GIVE THE ACTUAL HAPPINESS-
not only is
that impossible but it would be bad
for business
if it was possible since it wouldn’t
require the
customer to keep on coming back
to pay for
MORE stuff or services.
So you have
a culture that not only has brainwashed women
into
thinking they should be with a certain kind of man, (who
of course
when they do end up with the feminist man, they
end up
feeling nothing for), and not only has that culture
screwed
things up for so many men because the men
can’t win if
they act like the feminists want, and they
are called
evil if they act like men, but ALSO you have
a culture
that is BLIND to where REAL happiness comes
from- from
INSIDE yourself, and some of it comes from
HUMAN
RELATIONSHIPS, and from the PRIMAL MAN-
WOMAN
RELATIONSHIP.
People have
been taught happiness comes from BUYING
ADVERTISED
CRAPOLA- THE latest version of that crapola,
of course.
Throw all
that selfish materialism into a society where women
are told by
feminists to be EVEN MORE SELFISH, and to IGNORE
what men
feel, and then we WONDER why so many women
are SLAVES
to materialism to a degree usually much HIGHER
than men?
So, you have
to realize this is not the EXCEPTION,
this is
pretty much THE RULE for women raised
in countries
where feminism affected the way
women and
men were raised- and remember
a woman
doesn’t have to be FEMINIST to
have her morals and perspectives TAINTED
by feminism, and you CAN’T expect to CHANGE
a woman, for all the reasons I mentioned above.
by feminism, and you CAN’T expect to CHANGE
a woman, for all the reasons I mentioned above.
You MUST go
OUTSIDE the cesspool.
And even then, you STILL have to SCREEN
for CHARACTER.
It's not like every single woman from a non-feminist
country is going to be the right one.
And even then, you STILL have to SCREEN
for CHARACTER.
It's not like every single woman from a non-feminist
country is going to be the right one.
If you have
the money, TRAVEL to countries where
feminism did
not take over the entire mindset of
how women
should treat men. In this one newsletter,
I can’t go
into details of exactly which countries I
am speaking
about, but I can tell you there are
non-feminist
societies in both the Western Hemisphere
and the
Eastern Hemisphere.
If you
don’t, then either only date women who
have RECENTLY
moved to your country from a
NON-FEMINIST
country, or only date women
who grew up
in an EXTREMELY TRADITIONAL
HOUSEHOLD,
which probably only accounts
for about 2%
of the population in feminist countries.
The wrong
woman will DESTROY you faster than
any other
force on earth.
The right
woman will help you be the BEST man
you can be.
She is the kind of woman that is truly in your corner,
She is the kind of woman that is truly in your corner,
trustworthy,
and of infinite integrity. She’s looking
out for you-
and she fully APPRECIATES you, and
never takes
you for granted.
And you don’t
have to play INSANE games to GET
her to keep
treating you right. None of this INSANITY.
Most women are
born to want to be GOOD to men.
The same way
most men are born to want to be GOOD to women.
For most of
humanity, this is the general rule- it is NATURE.
But feminism
goes AGAINST nature.
So when you
meet a woman who has not been brainwashed
by feminism,
you DON’T HAVE TO DO ANYTHING except just
BE A MAN-the
kind of man that you KNOW you are, but that
you have
been REPRESSING beneath YEARS AND YEARS of social
conditioning.
That man
that is the REAL you is the man women REALLY want.
And that’s
where I come in.
Not only can
I help you GET BACK your “MOJO” through
my programs
and trainings including my BOOTCAMP program,
I can also
show you EXACTLY how to meet the RIGHT woman.
If you would
like to get that kind of woman in your life,
contact me
for a private phone or in-person consultation.
I can give
you a personalized, detailed “ROAD MAP” on how
to go about getting yourself a GREAT woman.
Just send an
email to me at Michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com
And to get
back your MOJO in a big way, where you will
learn how to
attract women just by being the REAL YOU,
check out my
bootcamp program at:
If you are
brand-new here, a GREAT place to start would
be my ‘Attraction
Accelerators’ program at:
Till next
time,
Michael
Marks
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