Get ready for something VERY important that
will make a MASSIVE difference in your success
with women.
The most important part of one’s success
with women is the strength of one’s mindset-
often known as one’s “internal game” as opposed
to learning superficial tactics.
And from all the aspects of this “internal game”
the hardest one for most guys to get is BELIEF,
having the belief that you CAN get the results
you want, and in general having powerful beliefs
about yourself, your ability to attract women,
etc.
Now, here’s what you need to know:
Human beings are hardwired to actually have
a NEGATIVITY BIAS.
A long time ago, human beings really WERE
faced with tons of IMMEDIATE threats that
they HAD TO WORRY ABOUT and had to be
so-called “pessimistic” about – it wasn’t
pessimism though, it was realism.
Today, although humanity faces all kinds of
existential threats, the fact of the matter is that
on a day-to-day basis, having this pessimistic
attitude not only does not serve us, it actually
DESTROYS our chances of success with women
and with most other things, since it is not
accurately reflecting the reality.
This is part of the reason advertisers GROSSLY
EXAGGERATE the claims about their products
and services – it is because people are so
pessimistic that the result is if a product claims
to be a trillion times better than it is, people’s
pessimism clicks in and figures that it is worth
FAR LESS than the claim, but still worth far more
than they would think it was worth if the advertiser
just said the TRUTH.
Let me say something that is NOT an exaggeration,
yet STILL is MASSIVE:
IF YOU THINK THAT THE GUYS WHO ARE SUCCESSFUL
WITH WOMEN ARE ALL LUCKY GUYS WHO SOMEHOW
ARE EITHER RICH, GOOD LOOKING, WELL-CONNECTED,
OR ANYTHING ELSE, YOUR MIND IS PLAYING THE
NEGATIVITY BIAS ON YOU.
And if you are thinking or feeling that way, then you
are TOTALLY in the wrong MENTAL ZONE.
If you think that way, then YOUR MIND HAS GOT YOU
CONQUERED, AND YOU MUST NOW CONQUER YOUR MIND.
For now, allow me to say two more things:
ONE: BASE YOUR BEHAVIOR AND YOUR ACTIONS
WITH WOMEN ON THE PREMISE THAT YOUR ACTIONS
ARE TOTALLY WORTH IT.
Even if you feel TOTALLY NOT CONFIDENT AT ALL,
just take the ACTIONS that you WOULD take IF
you DID feel confident.
ACTION is a HUGELY powerful tool, so even if
you THINK AND FEEL you aren't going to succeed,
you can still force yourself to take the ACTIONS-
and THE VERY FACT YOU ARE TAKING THOSE
ACTIONS will have a HUGE effect on your MIND.
It's better to take the right ACTIONS, than it is
to try to TALK YOURSELF into a state of confidence.
So if there is a woman you want to talk to,
DO IT. Don't even ARGUE with yourself or
try so hard to convince yourself why it's
all going to be so great, just TAKE THE
SAME ACTIONS that you would take if you
did NOT give IN to the fear.
Chances are, like all human beings, you are
a victim of your own hard-wiring to be pessimistic
about everything, including your ability to attract
women.
Don't put energy into trying to CONVINCE
yourself of why you are so awesome with
women, if in fact you feel the opposite-
trying to convince yourself that something
is true, when deep down you believe it is false,
can actually be counter productive as
your negative feelings may then just start
to try even harder to convince you to
give in to their negative perspectives.
Just focus on taking ACTION with women-
and THAT will then improve your perspective-
if you STICK with it. You can't just do it once.
You must immerse yourself in action.
In my live training, I show you the detailed,
step-by-step PROPER way to go about transforming
your mindset with women PROPERLY, and I
even customize it for your particular needs.
A negative perspective will SOUR everything-
you can have the most gorgeous woman in
the world eating out of your hand, and if you
are engulfed in the darkness of pessimism,
you will think she doesn’t really like you,
or you will think that you won’t be able
to keep her interested, or some other
thoughts that belittle your own success.
The CHALLENGE for most men is HOW
to EFFECTIVELY change their beliefs, their
states of mind, when it comes to this area
of their lives.
And in this newsletter, I have touched on the
REAL SOLUTION, and I promise you this is just
the tip of the iceberg of what you will learn in
my programs.
This is why taking a bootcamp with me is
so powerful.
The results of bootcamp training means that you will
get BETTER results with women, which means
you will start to feed your brain POSITIVE
FEEDBACK about your abilities with women,
which will truly MAKE YOU FEEL THE CONFIDENCE
instead of having to just act it.
Not only will you get to see powerful results
from your interactions with women happening
right before your eyes in real time, but I also
draw from an extensive array of PROVEN strategies
to help you SKYROCKET your “INTERNAL GAME”
as well - strategies that are far more effective
than just telling you to 'think positive'.
Plus, of course, I’ll also share with you VITAL
insights on women – these insights are going
to help you along every step of the way,
all the way to a relationship if you so desire.
Over the course of 13 years, I have helped
all kinds of men succeed with women- men
who vary in every way you can imagine-
so whatever your challenge is, chances are
that I’ve already found the SOLUTIONS for
for you before we’ve even met.
And of course, on top of all this deep-level
internal change, there is also the SKILL
of the actual 'approach' that I will teach you,
and that I have honed over 13 years.
I have helped thousands of men around
the globe, and some of these men have
even invited me to meet their girlfriends,
and invited me to their weddings with
the women they met through the skills
they learned from me.
Again, what I teach is not at ALL what you
have typically heard from positive thinking,
I assure you of this. What I teach is based
on EVIDENCE and RESEARCH that I have
personally used myself and have used
to help thousands of other men.
Bootcamp is at:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html
If you would like an immediate course on
OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY, go here:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/obliterating.html
That program is an EXCELLENT program for getting
rid of all EXCUSES and for ENSURING you take action-
it’s a vital program on its own, and it’s also an excellent
program to take before Bootcamp.
This program is NOT the stereotypical positive thinking
AT ALL- the RESULTS, however, absolutely DO lead to a
MASSIVELY EMPOWERED AND CONFIDENT STATE OF MIND.
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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