Dominance, Not Smiling, Feminism, And Morals

Today, I just want to keep this newsletter

extremely focused by explaining what I

feel is the most SERIOUS issue that men

need to understand if they are to meet,

attract, and keep the kind of woman they

want for a long-term relationship.

Also, I want to make it clear that this

is not some new, flavor-of-the-month,

marketing gimmick or novelty.

This principle is the CORE of my work, and its spirit

is in every page of my very FIRST book, called

The Dating Wizard.

This principle is the importance of

PRESERVING and CHERISHING your

masculine identity.  This has become a

CHALLENGE ever since feminism has

attacked masculinity on all fronts, which

is extremely ironic of course since the most

vehement criticism of masculinity tends to

come from a tiny percentage of women who

actually seem far more like men than they do

women in their very nature.

In my book The Dating Wizard, I use the term

“THE MAN”.

I use it a lot. I use it to convey how important

it is to behave in a masculine way, to take initiative,

to not kiss up to women, to not get overly emotional

in reaction to everything, to set goals and work on

achieving them, to have a more confident sense

of humor, etc.

This applies to all of your life, including the way

you approach women.  The truth is, women want

you to be decisive.  They don’t want you to feel

it’s a big deal to approach them, they want you

to be more assertive, and when the time is right

more dominant. 

This doesn’t mean to be disrespectful of women,

and I addressed this issue in my book Get A Great Girl.

So, you might ask, how does this play out when

you APPROACH a woman out of the blue that you

want to meet?

For one thing, don’t SMILE when you approach

her, unless she actually is trying to make you

laugh and she is being all out hilarious with you.

Will smiling destroy your approach?

Well, one smile won’t, but my point is that

most guys smile when they approach women

as a sign of SUBMITTING to whatever a woman

wants, without even knowing the woman!

The smiling is really a form of kissing up.

It’s NOT dominant.

It’s NOT MASCULINE as a first gesture.

And it’s NOT what women really want

in terms of what makes them MELT and

feel ATTRACTION for a man.

I remember hearing from tons of sources

on how to succeed with women that actually

as men we SHOULD smile and that we SHOULD

do all sorts of nice things as soon as possible

when we want to attract a woman!

And so it was only by actually TESTING ALL

THIS OUT and then finally going on my OWN

experimentation with how to approach women

that I discovered that actually things tended

to go much BETTER when I did NOT smile.

And then, after years and years of all the

popular advice saying to smile at women,

FINALLY the research came in from people

who actually observed thousands of reactions

of thousands of women- and the results

CONFIRMED what I had proven to myself

YEARS EARLIER.

 

When you grow up in a culture where you

are told from birth that men are all a bunch

of rapists, and told that most men throughout

history had nothing better to do than spend

all their energy controlling women and being

abusive to women, and that most men are

violent to women, it’s EASY to see why any

man would try REAL HARD TO BE EXTRA-

SENSITIVE to women.

So, things like smiling at women, buying them

things, giving into whatever they say, and

all that stuff actually start to sound like pretty

normal reactions of men who are just trying

to be decent guys to women.

But the problem is that most men actually

AREN’T what feminists paint out men to be.

And yet, feminist ideas are spread out to the

masses to the point that most mainstream,

non-feminist people actually have been

BRAINWASHED to believe in these ideas!

It’s not only women, but even many MEN believe

this stuff.

In fact, the first time I was in university, for a while

I also was confused, since I happened to have a

female feminist professor who went on and on

about something called male patriarchy, which

was of course never truly well-defined since it

is nonsense, but since I and most of my classmates

were young and impressionable, it had a strong

effect on us.

In a nutshell, the idea of male patriarchy is that

men have structured society in such a way to

abuse women, and that since the dawn of human

civilization, men were subjugating women.

The reality of course is that most men throughout

history were not in positions of much power, wealth,

or status, and basic survival itself was a tough gig.

If anything, history shows that men were going

bananas trying to attract women and that it

was always a competition with other men.

And, in return, women were trying to attract

men, it was a constant evolutionary struggle

for each gender to try to attract the other,

and in fact it is likely that many of the traits

we have as humans today developed as

ways to attract the opposite gender.

So, back to my smiling example.

The truth is, women, given two photos

of the same man, who is identical in

the photos in every way except for

one thing- smiling vs not smiling-

will choose the NON-SMILING version

as the MORE attractive one.

The photo appears more attractive to

women, and the photo shows more

dominance, and probably the dominance

itself makes the man seem more attractive

to women, since ultimately the brain is

the final decision maker about what to

feel about anything.

And yet, does this mean you should

never smile with women?

No, but it means it’s time to WAKE UP

and realize what women are ACTUALLY

attracted to in men in general versus the

HOGWASH that we tend to hear from

mainstream sources of advice- sources

that have been feminist-tainted.

Most women are not feminists, but

most of the people in western SOCIETY

have had their concepts warped regarding

what they think women find attractive in

behavior.

Now, the thing is, you might say, well then,

I will just go and act MASCULINE and then

all will be good, right?

After all, women want masculine men, so

I will just behave my normal masculine way

and not worry about all the feminist stuff.

Well, the problem is that so many western women

are CONFUSED that what tends to happen is that

your MASCULINE behavior will attract these women,

but then the FEMINIST-INDOCTRINATED thinking

that they have been brought up on, will start to

KICK in sometime when you are in the relationship.

See, attraction is PRIMAL.

So when you behave in the right way, you

TRIGGER attraction in the woman, even if

she is feminist-brainwashed.

And, especially considering how promiscuous

most feminist-brainwashed women are (more

on this in a moment), it won’t be long till you

are sleeping with this woman.

However, this is still a woman that has the

feminist teachings deeply embedded in her,

so she has been taught by feminists that she

can “HAVE IT ALL”, that she can have a relationship,

that she can hang out with other guys while she

is in the relationship with you, that she can

be obsessed with her career over you, and that

you and any other man will just be ECSTATIC

to be with her, since after all, feminism has

been telling her ALL MEN LOVE HER AND THAT

ALL MEN OWE HER AND THAT SHE IS PERFECT.

So, even though on a hard-wired level she

DOES feel attraction for you, and she WILL

want to treat you right, she is going to be

so MISGUIDED about what men REALLY

want from a woman, that she is going

to be tough to have a relationship with.

You are going to have to help her UNLEARN

A LIFETIME OF WRONG BEHAVIORS EMBEDDED

IN HER THROUGH FEMINIST TEACHINGS.     

And at every turn, if you become WEAK

and give in to her bad behaviors, she will

just see you as NOT BEING THE DOMINANT

MAN SHE FELL IN LOVE WITH, and she will

LOSE ATTRACTION.

So, in my opinion, based on over ten years

of experience helping guys with every area

of dating and relationships, it is simply NOT

WORTH PURSUING women who have been

brainwashed by feminism, and the sad truth

is most western women have indeed been

brainwashed without realizing it.

After all, even hundreds of millions of MEN

have been brainwashed by it, which is the

reason so many women think that it IS

okay to sleep with 50 guys and still expect

men to not only have TOTAL FAITH in their

fidelity, but also they expect men to not

be turned off by this- even though it is

an EVOLUTIONARY HARD-WIRING for

men to be turned off by this promiscuity.

Men are hardwired to be turned off by this

promiscuity because it means there is a high

chance that this type of woman is a waste

of genetic resources and a waste of time.

The hard-wiring in men basically says
to the men that such a woman might 
be carrying some other guy's child in

her womb, and that the woman is 
playing him for a fool.

Hence, this woman no longer represents a good 
choice to mate with, as such a woman may
not help him create a DNA LEGACY, a.k.a. 
a child, of his own.  

Worse than that, he would be spending his

emotions, energy, and time on THIS

woman instead of a woman that actually

is loyal to be the mother his child.

We don’t CONSCIOUSLY think about this.

We just FEEL very strongly about these things,

and these feelings are there to ensure we

DON’T waste our time on the wrong women.

But FEMINIST teachings tell women that they

CAN HAVE IT ALL.

That women can be promiscuous and drunk

at the clubs and be vulgar AND STILL marry a

great guy. 

That women can be obsessed with superficial

things, and with money and career and that all

men are going to LOVE IT when the woman has

no time for him, for having children, for raising

children, etc.

This is also why I find it a bit hard to understand

why so many in the pick up artist crowd are

obsessed with just getting as many women as

they can into bed, especially with having to

go through TONS of training in order to do this.

GETTING A WOMAN TO SLEEP WITH YOU IS THE

EASIEST THING IF SHE IS A FEMINIST WOMAN.

THERE IS NO NEED FOR COMPLICATED STRATEGIES.

I know this sounds strange, since after all,

feminists keep on hating on men saying that

all MEN are the ones who are obsessed with

the physical.

But that’s the whole thing – feminists turn

EVERYTHING UPSIDE DOWN.  They try to

turn WOMEN into MEN.

So, the fact is, men have higher testosterone than

women. Testosterone is responsible for many things,

including the ANIMALISTIC DRIVE TO GET PHYSICAL.

So that is why men are the ones who tend to

actually have the basic INSTANT desire when

they SEE an attractive woman.

Historically, since men couldn’t know for

sure who the father is of “their” child, it

made sense that men evolved to want to

spread their seed, i.e. sleep with a greater

quantity of women. 

Women’s natural drive is a bit different – yes

women also have some of that desire for multiple
partners, but it’s not nearly to the same degree, 
which makes sense.

Carrying a child for 9 months, childbirth,

these are reasons to want to invest a little

more in the long-term with a man than in the “sleep

around and have short term fun and move

on and sleep around some more” strategy.

BUT, since feminism’s masterminds were and

are women with more TESTOSTERONE than

your average woman, these few women actually

DO FEEL like having TONS of partners, so

they want to CHANGE the very CONCEPT

of femininity from what it NATURALLY IS

FOR MOST WOMEN into something that

is NOT natural for most women- they actually

ENCOURAGE WOMEN TO SLEEP AROUND A LOT.

Now, sleeping around, for a woman is INSANELY

EASY, because men have the GENUINE ROCKET

FUEL DESIRE FOR SLEEPING AROUND.

So a woman who just sorta-kinda is interested

in going to bed with a guy, if she approaches

just about any guy - well, most guys will say

yes.  A guy doesn’t have to be a rapist to

want to have sex with a woman, he just has

to be a normal man who finds women attractive!

The fact I have to even say this shows how

screwed up feminists have made our society,

I’m now having to EXPLAIN why a man would

want to sleep with a woman even though he

is not a rapist.

So the bottom line is that OF COURSE when

women are PUSHED to be promiscuous by

feminists, OF COURSE there will be MEN

who cater to these women.

The difference is that the men are doing what

comes most naturally to men, and the women  

are going against their TRUE instincts, which is

to be a lot more CAREFUL about who they sleep

with.

One of the biggest PROOFS that this goes against

women’s instincts is that if you go to any nightclub,

just about EVERY SINGLE PROMISCUOUS WOMAN

is at the very least TIPSY, if not ALL OUT DRUNK.

Now, most men don’t need to get drunk to want to

sleep with women they don’t know.  In fact, if men

could save money and NOT do things like buying

drinks at a club, and just get IMMEDIATELY to the

part of meeting the woman and going STRAIGHT

to the physical component of “hooking up”, many

men would do this.

It’s the WOMEN that need the drinks.

In FACT, one of the big things I noticed in my

early days of coaching, was how so many women,

when the interaction would start to warm up

and “get in the zone” would suddenly start to

buy THEMSELVES drinks, because I myself don’t

drink, so they would actually be drinking while

I was just curious why they were suddenly

drinking every time I could feel things were

heating up.

Although I had no intention of sleeping with
them so fast, and in fact had every intention of
NOT sleeping with them unless they really
represented a serious potential for being a 
long-term girlfriend, which would take time
for me to find out for sure, apparently this
concept is ANCIENT HISTORY for most
"modern" women raised in feminism.  

It took a while, but then I figured it out- they

wanted to SHUT OFF THEIR INSTINCTS so that

they COULD GO THROUGH with sleeping with

a dude so quickly.

I was never so arrogant to think I’m the ONLY

guy that this chick could have ever felt attraction

for, so what probably happened is that she had

learned that it’s TOO HARD to go against her own

instincts to sleep with guys so fast, so what she

had learned to do to adapt was DRINK AWAY

her own INSTINCTS!

Then later I realized this is the strategy that feminist

brainwashed women by the MILLIONS are using every

night.

Men don’t need alcohol to feel good about sleeping

with women quickly.

However, WISE men know better than to just do

whatever feels good, easy, or fun.

Working out is hard.

Eating junk food is fun.

Being lazy is easy.

But in the LONG-TERM working out is MORE FUN

than the consequences of NEVER WORKING OUT.

Eating cotton candy for all meals would quickly

prove a formula for disaster.

So, although men have a natural desire to mate with

many women, the wise man chooses the RIGHT woman,

or, sometimes, over the course of a lifetime, the right women.

It is important to understand how feminism

CORRUPTS women in this way, and how

feminism screws up men by making men

act in NON-MASCULINE ways that women

DON’T FIND attractive.

If you don’t understand it, you will fail to

attract ANY woman in the most powerful way,

you will be forced to get women to only be

with you “as a friend” but they will not truly

be feeling their most WOMANLY self- and they

can only feel their most womanly self when they

are with a man who BEHAVES like a man.

Again, all of this applies to most women,

it just doesn’t apply to the tiny percentage

of women who are more like men, and who

may indeed prefer men who are more feminine,

since those women are more masculine, but,

again, MOST WOMEN WANT MASCULINE MEN.

I want to prove my point even FURTHER.

If you look around at SOCIETIES AROUND THE GLOBE,

and if you look at ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY, you will notice

the IMPORTANCE of preserving the MASCULINE

and FEMININE distinctions, and how these distinctions

are CHERISHED.

In fact, this is so important, throughout all of history,

that in fact there is PUNISHMENT given to those who

VIOLATE these distinctions.

It is considered IMMORAL.

So you have to ask yourself, what is the POINT?

This doesn’t sound like stealing.

It doesn’t sound violent.

It’s not even directly related to sex.

Simply put, there is something IMPORTANT

about having the IDEA of the masculine and

the feminine.

It must be preserved at all costs.

The reason is because being a man or woman

extends beyond merely possessing the

male or female organs, it is about an IDENTITY

as a man or a woman, and about embracing it

rather than running away from it.

This is healthy for the individual man or woman,

and it is healthy for the relationships since the truth

is men actually LOVE femininity in women the same way

women love masculinity in men.

Wrecking this natural balance ends up DESTROYING

the most basic natural order of society.  Telling

women to be like men and telling men to not

BE men has not only made it ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE

for most western men to get normal relationships

with women, but it has also ERODED the MORAL

FIBRE of society as well- and in the most

strange way, because the truth is that all the

insanity like promiscuity that feminism encourages

women to engage in, is not even something that

most women are finding rewarding.

The most common complaint among women is

not that they can’t find men who are willing to

sleep with them, it’s that they can’t seem to

find a good guy!

Yes, most women in western society actually

WONDER why they can’t attract a man that

has his act together and who wants to commit,

and so far most women still can’t figure out

that perhaps being promiscuous, vulgar, valuing

career above family, having a lack of femininity,

and in general hating on men and being arrogant,

are things that turn off most men.  

And regarding the desire that many a woman

speaks of - to find a man who will not cheat,

to find a man who was not sleeping around  

even before he met her - it is within women’s

power to create a society where a man

committing himself to one woman in body,

mind, and spirit, is a sign of wisdom rather

than stupidity.

If you are wondering what the answer is,

it is to focus on women who have NOT

been immersed in feminism, and keep

in mind that feminism’s effects are subtle,

it’s not just the obvious feminist rants,

but all the constructs that they have

created over the years that the rest of

society has accepted and now does not

even REALIZE are all based on nonsense,

such as the idea that somehow men are

less virtuous than women.

To find these women, you will likely have to

either meet women who have very recently moved

to your country from countries where feminism never

took off, or you will have to travel to their

countries. 

Now, does this mean you don’t need to

do anything or know anything in order to

attract these women who are not brainwashed

by feminism?

No, and it doesn’t mean all these women are

perfect, either, but what it does mean is that

you will get the NORMAL DISTRIBUTION of

types of women in terms of personality, values,

morals, etc.  As opposed to the LOPSIDED

grotesquely WARPED situation that you

would have to deal with when being with

most western feminist brainwashed women.

By the way, lest anyone thinks I am trying

to promote hatred, let me clear this up:

I DO NOT BLAME WOMEN FOR THIS.

IT IS NOT WOMEN’S FAULT THAT A FEW

WOMEN HIJACKED THE POLITICAL CLIMATE

OF THE 1960’S AND SCREWED IT UP FOR

EVERYONE.

And, make no mistake about it, this feminist

stuff hurts women a lot more than it hurts men.

Because, men have an option, they can get

women who are not brainwashed.

But most women are so MISGUIDED by feminism,

they don’t even REALIZE they are misguided.

They SERIOUSLY think that they are on the right path,

they just wonder why it’s not working, but they

THINK they are totally right, and that they know what

men want better than men know themselves.

In other words, they are not even open to LEARNING.

They figure any man who disagrees is wrong and evil.

There is no need, in their opinion, to even listen to

him speak.

Also, I want to make it clear that my heart goes out

to those incredible women who STILL champion

the right values and who haven’t been fooled by

feminists.

It must be really lonely for them since they

can’t find fellow women who understand the

situation - fellow women who could support them

and provide morale.

So I’m not here to hate - the mission still is to bring

men and women together using honesty and a respect

for the truth.

Finally, I also want to make it clear that when you

DO meet a woman who is not brainwashed by

feminism, and if she is also a woman you have

screened for proper values, you must now

DELIVER on being THE MAN, since it’s

not EASY to remember how to be THE MAN

when you grow up in a society that teaches

you that it is GOOD TO BE PATHETICALLY

WEAK WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN.  

So the FIRST step you must take is a

MENTAL DETOX, to restore your NATURAL

MASCULINE self that is attractive to women.

To do this, download my very FIRST BOOK,

called The Dating Wizard, IMMEDIATELY.

It’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

Now, I personally LOVE this book, it’s in many

ways my most POWERFUL book, however

no single work can be PERFECT.

Over the years, I have realized some VERY

IMPORTANT DISTINCTIONS, and rather than

mess with the magic of the original book,  

and tamper with the content in any way,

I would instead release my further insights

and any refinements to the original program

in new programs.

This way, each program retains the original

quality and the original magic.

I honestly feel that it is important to also get

my follow up book, called Get A Great Girl,

at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

This book contains TONS of important insights

that I gained in the years after I wrote

The Dating Wizard.

Now, if you live in a major city, there are

probably already women from non-feminist

countries abroad IN your city, and I can train

you how to approach women, so that you are

able to meet INFINITELY more women than

most men can meet.

Most men rely on useless things for meeting

attractive women. They rely on friends who

set them up with women that would never

in a million years be compatible with them.

They rely on the internet, where attractive women

get BOMBARDED by men to a degree that is

IMPOSSIBLE for any woman to keep up with.

Men rely on the internet because the internet
seems easy to use to meet women, but that
"ease" is the reason TOO MANY MEN
are using it, which actually makes it
a terrible option for meeting the kind of
women you want.

The internet has become so bad that it is truly
no longer a valid option, and I stopped making
programs for internet dating a long time ago.

There is a much, much, MUCH better way to
succeed with women.

You can learn to rely on YOURSELF by having

the SKILLS to approach women anywhere.

Even if you live in a remote area far away

from many women, you will still need the

skills of how to approach women if you

DO ever decide to travel or to move to

a place where there ARE the kinds of

women you want to meet.

For over ten years, I have been training men

how to successfully approach women anywhere,

how to start and sustain the conversation, how

to build up the attraction and how to build up the

connection.

I’ve worked through and solved countless issues,

from helping men solve “approach anxiety” to

HUNDREDS of other challenges, and I love the

process of solving these problems – it’s exciting

to see you GROW in skill and to see you SUCCEED.

So I suggest, if you want to really master these

skills, and if you really want to have the kind of

woman that will enrich your life, that you sign

up for one of my upcoming bootcamps, where

I will teach you everything LIVE- that means you

will be learning in real life situations- on actual

women, through my demonstrations, your

approaches, my feedback on your approaches,

and much more.

To find out more about my bootcamp, go here:

 http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks