In case anyone doubts that there has indeed been a MAJOR erosion of
the degree of reverence for the special bond between man and woman, I
thought I would point to an observation I have made about trends in
popular romance films throughout the years.
Almost without exception, by far the most popular romance films take place many years ago, long before our current era. Think of films like The Notebook, Titanic, Braveheart, and of course the classic adaptation of Romeo and Juliet.
The reason for this is because although there were many problems in the past, one thing that WAS intact was the natural dynamic between a man and a woman. A man protected a woman, loved her, and a woman respected her man, loved him.
There wasn't the modern mess of trying to force men and women to be identical in every way, and to compete AGAINST each other in so many ways, be it financially or in other ways, rather than to work TOGETHER in harmony, whether it is to serve society, raise a family, or just to enjoy peace with each other.
Notice also how so much INTENSITY of ATTRACTION and
DESIRE is apparent between the two in the scene above, all without a SHRED of nudity.
Compare that to the pathetic efforts of most films to try to increase the on-film chemistry by simply increasing the gratuitous sex.
I ain't no prude. I have no problem whatsoever with nudity when it actually enhances something. What I'm saying is that by putting so much nudity and sex out so fast in such high quantities everywhere without any thought put into it, there is a DILUTING EFFECT on the whole chemistry between men and women in general.
And the KICKER to all this, is that it's not OLD PEOPLE who are the ones who make these films popular, it's YOUNG PEOPLE, including the young people of TODAY.
This means that even in our society where things have become
so confusing between men and women, just about EVERYONE
still knows what the REAL connection between man and woman
should be like, to the degree that we are resorting to viewing so called "primitive" times that in many ways were far more ADVANCED than our own when it comes to the connection between man and woman.
Attraction between men and women is rooted in so much more than just nudity and sex, it is about something INTANGIBLE, and part of it is actually the masculine-feminine POLARITY that brings the two genders TOGETHER in the most powerful way.
Men know this. Women know this. Yet we keep on trying to
perpetuate a lie, a lie that pretends men and women best
live together when they pretend to want to be the same,
to have the same roles, the same desires, the exact same
nature.
I also must say that this is not an excuse to in any way
perceive or treat either gender as LESS or MORE than
the other. There absolutely must be equality in terms of
rights and respect- what is MISSING today, however is
an APPRECIATION and RESPECT for the power of
sexuality and for what is BEST in order to preserve and
enhance harmony, desire, and love between men and women.
This is one of the greatest issues of our time, and it's probably
a GREAT idea to discuss this with the next woman you meet
that you are serious about getting to know.
And if you are reading this right now, and have ANY
questions about dating, relationships, or how to meet
women, then I suggest you go to the following page
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Till next time,
Michael Marks
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