Friday, October 10, 2014

Navigating the High Seas of Truth vs. Lies When It Comes To Attracting Women

What you are about to read may be
the most important newsletter on
the topic of attracting women that
you will ever read, ESPECIALLY
if you happen to already be reading
a lot about this topic from various
sources.

There are all kinds of people out there,
some people are honest and some people
are not, and some people are misguided
even though they think they are being
helpful. All this applies to both men and
women, and it certainly applies to the world
of dating advice.

When I finally started to uncover the truth
about women, I also started to uncover the
truth about dating advice and I learned a
whole lot about the human race.

So, the first thing I want to let you know
about are some of the most destructive
LIES that some men believe about women
and about attraction.

It's important to know these so that you
don't get led down the wrong path and
so that you don't end up with a woman
who brings you misery, but rather you
end up with a woman who enhances
your life.

Number 1: That All Women Are Promiscuous    

Now, although promiscuity amongst women is
probably increasing these days, partially because
the IDEA of it is being FORCE-FED to women by
many of the female celebrities, that ironically
enough, THEMSELVES aren’t actually that
promiscuous at all.

So, for example, the singer Nelly Furtado,
who wrote the song “Promiscuous Girl”,
which seems to celebrate the whole idea,
isn’t actually HERSELF that way at all.

Similarly, MOST other female celebrities
just engage in the ATTENTION-GRABBING
tactics to increase their fame, but aren’t actually
INTERESTED in being promiscuous for REAL.

Whether it’s because they don’t want to get
STIs or STDs or just because they would rather
find something more meaningful, or whether
it’s just because they are too busy actually
focusing their energies on improving their
lives and careers, they JUST DON’T ACTUALLY
LIVE THOSE KIND OF LIVES for the most part.

Now, you might be asking why I think it’s
so important to know this.

The reason is because it’s easy to get a
DISTORTED perception of reality when
you are under STRESS, including the
stress of trying to attract women, or get a
girlfriend, date, etc.

And if you hang out in circles where all
the women are promiscuous, you can
begin to think ALL women EVERYWHERE
are promiscuous.

PLUS, there are a lot of so called dating experts
out there who will try to INDOCTRINATE
their students with the idea that picking up
women at nightclubs and taking them home
the same night is the BEST way to attract
women, and that ANY GUY WHO DOESN’T
THINK THAT ALL WOMEN WILL SLEEP
WITH A GUY THE FIRST NIGHT THEY
MEET HIM IS A FOOL LIVING IN A
DREAMWORLD.

The reason it’s so important for certain so called
experts to have men believe this lie is to prevent
having men from criticizing the so called EXPERT:
In other words, the “expert” doesn’t want any guy
to bring up the fact that the women he is being
taught how to attract home the same night happen
to ALSO BE DRUNK and also be PROMISCUOUS.

But, if you can be made to believe that ALLLLLLL
women are out having non-stop promiscuous lives,
and that supposedly all these women are secretly
LAUGHING at any guy who even THINKS that
some non-promiscuous women exist, well then,
if you can be made to believe all THAT, then
you won’t criticize the “expert” for the fact that
he is showing you only how to attract promiscuous
women, right?

It’s no COINCIDENCE that these so called experts
are trying to say that all women are promiscuous,
and it’s no COINCIDENCE that these women are
often DRUNK, and it’s no COINCIDENCE that
it’s THESE women that are their examples of
“success stories”.

In fact, the so called experts also EXPLOIT the
very ANGER that some guys might FEEL if they
DO end up believing that all women are so promiscuous-
after all, if all women are so superficial and care so
LITTLE about any REAL relationship or any REAL
concepts of loyalty, family, fidelity, and logic, then
then you might as well go ALL OUT ON BECOMING
A PICK UP ARTIST since there is nothing else
in terms of actually having something more special
with any woman.

It’s all “good for business” as the saying goes.
Many of these so called experts don’t care about
ANYONE, not the male clients, and the not the
women either. The only thing that really warms
their hearts is the sight of another program sold.

So where does that leave me?
Don’t I want to sell some stuff too?
To be honest with you, OF COURSE.

But I also accept the REALITY that truth is
a HARD-SELL.  People don’t like truth.

This is why natural bodybuilding contests
won’t ever make any money.  People don’t
care about truth, they just want to get
INSTANT ENTERTAINMENT.

So, PACK on the STEROIDS for a
CIRCUS SHOW!

I’m not even against guys who DO take
steroids if that is what they want personally,
my point is that the REGULAR TRUTH
doesn’t tend to get people’s attention, but
things that DON’T REPRESENT TRUTH
and that are “FAR OUT” DO GET ATTENTION.

People are desensitized to so much stimulation,
so they only respond to stimulation that is
FAR OUT TO THE EXTREME, regardless
of whether it represents truth or not.
 
It’s the same thing with many infomercials
for exercise equipment. Most people are too
WEAK, EMOTIONALLY, not physically,
to ACCEPT the idea that maybe they should
exercise some DISCIPLINE over their DIET,
and that they need to actually BREAK A
SWEAT while doing a workout.

So instead, there’s a new magic piece
of equipment that will replace a sensible diet
and good old-fashioned exercise, and somehow
it will the be okay to eat ten pizzas a day, guzzle
down 12 beers, etc. as long as you do the special
magical “snap your fingers” workout which only
lasts 15 seconds a day.

This concept of PROMISCUITY is indeed
HUGE. It strikes the very CORE of what
men WANT and DON’T WANT in a woman.

Men are HARD-WIRED to want a woman
that indeed is going to be faithful.

It goes right back to a PRIMAL force
in men that wants to ensure paternity
and ensure that the woman's child
is his, and not some other man's.

We EVOLVED to feel a certain way about
promiscuous women and to DENY IT
is as IGNORANT as to deny that we are
PHYSICALLY attracted to women with
certain waist-to-hip ratios, etc. 

And that introduces us to the NEXT LIE
spread by many so called experts, which is:

Number 2: That Promiscuity Has Nothing 
To Do With Fidelity and Loyalty.
 

Of course, these so called experts don’t
want you to think that there is ANY 
connection between promiscuity and
a woman’s faithfulness.

Again, this is so you don’t criticize their
programs, which focus on how to get 
women into bed as fast as possible rather
than anything else.

Meanwhile, the ACTUAL EVIDENCE AND
ALL THE POLLS AND STATISTICS ALL
POINT TO ONE ABSOLUTELY CLEAR
CONCLUSION: That indeed a woman's
promiscuity is a super STRONG indication
that she will be unfaithful to you. 

Again, although it is scientifically POSSIBLE
for a woman (or a man) to be, or have been,
promiscuous and ALSO be faithful NOW,
it’s just usually NOT the case.

But TRUTH often is NOT a major player in
the land of dating advice and business. What
is often the case is the APPEARANCE of
truth rather than ACTUAL TRUTH.
But ask yourself a simple question:
If a woman had so many partners before
me, what changed in HER just because she
met ME?

As important as self-esteem is, it’s important
to also realize that CHANGING ONE’S
SELF is the HARDEST WORK THERE IS.

So why on EARTH should you believe that
a woman magically changed overnight the
moment she met YOU?  Even if she loves
you, it still has nothing to do with her ability
to change this aspect of herself, and it’s usually
a reflection of other aspects of herself as well.

Here’s another LIE that ends up leading men
ASTRAY when it comes to attracting the
right women:

Number Three: Nothing Matters But Confidence
Or “Pick Up Tactics”


Hey, the truth is, I’m all FOR having
EMPOWERING BELIEFS.

And there really are BILLIONS of women
on the planet, so it’s a LOGICAL TRUTH
that in fact no matter who you are, you can
indeed get yourself the kind of woman you
want.

This is a very different thing, though, than
telling men that women care about NOTHING
except your confidence and your pick up tactics.

Since day one, I have never AVOIDED mentioning
the superficial.  In my very first book, called
The Dating Wizard, I make it clear that working
out is important. By the way, it also helps increase
confidence and boosts testosterone, which
allows you to also get in touch with your
aggressive/dominant side when it is necessary,
(this is a whole topic in itself, and is mostly
overdone and abused by most men) and this
is also attractive to women.

I have never advocated the immature belief
that as a guy, you should just try to go for the
EXTREME WHEN IT COMES TO THE
SUPERFICIAL ASPECTS of women while
also developing NONE of the superficial
aspects of yourself.

Rather, I believe, it is MOST effective and
wise to know what you actually NEED
IN TERMS OF THE SUPERFICIAL
in a woman, to get TRULY TURNED ON,
and to then focus the REST of your energy
on making sure she has the RIGHT
CHARACTER TRAITS.

Sprint used to have the saying
“The Most For The Least”, and
I believe it is wise to simply make
a BINARY decision when it comes to
LOOKS in a woman, i.e. ARE YOU
SERIOUSLY ATTRACTED, OR NOT?

Once you know the kind of or level of looks
in a woman that flips the switch internally in
you, why waste energy on any MORE?

The REST of your energy should go into
finding women that match at least that
level of looks and who also have the
AWESOME CHARACTER TRAITS.

There are ALL KINDS of different personality
traits out there in women, just like there are
in men.  There are UNIVERSALLY ATTRACTIVE
things you can do to attract women, yet you must
also make sure to get the RIGHT WOMAN,
who values honesty, truth, kindness, wisdom,
hard work, sharing, etc. 

You must use the skills I teach you for
DETECTING a woman’s character as
quickly as possible so you don’t waste
precious time and energy on the wrong
women.

Too many men are trying to freaking
impress other people or prove a point
to themselves when it comes to women,
and that road never ends if you take that
road, because it all stems from things that
no woman can ever solve.

So, in a way, I suggest going for the
LEAST, but the least that makes you
ECSTATICALLY HAPPY, and
MASSIVELY TURNED ON, and
I suggest you ALSO do the MOST
you can to ALSO become confident,
charismatic, witty, understanding,
empathetic, inspiring, a leader, etc.

This way, you are GIVING MASSIVE
VALUE BACK TO THE WOMAN YOU
MEET, which ensures she is going to treat
you like a KING.

You definitely want a woman to feel
HAPPY AS HELL TO BE WITH YOU.

It’s not enough that YOU want to be
with her, she MUST BE CRAZY
IN LOVE WITH YOU.

Now, I have some more good news for you.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

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