Actions For Getting The RIGHT Woman

This is going to be one of the most important

articles I have ever written on getting the

RIGHT woman. The article is comprised of 

two very DIFFERENT yet VITAL aspects to 

getting a quality woman. 

The first part deals with how to properly

SCREEN a woman for the right values for

a great long-term relationship.  The second

part deals with how to actually best approach

a woman who is a total stranger no matter

WHERE you see her or find her.

So, let’s get to the SCREENING part first,

because it is the only way to prevent wasting

years of your life on the wrong women who

will bring you misery, heartache, and who

may even drain you financially.

Now, remember, this is all about getting a

GREAT woman, a woman who is the kind

of woman who you can TRUST, who will

be there through hell and high water, who

will truly last the test of time, a woman who

is strong in her noble convictions and who

is a positive person and who is also wise and

not naïve.

And to find THIS kind of woman, you need to realize one thing: THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN ARE NOT GOING TO BE THE RIGHT ONES!

If you don’t believe me, just check out the

dating profiles of ANY random sampling

of 10, 20, 100, or even a THOUSAND

profiles of women on any internet dating

site.

I don’t even emphasize internet dating, I prefer

to approach women in real life, but still to just

get an idea of what is going on in the minds

of most women (and trust me, many men are

misguided as well) all you have to do is

see what women say about THEMSELVES

in their dating profiles.

They say things like “I like travelling and going out to

great restaurants. I LOVE funny movies and I have a

great sense of humor.  I am a wonderful/nice/great

person.”

And of course, if you look at what women are LOOKING

for in a guy, you will see SIMILAR things, such as
“I’m looking for a guy who likes to travel, who enjoys

going out to restaurants, and who has a great sense of

humor.”

These things are so ARBITRARY and not truly VITAL

to relationships, these women may as well say that what

they are really looking for a guy in a relationship is for him

to be able to stand on one foot while reciting the national

anthem backwards and wearing a polka-dot tutu. 

WHAT THE *----* ??????????????????????

Remember, this is what women think is IMPORTANT

to tell men.  Women think THIS is what makes a woman

a great woman to date, to get into a relationship with,

to possibly consider as great girlfriend material, and

possibly WIFE material.

The freaking truth, though, is that if you are in a

RELATIONSHIP with someone, then aside from

physical chemistry,  the BIGGEST thing that matters

is how this person TREATS YOU EVERY SINGLE

TIME YOU INTERACT WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!

After all, a relationship is not a one-night stand. It is

a RELATIONSHIP.  That means you RELATE to

each other, you CONNECT on a regular basis.

If you get into a SERIOUS relationship, you might

even be moving in together. And of course, if you

get married you will interact a LOT with each other.

That is, if BOTH PEOPLE in the relationship KNOW

how to do relationships RIGHT.  The truth is, most

relationships are headed toward DISINTEGRATION

because one or both parties are IGNORANT of how

to do relationships right, and most relationships will

end and ironically they will not be relating to each

other for very long.

So, back to the main point, which I need to repeat:

The BIGGEST thing that matters in relationships is how this person TREATS YOU EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU INTERACT WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!

Instead of women looking for arbitrary qualities in men, 

and instead of women trying to impress men by listing

the arbitrary qualities the women have, qualities that 

have nothing to do with relationships, women SHOULD 

be describing what DOES matter. (Men, of course, should

also be focusing on what DOES matter.)

A woman should go on to GREAT lengths to describe

the level of DEDICATION that she will give to the right 

MAN in her life.

Women should describe in PAINSTAKING DETAIL

just how LOYAL they will be.

They should pour their heart out and write for DAYS

about their ability to LISTEN and to make you feel

UNDERSTOOD.

They should write POETRY on how intense their

love for you and your future family will be, and on

how that will be their greatest priority.

WHO GIVES A FLYING F--- ABOUT THE FACT THEY LIKE TO EAT IN RESTAURANTS AND TRAVEL?

Doesn’t EVERYBODY like these things?

It all boils down to one thing: Selfishness, which ironically, ROBS them of the joy of having ANY long-lasting love in their lives, thereby keeping their lives empty, thereby reinforcing MORE of the need for temporary distractions.

Don’t get me wrong.  I think a sense of humor is great. Restaurants, and travelling, all cool stuff. You just don’t need a RELATIONSHIP for that stuff.   

What these women are saying, in effect, is that they 

think THEY are the only things that are really important, 

and also they are even saying that the MAIN thing in a guy

is his ability to participate in these NON-PARTICULARLY

RELATIONSHIP TYPE activities, such as traveling,

going out to dinner, and joking around. 

But alas, the story does not end there. All you need to do is check out the dating profiles of women who have BABIES or small KIDS at home and who were also previously married and are now divorced.

What do you know? For some odd reason,

the profiles of THESE women tend to

(not always, but MOST of the time) be

VERY DIFFERENT.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

You will notice that these women seem to understand the importance of things like COMMITMENT, LOYALTY, and suddenly they are not so concerned about whether you are into travelling and restaurants and could really care less if you happen to be particularly funny or not.

You will suddenly see terms like KINDNESS

appearing with greater frequency.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

How INTERESTING.

So, basically, once women have been through the ringer, they find out that choosing a man based on STUPID REASONS  does not work well, and they suddenly start to choose men based on criteria relevant to EVERY SINGLE DAY OF EVERY SINGLE RELATIONSHIP!!!!

So, what I am SAYING here is that you need to STOP following the MASSES.  You need to REALIZE what to look for in a woman.

And once you really KNOW what you are looking

for, it becomes EASIER to know if a woman is

right or not.  She will tell you ALL YOU NEED

TO KNOW ABOUT HER in just a few MINUTES,

because most women think they are actually on the

RIGHT path, so they feel they have nothing to hide!

So just let a woman wax on to you how she is really

into concerts, into restaurants, into traveling, and

if she never gets into how she is going to treat the

MAN in her life, then FORGET HER.

People tend to SPEAK about what is on their MINDS.

So if a woman isn’t REALLY looking for a man for

all the RIGHT reasons, you will KNOW from the

way she is talking and what she is talking about.

If a woman IS in the right head-space for a relationship,

if she DOES know what is important, if she really

CARES about the right things in a relationship,

if she really WANTS  to give and to get the right

dedication, kindness, loyalty, and wisdom, then

she will MAKE IT CLEAR through her words

AND her actions.

If she IS NOT DOING THIS, then DUMP HER,

AND DUMP HER FAST.

Your life is precious, you don’t get ONE second

back of it, EVER.  Don’t WASTE it on the

wrong women. 

And if you happen to be WEALTHY, this is

even MORE important for you, as some women

will try harder to figure out what it is YOU care

about in order to try to make it seem like they

would be a good match for you when they really

are NOT. 

You have to be careful not to FOOL yourself into

thinking this woman is SINCERELY dedicated

if she is NOT.  ACTIONS speak louder than words,

and CONSISTENCY is key. See if she is REALLY

consistent in her words and actions over the span

of TIME.  And try to HIDE THE FACT that you

have wealth.  Don’t act like a beggar, but don’t

try to get women through flaunting your wealth,

or you are REALLY going to make your life

difficult because you are going to invite the

greatest actresses of all time into your life and

I don’t mean that in a good way.

Don’t let wishful thinking fool you.

Remember, this company is called Get A GREAT Girl.

It isn’t called GET ALL THE GIRLS.

You are going to have to SCREEN like crazy.

Now, I want to make it CLEAR that I

am not telling guys to be so negative that

they don’t take POSITIVE action, as you

MUST get out there and in fact you may

have to meet even MORE women than

guys who are just looking for one-night

stands because you are looking for the

RIGHT traits that are harder to find. 

And I’d like to give you a GREAT method for how to approach women without relying on pick-up lines or anything else artificial.

Here’s what you do:

You FOCUS your attention on the woman you

are about to chat up. You OBSERVE her with

SHERLOCK HOLMES level observation skills.

I mean this figuratively, to say that you really

focus on observing her to your best ability,

and then you SAY something about what

you have observed.

The key is to try to find something that is not too easy for EVERYONE to see right away.  So if she is wearing a bright red hat, that’s a little too obvious to comment on, but even THAT is okay for STARTING the conversation.

Then, you wait to see if she RESPONDS with anything as a reply to you.      

The greater your INITIAL observation, the

greater the chance she WILL respond, and

not only will she respond, but she will respond

with a great deal of CONTENT as her reply.

You then OBSERVE AND LISTEN TO HER REPLY super-keenly, and you focus on what you can DEDUCE from what she is saying, ESPECIALLY if you can deduce something about HER, thereby setting things up for her NEXT RICH REPLY to you, setting up a fantastic cycle for you.

Now, if you do this RIGHT, she will actually START TO OBSERVE THINGS ABOUT YOU.

Women are BETTER at this stuff than most

men, so they will APPRECIATE what you

are doing and do the same back for you,

giving HER a chance to also learn about you.

So for example, even if you remarked on her choice of magazine she is reading, and you said, “I can see you enjoy photography”, (or architecture, or poetry, or WHATEVER the magazine is about, i.e. fashion) she might say back to you something like, “Yeah, I’m thinking of getting a new camera”, to which you might reply, “So you already have a camera, but your skill has taken you to a higher level of camera”, etc, etc.

It’s about LISTENING, and it’s about FOCUS.

Women are GREAT at sizing up your 

communication skills, and this will

make a GREAT impression, plus of course

it actually DOES allow you to create a

smooth flowing conversation.

After a few minutes of this, you are already

way past the stranger barrier, and just go

into “normal” conversation, so long as you

keep it chilled out, interesting and positive.

So, as you can see, I care about BOTH ends of the SPECTRUM: I care about making sure you know how to SCREEN for the RIGHT woman, and I also care about making sure you get the SKILL to actually MEET these women and make the best impression in the first place.    

I suggest you take a BOOTCAMP with me where

you will get the skills to meet LOTS of women and

make the best impressions immediately, and where

you will also learn how to SCREEN women quickly.

Bootcamp is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

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disposal, and each and EVERY single one of them

is IMPORTANT.  I’m not here to make you panic,

BUT I can promise you these programs contain

PURE GOLD for getting SUCCESS with women.

If there are any of these programs that you don’t

own yet, this is the time to get them. Every second

you waste is a second that never comes back.

I personally wish I had learned all these things that

I now teach when I was back in HIGH SCHOOL,

but I’m still super thankful that I finally learned

them years later. 

Get these skills and vital insights NOW by getting

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They’re at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks