How To Become FEARLESS With Women

Today is just a really simple, brief, yet
SUPER IMPORTANT point that you need to know
if you are going to be successful when you
approach women, especially women who are
total strangers.

I'm talking about going up to a woman and getting
a "BAD" result.

Now, the truth is, even though a so-called "bad"
result where a woman does not reply, or somehow
replies with a rude response, is really NOTHING
to worry about, the fact is that EMOTIONALLY
it can seem like a LOT.

I USED to get all hung up on these kinds of things,
so I would be insanely careful about ONLY approaching
when I felt things were perfect and all the stars
had lined up, etc., so that I could be pretty sure
I would get a good response.

I was SO WORRIED about "failing" that it was
to be avoided at all costs.

And then, one day, after having some successes
spaced out over a great deal of time from being
SUPER CAREFUL, I went up to a woman on the
subway, and started to chat with her, but she was
acting as if I had just propositioned her for
something out of a porno, and as if I had expected
that we should do it right then and there.

I don't remember exactly what I said, but I do remember
it was pretty innocent, and I do remember in particular
that her response was something like, "Sir, this is very
inappropriate!"

And the STRANGEST thing happened inside of me.

At first, I was about to get a panic attack.
I was thinking OH MY GOSH, EVERYONE CAN
SEE AND HEAR THIS GOING DOWN!!!

But then, the next moment, I became overwhelmed
with this sense of being LIBERATED from fear.

THIS was the thing that everyone had said
was to be DREADED!

So there I was, going through this supposedly
terrible thing, and yet I was still existing!

The universe did NOT cease to exist!

So, instead of getting all nervous, or apologetic,
I just felt so FREE, because it was the WORRY
that had been bogging me down.

You don't need to even start with having CONFIDENCE with women.  Instead, it's enough to simply NOT BE WORRIED about gaining HER approval.

Now, without the worry, realizing that this
supposedly terrible situation is really NOTHING,
I actually became really UPBEAT, realizing in
my mind how much I could REALLY do with women
now that this "worry" thing about women's reactions
was no longer an issue.

Even in THAT particular moment, I went playful
and actually gave her a sly smile, and to the
couple of people watching (I realized that in
fact only one or two people were actually
watching since in real life no one CARES
one way or the other about this stuff) I
just playfully said "She doesn't really have
social skills!".

I walked off that subway and realized there
were MILLIONS more women that I could try
this stuff on, and that it didn't even have
to feel like anything except LOADS OF FUN!

And very quickly after, my results actually
IMPROVED, and it took LESS EFFORT since I
no longer WORRIED about the response, I was
just focusing on doing the best I could in
a way that was ENJOYABLE for me as well.

So I stopped SELF-CENSORING every thought I had,
and I actually was able to unleash ten times the
HUMOR I did previously.  I never was mean-spirited,
but prior to that time I was super-worried that
maybe a woman might not GET my humor. 

All that worry and trying to please women too much
just STIFLED my humor, it STIFLED my personality,
it SHUT DOWN the mojo!!!!

But NOT WORRYING ABOUT THAT STUFF actually LIBERATED
all the humor, the mojo, the personality!

I wasn't afraid to push the envelope farther,
and I was able to see PRIME opportunities for
escalating things physically and to capitalize
on them BEFORE the moment of opportunity was
gone.

Do you know what I mean? When you think
so much about doing the perfect thing to
not screw up, that the MOMENT OF OPPORTUNITY
is actually GONE by the time you figure it
all out?

When you're not worried about rejection, because it does not make you anxious, you actually end up not only taking MORE actions with women, but you ALSO end up taking much BETTER actions with women.

So it is not just that you take ACTION, which is important as well or you are not even "in the game" so to speak. And it's not just that you take FASTER action so you act before  the moment is gone.

It's that you ALSO end up taking the BEST actions when you are not bogged down with fear.  FEAR is to your MIND like a VIRUS is on a computer; it ends up using up your mental and emotional resources and it results in POOR performance. 

So my message to you is this: Sometimes the most
LIBERATING thing that can happen to you is going
through an INTENSE and WILD so-called "rejection".

Once you've been through an INTENSE "rejection", you
realize that NO future interaction could be as "bad", and
you thus become FEARLESS in your interactions with
women, allowing the cool elements of your personality
to truly SHINE without fear of judgement.

What you've just read, as important as it is, is just the
TIP of the ICEBERG, and if you want to learn MORE
about successfully approaching and attracting women
ANYWHERE, I seriously suggest you get my program
"Acing The Approach" IMMEDIATELY, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/acing-the-approach.html

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It's at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks