Ever see the film The Matrix? The
story is about a world where almost everyone on EARTH is PERMANENTLY asleep,
but their minds are controlled by a computer to make them think they are awake
and living a perfectly normal reality.
Only a precious few are actually
AWAKE to this reality, and only they can change that reality- by confronting
the computer program.
The challenge is that the threats
created by the program are only as powerful as the recipient BELIEVES them to
be, but the "Matrix" is damn good at making those threats feel REAL.
To overcome the program, one must
constantly have a stronger frame of INTERNAL reality versus the fake reality
projected by the Matrix.
A lot of dating coaches like to give the analogy of The Matrix to let guys know that their possibilities with women are greater than they realize- in fact, I was probably the FIRST guy to use this analogy.
But the IRONY is that most of the
pick up artists and dating coaches have actually CONTRIBUTED to the "MATRIX",
so to speak, by making guys truly BELIEVE in things that aren't REAL, things
that actually hinder their success when it comes to getting a great girlfriend.
What I am talking about is the
obsession with the SPEED of getting physical with women.
The fact of the matter is that women
who are going to be faithful girlfriends who don't treat sleeping with a guy as
a joke, are simply going to be a lot SLOWER on jumping into the physical aspect
of a relationship.
Now, there are MANY, MANY, MANY other
things of course as well that make a great girlfriend a great girlfriend-
honesty, kindness, positivity, understanding, etc.
But the reason I bring up the
physical aspect is because it is the current MATRIX STRATEGY to throw men off
the real picture of reality.
A lot of pick up artist types like to
take advantage of the ignorance of men on this issue, and since most men think
all women are the same, most men think they are witnessing a miracle when they
see a guy for example make out with a random woman very quickly, or get
physical with her in even more ways.
Most men don't realize that this is truly no big deal, because of the great many women out there for whom making out with a stranger means nothing at all, and for some women out there, sleeping with a total stranger also means nothing at all.
Most men don't realize that this is truly no big deal, because of the great many women out there for whom making out with a stranger means nothing at all, and for some women out there, sleeping with a total stranger also means nothing at all.
There is no more strategy to this
than it is a strategy to learn how to ride the bus. You go to the bus stop,
wait for the bus, the doors open, and you get on.
So, men are asleep to the REALITY
that to find the kind of woman who would make for a great girlfriend, you
actually have to combine a particular set of social skills with also being the
kind of man that shows he can handle life and handle a real relationship.
But, that is too complicated for a
MARKETING VIDEO. And the vast majority of everything you see around you is
SATURATED in marketing as opposed to TRUTH.
The real "Matrix" we live
in today is MARKETING. Almost everything you see around you has had its truth
TAINTED by MARKETING.
A TON of the marketing out there
wants to EXPLOIT your emotions, your desire for SIMPLICITY, and it wants to
exploit your EMOTIONAL WEAKNESSES.
It doesn't give a rat's ass about
what is good for you- it's like a drug dealer that just wants to get you
HOOKED, and of course once you are hooked, you are a slave to the dealer.
And the irony is that people go on
and on about drug dealers, but the truth is the DESTRUCTION to society from all
the other people who EXPLOIT people's weaknesses is actually just as harmful
and possibly even more destructive to society.
If you want a great girlfriend, who
will treat you right, who won't run off into another guy's bed when the
smallest thing goes wrong, you need to get a woman who is STRONGER than the
type of person who is so easily EXPLOITED emotionally.
And to get THAT kind of woman, you
better be THAT kind of man as well.
And by the way, there is a very good
REASON why a lot of men and women choose not to be promiscuous- and it has
nothing to do with religion.
The real truth is, that, like
anything else, over-exposure to something actually DESENSITIZES you to that
thing.
When the physical becomes a complete
joke, it loses the same IMPACT it once had.
But when it is used WISELY, the
slightest TOUCH can deliver A UNIVERSE of EROTICISM, and it can do this FOREVER
with the same partner.
Not a bad thing to have between two
people who love each other, huh?
So, you won't find the "how to make out in 30 seconds" in
my programs, because I figure you already know how to get the bus.
But if you're looking for how to get A GREAT GIRLFRIEND, I suggest you START with my
book, called Get A Great Girl, at:
This book is NOTHING like what you
read in typical dating advice and pick up artist material.
The NEXT step is to take my BOOTCAMP
program, which will show you IN REAL TIME, how to find, screen, attract, and
connect to quality women.
Till next time,
Michael Marks