So, for example, when the best-selling book called The Game came out, millions of men believed it all and they all thought that the best way and only way to really meet and attract women was by using pick-up lines.
Even before the book had come out, I was telling the author on a Forum website devoted to the topic of dating and attraction that actually pick-up lines were not necessary- and I was already proving how to do the entire "pick up" in a more natural and effective way.
Well, it only took the seduction/pick up artist community about 6 YEARS to finally realize that what I was saying was true. And not just in night clubs, but in meeting women ANYWHERE.
In fact, that was the NEXT thing that I was light-years ahead of- the whole idea that you can't usually meet the best kinds of women in night-clubs, because an attractive woman who also has her act together in terms of her morals, behaviors, and attitudes is not likely to want to go to a nightclub very often.
The reason is because she ALREADY gets too much attention from the wrong guys, and the last place she wants to go is a place where she is going to be BOMBARDED by a bunch of drunk or tipsy guys who just want to get physical- if she just wanted that, she could meet a guy like that ANY second of ANY day.
But again, it took MANY YEARS for those brainwashed by the effects of "group think" in the pick-up artist world, to SEE and BELIEVE what I had been teaching for many YEARS.
And by the way, of course, none of these guys would dare to give me one DROP of credit for all this, of course, because that would mean possibly encouraging guys to actually THINK rather than just listen to whatever they (the gurus) said.
And so I was explaining that the best way to meet a great woman is when these women are simply out and about doing their thing- getting groceries, going to the coffee shop, at the library, etc.
Now, you still have to SCREEN women because ALL women are out there doing their thing, so you have to find the right ones through screening, but if you focus on nightclubs, you have to realize that the women in nightclubs are AWARE of the fact that it's a place where people go to drink and where for the most part, men are paying to meet women and not the other way around.
So you have to ask yourself what kind of attractive woman needs to go there regularly, unless she is either looking for attention or promiscuous.
But just because a woman is out and about during the day or evening in a place that is not a club, does not mean she is great girlfriend material.
This is another FACT that the pick up artist community wants to HIDE from you, or maybe doesn't even KNOW- but it's DAMN IMPORTANT THAT YOU DO KNOW- and that you know how to screen.
Here's ANOTHER thing they don't tell you:
WOMEN AND MEN ARE NOT THE SAME SEXUALLY
There is a TON of evidence that female nature is different from male nature.
So, for example, there was the famous experiment where 100 MEN were approached by a woman on a university campus, who were offered by the woman a chance to sleep with her, and almost EVERY man said yes.
Then, when the same experiment was set up on campus where 100 WOMEN were approached by a man for sex, EVERY WOMAN said no.
Source for this, by the way is: http://www.elainehatfield.com/79.pdf
And recently in the whole "Ashley Madison" news story, it turned out that almost NO MEN were actually MEETING ANY WOMEN-because in reality there were BARELY ANY WOMEN ON THE SITE---something the site tried to keep a secret!
The whole site was driven by MEN who WANTED to meet women, and who THOUGHT there were tons of women on these sites, but in reality, there were almost NO women on these sites, and the website had to actually FABRICATE the IDEA that there WERE tons of women on the site, in order to keep sucking in the men who were, unfortunately, looking for an affair.
But the point here is a LARGER point- that FEMALE NATURE is not as IMMEDIATELY driven by the same kind of sexual desire as MALE nature.
And YET, pick up artist after pick up artist KEEPS ON TELLING MEN that SECRETLY allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the women out there really want to SLEEP with a PLAYER, and are just BURSTING AT THE SEEMS to have sex with some guy who knows the MAGIC SECRET.
The TRUTH is, it's only a certain PERCENTAGE of women that are like this, and although their are, in ABSOLUTE terms, quite a few of these women, in terms of their actual percentage of the population of women, they are SUPER LOW and DO NOT REPRESENT THE NATURE OF MOST WOMEN.
But the majority of the pick up artist community wants you to think ALL women secretly just want to be promiscuous or in general that they have the same nature as men- so that you will think that since all women are really promiscuous anyway, you might as well join them since there is no point looking for a GREAT GIRLFRIEND that is not going to cheat on you or disrespect you, etc.
And again, most men, who just want to meet a great woman, will actually SCREW THEMSELVES BADLY by having the wrong picture of women and of reality.
And it's a bit sad, what is going on. You see, at one time, the promiscuous men and women knew to hang out at night clubs to meet their own types.
But now, thanks to GREED and the commercialization of human needs like love, sex, and affection, pick up artists are branching out into what used to be normal places- like EVERYWHERE else, and so now the normal women out there have to learn the hard way that a lot of these guys approaching them are not normal guys just trying to meet women as girlfriends, but rather playing a game to just try to gather as many women as possible, and trying to manufacture a connection with them that is actually NOT authentic.
Which means that any GOOD women out there should actually have their guard up even MORE- but most women won't because it hasn't reached the tipping point yet.
Of course, most women, even ones not informed in the slightest, will still put two and two together and it won't take too long for them to see when a guy is behaving in a way that doesn't add up.
By the way, this is yet another reason I can't associate with the pick up artist movement, even though there IS a GOOD purpose for learning these skills, and is what I teach men.
I've always taught these skills ALONG with a sense of RESPONSIBILITY.
To quote the first issue ever of Spider-Man, which was actually called "Amazing Fantasy"- "with great power comes great responsibility"- an idea that actually came from Voltaire.
The IRONY of this all is that I was the guy who wrote, way back in 2003 in my first book, how MASCULINITY and FEMININITY are crucial parts of BIOLOGY, they are not just some invention- and how important it is for men to BE masculine and for women to be feminine in order to attract the opposite gender.
But the pick up artist community only wants to embrace the part of the message that they like- the fact that it's GOOD for you to BE masculine and embrace your masculinity---but they DON'T WANT TO ACCEPT THE COROLLARY(the consequence) OF THIS- which means ALSO accepting that they want FEMININE women.
And although there ARE definitely promiscuous women, it goes AGAINST most women's nature to be as promiscuous as men naturally want to be (which is why over thousands of years, there has been that trade off- a man will be willing to be faithful to a woman who is truly worthy of it)- and deep down, men don't even WANT women to be promiscuous, they aren't even as attracted to promiscuous women.
So, if you REALLLLLLY want to embrace my message of the importance of masculinity in men, you ALSO must embrace the truth of the importance and the nature of FEMININITY in women.
That means seeing the GLARING TRUTH that can be seen with ANYONE with OPEN EYES OR EARS that MOST women are simply NOT as promiscuous as men---
--And if the pick up artists keep showing you videos of guys getting physical or sleeping with women- those are women that don't represent the kinds of women most guys want- just like how commercials on TV SHOW YOU things that don't represent THE TRUTH, but at least there there is the FINE PRINT at the bottom of the screen with all the disclaimers about how everything you are seeing is actually NOT TRUE.
And so THIS explains the SLOW TREND these days in the pick up artist community AWAY from the night clubs and toward what they call DAYGAME.
Again, trying to copy me, but STILL bastardizing the ACTUAL PART THAT MATTERS---because it's NOT about whether you meet a woman during the DAY or NIGHT- that whole distinction is REALLY referring to nightclubs versus "normal" places like the coffee shop, but you can meet a GREAT woman at night just about anywhere- it has NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH DAYGAME VERSUS NIGHTGAME--this is just yet MORE MARKETING LEADING TO DESTRUCTION OF ACTUAL TRUTH.
So if you are reading this now, ask yourself: "How many more YEARS of my life am I going to WASTE following the DISTORTIONS OF TRUTH promoted by most dating advice experts?"
The DISTINCTIONS between TRUTH and DISTORTION of TRUTH are sometimes HARD to see when you are in the "middle of the forest"--you can't see the forest because of all the trees.
And SUBTLETIES matter- as you have seen from all the above. It's not enough to get dating advice that SORT OF tells you PART of what you need to know- MISSING JUST ONE DROP OF IMPORTANT TRUTH is like launching a SPACECRAFT with just a few parts missing, the fuel just slightly wrong, the trajectory just a bit off---it will result in a DISASTER.
And getting the RIGHT woman in your life is the single most important other human being that you will ever interact with IN your life- it MATTERS A WHOLE HECK OF A LOT.
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Till next time,
Michael Marks
P.S. Because having a sense of humor is so useful, including when it comes to interacting with women and being in the right state of mind, I thought I would include this following image on the idea of having great power and great responsibility:
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