One of the greatest sources of POWER you
must draw from when you see a woman you’d like to approach, is the power of
your INNER CHARM that has unfortunately been REPRESSED by environmental
forces.
What I mean is that, most guys actually
ALREADY have tons of great aspects to their personality, but the problem is
that they suddenly are unable to SHOW theses side of themselves at WILL, like
for example when they suddenly see a woman they would like to approach.
Suddenly, what happens is that they
freeze up and the right actions or words seem so hard to find, and even if a
guy TELLS THEM some great line to say to a woman, it STILL feels too awkward and
weird and in fact sometimes scary to actually do the approach.
So it’s not ONLY a question of having
guts and no fear, it’s also a question of having the ABILITY to actually tap
into that fun side of your personality, or that super-social side of your
personality, when you need to in the moment.
This comes from social conditioning- we
are slowly conditioned from childhood to CONFORM and to not rock the
boat. Also, as men we are taught that it’s not RIGHT to approach women.
Women and some men promote the lie that all women are these victims and fragile
creatures who are terrified of a man approaching them. Plus, we also
don’t want to look like fools and we don’t want to embarrass ourselves,
etc.
The SOLUTION to this requires more than
just watching some other guy approach women successfully. This is helpful, but
it’s not the full solution, because the fact is, SO MUCH of the success a guy
has in attracting a woman is NOT about being this amazingly funny guy with
genius funny comments, or about being the most cool guy with the most
absolutely genius or super-witty things to say- it’s about a very SUBTLE THING
instead.
So, YES, if you ARE super-funny, or
super witty, or super interesting, that’s GREAT and that WILL help, but you
don’t NEED to be those things.
What you DO need is an incredibly strong
sense of being COMFORTABLE letting your REAL personality OUT.
But instead of doing that, we repress
ourselves for reasons described above.
The solution is to gradually keep
pushing yourself to let a little MORE of your personality out with every
approach you make, instead of passing your personality through the CENSORSHIP
FILTERS OF FEAR, WORRY, NEED FOR APPROVAL, ETC.
These censorship filters are SELF
imposed- the only one keeping these filters on is YOU, even though the original
source for them were from places outside of yourself- but now you know that it
is up to YOU to let go of them.
At first, this might seem scary. You might think that what you are about to say will sound stupid, or boring, or strange.
At first, this might seem scary. You might think that what you are about to say will sound stupid, or boring, or strange.
But as you keep on doing this, you will
start to feel more and more COMFORTABLE, allowing more and more of your real
personality to shine through, and women will DETECT that you are feeling
COMFORTABLE, and because states are catchy, they too will feel comfortable
around you, and of course since you are comfortable, you will not freeze up,
and you will suddenly find you have so much more to say and that you are able
to keep the conversation going.
And since your brain is not diverting
all its energy into panic, it has all that extra energy to be way more
interesting, funny, witty, and sexual.
All of which HELP you massively to
attract the woman in front of you.
And on this note, I want to bring to
your attention a very special interview I did with a man who was featured in a
New York Times best-selling book, I man I met in person several times and who we
even together used to combine our skills in teaching men how to approach and
attract women.
His name is Barry. There are many
positive traits of this man, but the ones I to focus on here are his sense of
HUMOR and his sense of being AUTHENTIC no matter what- and of course it goes
without saying his RESULTS with women. Barry and I got along so well we
even taught at bootcamps together.
These two things helped us bond
immediately, as I myself hate the idea of putting on an ACT to attract a woman,
and I hate the idea of faking.
Also, what made Barry’s sense of humor so powerful to me was that NONE of the things he did were artificial to his personality- all his humor came from his own actual perception and feelings about things.
Also, what made Barry’s sense of humor so powerful to me was that NONE of the things he did were artificial to his personality- all his humor came from his own actual perception and feelings about things.
And one of the BIGGEST things I saw in
Barry was how he learned to UNLEASH his personality by UNREPRESSING his
thoughts, feelings, and perceptions- and this ALSO SKYROCKETED his sense of
humor to the point that he was the equal of any professional comedian.
Now, let me warn you, Barry goes WAY
FARTHER in unrepressing himself than most guys will ever do in a THOUSAND
lifetimes, but I think that sometimes when you want to learn how to do
something, it HELPS to see somebody do it in a very MASSIVE WAY.
It illustrates the point CLEARLY, and it
is also INSPIRING.
And I recorded a very special interview
with Barry, where he not only speaks about his own development, but he is
actually FUNNY to the level of making people ‘ROLL ON THE FLOOR LAUGHING’ – all
WITHOUT putting on an ACT, without making up jokes or making up funny
lines. He is just UNLEASHING his personality.
The lessons from this are INFINITE- not
only of course will it make you FUNNIER, and being able to get a woman laughing
right away is a FANTASTIC way to get her to open up to you, but ALSO the same
way unrepressing your personality allows you to be way more HUMOROUS with women,
it ALSO allows you to feel comfortable being more SEXUAL with women, being more
ASSERTIVE with women, being more DOMINANT with women, and all these things are
MASSIVELY attractive to women.
So don’t just stand around watching guys
approach women, but actually BECOME the kind of man that MAKES THE APPROACHES
AND FEELS SUPER COMFORTABLE DOING THEM---and this interview is a FANTASTIC WAY
TO HELP YOURSELF BECOME THAT KIND OF MAN.
I’ve made this special interview program
available as an INSTANT DOWNLOAD.
That means you can be benefiting from it in MINUTES from now- and getting BETTER with women in the process.
That means you can be benefiting from it in MINUTES from now- and getting BETTER with women in the process.
Getting better with women isn’t about an
ACT.
It’s about who you BECOME.
This is why just watching OTHER guys
approaching women isn’t enough.
You need to learn how to do the INTERNAL work as well, to UNLEASH the attractive elements currently REPRESSED in you.
You need to learn how to do the INTERNAL work as well, to UNLEASH the attractive elements currently REPRESSED in you.
Get this program now at:
You and the amazing women you meet will
be glad you did :)
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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