When it comes to being successful with women,
conquering various FEARS becomes absolutely
essential.
For example, starting from the first step,
which is the actual APPROACH, if a guy
fears the approach, he will never meet
ENOUGH women in order to actually find
the RIGHT woman.
It is not enough to be able to SOMETIMES
approach women, but rather to approach
TONS and TONS of women.
If a man wants to meet the right kind of
woman, the kind of woman he really wants,
it is not enough to just approach women
here and there. Meeting the right woman
means the kind of woman who has the
right qualities on the outside AND
on the inside, i.e. regarding her
personality, her values, her kindness,
her loyalty, etc.
And quality women are not EVERYWHERE, it
takes some SEARCHING to find them.
If a man does not ABSOLUTELY AND TOTALLY GET
OVER the anxiety of approaching women, he is
simply asking for MIRACLES and depending on LUCK.
If you have approached a few women in the past,
and you think that counts as a serious effort,
it does NOT.
It is not only because you must approach TONS of
women to find the right one, it is also because
it takes TONS of approaches to get GREAT at the
skill of all this as well.
And the problem is that the FEAR that stands in
the way is a very SNEAKY thing.
Fear never wants you to THINK that it is just
FEAR. Instead, FEAR likes to TAKE OVER YOUR
LOGIC and actually DISTORT your thinking and
CONVINCE you why you should GIVE IN to your fear.
It will tell you things such as:
ONLY WIERDOS APPROACH WOMEN WHO ARE STRANGERS.
PICK UP DOES NOT WORK.
MEETING WOMEN IS NOT WORTH THE EFFORT.
ALL WOMEN ARE TERRIBLE.
WOMEN WILL JUST GET UPSET IF THEY ARE APPROACHED.
ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME, THEY ARE ALL MEAN/NASTY, etc.
Of course, the terrible thing about fear is that
no matter HOW MANY TIMES one is shown that there
is nothing to fear, the mind that is fearful will
simply CREATE NEW fears.
So let's just say that a guy finally is SHOWN
proof of how pick up DOES work, he will then
say something like "It does not work for me".
If he is shown how it DOES work for him, he
will then say "But that woman that it worked
on is crazy".
If he is shown that the woman he got with
using the arts and skills of pick up is
not crazy, he will then later sabotage
himself by fearing something else, i.e.
that she is after his money even if she
is not.
By the way, I'm not saying that all women
are great, not at ALL. In fact, I am saying
that meeting the RIGHT woman will in fact
take meeting MANY women, and in order to
SUCCEED, you must possess a clear VISION
of your goal and STICK to it and do NOT
let fear stop your persistence.
One of the things I also do is teach men
how to SPOT the right kinds of qualities
in women and how to quickly detect the
WRONG QUALITIES so you can prevent getting
yourself into a relationship with the
kind of women who would only make your
life miserable.
I do NOT believe in trying to CHANGE a woman,
especially not in trying to MAKE a woman learn
how to be a decent human being, or how to make
a woman VALUE something that you value.
Instead, I believe it is vital to DETECT
what kind of woman you are dealing with
as soon as possible, and if you detect
the woman is NOT right for your future,
to LET HER GO immediately and move on
to finding the NEXT woman.
Most men DO NOT DO THIS, especially if
a woman is beautiful.
They can't POSSIBLY let her go, so they
start to SACRIFICE their own IDEALS
regarding things like fidelity, loyalty,
and other high standards, and they
do this JUST because the woman is
attractive.
Of course, when a man does this he erodes
his own self-esteem, and he slowly becomes
miserable and he also not only eventually
loses the woman because she loses interest
in a man that has no sense of self-respect,
but he ALSO finds it almost impossible to
meet OTHER women because the very fact
he sold his soul, so to speak, to some
woman who mistreated him, has now made
him LOSE CONFIDENCE IN GENERAL, so he
now starts to fail with ALL women.
It is a vicious cycle.
It can only be STOPPED with a giant
SELF-SLAP to the FACE, figuratively
speaking, and the realization that
NO WOMAN IS WORTH SACRIFICING ONE'S
OWN DIGNITY.
But if one FEARS that he will NEVER get
the right woman, he will then settle on
the WRONG woman that treats him like
garbage.
But you cannot live in FEAR.
One of the greatest things about Bootcamp is
that you are FORCED to take MASSIVE ACTION,
on TONS OF WOMEN, so there is simply no way for
you to live by FEAR.
You will then see the results in real life
in front of your very own eyes as you start
to actually notice IMMEDIATE improvements with
women that you are getting in real time.
You will see a RANGE of women, of various personalities
and looks, and you will EXPERIENCE the feeling of
conquering your fear again and again and again
and again, for 2 full days straight.
Obviously, I ALSO teach you a TON of strategies
for increasing your actual SKILL as well, so
that you have the highest possible chance with
EVERY woman, and it is this combination of skill
AND confidence that really skyrockets your
results with women.
So I am keeping today's newsletter very
short, so that you will remember the
ONE MASSIVE AND MAJOR POINT that will
affect EVERY level of your success
with women, from the first approach
to her, all the way to getting physical,
all the way to being in a relationship:
STOP LETTING FEAR PREVENT YOU FROM TAKING
THE RIGHT ACTIONS THAT YOU KNOW YOU NEED
TO TAKE IN ORDER TO PROGRESS YOUR SUCCESS
WITH WOMEN.
Realize also that FEAR can be very subtle
as well. It can tell you that you are too
tired every night and every day, for years
on end, as an excuse for why you can and
should not approach women. Fear can even
give you a false sense of security, i.e.
it will tell you that "tomorrow" will be
the right day to approach women, and of
course "tomorrow" never comes, because
the fear will just find a NEW way to
stop you when "tomorrow" comes.
If you're sick and tired of just
DREAMING and THINKING about success
with women and you are ready to take
serious action to change your life
with women, then sign up for bootcamp
today.
You can check out more details about
bootcamp by going here:
http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html
I also suggest you check out a CRUCIAL
program I have on this topic by going here:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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